Wherever God sends us, He will guard our lives. Our personal property and possession are important, but being honest and a good person is far more important. We should not have panic, heartache, nor distress. Having the proper outlook is evidence of the deeply rooted belief in the overshadowing of God’s personal deliverance. God created man in His own image, and its changed conception, Man created God is his own image. Nothing human is foreign to me, and nothing animal is foreign to you. The young wife of the friend whom I had reminded of the animality of the unconscious, was also among those present, and I was perforce reminded that she was not at all prepared for the reception of such unsympathetic views. The forgetting spared me a number of unpleasant questions from her and a hopeless discussion, and just that must have been the motive of temporary amnesia. It is interesting to note that as a concealing thought there emerged a sentence in which the deity is degraded to a human invention, while in the sought-for sentence, there was an allusion to the animal in man. Learning to cultivate and raise your awareness is a lifelong process. #RyanPhillippe 1 of 5
The capitis diminution (when a man’s condition was changed from one of freedom to bondage, when he became a slave. It swept away with it all rights of citizenship and all family rights) is therefore common to both. The whole matter was apparently only a continuation of the stream of thought concerning understanding and forgiving which was stimulated by the discussion. That the desire thought so rapidly appeared may also be due to the fact that I withdrew into a vacant room, away from the society in which it was censored. In the ordinary ways we think of love, love is not enough. After we have sobered down, we justify that inner striving which at first could manifest itself only in some default, as in forgetting or psychic impotence. The attempt to keep the relationship on a pleasant level is one of the greatest sources of ineffectual helping. If I foster only likeness and closeness, I obscure differences and distances. With likeness and closeness, we establish identification with differences and distances, we encourage identity and individuality. By reminding sufferers and ourselves of differences and distance, we prevent a misuse of the relationship by the helper and the one seeking help. This may sound abstract or even unbelievable unless you have grown up in a culture where the practice of awareness is at the root of your daily spiritual life. #RyanPhillippe 2 of 5
If you have experienced a painful emotional event, you will probably avoid all thoughts associated with this. This tends to keep cues out of mind that could trigger a painful memory. Why are some traumatic events vividly remembered while others repressed? Psychologist use the term flashbulb memories to describe images that seem to be frozen in cognition at times of personal tragedy, accident, or other emotionally significant events. However, many good events also have flashbulb clarity. Flashbulb memories seem to be very detailed. Often, they focus primarily on how you reacted to the event. Flashbulb memories may include your first date, the night of your senior prom, an early romantic experience, or when you first got your college admissions letter. How vivid are the memories they trigger for you? The term flashbulb memories was first used to describe and recall events that seemed to be unusually vivid and permanent. It has become clear, however, that flashbulb memories are not always accurate. People might see a picture of something, then later claim it is a memory they saw in person, or they were an active participant in the false memory. #RyanPhillippe 3 of 5
Much like the picture of a sailor kissing the nurse at the end of World War II, several people have stepped forward to claim that it was them. Some may be lying, others maybe actually convinced it is them, but if alive, only one couple is telling the truth. More than anything else, what sets flashbulb memories apart is that we tend to place great confidence in them—even when they are wrong. I did my own test with flashbulb memories. A while back, I noticed that my private electronic messages were getting out. I was exchanging some private pictures with a friend, and then suddenly reporters were talking about them. Some were of us, and others were not. Some were sexually explicit (not the ones of me and my friend), and these reporters were telling people I had the sex, which I did not. I was actually embarrassed that private image of myself had been viewed by people who they were not intended for. So a reporter asked me to place some pornographic pictures in my electronic mail, and I did. Days later, other reporters were claiming they had the sex with me and had the images to prove it. Perhaps because such memories act as prominent landmarks in our lives. #RyanPhillippe 4 of 5

We usually review emotionally charged events over and over and tell others about them. I let the rumors circulate for a few weeks before I disclosed that they were actually images I found on the internet and put them in my private messages and sent them to myself because I suspected that these journalists had been hacking me. Growth never comes at the same rate or in the same way for every person. So our paths intersect and our paths move against each other and our paths move apart. We can be grateful when physical closeness changes into personal presence. We know what it is to be together. We then become those selves which we truly are. I must give my power and my relationship—my will and my love—that others might live their lives more fully. Am I able to help? We have returned to the point where we began in understanding response to human pain. The personal demands of the guts bring us back to the key, which is ourselves. The process moves between taking in of what is there and the taking charge of what matters. To respond is to be real. To be real is to ready all of oneself for what life calls forth. What matters most, in the end, is maintaining an active, thoughtful stand towards what is happening in life. We are where to be receptive actively, taking in the truth of situations. #RyanPhillippe 5 of 5
