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The Great Entertainer Aaliyah Haughton

No one personified rhythm and blues like the Princess of R&B, Aaliyah Haughton. She was recognized as a singer and film and fashion icon. Aaliyah lived her music, it was about her life. If you want to know what the life of Aaliyah was like, just listen to her music, her albums tell her life story. During the mid 1990s and early 2000s, other entertainer was as notable as Aaliyah. With her brother and mother and father by her side, Aaliyah had an apprenticeship that helped her build an imagine and career that would last a lifetime and turn her into a legend. Aaliyah’s song, At Your Best, became international success and launched her career as credible recording artist. Aaliyah is distinctly known for her sultry, powerful and incredibly emotive voice. After Aaliyah’s album One in a Million was produced by Timberland and Missy Elliot, she became an icon to many. The unique beats and soft voice put the audience in a trance, and she won them over. Aaliyah was known for being soft and beautiful and possessing great discernment. And the unique sound of her self titled album Aaliyah took the World by storm! The song, We Need a Resolution was like nothing anyone had heard before, it was a R&B song with Middle Eastern beats, and just sounded amazing. I love the entire album; it is all very unique and jazzy. If I had to pick just one more song off the album for you to listen to, it would be Never No More. Be sure to check the album out! It really captivated the World and made her an international sensation. There are ballots, blues, jazz, and a little rock and roll and even a Spanish type of song. Every album Aaliyah made went platinum, if not double platinum.

Aaliyah had a soothing and appealing voice, which conveyed the depths of her heart and experiences of her life. She revealed situations so many could relate to, some even thought the songs were about them. Aaliyah was also considered a sociologist and academic, she earned a 4.0 in school and studied culture. Aaliyah’s music was grounded in American musical tradition, which is a blend of many cultures, and there is something that appeals to everyone. She was a delicate woman. Aaliyah’s warmest and most enduring relationship was the her future husband Damon Dash. Aaliyah was sweet and loyal, and one of them most beautiful women in the World. She was also helpful, generous and compassionate. When famous Hollywood producer Joel Silver came knocking at her door, Aaliyah could not resist going to the Silver screen. She made films such as Romeo Must Die and Queen of the Damned. Aaliyah selected to star in a number of successful films including: Honey, Sparkle, and several other films, which she did not have time to complete. Although she was devoting much of her later life to her movie career, Aaliyah was simultaneously still recording music, making artistic videos and touring the World to promote her album. One of her favorite videos were: We Need a Resolution, Are you that Somebody and More than a Woman. Aaliyah still thrills many to this day, Aaliyah had an excellent level of musicality, in regards to harmonizing, thanks to her fondness for duetting and collaborating with others. Aaliyah had something special in her voice. Aaliyah had music in her heart and felt everything she did. Aaliyah was a great person and extraordinary entertainer. Many people like Beyonce, Paris Hilton, Britney Spears and Ciara Harris are inspired by Aaliyah and are great artist also. Many fans and investors feel that Aaliyah is worth of having a movie, which will be approved by her mother and father and released on the big screen. Keep working hard and you can get anything that you want.
Liberty, Life and Peace are Important

Physiological needs are very powerful because survival depends on their satisfaction. Our manners and customs go for more in life than our qualities. The love of social superiority, the very impulse of the human heart, which is the mainspring of civilization and the chief source of all human improvement, is able, when suffered to work on, uncontrolled by other more generous emotions, to corrupt man’s whole nature, and to drive him to acts the most horrid and detestable. The single word slave, what volumes does it speak! It speaks of chains, of whips and tortures, compulsive labor, hunger and fatigues and all the miseries our wretched bodies suffered. It speaks of haughty power, and insolent commands; of insatiate avarice; of pampered pride and purse proud luxury; and of the cold indifference and scornful unconcern with which the oppressor looks down upon his or her victims. Slavery speaks of crushing fear, and base servility; of low, mean cunning and treacherous revenge. It speaks of humanity outraged; manhood degraded; the social charities of life; of hope extinguished; and the light of knowledge sacrilegiously put out. Slavery speaks of humans deprived of all that makes them amiable or makes them noble; stripped of one’s soul and sunk into a beast. Grant me freedom and health and give me a fair goddess Liberty as my companion. Humans share a kinship with every aspect of nature, and you and nature have a mutual, interacting, parallel relationship that is at the heart of ecology.

At some point, every race and culture on this planet has been enslaved, even in modern times. Having light skin does not mean your family was not a slave. Even rich Europeans have been forced into slavery. In Britain, slavery was practiced, after the fall of Rome. The trade was picked up after the Viking invasions, with major markets in Chester and Bristol, supplied by Danish, Mercian, and Welsh raiding of one another’s borderlands. By the year 1086, nearly 10 percent of the English population was slaves. Slavery was so popular in early medieval Europe, the Roman Catholic Church repeatedly prohibited it—or at least the export of Christian slaves to non-Christian lands was prohibited. So slavery is not something that is unique to neither America nor Africans. With the collapse of 250 years of Slavery, in American, in 1865, freedom meant many things to everyone. Women no longer would be sexually exploited. Citizens of all colors were free to learn to read and write, without facing death or execution of the teachers. Sovereignty meant people could organize churches, and move around without having to obtain permission. Autonomy meant that your labor would produce economic benefits for the laborer, not the former master, and freedom meant working without being whipped. Individuals were free to own land, cultivate it and live in it. Liberty also meant that if you were charged with a crime, you could have a trail before jury, instead of simply being accused and convicted, without any proof. Freedom meant you could have a family, without them being kidnaped, killed or sold. Freedom meant that everyone had the same rights, no matter what color their skin was, culture, religion, race or creed.

As slavery ended, the most urgent need for many freed people was finding family members who had been sold away from them. Slavery had not destroyed the African American family. They still have their pride and religion. After the civil war, husbands, wives, and children went to great lengths to reassemble their families. They walked from city to city and state to state looking for their kinship. And many placed advertisements in Newspapers appealing for information about missing relatives. There were emotional reunions as family members found each other following years of separation. Mr. Ben and Mrs. Betty Dodson had been apart for twenty years, and when Mr. Ben Dodson found his wife, in a refugee camp, after the war, he praised God. One may think that the African Americans where angry with the dominate population after the fall of slavery, but not all were. When interviewed by Union officer, near Opelousas, Louisiana, a young African American man told the Union officer, when his master begins to love him, then it will be time enough for me to love him. He explained that he wanted to get away from the plantation and be free. Of course not all newly freed people felt the same about bondage. Those human impulses which have seemed throughout our history to be deepest, to be most instinctive and unchangeable, to be most widely spread throughout mankind (the impulse to hate, to be jealous, to be hostile, to be greedy, to be egotistic and selfish) are now being discovered more and more to be acquired and instinctive. They are almost certainly neurotic and sick reactions to bad situations, more specifically to frustrations of our truly basic instincts.

However, in early 1866, Congress attempted to provide land for freemen with the passage of the Southern Homestead Act. More than three million acres of public land were set aside for African Americans and European Americans, who had remained loyal to the Union. However, shortly after the Civil War, an orgy of brutality and violence swept across the South. Much like the African American community is lashing out against the police and the government about the unfortunate loss of a young man, Michael Brown, many lashed out at African Americans for the loss of millions of dollars worth of labor and property. There were beatings, murders, rapes and riots, often with little or no provocation, much like the destruction we are seeing in Ferguson, Missouri. However, remember, wisdom cannot be grafted on the stock of slavery (mental or physical): justice cannot be established without denunciation and disapproval of wrong. Though we are not perfect, God loves us and made us in his image. At times, we may feel lost and without and lack direction, but God loves every one of us, even if we are perfect, imperfect, disabled, homosexual, no matter what color or culture we are, and we should accept our brothers and sisters and show them God’s love.

A single deed of violence and cruelty affects our nerves. It is understand that people are upset about the death of a young man, but perhaps the current form of protest are outdated. Showing up in the streets, in masses, and threatening your fellow brothers and sisters makes you look crazy. Burning down buildings, assaulting people, and looting stores makes all Americans look bad, no matter what color we are. The World is watching and they are in shock. Instead of creating chaos, write letters, make phone calls and visit congress to show them that you are mature, educated and wise, tell them the changes you want to see. Just like when you were a child and acted up, did you parents give you your way? No, they usually punished you and you got in more trouble. However, when you explained to them why you hurt someone or broke something and were polite, they would more than likely listen and be compelled to understand that you need more attention and your needs are not being met. Those who never have been guilty of any indiscretion are generally people who have very little active virtue.

I would like to share another true story with you. In the Bronx borough of New York City, four boys were at play, hollering and screaming like they had lost their minds, and racing in and out of an apartment building. Suddenly, from a second-floor window came the crack of a pistol. When the boys looked around, they noticed one of their friends sprawled out dead on the pavement. The victim happed to be Roy Innis, Jr., age 13, and the son of a prominent African American leader, but there was no political motivation for the tragedy. The killer was also African American, and he confessed to the police that he was a night worker, who had lost control of himself because the noise from the boys prevented him from sleeping. The moral of the story is when you result to violence, you may hurt yourself or an innocent bystander.

This other account is more recent, but has not made headlines yet. On 25 November 2014, the body of Deandre Joshua, as 20, was found around 9am, inside a white Pontiac, with the driver’s side window shout out. The car and body was located near the Canfield Green Apartments in Ferguson, Missouri, within close proximate to the police station. Mr. Deandre Joshua, an African American man was minded his own business, and is now dead. No one is sure if this is a result of the protest. The case is now being investigated as a homicide. The idea of death is one of terrible contemplation. We should always esteem the danger, however boldly we may advance to meet it. All the sentiments of Worldly grandeur vanish at that unavoidable moment which decided the destiny of men. Time goes forward and, and you go round. Speak to the point. Romans 5.8 reports, God shows his love for us, in that while we are still sinners, Christ died for us. All lives matter and so does the law.

Fall of Man: The Devil is a Lie!

To die is the great debt and tribute due unto nature. When we are, death is not; and when death is, we are not. God said, let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the Earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground. This sentence right there tells you that God was not alone, he was communicating with other entities about the creation of man. The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. And the Lord God commanded the man, to be free and eat from any tree in the garden, but do not eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat it you will surely die. God warned Adam and eve not to touch the tree that is in the middle of the garden, as it is more seductive than anything you know, and it will open your eyes and cause death. All the sentiments of Worldly grandeur vanish at that unavoidable moment which decides the destiny of man. May I never survive one moment that fatal one in which I shall forfeit my innocence! Arm yourself, my dear child, for the worst; and resolve to lose your life sooner than your virtue.

Therefore, it seems that the Devil does not exist, the Devil is a lie. The serpent was a kind of threshold symbol, and, indeed, he often appears as guardian of the threshold between the World of life and consciousness and the realm of death and the unconscious. The serpent and the tree of life also appears as the link between these Worlds, and are one and the same. The serpent and the tree of life symbolizes the sexual organs of man. Eating from the tree of life is the bond between male and female, or the process of childbirth and death, so one also finds the consummation of their bond made the pathway to the supernatural. The serpent is assigned to tombs in part because he is oracular, he opened the eyes of Adam and Eve, when they bonded, and they became ashamed of their actions and for disobeying God, they lost their innocence.

The serpent or male sex organ penetrating the female was the entrance to the underworld, and association with mysteries of all kinds. The man and his wife heard the sound of the LORD God, among the trees of the garden, and they hide from God. Adam then explains to God that Eve gave him from fruit. Eve replied that she was lust full and was seduced by Adam’s manhood. So then God cursed Adam and Eve, and made her childbearing painful and allowed her husband to be dominating. Eve’s offspring were cursed and she is considered the mother of all living things.

Then God said that man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to live forever because he disobeyed. Adam and Eve were banished from the Garden of Eden to work for a living, he placed them on the east side of the Garden of Eden and cherubim and a flaming sword flashing back and forth to guard the way to the tree of life. Therefore, anyone else who ate from the tree would be cursed with painful child bearing, the cherubim represent the unborn children that fertilize the egg within the female body. This union, as state previously, symbolizes the bridge between life and death, or the World of reality and the womb.

The ancient title of the dragon, derived from the root meaning of womb represents another symbol. An enormous red dragon with seven heads and ten horns and seven crowns represents the woman does in fact give birth to the Devil and her ends up ruling over Earth as a consequence of man bridging the Worlds through the acquisition of knowledge in phallic terms. Adam and Eve and many others achieved special gifts through encounters with serpents, learning the language of animals, sexual knowledge, and power over death, ability to see the future, and more. In the Garden of Eden, the serpent is the source of all knowledge for Adman and Eve, and even exposes the crude mendacity of the Creator.

Since the Eden myth, like that of Apollo and Python, celebrates the emergence and dominance of a repressive male-oriented religion, the originally benign and helpful snake is put in somewhat bad light, but his primeval role as enlightener still shines through. The serpent is wise and subtle because he has penetrated the secrets of women, these senses of hiddenness and mystery which adheres, in the male mind, to the female reproductive organs. The womb, like a tomb, is a dark and secret place, associated with the unknown and miraculous process. The snake in myth is a bridge to this beyond. Abraham calls attention to the familiar oddity of the Hebrew language in which the word know is applied to the sexual act. The power of the father is established through sexual knowledge, achieved by means of a phallic bridge to the uterus cavity. The mystery of the female is viewed as having been mastered by the father through sexual intercourse. This is reflected, as Abraham notes, in the idea of the all-seeing Sun-god. We still use somewhat phallic terminology to describe the acquisition of knowledge: we speak of probing, penetrating, investigating, prying, poking into, digging, delving, and you see the sexual nature of language. Many people rush to become adults so they can master being separate from God and understand genital sexuality.

If the serpent represents boundary ambiguity, and is seen as a link between bound Worlds, then we may also expect him to appear in the context of boundary-violation. It is in part because of concerns about the violation or permeability of psychological boundaries that the serpent plays so important a role in sexual fantasies. For individuals in whom narcissistic anxieties are severe, the sexual act shatters the body image of both male and female. The boundary between Me and Not-Me crumbles, since the female is penetrated and part of the male disappears inside of another. In addition, psychological boundaries are obliterated through orgasm. The ego dissolves, inundated with impulse, and this may be experienced as a kind of death—as complete submersion in unconsciousness. At the oral level, ecstasy is feared as a bursting or disintegrating of the boundaries of the self. Finally, physiological changes do occur, particularly in the case of impregnation, and in the oral fantasy these assume grotesque proportions. At this level all orifices are mouths, all sexual contact impregnating and boundary shattering. I have no terror of death. It is the coming of death that terrifies me. One can survive everything nowadays, maybe even death.

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83rd Annual Capitol Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony

Love is a passion which kindles honor into noble acts. People need to rise early, to see the sun in all his splendor. The morning of day and the morning of life are but too much alike. The most useful of all arts, the art of life. I hold with God that afflictions are not sent by God in wrath as penalties for sin. Our manners and customs go for more in life than our qualities. Friendship, like love, is the child of sympathy, not of complaint. Happiness must be something solid and permanent, without fear and without certainty, and honesty is a great advantage. This season marks the 83rd Annual State Capitol Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony, which will take place on Tuesday, 2 December 2014, at 4:30 p.m., on the West Steps of the State Capitol. The event is open to the public. The beautiful Christmas tree will be dressed by nearly 10,000 ultra-low wattage LED lights, and beautiful ornaments.

The tree is a beautiful Douglas White Fir, is 53 feet tall, and from Latour Demonstration State Forest located near Redding, California. The Latour State Demonstration Forest is a 9,000-acre forest owned and managed by Cal Fire and is a great destination for hiking, mountain biking, hunting and camping in Shasta County. The forest consists primarily of coniferous trees and is actively managed by Cal Fire with timber harvests and other vegetation management techniques. As a result, the woods are inviting and home to variety of wildlife species. You can see one of these majestic giants on display on Sacramento, California. The State Capitol of California, where the Christmas tree ceremony is taking place is in downtown Sacramento, California on 10th Street between L and N Streets, on Tuesday, 2 December 2014, at 4:30 p.m., on the West Steps of the State Capitol near. Modesty is very well on its way; but really a little common honesty is sometimes quite as becoming. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” – John 3.16

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The Immortal Tree

How astonishing a variety of nature!—In some countries we know the tree that sheds its leaf is the variety, but that does not make it less amazing, that the same soil and the same sun should nurture plants differing in the first rule and law of their existence. Nature has a voice. Nature repairs her ravages—repairs them with sunshine, and with human labor. The World’s major frost biomes, which are a broad, vegetational subdivision of some biogeographic realm (one of six major land regions, each having distinguishing types of plants and animals), shaped by climate, topography, and composition of regional soils, all have tall trees growing close enough together to form a fairly continuous canopy over an extensive region. There are three general types of forest trees. Which type prevails in a given region depends partly on distance from the equator. Evergreen broadleafs are dominant between 20 degrees north and south latitudes, most notable in the boreal forest or taiga (meaning swamp of forest) of northern hemisphere, and in cool climates in mountains further south. An evergreen is a plant that has leaves throughout the year, always green.

Most boreal forests occur in glaciated regions punctuated by cold lakes and streams. It rains mostly in summer, and evaporation is low in the cool summer air. The cold, dry winters are more severe in eastern parts of the continents than in the west, where oceanic winds moderate the climate. Spruce and balsam fir dominate the boreal forest of North America. Other evergreen conifers include cedars, Doulas-firs, cypresses, firs, junipers, kauri, larches, pines, hemlocks, redwoods, spruces, and yews. Evergreen trees originated in cold, northern climates. In the north, the growing season (spring and summer) is very short compared to that of the south. Trees use light to make food, through photosynthesis. In order to survive in the shorter growing seasons, trees needed to gather light all year long. The only way to do this was to collect light for photosynthesis in the winter. However, trees can only photosynthesize when water is available in useful form, so when the only water available water is snow or ice, even evergreen trees are dormant. They rest until conditions are right for photosynthesis to start again. In temperate climates, evergreens can reinforce their own survival; evergreen leaf and needle litter has a higher carbon-nitrogen ratio than deciduous leaf litter, contributing to a higher soil acidity and lower soil nitrogen content.

These conditions favour the growth of more evergreens and make it more difficult for deciduous plants to persist. In addition, the shelter provided by existing evergreen plants can make it easier for younger evergreen plants to survive cold and/or drought. Evergreen needles are an adaption, a change that allows them to survive. Botanists long ago discovered that needles are actually regular leaves that are rolled up very tightly. This shape is an adaptation that allows evergreens to conserve water, which is necessary for photosynthesis. Evergreen needles also have a very waxy coating that also helps to conserve water. Therefore, evergreen trees are regular trees, whose leaves are rolled up and covered with wax. They are made this way so they can made food for themselves all year long, without drying out. They will stay green as long as water is available. Evergreen Broadleaf forests are biomes that occur in tropical parts of Africa, Southeastern Asia, the East Indies, the Malay Archipelago, and South America, and Central America. Annual rainfall can exceed 200 centimeters and is never less than 130 centimeters. Where regular, heavy rainfall coincides with high humidity 980 percent or more) and the annual mean temperature is about 25 degrees Celsius, one will find highly productive tropical rain forest. Here, evergreen trees produce new leaves and shed old ones throughout the year.

Near the fringes of the biome, some trees are periodically bare during the driest season, but not for more than a few weeks. Because leaf production and leaf drop are generally continuous, tropical rain forest produce more litter than any other forest biome. However, decomposition and mineral cycling are rapid in the hot, humid climate. Also, the highly weathered soils, with little humus, are not a reservoir of nutrients. Pines, together with deciduous birches and aspens, are abundant in burned or logged areas. Acidic bogs, dominated by peat mosses, shrubs, and stunted trees, may develop in poorly drained areas. Boreal forest becomes much less dense to the north, where they grade into arctic tundra. However, Boreal conifers have many wintertime adaptations. The narrow conical shapes of northern conifers, and their downward-drooping limbs, help them shed snow. Many of them seasonally alter their biochemistry to make them more resistant to freezing, called hardening. While tropical rainforests have more biodiversity and turn over, the immense conifer forest of the World represent the largest terrestrial carbon sink, where carbon from atmospheric CO2 is bound as organic compounds, which means the trees are cleaning the air and providing us with oxygen. They also have great economic value. Large coniferous forest once grew around forests once grew around the northern Great Lakes, but logging nearly destroyed them in the late 1800s and early 1900s.

The montane coniferous forests of Yosemite Valley in the Sierra Nevada of California are coniferous forest, which extend southward, through the great mountain ranges. Spruce and fir dominate the forest to the north and at higher elevations; fir and pine dominate Southern states and lower elevation. A temperate rain forest parallels the coast all the way from Alaska into northern California. It includes some of the World’s tallest trees—Sitka spruce to the north and redwoods to the south. The Avenue of the Giants is located in Northern California and is 51,222 acres of redwood groves, where sixty percent of the World’s tallest trees can be viewed along the 31-mile avenue of the Giants. Nature repairs her ravages, but not all. The uptorn trees are not rooted again: the parted hills are left scarred; if there is a new growth, the trees are not the same as the old, and the hills underneath their green vesture bear the marks of the past rending to the eyes that have dwelt on the past, there is no thorough repair. There is a very large tree, known as the Immortal Tree, and it is a redwood tree that is 76 meters (250 feet) tall and 950 years old. This tree used to be much taller, but it a direct lighting strike removed the top 14 meters (45 feet), reducing its size to 76 meters. The immortal tree survived a 1908 attempt at logging, and the flood of 1964.

The Avenue of the Giants also features three living trees, in Northern California, which visitors can literally drive through. And there is even a cool tree house, which is actually a house, which is partially built within a living giant redwood. This would be a fabulous place for a couple or family to visit and really experience the greatness of California. God’s own presence is felt lingering yet, as if, in love with his own work, he stayed to touch it again—creating new charms in multiplied duration. Why should Nature’s law be mutual butchery? God detests the thoughts of the wicked, “but gracious words are pure in his sight,” reports Proverbs 15.26 Nature will smile though priests may frown. “Do not conform to this World, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind and thoughts, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect,” reports Romans 12.2. Therefore, if you want to be happy, change your exposure, what you watch, read and listen to and the people you are around. Deviation from nature is deviation from happiness. Nature has a language of her own, which she uses with strict veracity, “Look at the birds of the air; they do not plant or harvest or store food in barns, for your heavenly Father feeds them. And are you not just as valuable to him as they are? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day is enough to focus on.” Matthew 6.26-27 and 34.

The American Enlightenment
I impressed my Maker with my thirst for knowledge, he wanted me to help him understand these times and their meanings. “Therefore, my people will go into exile for lack of understanding; those of high rank will die of hunger and the common people will be parches with thirst,” reports Isaiah 5.13 To be both generally blamed and generally liked evinces a peculiar construction of mortal. The American colonies, robust and expanding, matured rapidly between the 1700s and 1750. Transatlantic commerce linked them closely to Europe, Africa, and other parts of the New World. Churches, schools, and towns–the visible marks of the receding frontier—appeared everywhere. A balanced sex ratio and stable family life has been achieved throughout the colonies. Seasoned political leaders and familiar political institutions functioned from Bangor Mane, to Atlanta Georgia. Yet the sinew, bone, and muscle of American society had not fully knit together. The polyglot population, one-fifth of it bound in chattel slavery and its Native American component still unassimilated and uneasily situated on the frontier, was a kaleidoscopic mixture of ethnic and religious groups. Its economy, while developing rapidly, showed weaknesses, particularly in New England, where land resources had been strained, and the social structure reflected the colonizers’ emergence from a frontier stage, but the consolidation of wealth by some rural areas. Full of strength, yet marked by awkward incongruities, colonial America, in the mid eighteenth century, approached an era of strife and momentous decisions. “Wisdom reposes in the heart of the discerning, and even among fools she lets herself be known. Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people,” reports Proverbs 14.33-34.
It is the great beauty of the Law that it can dispute any human statement, made under any circumstances, and reduced to any form. He who is in the clutches of the law may think himself lucky if he escapes with the loss of his tail. The caricaturist, who draws only caricatures, is held to be justifiable, let him take what liberties he may with a man’s face and person. It is his trade, and his business calls upon him to vilify all that he touches. However, were an artist to publish a series of portraits, in which two out of a dozen were made to be hideous, he would certainly make two enemies, if not more. Whether in local or provincial affairs, a political ideology called Whig or republican had spread widely by the 1750s (mid-eighteenth century); The canons of this body of thought, inherited from England, flowed from the belief that concentrated power was historically then enemy of liberty and that too much powers lodged in any person or group inevitably produced corruption and tyranny. The best defenses against concentrated power were balanced government, elected legislatures adept at checking executive authority, prohibition of standing armies (almost always controlled by tyrannical monarchs to oppress the people), and vigilance by the people in watching their leaders for telltale signs of corruption. “All hard work brings a profit, but ere talk leads only to poverty,” reports Proverbs 14.23.
In the cold courts of justice the dull head demands oaths, and holy writ proofs; but in the warm halls of the heart one single, untestified memory’s spark shall suffice to enkindle such a blaze of evidence, that all the corners of conviction are as suddenly lighted up as a midnight city by a burning building, which on every side whirls its reddened brands. If women understood justice, they would be the first to proclaim, that when two are tied together, the one who does the other serious injury is more naturally excused than the one who calls up the grotesque to extinguish both. Seldom do they prove patient martyrs who are punished unjustly. Strong minds perceive that justice is the highest of the moral attributes; mercy is only the favorite of weak ones. Much of this Whig ideology reached the people through the newspapers that began appearing in the seaboard towns in the early eighteenth century. The first was the Boston News-Letter, founded in 1704. By 1763, some 23 papers circulated in the colonies. Though limited to a few pages and published only once or twice a week, the papers passed from hand to hand and were read aloud in taverns and coffeehouses. In this way, their contents probably reached most households in the towns and a substantial minority of farmsteads in the countryside. Proverbs 15.27-33 reports, “A greedy man brings trouble to his family, but he who hates bribes will live. The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil. God is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayer of the righteous. A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones. He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise. He who ignores discipline despises himself, but whoever heeds correction gains understanding. The fear of GOD teaches a man wisdom and humility comes before honor.”
Calling sternness justice, he extolled that for strength of mind which was only callous insensibility. By the 1730s, newspapers had become an important conduit of Whig ideology. Many of them reprinted material from English Whig writers, who railed against corruption, and creeping despotism, in the reign of George III (1727 – 1760). Particularly popular were the essays (not blogs, but essays) of John Trenchard and Thomas Gordon, whose Cato’s Letters and Independent Whig found their way into private libraries of many colonists and were widely reprinted in the newspapers. “The poor are shunned even by their neighbors, but the rich have many friends. He who despises his neighbor sins, but blessed is he who is kind to the needy,” reports Proverbs 14.20-21.
Justice does not the less exist, because her laws are neglected. A sense of what she commands lives in our breast; and when we fail to obey that sense, it is to weakness, not virtue, that we yield. The new power of the press and its importance in guarding the people’s liberties against would-be tyrants, such as abrasive royal governors, has been vividly illustrated in the news in California. The newspapers have publicized the tyrannical actions of Governor Jerry Brown and his idea to drain the Sacramento River, taking away natural resources from the valley, all for his profit. It has also been noted that Jerry Brown’s interference with the courts and his alleged corruption in giving important office to his henchmen, has led to some serious on going humans rights violations, in one case in particular. Liberty and property is precarious, and slavery is likely to be tailed on them and their posterity if some things past are not amended. However, Proverbs 14.22 reports, “Do not those who plot evil go astray? However, those who plan what is good find love and faithfulness.” May I not be unjust to myself? Certainly not; you have no right to be unjust to anybody. Who does most injustice, a prodigal man or a saving man? The one saves his own money; the other spends other people’s money. If the World is unjust, or rash, in one man’s case, why may it not be so in another’s? Simply because, “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones; he who oppresses the poor shows contempt for their God, but whoever is kind to the needy honors their Maker,” reports Proverbs 14.30-31.
Nothing can be polite that is not just. In the past Young John Peter Zenger, a printers apprentice has been fired in 1733, by an political investigator, Lewis Morris to start a newspaper that would publicize the corruption of Governor William Cosby. In Zenger’s New-York Weekly Journal, he wrote about many instances where the governor had broken the law. This and other bruising indictments of the governor led to John Zenger’s arrest for seditious libel. He was rescued from an early career by the brilliant defense of Andrew Hamilton, a Philadelphia lawyer hired by the Morris faction to convince the jury that Zenger was innocent of everything, but trying to inform the people of attacks on their liberties. Although the jury acquitted John Zenger, the libel laws remained very restrictive. However, the acquittal did reinforce the notion that the government was the people’s servant, and it brought home the point that public criticism could keep people they ruled. Such ideas about liberty and corruption, raised in the context of local politics, would shortly achieve a much broader significance. “When calamity comes, the wicked are brought down, but even in death the righteous have a refuge,” reports Proverbs 15.32. Justice, however, may be purchased too dearly.
Now we fast forward a bit to the early 1800s (the 19th century). In 1837, the banks and businesses, in America, began to collapse. President Martin Van Buren’s term, much like President Barack Obama, was plagued with a depression so bad it brought him the unfortunate nickname, “Martin Van Ruin.” As New York banks suspended credit and began calling in loans, an estimated $6 Million ($166,666,666.67 adjusted for inflation) was lost on defaulting debts. In 1838, a wealthy merchant and mayor of New York, Philip Hone, wrote in his diary, that half of his friends were deeply in debt, and his grown sons were out of work and businesses of all kinds were completely at a stand. As Mayor Philip Hone knew well, however, the laboring poor suffered most in a depression. By the fall of 1837, 33 percent of America’s workers were unemployed, and thousands of others found only sporadic part-time work. For those fortunate enough to retain their jobs, wages fell by 30 to 50 percent within two years. Now this is interesting because there were no welfare or food stamps to make up for being underemployed. So Walmart workers have a lot to be thankful for and anyone else who has a job, as the economy is currently $18 Trillion in debt. Meanwhile, much like today, the prices of necessities like flour, pork, and coal nearly doubled. As the winter neared, in late 1837, a journalist estimated that 200,000 (out of 590,000 people) in New York City were in utter hopeless distress with no means of surviving the winter but those who provided by charity. Not surprisingly, the citizens and immigrants took to the streets demanding, “Bread! Meat! Rent! Fuel! Their prices must come down!” One worker told newspaperman Horace Greeley that most laborers called not for the bread and fuel of charity, but for Work!
This is interesting, American, in 2014, has become so polarized by skin color that they cannot see they are protesting about the wrong things. The root cause of injustice is poverty, but in some cases, injustice is just due to evil. Had Michael Brown come from a wealthy family, we would have paid for the cigars and would still be alive today. Now back to the 1800s, the pride of workers was dampened as soup kitchens and bread lines grew faster than jobs. As the hardships grew, some would only hire those who were untouched by the “moral gangrene of Trades’ Union principles,” leaving laboring families isolated and defenseless. Violence increased and angry textile employers lowered wages below subsistence levels, angry hand-loom weavers broke machinery, destroyed cloth, and wrecked the homes of Irish strikebreakers. Job competition, poverty, and ethnic animosities led to violent clashes in other Eastern cities as well. Federal employees had to work ten hour day, it was mandatory. “God detests the sacrifice of the wicked, but the prayer of the upright pleases him,” reports Proverbs 15.9.
Americans sought to alleviate their gloom and despair. By the mid—1830s, a new two party system and lively participatory national political culture had emerged in the United States. The parties had taken shape amid the conflicts of Andrew Jackson’s presidency and the religious fervor of the Second Great Awakening. Although both parties included wealthy and influential leaders and mirrored the growing diversity of a changing nation, the Democrats had the better claim that they were the part of the common man with strengthen in all sections of the country. Whigs represented greater wealthy than Democrats and were strongest in New England and in areas settled by New Englanders across the Upper Midwest. In an appeal to businessmen and manufactures, Whigs generally endorsed Clay’s American system, which meant that they favored a national bank, federally supported internal improvements, and tariff protection for industry. Many large southern cotton planters joined the Whig party because of its position on bank credit and internal improvements. Whigs ran almost evenly with Democrats in the Sooth for a decade, and artisans and laborers belonged equally to each party. For the Whigs, the best society was one in which All Americans were free to follow their own individual interest. Whigs did not think Americans needed more freedom, but rather they needed to learn to use the freedom they already had. Whigs supported a wide variety of reforms, such as temperance, antislavery, public education, and strict observance of Sabbath, as well as government action to promote economic development. “Stern discipline awaits him who leaves the path; he who hates correction will die. A mocker resents correction; he will not consult the wise. The discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly. All the days of those who are oppressed in their minds are wretched, no matter how much money they have, but the cheerful heart has a continual feast,” reports Proverbs 15.10-12 and 15.14-15 So be thankful for everything this holiday season.
The Bold and Beautiful
Sometimes your relationships with other people are particularly disturbed. The ambivalence of society, toward some members, is not a normal reactive ambivalence, involving an object-oriented affection. There seems to be a narcissistic ambivalence in which others individuals do not respond to one as a separate person, but as both an expression of a cure for their narcissistic wounds. Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition in which people have an excessive sense of self importance, an extreme preoccupation with themselves, and lack of empathy for others. The cause of this disorder is likely due to experiences, such as particularly insensitive parenting. People suffering from narcissistic personality disorder react to criticism with rage and violence, or shame and humiliation.
They like to take advantage of other people in order to achieve his or her own goals. People with Narcissistic personality disorder have a sense of excessive self-importance. These individuals exaggerate achievements and talents, are preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence, or ideal love. They have unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment, need constant attention and admiration, disregard the feelings of others, and have little ability to feel empathy. Narcissistic personality disorder suffers are obsessed with self-interest, and pursue mainly selfish goals. They love out of leisure from self-concern, and are always self-concerned, unless the person suffering from narcissistic personality disorder knows that someone other than themselves is prepared to maintain the significance of their being.
People with narcissistic personality disorder need for self-expansion and vindications requires them both to exalt and to belittle others, they need to feed on you and destroy you. If you are a man and being attacked by people, who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder, they may accept you as a hero, but reject your masculine pretensions, so that one will develop an abnormal concern about how others view him. The purpose is so that you develop an extremely unstable self-concept. After being subjected to this treatment, a young man may not feel like he is valuable and may place pride and prestige over love because love has been intangible in their life.
And that is why some young men have a preoccupation with the body and some believe that is why homosexuality manifests in some, they are seeking themselves. However, individuals with narcissistic personality disorder may see their target (you) evolving, and they cannot stand your physical maleness because they believe that is where your childish pride comes from, and they are unable to tolerate that. The critics feel, “How can you feel pride and be happy with yourself after all the liable to disaster?” Consequently, his physical maleness becomes of enormous importance to him. The male body dominates his art and his sexual life. Many think that man, who are ostracized and face social engineering, may be come homosexual as a release rather than a pleasure.
We do know that some of our behavior is caused by factors that are part of our physical existence. However, much more research will be needed before we fully understand what these motives are, and we must also look for other causes that may not be inherited. Tension, whether large or small, is painful. It causes discomfort. We want to stop it. So to reduce the tension, we search out a goal, an incentive. (“I want a Queen Anne Victoria house!”) The goal or incentive must have two qualities: it must actually satisfy the need, and it must be something the individual recognizes as being able to meet that need. (If I have a nice apartment, I might be satisfied, but I might not classify the object as meeting my needs.)
The satisfaction of physical needs is indeed the indispensable precondition of a satisfactory existence, but in itself it is not enough. In order to be content, men must also have the possibility of developing their intellectual and artistic powers to whatever extent accords with their personal characteristics and abilities. This phenomenon is brilliantly described and frantic violence is not an attribute of manliness, and revenge is about self-preservation. However, God is a God of love and does not want people to hurt each other. Therefore, “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written, it is mine to avenge; I will repay,” reports Romans 12.19.
Nature has created inequalities in men and things, and, as human institutions are intended to prevent the strong from oppressing the weak, ergo, the laws should encourage natural inequalities as a legitimate consequence. The laws of nature, having made one man wise and another man foolish, this strong and that weak, human laws should reverse it all by making another man wise and one man foolish, that strong and this weak. Jealous and vindictive women seem to deliberately poison an initially amicable father-son relationship, and generate exalted ambitions in her son to satisfy her own needs.
However, men need to pursue honor to assure themselves of their own worth. So therefore, a lot of Greek men where misogynistic heroes and they achieved their goals without extensive feminine assistance; if women are derogated in a society, it seems reasonable to assume that their resentment would focus on differentiating sexual characteristics. And that is why true lesbians do not eat meat. Through eating the meat or organs of an animal, each sex becomes magically bisexual. Wanting too much leads to being wanted too much.
Give Yourself Permission

While people are literally being shot dead and arrested, buying Christmas, think about what the holiday really means to you. Nothing is every quite true. Christmas is not about getting gifts, or buying the most expensive thing in the store, it is about unity, family and love. Christmas is an American holiday, celebrated on 25th December. Traditionally, people open the season by selecting an ever green tree, and taking it home to put lights and ornaments on it. However, more and more people are concerned about the environment and do not want to cut down living trees. Each year, Americans cut down 45 million trees, just to put them in the houses for a few weeks. To conserve trees, many people are buying artificial trees. Nonetheless, there is another option. There is a company called The Original Potted Christmas Tree Company and they deliver full sized potted Christmas trees, and then pick them up after the New Year. Once trees are returned, they can be planted in the park, or you can buy them and plant them yourself. So that is a nice option. It is my belief that the only power which can resist the power of fear is the power of love. You cannot really learn to enjoy your leisure time by copying anyone. However, you can benefit tremendously by spending time with people who seem to enjoy life and really take an active interest in activities and other individuals. You want to be around people who are vital, alive, and mostly happy in their outlook on life. It is normal to have hardships in life, but you do not want to be around people who are trying to bring you down. I cannot tear my soul out of my body. You must take both or neither.

One of the secrets to enjoying life is to like yourself. Therefore, you need to spend time around people who accept you. When you are around people who like you, you can let go much more, and do not have to fear disapproval for feeling like a happy child. I like people who understand what one says to them, and also what one does not say. Virtue is one all over the World, and there is only one faith, one conceivable conduct of life. The World’s greatest need is mutual confidence. No human being ever knows all the secrets of another’s heart. The goal is, when you are around other people, be creative and artistic and fully present and aware. There are some rare and choice souls with whom you feel fully yourself. You know they understand you and accept you as you are—sensitive and strong, silly and smart—everything about you is what makes you unique, and your uniqueness makes you who you are. The unities are a completeness—a kind of universal dovetailedness with regard to place and time—a sort of a general oneness, if I may be allowed to use so strong an expression. Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. You can pick any group of people, those who reflect the attitude of life for which you are looking to have. No individual can understand and estimate the entire structure or its parts—what are its frailties and what it repairs, without knowing the nature of the materials. Friendship is one of the best ways to turn on to living and connect with like minds. Christmas is a time that you gather with your friends and family and the Christmas tree, being ever green, is a symbol of unity and every lasting love and life.

This is a day to show people how much you care about them and not just buy them gift. This year, I pray that you all stop shopping and just eat and spend time with your family. The climate out there is not safe, people are being killed and arrested, and I think this is why we need to get back to the true meaning of Christmas. We have a need to share our identities and humanness with others. It is my belief that the only power which can resist the power of fear is the power of love. When we are alone, or selfish, we cannot afford to fail, there is no one to pick us up. However, when we are loved, we can afford to fail. Someone loves us, puts us back together again, and we are on our feet again because we love in return. You want friends who share a similar attitude toward life. The more interests and hobbies you share, the more stimulating, meaningful, closer and permanent the friendship becomes. Friends are important, rewarding, and loving experiences that satisfy our need to express our identities. When you are around people you love, it turns your life into fuller, richer, and more joyful lives. And sometimes if you want to be friends with someone, you have to take a calculated risk. It may seem easier or safer to stay at home, but the potential rewards are certainly not as great. Each bright star is overhead somewhere. Where all unite, there is no excuses. We praise God in the dances; it is a hymn written without our feet. We love to feel within us the bond which unites the most distant eras—individuals, nations, customs, perish; the affections are immortal. They are the sympathies which unite the ceaseless generations. The past lives again, when we look upon its emotions—it lives in our own. You cannot spill a drop of American blood without spilling the blood of the whole World.

They Shall Not Pass Unseen

What man has ever felt that all his thinking powers were absorbed, even by the most poignant mental misery that could occupy them? In moments of imminent danger, the mind can still travel of its own accord over the past in spite of the present—in moments of bitter affliction; it can still recur to everyday trifles in spite of ourselves. Suffer any wrong that can be done to you, rather than come here! Oceans cover more than 70 percent of the Earth’s surface, so it is not difficult to understand why variations in ocean surface temperatures affect climate around the World. However, only within the past decade has numerical modeling begin to show how dramatic the effects maybe. In the winter 2013-2014, rainfall was below normal along the California Coast, and by Spring of 2014, strict water conservation and rationing programs were in the works. People were taking quick showers, instead of baths, cutting back on flushing the toilet, and running the dishwasher, and no longer deep-watering lawns and gardens because of the drought. However, drought is a relative term. This legality is not able to set thee free from thy burden. There are chords in the human mind. Health is everything. If you live in Tucson, Arizona, or another desert city like Los Angeles, California, drought is what you expect nearly year around. If you live along the Western Coast or the Mid-Western states of America and other interior continents, where semiarid conditions prevail, prolonged drought conditions can be disastrous.

As of 18 September 2014, the King fire in Placer and El Dorado, California has burned more than 77,000 acres, 3,000 people have been evacuated, 12,000 houses are being threaten, but no homes have been destroyed yet, as 4,000 fire fighters battle this blaze that is suspected to be a case of arson. Wayne Huntsman, age 37, has been arrested and charged with willfully and maliciously starting the King fire, in California. Wayne Huntsman, from Pollock Pines, has 4 prior felony convictions and a misdemeanor. The King fire is costing $5,000,000.00 a day to fight and is destroying beautiful land and wildlife, as a result, Wayne Huntsman has been book, in jail, in a $10,000,000.00 bond for arson and desertification. Desertification refers to the conversions of grasslands. Misery generates hate. Arson, at one time, used to be punishable by death, especially if human life was lost in the fire. Special agents trained to investigate violent crimes of arson. Arson is typically committed with a carefully calculated plan to minimize the chance of detection. Arson is the act of intentionally setting fire to a building or other property, land, nature, Earth or structure. Setting off an explosive that causes a fire also qualifies as arson. Originally, the person who started the fire had to mean to destroy the building completely. However, today, when states prosecute someone for arson, they no longer have to prove such intent. Partial damage, such as smoke damage or charring, is sufficient evidence that arson was intended. Arson is a felony, punishable by imprisonment. The length of the sentence depends on the extent of the damage and is usually longer if the building is one in which people live. Therefore, because arson is a crime, and the season is abnormally dry; be sure not to start a fire. Drought is nothing new. Yet, abnormally dry seasons may be part of a recurring feedback relationship between sea surfaces.

Rain-fed cropland, or irrigated cropland to a more desert like state, with a drop in agriculture productivity of 10 percent or more. Worldwide, about 9 million square kilometers have become desertified over the past fifty years. At least 200,000 square kilometers are still being affected each year. Prolonged drought may accelerate desertification, as it did in the American Great Plains and The Yellow River, in China, many decades ago. Desertification could also be a result of overgrazing and over farming. In Africa, for example, there are too many cattle in the wrong places, Cattle require more water than the wild herbivores that are native to the region. This means the cattle have to move back and forth between grazing areas and watering holes. As they do, they animals trample grasses and compact the soil surface. In contrast, gazelles, elands, and other native herbivores obtain most (if not all) of the water they require fro, the plants they eat. They also are better at conserving water; little is lost in feces, compared to cattle. Research indicates, under federally regulated standards, ranches started and are composed of antelope, zebra, giraffe, ostrich, and other native herbivores, but cattle as a controlled group had some impressive results when it came to compared cost and yielding meat. Also, the range conditions were noted to have improved, not deteriorating. So far, results are exceeding expectations. Native herds are also increasingly and steadily and yielding meat, without harming the environment. There are still some vexing problems to overcome.

African tribes have their own idea of what constitutes good meat, and some tribes view cattle as the symbols of wealth in their society. Most of the World’s prime agricultural land has long been exploited for crop or livestock production. Almost 21 percent of the Earth’s land is being used for agriculture, and another 28 percent is reported to be potentially suitable for cropland or grazing land. However, it potential productivity is so low the conversion may not be worth the cost. By the year 2050, nearly 80 percent of the Earth’s citizens will live in urban settings, and the human population is expected to increase by about 3 billion people. America will need about 25 percent more lands to grow enough food on to feed the citizens. However, if traditional farming practices continue as they are practiced today, most of our food will have to be imported from other countries. At present, throughout the United States or America, over 80 percent of the land that is suitable for raising crops. Historically, some 15 percent of that land has been laid waste by poor management practices, drought related conditions on land, and drought-sustaining atmospheric circulation patterns. However, many innovators are now using warehouses, abandon buildings and high-rises structures as a place to get beyond the obstacles of climate change. These projects are called Vertical farms. Vertical farms are here to solve inherent issues of growing food crops in unpredictable climates, in drought and disease prone fields, and reduce pesticide usage and death from farm workers getting heat stroke.

Food can be grown year-round, in high-rise urban buildings, reducing the need for the carbon emitting transport of fruit and vegetables. The planting racks, represent crops, in a vertical farm and can be fed nutrients, by water conserving, soil, which is free hydroponic systems, and lit by LEDs that mimic sunlight, and will dramatically reduce evaporation of the water, from the soil. These vertical farms are easy to control by drones or other management software, to ensure choreograph rotating racks of plants, so each member gets the same amount of light, and direct water pumps, to ensure moister and nutrients are evenly distributed. It could make food supplies more secure because production can continue even when extreme weather strikes, which will prevent price shock and supply shock. And as long as farmers are careful to protect their indoor farms from pests, vertical farming needs no herbicides or insecticides. They also conserve water far better than earthbound farming. Meanwhile, until American learns to use technology to control their problems, instead of letting problems control them, Mother Nature might look out for them. This winter rainy season , of 2014-2015, is expected to bring California some much needed rain, as we will experience Southern Oscillation. Southern Oscillation is basically a fluctuation in atmospheric pressure, at the Earth’s surface—specially, at Indonesia, Northern Australia, and the Southern Pacific. This area of the Southern Hemisphere is the World’s largest reservoir of warm water, and warmer, moisture-laden air raises here than anywhere else. Rainfall is also heavy here, and it releases much of the heat energy that drives the World’s air circulation system.

Periodically, warm surface waters, of the western equatorial Pacific move eastward. The massive displacement of the warm water affects the prevailing winds, which accelerate the eastward movement. The movement is enough to displace the cooler waters of the Humboldt Current and prevent upwelling, causing a supply shock to the fishing industry because, and has catastrophic effects on anchoveta-eating birds as well as on the anchoveta industry. The interactions among the atmosphere, oceans, and land profoundly influence the World of life. There is an interrelatedness of ocean surface temperatures, the atmosphere, and the land is especially clear through studies of the El Nino Southern Oscillation. This recurring phenomenon is accompanied by abnormal drought conditions, in many parts of the World. Every two to seven years, the warm reservoir of water located in the Southern Hemisphere, which is the World’s largest supply, and the associated heavy rainfall move eastward. This causes the prevailing surface winds, in the western equatorial Pacific, to increase speed. The stronger wins have a more pronounced effect on dragging the ocean surface waters eastward. Upper ocean currents are affected to the extent that the westward transport of water slows down and the eastward transport increases. More warm water, in the vast reservoir moves east—and so on in a feedback loop between the ocean and the atmosphere. The rainfall pattern in the Pacific Ocean and Indian Oceans are massively dislocated when El Nino Southern Oscillation (ENSO) warm episodes occur.

The first two months of 1998 were the warmest and wettest, at the time, in the 104-year record of temperatures and precipitation measurements for the contiguous 48 states. In the rainy season of 1997-1998, for the three-month period (December – February), the normal precipitation value for the city of Sacramento, California is 6.35 inches. California experienced vital monsoon rains. Month after month (December, January and February), record rainfall drenched the arid and semiarid coast and valleys of California in the winter of 1997-1998. This winter’s figure was 7.96 inches, compared with the record 8.5 inches in 1932-1933. To continue show the power of Southern Oscillation–California and North Dakota had their wettest February on record for the winter of 1997-1998. Florida, Maryland, Nevada, Rhode Island, and Virginia had their second wettest February, since records began in 1895. And the warmest February, on record, too place in much of the upper Midwest and parts of the East, for this time period, including Minnesota, Wisconsin, Illinois, Michigan, Ohio, Pennsylvania, and Connecticut. Due to the temperature increase, during historically cool months, there was a Nationwide energy savings were estimated at 10 percent (i.e., 10 percent lower heating costs as compared to normal winter). These are the patterns one would typically expect the strong El Nino on top of the continuing gradual increase of temperature and precipitation set the stage for many all-time state records. Numerical models are now being used to study these and other episodes of climate change a few seasons in advance. More reliable forecasting should follow when more and better observations are made of the interrelated systems of the ocean, land, and atmosphere.

Forecasters are still calling for a 65 percent chance of El Nino conditions being met, in the next few months of 2014, by the Northern Hemisphere this winter–with a 55 percent chance El Nino Southern Oscillation will start during September, October, or November. El Niño might increase rainfall, in California, and bring relief to the severe drought there. In the western United States, drought often brings a double punch: water shortfall plus wildfires. The West of America, as a whole has experienced a relatively quiet fire season thus far, with fewer than 3 million acres burned between January 2014 and September 2014, compared to the 10-year average of 5.4 million acres typically consumed by fire. However, California is well ahead of its five year average fire patterns. A substantial increase in fire size and area burned in the Southwest over the past 30 years; these trends are projected to continue increasing in the future. The reason is intuitive: warmer temperatures, earlier springs, and faster snowmelt are driving the increases, and these trends are expected to continue along with increasing greenhouse gas concentrations. One day, humans are going to have to grow up and learn to manage themselves and the planet. Law and all forms of law are only deductions made by the intelligence from the right instincts of the people’s heart. The crime of having been maligned unjustly–resources are scares, in all countries, and very few materials are discarded, expect for in America. Affluent counties, like the United States of America, especially, has a throwaway mentality, which prevails.

Human capital uses something once, discards it, and then buys another one. Also, instead of repairing cars, many consumers drive them until they fall apart and buy a new one. In some countries, a person is lucky just to have one car, and in China, the license plate alone cost $5000.00 and many cars cost more than some homes. Only the wealthy people in China have nice cars. As a result of consumer mentality– I have to have the best and newest product, billions of metric tons of solid wastes are dumped, burned, and buried annually, in the United States alone. In 2013, Americans generated about 255 million tons of trash. All of this trash is then taken to a landfill, where it is stored, until it decomposes. However, the problem is that much of the trash is toxic and is polluting the land and the water and making animals sick, who are feeding off of the waste. In addition, it is estimated that 60 billion beverage containers are part of the 255 million tons of trash, and one half of solid waste are paper (so much for the politically motivated plastic bag ban). Many people believe that paper bags are an alternative to plastic, but half of the waste in landfills is paper. Furthermore, it takes more than 500,000 trees, which produce oxygen that cleans the air, just to supply the Sunday newspaper. Every week, if everyone in the United States of America recycled even one out of ten newspapers, we could save 25 million trees a year. Besides this, using recycled paper reduces air pollution that results from paper manufacture by 95 percent. And recycling paper takes 30 to 50 percent less energy than making new paper.

Associated with the throwaway mentality is a serious issue that is unique in the World of life what to do with solid wastes. I thought it will be a good idea to haul solid waste into space, and drop it back down to Earth, so it could disintegrate when it hits the atmosphere, but I am not sure if NASA or American Airlines likes this plan, as it could have some unintended consequences. Instead of recycling materials, as is done in natural ecosystems, we bury them in landfills or burn them in incinerators. Incinerators add some toxic pollutants to the air and leave a highly toxic ash that must be disposed of safely. In any event, land available and acceptable for landfills is scares because landfills eventually leak, and pose a threat to groundwater. A transition from a throw away mentality to one based on recycling and reuse is feasible. Find ways to repurpose items before you end their lifecycle. It is affordable, and we have the technology to do it. Citizens can influence manufactures by refusing to buy good that are lavishly wrapped and boxed, packaged in indestructible containers, and designed for a one-time use. Remember McDonalds burgers used to come in those cute boxes? Well, now they are simply wrapped in wax paper. Individuals can ask the local post office to turn off their daily flow of junk mail (if we really want to save the environment, it goes beyond banning plastic bags). Unsolicited mail wastes an astounding amount of paper, time, and energy—and it means higher postage rates and gasoline prices for everyone, also adds more pollution to the air and landfills.

Finally, individuals can urge local governments to develop well-designed, large-scale resources recovery centers. Such a plant has been operating in Saugus, Massachusetts. With such systems, existing dumps and landfills would be urban mines, from which usable materials can be stored. After all, the will of sovereigns is generally admitted as a law. Bitter is the agony of self-reproach, where misery follows hardness of heart! Crack Cocaine is known as the humble man’s cocaine. It is a central nervous system stimulator. Crack Cocaine became popular in the 1980s mostly in urban areas because of marketing, availability, and affordability of the substance. Crack cocaine has been reported to have a powerful and fast intoxicating effect. The high from crack cocaine is descried as immediate, intense and euphoric, it is said to make one feel powerful, and it is extremely addictive. Crack cocaine is made from powder cocaine, water, ammonia or sodium, and bicarbonate also known as baking soda. The mixture is then boiled, filtered, clouded, dried, and cut into small rocks or pebbles. These small rocks, crack cocaine, are typically white or tan. Crack cocaine is generally ingested by crushing the rocks into a fine powder and snorting, mixing with water and using an instrument to inject the solution in the bloodline, and it can also be smoked in a glass pipe. People who use needles to inject crack cocaine run the risk of getting diseases that can be deadly from sharing unclean instruments.

Crack cocaine is most often smoked. Crack cocaine got its name because of the crackling sounds it makes when it is being smoked in a glass pipe. It makes some feel energized, and they do not know the dangerous impact from the drug. Crack cocaine or rocks increase the body temperature, blood pressure and heart rate. Use of rocks or crack can cause heart attacks, respiratory failure, stroke, seizures, abdominal pain and nausea. Crack can also cause sudden death, upon first use, or shortly after. Crack rocks are between 75 up to 90 percent cocaine. Because of the low cost crack cocaine, it is also of interest to young suburban kids and young adults. Crack cocaine has been used by 8.6 million people 12 and over and 6.9 percent of people between the ages of 18 -25 admitted to using this dangerous substance. Crack cocaine is dangerous because it causes a short intense high, and shortly after is followed by a forceful downheartedness, which leaves the users with a robust and ceaseless thirst for more of the drug. Within four years, 25 percent of the people who use cocaine become addicted. Crack cocaine also has some very powerful side effects. Smoking crack cocaine is dangerous because of the toxic fumes, the damages it can do to the lungs and body, and because the pipe can burn one’s lip. There is no safe way to ingest crack. Crack can also cause long term damage to the heart, liver and kidneys. It is also said to cause sleep deprivation, loss of appetite and malnutrition.

People who use crack cocaine are said to behave aggressively, violent, and bizarre. It has been suggested that people will go as far as murdering someone just for another rock. Crack cocaine also cause hallucinations, irritability, panic, and psychosis, shortness of breath, constricted blood vessels, and bleeding. Furthermore, Crack cocaine has been illegal since the 1914 tax act because it can be destructive, highly addictive and extremely dangerous. 90 percent of cocaine that makes it to the United States comes from Columbia. There are about 567,000 known users of crack cocaine in the United States. It has been reported that yearly about 42,000 people are admitted to hospital emergency rooms because of injuries from crack cocaine. Crack cocaine is also associated with prostitution, violent crimes and gang related crimes. Another warning about using crack cocaine is it comes with other harsh punishments. Since the war on drugs went into effect, the sentences for those who abuse crack cocaine more stringent than it is for those who use pure cocaine. Cocaine users are generally more affluent, so they can afford pure cocaine, snow. It is called snow because it is so pure and white, as it does not have fillers in it like crack cocaine does. In fact, if one is arrested with 28 grams of crack cocaine, they will serve a mandatory minimum five-year prison sentence. However, if cocaine users are arrested to trigger the threshold for the mandatory minimum five-year prison sentence, that person must be caught with 500 grams of pure cocaine. Some say the higher penalty is to teach a lesson, but others believe that this is economic discrimination.

Critics say that the law goes easier on cocaine offenders because they are typically well-off, whereas users of crack cocaine are considered less important to society because they generally earn less, and may not contribute as much financially to the system. Many youths are addicted to Marijuana these days. The drug is viewed as cool and safe because it is natural, but it may be a very dangerous drug. Marijuana can make a pre-existing mental problem worse, it could create a new psychotic mental issue, or it may cause a drug-induced psychosis. Marijuana causes a dysfunction in the brain, which cause a person to feel intoxicated, or unstable. Marijuana can make a person feel a loss of inhibition, confusion, unable to concentrate, and it can also affect motor skills, which make it unsafe to drive or operate heavy machinery. Marijuana can also make one’s breath smell foul and cause one to extremely over eat, even when they are not hungry. It can basically put you in a trace, where you are unaware of what you are doing and you may not even remember the next day. A lot of marijuana is laced with even more dangerous drugs like PCP, speed, cocaine and more. There have been cases of people ending up in the hospital from smoking a bad batch of marijuana. Some have never even regained their total cognitive function. Marijuana also causes people to hear things and see things that are not there. So it can be very dangerous. People who smoke marijuana all the time are called burnouts. They do not notice it, but others can tell that their minds are gone because they cannot control the drug, and they are slow and lethargic. And marijuana is addictive. The more you smoke it, the more you will crave it. Also, if you are stopped while being high on marijuana, you can go to jail and lose your license.

Marijuana can cause mental problems or make mental problems worse. Please be safe, and if you need to relax, talk to your doctor, they can help. “Any man who has the brains to think and the nerve to act for the benefit of the people of the country is considered a radical by those who are content with stagnation and willing to endure disaster,” William Randolph Hearst. Tyra Banks, and American Supermodel will tell you, if you have to pay to get a job, it is a scam. Therefore, does it make sense to go into debt over an education? You can simply get a job, work, save money, and when you have enough money to pay for college, you can decide if you are happy with your career, still want to go to college, or you could use the money you saved as a down payment on a house or for a new car. College is a Gamble, much like playing the stock market, it can be risky and there is no guaranteed pay off. Students are graduating college, strapped with up to $100,000 in debt from education loans, and unable to find jobs. 13.5 million people in America are actively seeking jobs. Many of these people thought going to college means they have a right to jobs and are better qualified than others, but that many not be the case. Steve Jobs, the former CEO of Apple, only attended one semester of college, but helped Apple to reach record high profits and under his direction, many new and innovative products have been produced. Dean Kamen is another great example; he attended Worcester Polytechnic Institute, and dropped out right before graduation. Mr. Kamen went on to invent the Segway and hold more than 80 patents. Furthermore, David Karp, at the age of 15, dropped out of the elite Bronx High School of Science and went on to develop Tumblr, which is a very popular social networking tool.

In China, the reality that college may not be a great investment is also starting to set in. 6.8 million students are graduating from college in China this year, and many of them are learning a few new lessons. Expects are unsure if the job market can support so many graduates, and these new graduates have to compete with the 2 million graduates, who did not find jobs last year. However, the Chinese Academy of Social Science (CASS) said 89.6 percent of graduates found jobs within 6 months. CASS also reported that the salary for these jobs was 2,500 yuan, which is slightly under the 3,000 yuan a month these graduates expected. Nevertheless, some are saying it is very hard to find a job because of the 1999 Education Expansion Program, which sent millions of new students to the University. Inadvertently, these graduates have flooded the job market, as the economy has not grown enough to support them. Professionals are saying, it may be necessary to lower one’s expectations, take the lower wages, gain experience, and learn skills and adapt to working with others. With the job markets in America and in China not able to fulfill everyone’s expectations, Occupy Wall Street is spreading to China. 8 December 2011, 3,000 workers from Southern China’s city of Shenzhen, fearful of benefits not being guaranteed because of a recent acquisition of U.S. Company Hitachi Global Storage Technologies, demonstrated their concerns by walking off the job. Typically, in China, Chinese people do not oppose the government; it is unheard of to go up against the government, so this is very concerning.

China would like for the U.S. and E.U. to take a more aggressive and long-term approach to their debt issues, so they do not keep spreading to the rest of the world. In contrast to the complaints of some, China still appears to be doing well. In fact, China was imported $750 Billion, which created 18 million jobs worldwide. China has also attracted more than $700 Billion from 347 foreign companies to invest in China. While American is losing jobs, China is still growing. Perhaps instead of the American government spending $121.2 Billion on an unemployment fund, that fund should be used to create government jobs, so if and when people are laid off, they can turn to the government employment fund and get a job. That way, displaced workers are contributing to the economy, learning skills, and paying taxes and able to pay their bills. Also, college does not guarantee success. With Universities like California State University being $650 Million and debt and fees keep going up, I would worry about the quality of education my child is receiving. If you want to go to college, go, but understand, you may not find a job upon graduation. In America, 22.4 percent of college graduates are not working, 22 percent are working in jobs, which do not require a degree, and 55.6 percent of graduates are employed at skill level. College is a great tool, but some of the World’s most successful people have not graduated from college. It is important to keep your options open, so if you can find a great job, without going to college, take it. It may also be a benefit to get a certificate or learn a trade. All I am saying is do not gamble, if you have other options. Not only do you have to study in college, but it is a competitive environment.

Along with other students, the administration, staff and some of the professors may not want to see you graduate and they will go through extremes to may obtaining an education a very unpleasing and almost impossible situation. If the work does not challenge you, and they want you to drop out, students, staff and professors will team up against you. If they cannot get you to react, they will cut your funding. So just keep that in mind. If you go to college and collect debt, you may not be able to buy a home later in life, student loans can also mess up your credit and it may delay starting a family. “We hold that no person or set of persons can properly establish a standard of expression for others,” says William Randolph Hearst. No one can send his time properly who does not live by some rule. You guys are rude, you will see someone crossing the street in the cross walk and will almost run them over and wave as if you did nothing wrong. You hit someone, you could kill them. Also, you guys act like heathens, you wake up in the morning cursing and saying rude things, even if women and children are around. And then many of you act stupid. And I must say, with how close you guys are to dogs, sleeping with them, kissing them in the mouth and putting wigs and dressed on your dog, leaves me to believe you guys are participating in bestiality. The Bible, which is the word of God, your creator reports, “Cursed is the person who has sexual relations with any animal,” Deuteronomy 27:21.

Supposing that all human souls are equal; yet the very design of the different machines in which they are enclosed is to super-induce a temporary difference on their original equality; a difference adapted to the different purposes for which they are designed by Providence in the transitory state. When those purposes are at an end, this difference will be at an end. Both God and Nature have designed a very apparent difference in the minds of both sexes, as wee as in the peculiar beauties of their persons. Were it not, so their offices would be confounded, and the women would not perhaps so readily submit to those domestic ones in which it is their province to shone, and the men would be allotted the distaff, or the needle. Remember back in the day, when you wanted the contact information for a business or person, you would pick up the telephone and dial 411? Well, you will really understand this next passage after we tie the conclusion with that statement. “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as you were told to, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody, reports ” Thessalonians 4.11.


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Humanistic psychology is a view that focuses on understanding subjective human experience. As a collection, humanistic psychologists are interested in human problems. Self-image is your perception of your own body, personality, and capabilities. Self-evaluation refers to the beneficial and negative feelings you have about yourself. A frame of reference is a mental or emotional perspective used for evaluating evens. Therefore, humanist seeks to understand how people perceive themselves and experience the World. And that is why psychologist tells you to focus on yourself and figure out how you can be a better version of yourself. Forget all about how stuck up and rich Sarah Ludlow is. If you do not like her, it is because there is something wrong with you, she does not even know you exists. At one time, people were loyal to each other, but there is a lot of suffering in the World and people become jealous. That is why you need to know the difference between your friends, co-workers and acquaintances. Terry Darlington reports, all that evil requires is an absence of virtue, where somebody didn’t make a stand.
A friend is someone who truly knows you, and cares about you, you two share a mutual attraction or a bond and are able to trust each other. An acquaintance is someone you just met, or someone who knows of you, but has never really spent time with you. A co-worker is simply someone who works with you, they may or may not care about you. These areas do overlap, but do not be mistaken because you could get hurt. Iyanla Vanzant acknowledges, “Love is the foundation of the Universe. It is the reason we come to life and the reason for living.” And furthermore, onto relationships, if you rejected someone, you have their contact information and know where they live, why you are still focused on that person? It does not make sense, you need to let it go and move on. You want nothing to with that particular individual, so it is unhealthy to play games to get their attention. If you want something bad enough, you will go after it and not play games. You have free will, which means that you are capable of naturally making choices or decisions. “Fear is a vile thing, and is at the bottom of almost every wrong and hatred of the world.”
The economy has always expanded and contracted, but you need to make sure that you are ready for the worst and your life is recession proof. That does not mean you have to focus on doom and gloom, but let me teach you a few things. Learning proceeds best when feedback, or knowledge of results, allows you to check your progress. Feedback can help you identify ideas that need extra practice. Knowing that one really understands the material is the best feedback one can get. If you are going to remember something, eventually you will have to retrieve it.
That is why it is important that you understand a subject, on your own terms, because you have to teach other people about what you have learned and you want to teach with conviction and passion, so you need to know what you are talking about. You cannot just restate what the author said, you have to know why he said it and what the concept means. There more you rehearse or mentally review information, the easier it will be to remember. Also, you want to do an elaborate rehearsal, by making connections to existing knowledge—to learn executive level material you have to dissect it and actively understand the concepts to the point that you can teach them to others and they understand. Also, text books are filled with a lot of fluffy, just focus on the concepts.
It is better that you understand the full body of work you are undertaking. If you read a book from the middle to the end, you will miss critical information. You can break this task down into parts, the beginning, middle and end. Just make sure you know what you are talking about before you move on. Also, pay special attention to the topics and concepts in the middle, they are generally the most overlooked areas. Overlearning is also a good idea. He may have a college degree and experience, but we want him to really sit back and understand what is going on here.
Overlearning is your best insurance against legal drama, social and work conflict because you know what you are talking about and can crush inquires before they even get started. Also, you want to space out your learning. Sometimes it is best to learn a lot, and at other times just a little, but keep studying and working on concepts. Also, studying at night is a mistake, wake up early and the morning and plan your day around the material you need to learn. And always review. Also, queue cards are a mess. Write a script and put it on paper with important lines in bold or highlighted.
Concept formation is the process of classifying information into meaningful categories. Let go of emotional, cultural, learned and perceptual barriers and turn your dreams into goals. Goals are miles stones that you can reach. And remember, your health is your most important asset. Get regular exercise, control smoking and alcohol use, and maintain stress. Health is not just an absence of disease, people who are truly healthy are also happy and professional because they maintain optimal physical and psychological health.
Everyone is prone to bad moods and flare ups, but it should not be a constant state of being. Understanding stress, and learning to control it, can improve your quality of life and health. Do not be afraid to laugh at yourself or admit you made a mistake. Humor is a good way to deal with stress, and can make people feel less defensive. Always look for workable compromises. You may have some frustrations and conflicts you have experiences and be prepare to discuss these issues so that you might be able to better handle them in the future.
Also, you may think you know more than others, but you may be overlooking possible alternatives these people will know about. If you want to learn to become a homeowner, rent a house or apartment for a reasonable length of time before buying. Sometimes it is best to select a course of action and stick with it, unless it is very obvious wrong after you have taken it. The purpose is to make the work place comfortable and more professional and reduce anxiety, threat, or feelings of inadequacy. Everyone is good at something and has a place in this World.
As a couple, even if you both lose your jobs, you can both get jobs at Mc Donald’s, and live Middle class lives. However, if you are single and get fired and cannot get a high paying job, life becomes a lot more difficult. Could you imagine being single and living on $1,400.00 a month, you are not even qualified to rent. You need to make three times as much as the rent to afford the house. For a $700.00 house, you need to make at least $25,200.00 annually. If you are single and get sick, who will care for you? And what I want you to realize, it is easier to make it as a couple, instead of an individual.
That is why it is best to be faithful and make your relationships work. “We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.” –The Constitution for the United States of America
Maintaining relationships is not always so easy. The way to be happy with your relationship is to be happy with one. The feeling of self-love will make it easier for one to establish relationships with family, friends, coworkers, employers and authority figures. To have a long lasting relationship, one has to appreciate their partners, family and friends. There has to be a form of commitment, open communication, realistic expectations, mutual interest and the ability to resolve conflict. If these conditions are not met, it is unlikely that a relationship will flourish. People are always changing, and so will your methods for dealing with your loved ones. Relationships often times do not just happen, people have to build a relationship. Most people say what helps any relationship is to be friends first. People usually like good qualities in a person. It is good to be caring, giving, respectful, and possess a sense of humor. Everyone has flaws, but as long as they have more good qualities, it is important to build a relationship with these types of people. “In your unfailing love, you will lead the people you have redeemed. In your strength you will guide them to your holy dwelling.” -Exodus 15:13
When you fall in love, it is usually a slow process and you are attracted to things that make you feel good. So, if you like to laugh and someone makes you laugh all the time, that feels good, and you want to be around them. Then, they start making concessions in your life. For example, “If you want to be with me, you have to tell me everyone you dated, did you have sex with them? What did you guys do?” After they get your dating history, then they want to start negotiating. “I am going to need you to get rid of everything you own, stop talking to your family and stay off of social media.” At this point, you consider what they are saying. And your spouse sees you are not going along with it, so then they start blackmailing you, following you and acting like they are too good for you. You noticed the changes, and have made up in your mind, “This is not what I want, but I’ll let it play out and see what happens.” So their birthday comes up, you send them an expensive gift, and they stop talking to you and do not even say thank you, then start taking pictures will all these people and going out without you. That makes anyone feel unappreciated. Since you were never really in a real relationship, and they are treating you bad, you clown them and leave them the hell alone. They keep fluttering in your face, trying to annoy you or make you jealous, and then you clown them again, they get all sad.
Listen, no one has time for games, you should have never let your fake friends try to run your life. When you are single, they will not be there, they just hated the person you were dating and wanted to ruin that for you. When you get dumped, they will all be gone, too. At this point, it is clear to see that the person you treated badly has really moved on, and you find that you are alone, people dislike you and you are still in love, but your ex does not want you back…so what do you do to get your ex back? It is pretty clear you hurt this person, and they have other options. So, if you really love this person, you have to buy your way back into their hearts. They were willing to give you their love for free, but “You took advantage of every chance you got.” Not only that, but “compromising oneself in a victim’s solitude, and being flexible was supposed to prove that I love you,” yet that was not going enough. Basically, “you are using their love as a weapon against them,” and that is why, if you have a chance of getting you ex back, you have to buy them something big to show you are serious. Like a new ring, car, or house. Let us face it, there are a lot of people out there, people who are more mature; and if you are serious, prove it. Actions speak louder than words. Make a big ticket item purchase or move on. “I know I am not what you want, if tomorrow the World ends. Why should we not be with the one we really love?” –Harris














