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Through the Looking-Glass, and What Alice Found There
There is something humans cannot build, the one who builds it is superior to humans; the World is such a structure; and so God, who is superior to man, exists. However, some attack this argument by pointing out that the superior force need not be God; it can be nature, or the forces of nature, and that these things could have been formed without a personal God being involved at all. These attackers also made some interesting points about the notions of God. For instance, he is infinite, but infinite, having no place to move, is limited, restricted, unable to move. So, an infinite God is limited. He is supposed to be virtuous and perfect, but virtue involves overcoming pains and dangers, and only for a being who can suffer or be destroyed are there pains and danger. Neither suffering nor destructibility is consistent with perfection, so they believed that God cannot be both virtuous and perfect. #RandolphHarris 1 of 9
When God wants to take you to the throne, He wants to take you to a higher level. The Universe is formed by logos (through which all things are made, as divine) and there is regularity in the World, but this involves fog and diseases, deadly animals, and death for all. What sort of providence is this? And if each individual animal is fated to have all things turn out for its own good, is it for its own good that the pig is killed? As for man, how can God’s providence permit him to allow so many humans to use their reason faultily, in a way injurious to themselves, and to others? Moreover, if he allows weaknesses and misery in the Universe—whether intentionally or unintentionally—he is at fault, since intentional neglect and unintentional neglect are both faults. And these evils cannot be dismissed as minor; they are of great importance to the creatures who suffer from them. #RandolphHarris 2 of 9
Nonetheless, virtue, conformity to nature, is the sole good; vice, deviation from nature, the sole evil; and the rest of human actions adiaphora (things outside of moral law—that is, actions that morality neither mandates nor forbid; things which cannot be logically differentiated), morally indifferent. However, philosophers, scholars, and wise men and women, and stoics (impassive) wants certain things in nature other than virtue, and therefore these things are not indifferent; they are in fact good, along with virtue. A good reputation is good too. What you focus on, you magnify. If you stay focused on your problem or what you do not have and how it will never work out, all you are doing is making it bigger than it really is. When you magnify something, you do not change the size of the object; you only change your perception of it. #RandolphHarris 3 of 9
The art of effectively pursuing what we want is designated the “art of living.” This art uses common sense and probability, to pithanon (give cognitive impressions), to attain the fullest satisfaction of one’s orge (desire), or natural impulse, and eschews all arrogant, doctrinaire claims to the Truth. Many people grapple with one of the basic problems of morality, the freedom of humans to do good and evil. Human freedom is the will that is caused, but it is caused by itself and moves by virtue of its own nature (like Epicurean atoms, with their clinamen or unpredictable nature). There are successions of events, human actions preceded by certain events and conditions, but a succession is not the same as an efficacious, causal relationship. Events precede a human’s actions, but do not force one to act; a human’s will always has the last move. Even if there were a rigid causal chain predetermined from all eternity, we could not predict with certainty particular effects, given the many fortuitous causes that are always entering the picture; so for all practical human purposes there is no such chain, only successions of events. #RandolphHarris 4 of 9
Do not be intimidated in anyway by your enemies. You are strong, successful, and powerful. You are the child of the Most High. During the late 8th century, many students were only taught logic, Biblical exegesis, the trivium of grammar, rhetoric, and the quadrivium of arithmetic, geometry, astronomy, and music. The assimilation of ancient learning was stressed, and little original work was done; the chief forms of academic literature were commentaries and handbooks. This was to prevent the decay and intellectual stagnation which we are currently seeing in the 21st century, and foster the renaissance of the eleventh and twelfth century. Literary sensibility and intellectual curious was growing rapidly and some charming poem, art, architecture, and substantial doctrinal treatises remain to testify to the intellectual versatility of our ancestors. #RandolphHarris 5 of 9
The principle of the poof in God is the idea of the scale of perfection. Moving from that which simply exists through that which exists and lives and that which exists, lives, and possesses intelligence, the scale would be incomplete without the omnipotent intelligence which is God. God created everything, including human souls and bodies. There are also so many things in this World that people still do not know about. For instance, there are more than 400 miles of twisting catacombs that lie beneath the streets of Paris, Frances and are the eternal home to countless souls. Some of the caves are lined to the ceiling with skulls and bones because as Paris grew into its role as a major European destination, it ran into a major problem: the 17th century, enough people had lived and died in Paris that its cemeteries were overflowing, overstuffed with graves to the point corpses would at times become unearthed. #RandolphHarris 6 of 9
There were reports that the cemetery exuded a strong smell of decomposing flesh, and during prolonged period of Spring rain in 1780 caused the wall around Les Innocents to collapse, spilling rotting corpses into the streets, and the city needed a place to put its dead. There were centuries-old tunnels that existed beneath the streets of Paris since the 13th century, remnants of a time when limestone quarries were minded to build Paris, France into a World Class city. So, the solution was to place the more than 6 million corpses in this underground city’s catacombs. Some of the oldest corpuses dated back the 9th century, and it took the city twelve years to move all the bones and bodies–numbering between 6 and 7 million—into the catacombs. And during the French Revolution, the dead were buried directly in the catacomb’s ossuaries, including Jean-Paul Marat, and Maximillen de Robespierre. Many of the bones are stacked along the corridors, arranged in patterns, creating crosses and other patterns, and sculptures which were created by Louis XV. #RandolphHarris 7 of 9
Legend has it that the Gates of Hell are found in the ghoulish maze. Some people actually sneak into the catacombs and explore the parts of the catacombs that are closed off to the public. It is very scary because there are 400 hundred miles in the catacombs and many of the passages lead to deeper levels. There are caves and water in the catacombs and if the battery dies in your light, you can get lost and many never find your way out. The catacombs also reach hundreds of feet beneath the city of Paris, France. And there are inaccessible trapdoors back to the road above, others are sealed. Some people have secret underground parities in the catacombs and some guests have become spooked and said to have seen ghost and demons in the city of the dead. Several scholars are known to have touched on the question of Universal ideas, but the issue does not seem to have been widely debated. #RandolphHarris 8 of 9
The German monk Gottschalk (died circa 868) was accused of teaching that from eternity, God has predestined some men to have salvation and others to damnation; that God therefore does not in any sense will the salvation of all humans; and that each person’s will is irresistibly determined either to good or to evil. People have freedom and moral responsibility and after a series of conflicting synodical decisions one invokes the subtle metaphysical elaboration of that doctrine in the theology. The catacombs is like a versions of Through the Looking-Glass, and What Alice Found There because it is like stepping through to an alternative World where people journey through the a chess board, playing a game that could cost them their lives, in a World in which time, space, and causality are liable to operate in reverse. Many think living entities have no place in the grave World. The city stopped moving bones into the ossuaries in the 1860s, and today, only a mile of the tunnels is opened to the public for tours. #RandolphHarris 9 of 9

Captains of Industry—Think ye a Hero one to be Defeated in the First Battle?

Dreams should be acquitted of evil. Easy for one to think like a hero; but hard for many to act like one. Have no the unconscious impulses revealed by dreams the value of real forces in the psychic life? Is the ethical significance of the suppressed wishes to be lightly disregarded, since, just as they now create dreams, they may someday create some other things? Blended mythology with metaphysics produce an image of the ideal type of individual needed as the savior of humankind. The hero can take many forms: he or she can be a god, a prophet, poet, priest, a man of letters, or a political ruler. In fact, a hero can be what you will, according to the kind of World he or she finds oneself born into: your heroes ever-varying persona results from the deeper needs of society. The subject selected as a hero is directed not by the mechanical needs of humans, but by their dynamical, unseen, mystical requirements. Thus, all heroes have discerned truly what the time wanted and have led it on the right road thither. In this sense, the hero is a gift from Heaven, a force of nature; the hero’s essential quality is original insight into the primal reality of things. #RandolphHarris 1 of 6

With an appreciation of the mode of functioning of the psychic apparatus, and an insight into the relations between conscious and unconscious, all that is ethically offensive in our dream-life and the life of phantasy for the most part disappears. Because of the hero’s firm contact with the great fact of existence, once cannot lie. My hero is heartily in earnest; an unconscious sincerity emanates from him turning his acts or utterances into a kind of revelation, which the ordinary, unheroic man is morally obligated to recognize and obey. For all that is right includes itself in this of co-operating with the real tendency of the World. Indeed, the proper feelings of ordinary men toward the heroes of their age are loyalty (which is akin to religious Faith, reverence, admiration, and an obedience which knows no bounds. Hero worship is a basic and indestructible tendency of human nature: it is the one fixed point in modern revolutionary history, otherwise as if bottomless and shoreless. #RandolphHarris 2 of 6

The hero concept is best understood as a rather curious ad obsessional example of a spiritual phenomenon that reached something of a climax in the nineteenth century. Worship of God gave way to worship of man and human society. What a dream has told us of our relations to the present (reality) we will then seek also in our consciousness, and we must not be surprised if we discover that the monster we saw under the magnifying-glass of the analysis is a tiny little infusorian. The irresponsible pursuit of wealth in which cash payment has become the sole nexus between people, thus displacing the traditional ties of obligation. However, social justice, now paradoxically asserted, can be achieved only through the enforcement of social inequality. Members of the aristocracy and those heroes of the business World, the Captains of Industry, must assume their responsibilities as the rulers of the masses: freedom consists in the right of the ignorant man to be guided by the wiser. #RandolphHarris 3 of 6

It is impossible to exaggerate a hero’s impact, for better or worse, upon all aspects of Victorian culture, ranging from the development of the novel to the formation of social policy. I tend to be constantly misled by a craving for a strong faith which I lack the necessary capacity to experience. However, it is hardly the capacity I lack; rather, I need something to have faith in. In the absence of my father’s God, I chose what seemed to me the best substitute—the hero. For all practical purposes in judging human character, a man’s actions and conscious expressions of thought are in most cases sufficient. Actions above all deserve to be placed in the front rank; for many impulses which penetrate into consciousness are neutralized by real forces in the psychic life before they find issue in action; indeed, the reason why they frequently do not encounter any psychic obstacle on their path is because the unconscious is certain of their meeting with resistances later. #RandolphHarris 4 of 6

In any case, it is highly instructive to learn something of the intensively tilled soil from which our virtues emerge. For the complexity of human character, dynamically moved in all directions, very rarely accommodates itself to the arbitrament of a simple alternative, as our antiquated moral philosophy would have it. And what of the value of dreams in regard to our knowledge of the future? That, of course, is quite out of the question. One would like to substitute the words: in regard to our knowledge of the past. For in every sense a dream has its origin in the past. The ancient belief that dreams reveal the future is not indeed entirely devoid of truth. By representing a wish as fulfilled the dream certainly leads us into the future; but this future, which the dreamer accepts as one’s present, has been shaped in the likeness of the past by the indestructible wish. The virtuous man contents himself with dreaming of that which the wicked man does in actual life. #RandolphHarris 5 of 6

I am chasing after memories, trying to recreate that past. All of these night stories make me realize how the past does not help when we are put in a tight spot. Memories are all well and good to hold on to, but it is the promise of making new memories that helps me push through. I have to just keep telling myself that I will be back with you in no time. Nothing else I can do. I think back to the day with that car at the castle, and the standoff the guy in it had with police at our meeting spot and how concerned you were that hours went by and out have not seen me. We have been through a lot, but have you ever really stopped and thought how we would feel if we never saw each other again? As much as I try to push the past aside so that I can keep moving forward, nothing is holding you back that way. You have more questions than memories, more mystery than enlightenment. You have to look behind you. The present and the future are built on the know. I know that you want to find where you came from before you will know where to go. Do not give up. Many grave histories are as dangerous as the most absurd fiction. #RandolphHarris 6 of 6

The Winchester Mystery House

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Genesi dei Problemi della Filosofia
Remember all of those stories you concocted to tell my parents to explain my disappearance? As it turns out none was needed. The rain had slowed to a misty drizzle. I thought to walk down to the beach, to see if I could find any other sign of life. It is a bad idea to give dying people any kind of mind altering drugs or pain medication because then care givers can hide that the person is dying and steal money, assets and estates. Not only that, doctors think 85 percent of patients are dying, and by an act of God they go on living. The cruse of human nature is imagination. When a long-anticipated moment comes, we always find it pitched a note too low, for the wings of imagination are crushed into its withering sides under the crowding hordes of petty realities. It is too often assumed that a person’s fancy is a person’s real mind. By long brooding over our recollections, we subtilize them into something akin to imaginary stuff, and hardly capable of being distinguished from it. #RandolphHarris 1 of 7
As I skirted the side of the house, my imagination was a tarnished mirror. It would not reflect, or only with miserable dimness, the figures with which I did my best to people Let us not consider the evils which we do not feel, nor injure life my misrepresentations. Good intentions unaided by knowledge will perhaps produce more injury than benefit. We must not be inactive because we are ignorant. Our good purposes must hurry to performance, whether our knowledge be greater or less. Justice and compassion are the fruit of knowledge. Human scrutiny is neither to be solicited nor shunned. The human mind is an extensive plain, and knowledge is the river that should water it. God released my faith in uncommon ways. God increased me and showed me His favor. God has taken me forward into the fullness of my destiny. If you are not impressed by your faith, you are not tapping into everything God has in store. Take the limits off God and release your faith in uncommon ways, and you will see God commit supernatural magic in your life. #RandolphHarris 2 of 7
Put God in remembrance of His promises. Keep not silent. Give Him no rest till it comes to pass. When God hears His promises, He dispatches angels with the answers. He sets the miracle into motion. He will change things in your favor. It may not happen overnight, but just stay in faith and keep reminding God what He promised you day in and day out. If you present your case before God, the good news is that Christ is our Advocate, our lawyer. In the courtroom of Heaven, imagine Christ as our lawyer. God is the judge. Do not tell God why you cannot be successful, why you cannot get well, why you will never get out of debt. Instead, present your case based on God’s Word and you cannot lose. God will be faithful and true to His Word. God promised that our children will be mighty in our land. God may have put a promise in your heart that seems impossible. However, Lord, we believe and want to get into agreement with You and see the incredible greatness of Your power activated. God is our provider and is still on the Throne, and I believe that with one touch of God’s favor we will go from barely making it to have more than enough wealth, health, and love. #RandolphHarris 3 of 7
Although the truth of determinism does not imply that if a person performs a certain action, one could not (in the sense of the “can” of ability) have done otherwise, it might still be claimed that one would not, under these conditions, have the opportunity to do otherwise and, thus, that one could not do otherwise in the sense of the “can” of opportunity. However, this claim is simply false, since in the ordinary sense of “opportunity” one can be said to have the opportunity to do many things that one is not presently doing, whether or not determinism holds. As the examples of the “can” of opportunity indicate, having the opportunity to do X does not mean anything like being in a situation in which nothing physically essential for one’s performance of X is lacking, which the claim in this questions seems to suppose. On the contrary, to have the opportunity to do something requires only that one be in a situation such that is, roughly speaking, one wanted to do it, it would be reasonable to expect that one would be successful in doing it if one were able to do it (that is, could do it in the sense of ability). #RandolphHarris 4 of 7
Human experience is not the self-consciousness of an Absolute Subject. Essences are eternal and uncreated entities, not efficiently produced by God, but subject only to divine formal causality. One the other hand, there is an importance of existence in treating personality (divine and human), because personality is the very subsistence of the act of existing. Dull and heavy characters, incapable of animating from wit or from reason, because unable to keep pace with them, and void of all internal sources of entertainment, require the stimulation of show, glare, noise, and bustle, to interest or awaken them. Of a truth, Knowledge is power, but it is a power reined by scruple, having a conscience of what must be and what may be; whereas Ignorance is a blind giant who, let him but wax unbound, would make it a sport to seize the pillars that hold up the long-wrought fabric of human good, and turn all the laces of joy dark as a buried Babylon. People who are long before they see a thing, when once it strikes them, see it in the strongest light. #RandolphHarris 5 of 7
The Spirit is knowable as Truth; as present, it is sensible as Beauty; and as future, it can be willed as Good. Spirit can be described in secular terms as real time. These moments are not successive, but mutually immanent: no experience is absolutely past or present or future; whatever can be cognized can also be appreciated or willed, or with the main item in the preceding statement the other way around. The essential activity of spirituality is to initiate a process of self-distinction by which the constitutive act of existence is reduced from its initial abstract self-identification to a concrete unity in difference. This leads to the postulation of an exterior World, for without such a World the identity of the subject must remain abstract (existing in thought or as an idea, but not having a physical or concrete existence). You hear people say all the time that you should live within, but the fact of the matter is that we live in a material World and we are meant to enjoy gifts outside of ourselves like, love, nature, beauty, and freedom. No one should have to live in a conceptual or imaginary World when they are a being created by higher synthesis. #RandolphHarris 6 of 7
Values can be realized, communicated, and related only within the diverse dimensions consequent to the process of self-distinction. This incarnation of spiritual activity makes it possible for the World to allow us to realize values, disperses rather than integrates them. However, a principle of integration value is needed. This principle cannot lie in spiritual activity itself, for in that case it would become the norm of those values and hence could not establish their transcendentality. God is this transcendent and transcendental principle of the integrity of values. The first manifestation of integrity is to be found in the concrete unity of the incarnate human person. The World and God become the twin poles between which the human person mediates and, in the process of mediation, creates both its own selfhood and the concrete locus of the integrity of all values. God, with a great love, loves the person whose heart is bursting with a passion for the extraordinary. True faith rests upon the character of God and asks no further proof than the moral perfections of the One (God) who cannot lie. It is enough that God has said it. Faith is a living, daring confidence in God’s grace, so sure and certain that humans have staked their life on it a billion times. #RandolphHarris 7 of 7

The Burden of Royalty—God within the Mind, this Internal Monitor
He had the kind of character in which prudence is a vice, and good advice the most dangerous nourishment. There is a terrible coercion in our deeds, which may first turn the honest man into a deceiver and then reconcile him to the change, for this reason—that the second wrong presents itself to him in the guise of the only practicable right. However, Aaliyah had known the species before: she had great discerning intelligence, and many might have taken this for happiness; she was aware that such a guarded nature must find one huge outlet of egoism, and she determined to be to him what his Americana had hitherto been: the one possession in which Randolph took sufficient pride to spend money on it. Aaliyah knew that this generosity to self is one of the forms of meanness, and she resolved so to identify herself with her husband’s vanity that to gratify her wishes would be to him the most exquisite form of self-indulgence. The system might at first necessitate a resort to some of the very shifts and expedients from which she intended it should free her; but Aaliyah felt sure that in a short time she would be able to play the game in her own way. How should she have distrusted her own powers? #RandolphHarris 1 of 7
Beauty maintains a glorious elasticity in its own ecstasies of hope, provided you do not crush it with a doubt of its own purity. Her beauty itself was not the mere ephemeral possession it might have been in the hands of inexperience: her skill in enhancing it, the care she took of it, the use she made of it, seemed to give it a kind of permanence. Aaliyah felt she could trust her beauty to carry her though to the end. As we know not future events, so neither can we tell to what purpose any accident tends; and that which at first threatens us with evil may in the end produce our good. The forbidden triad deals with the situation where one person has strong ties with the other two, but they have no relationship with each other. Imagine two people who you are very close to people with whom you spend a lot of time, have intense emotional experiences, share intimacy, and for whom you do favors. It is very unlikely that those two people do not have a strong relationship, but we would expect them to have some connection to one another. And this is why it is better for a man to die at peace with himself than to live haunted by an evil conscience of an assassin, haunted by a vague sense of enormous wickedness. #RandolphHarris 2 of 7
Obsessive prohibition possesses an extraordinary capacity for displacement; they make use of almost any form of connection to extend from one object to other and then in turn make this new object “impossible.” We are apt to connect the voice of conscience with the stillness of midnight. However, we wrong that innocent hour. It is that terrible “next morning,” when reason is wide awake, upon which remorse fastens its fangs. The necessity of guarding the king from every conceivable danger arises from his great important for the weal and woe of his subjects. Strictly speaking, he is a person who regulates the course of the World; his people have to thank him not only for rain and sunshine, which allow the fruits of the Earth to grow, but also for the wind which brings the ships to their shores and for the solid ground on which they set their feet. These savage kings are endowed with a wealthy of power and an ability to bestow happiness which only gods possess; certainly in later stages of civilization none but the most servile courtiers would play the hypocrite to the extent of crediting their sovereigns with the possession of attributes similar to these. Be clear of conscience, and for no bills without receipts to them. #RandolphHarris 3 of 7
It seems like an obvious contradiction that persons of such perfection of power should themselves require the greatest care to guard them against threatening dangers, but this is not the only contradiction revealed in the treatment of royal persons on the part of savages. These races consider it necessary to watch over their kings to see that they use their powers in the right way; they are by no means sure of their good intentions or of their conscientiousness. A strain of mistrust is mingled with the motivation of the taboo rules for the king. The idea that early kingdoms are despotisms, in which the people exist only for the sovereign, is wholly inapplicable to the monarchies we are considering. On the contrary, the sovereign in them exists only for his subjects: his life is only valuable so long as he discharges the duties of his position by ordering the course of nature for his people’s benefit. So soon as he fails to do so, the care, the devotion, the religious homage which they had hitherto lavished on him cease and are changed into hatred and contempt; he is ignorminiously dismissed and may be thankful if he escapes with his life. Whenever a lie was necessary for their occasion, they brought it out with a careless ease and breadth altogether untroubled by the rebuke of conscience. #RandolphHarris 4 of 7
Worshiped as a God one day, he is killed as a criminal the next. However, in this changed behavior of the people there is nothing capricious or inconsistent. On the contrary, their conduct is quite consistent. If their king is their God he is, or should be, also their preserver; and if he will not preserve them he must make room for another who will. So long, however, as he answers their expectations, there is no limit to the care which they take of him, and which they compel him to take of himself. A king of this sort lives hedged in by ceremonious etiquette, a network of prohibitions and observances, of which the intention is not to contribute to his dignity, much less to his comfort, but to restrain him for conduct which, by disturbing the harmony of nature, might involve himself, his people, and the Universe in one common catastrophe. Far from adding to his comfort, these observances, by trammeling his every act, annihilate his freedom and often render the very life, which it is their object to preserve, a burden and sorrow to him. It is not an easy matter to hit a conscience exactly between wind and water. Strong wind, Earthquake-shock, and fire may pass by: but I shall follow the guiding of that still small voice which interprets the dictates of conscience. #RandolphHarris 5 of 7
Bribed conscience makes hypocrites—frightened conscience makes fanatics—but reason-drilled conscience makes incarnate devils. Tell me if there ever, even in the ages of most favorable to glory, could be a triumph more exalted and elating than the conquest of one noble heart? The pangs of conscience, so much vaunted by some, do most certainly drive ten deeper into sin where they bring one back to virtue. Self-knowledge leads to wonder, and wonder to curiosity and investigation, so that nothing interest people more than people, even if only one’s own person. Good sense is the most evenly shared thing in the World, for each of us thinks one is so well endowed with it that even those who are the hardest to please in all other respects are not in the habit of wanting more than they have. Self-awareness makes human experience resonant. #RandolphHarris 6 of 7
It imparts that simultaneous “echo” to all that we think and feel as the box of a violin reverberates with the sound of the strings. It gives depth and volume to what would otherwise be shallow and flat. The idea of predicting behavior is a frightening one to many people. You might be afraid that if you can predict your own behavior you will act. There is no such thing as chance or accident; the words merely signify our ignorance of some real and immediate causes. Some people are more gifted at living than others. They do have an effect on those around them, but the process stops there because there is no way of describing in technical terms just what it is they do. This tremendous conflict of opening manhood, which is to our life here what is the landing of soul to the life to come. I want to get to know my son. #RandolphHarris 7 of 7

Beauty and the Beast is a Frequent Alliance, but it is Not for the Lamb to Live with the Wolf
I am quite willing to give up all the paths to gratification interdicted by society, but I am sure that society will reward me for this renunciation by opening for me—even after a certain delay—one of the permitted paths? One can plainly tell what these witticisms whisper, namely, that the wishes and desires of humans have a right to make themselves perceptible next to our pretentious and inconsiderate morality. And in our time, it has been said in emphatic and striking terms that this morality is merely the selfish precept of the few rich and mighty who can gratify their desires at any time without deferment. As long as the art of healing has not succeeded in safeguarding our lives, and as long as the social organizations do not do more towards making conditions more agreeable, just so long cannot the voice within us which is striving against the demands of morality be stifled. Every honest person finally makes this admission—at least to oneself. The decision in this conflict is possible only through the roundabout way of a new understanding. The qualities which are the most attractive before dinner sometimes become the least so in the evening. It is always a mystery what people see in each other. #RandolphHarris 1 of 7
One must be able to knit one’s life so closely to that of others, and to form such an intimate identification with others, that the shortening of one’s own term of life becomes surmountable; one should not unlawfully fulfill the demands of one’s own needs, but should leave them unfulfilled, because only the continuance of so many unfulfilled demands can develop the power to recast the social order. However, not all personal needs allow themselves to be displaced in such a manner and transferred to others, nor is there a universal and definite solution to conflict. A radio station that plays hip hop music and has a mostly heterosexual audience should not lure their listeners to a homosexual club because it will put everyone in danger. Were Niagara but a cataract of sand, would you still travel to see it? We know how to designate the witticisms just discussed; they are cynical witticism, and what they conceal are cynicisms. Among the institutions which cynical wit is wont to attack there is none more important and more completely protected by moral precepts, of the cynical jokes are directed against it. For no demand is more personal than that made upon sexual freedom, and nowhere has civilization attempted to exert a more stringent suppression than in the realm of sexuality. #RandolphHarris 2 of 7
A wife is like an umbrella, at worst one may also take a cab. We have already elucidated the complicated technique of this example; it is a puzzling and seemingly impossible comparison which, however, as we now see, is not in itself witty. It shows besides an allusion (cab = public conveyance), and as the strongest technical means it also shows an omission which serves to make it still more unintelligible. The comparison may be worked out in the following manner. A man marries in order to guard himself against the temptations of sensuality, but it then turns out that after all marriage does not afford sufficient gratification for one of stronger needs, just as one takes along an umbrella for protection against rain only to get wet in spite of it. In both causes one must search for a better protection; in one cause one must take a public cab, in the other, women procurable for money. Now that wit has almost entirely been replaced by cynicism. That marriage is not the organization which can satisfy a man’s Christian von Ehrenfels (contrast between certainty and uncertainty), or a Judge Lindsay, who is forced to it by the love of truth and the zeal of reform. The strength of this witticism lies in the fact that it has expressed the thought even though it had to be done through all sorts of roundabout ways. #RandolphHarris 3 of 7
There is something elevating in the possession of authority, however it may be abused. Primitive humans believed everything was controlled by some sort of spirit. If there was a storm, the reason must be that the gods were angry. If crops were bad, then the first-born son must be sacrificed to appease the gods. If the child was born deformed, it was because an evil spirit possessed him, and he must be killed. A person who was emotionally or physically ill must be possessed by a demon. People also assumed that forces or spirits controlled all their behavior. One could buy a witch’s services to invoke the spirits and increase his sexual prowess, capture a lover, or bring misfortune to an enemy. In most primitive cultures, even today, people assume that they have little choice in their own destiny, because it is controlled by good and evil spirits and by fate. Assumptions are idea which one holds to be true without any proof that they are true—things that are “taken for granted.” Turn me a prey to the wild beast, so I be never again the victim of man dressed in the in the gore-dripping robes of authority. #RandolphHarris 4 of 7
Shall we never make an attempt, because we do not always succeed? In some cultures, these assumptions are so strongly held that they can literally result in death. Anthropologists have reported observing such events in tribe where members were taught that if they violated certain (social scientists engaged in the study of humans) taboos they would die. Taboos are negative rules, the “thou shalt nots” of a society (from a Tongan word that means sacred, prohibited, inviolable). Inlanders all, the come from lanes and alleys, streets and avenues—north, east, south, and west. Yet here they all unite. Tell me, does the magnetic virtue of the needless of the compasses of all those ships attract them thither? Though you have kept company with a wolf, you have not learnt to how of him. That person and the other members of the tribe assumed that the taboo-breaker would die as a result. In fact, they began to act as though he were already dead. Imagine how you would feel if, even for a week, everyone acted as though you were about to die. The taboo-breaker assumed he must die. Everyone around him thought so, too. And in time he did. #RandolphHarris 5 of 7
If you were a member of that tribe, you might reach the logical conclusion that some external force or spirit had killed the taboo-breaker. One important way in which primitive humans tried to understand one’s World was through observation of one’s own experiences. However, many times one’s observations were based upon a limited awareness of oneself and the nature of the World. (Spirits control me and everything around me.) Although few of us believe in a taboo strong enough to cause death, our personal beliefs can influence us in ways almost that important. Humans have always assumed a causal World. For centuries, they believed their World and their being was controlled by spirits and demons. However, as one expanded one’s knowledge, humans began to question the demon-spirit model of causality. Humans began to exert control over their own environment—predicted when to plant crops, what seeds to use, the location of the best soil, and the best time to harvest. When their crops failed, instead of sacrificing their first-born child to appease the gods who had been assumed to cause the failure, they sought better seeds, or richer soil, or an increased water supply and tried again. #RandolphHarris 6 of 7
By changing what one knows about the World, humans change the World they know; and by changing the World in which one lives, humans change themselves. A patient whose hearing was defective consulted a physician who made the correct diagnosis, namely, that the patient probably drank too much whiskey and consequently becoming deaf. He advised him to desist from drinking and the patient promised to follow his advice. Some time thereafter the doctor met him on the street and inquired in a loud voice about his condition. “Thank you, Doctor,” was the reply, “there is no necessity for speaking so loudly, I have given up drinking whiskey and consequently I hear perfectly.” Some time afterwards they met again. The doctor again inquired into his condition in the usual voice, but noticed that he did not make himself audible. “It seems to me that you are deaf again because you have returned to drinking whiskey,” shouted the doctor in the patient’s ear. “Perhaps you are right,” answered the latter, “I have taken to drinking again, and I shall tell you why. As long as I did not drink I could hear, but all that I heard was not as good as the whiskey.” Technically, this joke is nothing more than an illustration. The jargon and the ability of the raconteur must aid in the production of laughter. However, behind it there lies the sad question, is not the man right in his choice? #RandolphHarris 7 of 7

Letters to an American Friend—Reflections on the Guillotine

Love of the World and its sensuous immediacy is a World where we speak tenderly and almost lovingly of our fellow humans and of their common fate, which we share. Absolute success often bears in it the seeds of its own destruction. The problem of suicide is described by some as the only serious philosophical problem. Suicide is contrary to the first law of nature, self-preservation; and it shocks the natural feelings and common apprehension of all humankind. However, some wonder, does it make any sense to go on living once the meaninglessness of human life is fully understood and assimilated. The meaninglessness or absurdity comprises the failure of the World to satisfy the human demand that it provides a basis for human values—for our personal ideals and for our judgements. No one is to blame for suffering an evil one cannot avoid. It is not the persecution, but the catastrophe which is annexed to it, that makes the difference between the tyrant and the sufferer. In mere corporal exertion, the hunter perhaps is upon a level with the vulnerable target being pursed. One that kills another can but commit murder upon his body; but for one to kill oneself is to kill body and soul at once. #RandolphHarris 1 of 8

The wound that bleedeth inward is most dangerous, the fire kept close burnest most furious, the oven dammed up baketh soonest, sores having no vent fester inwardly. One that dedicates their days to an endless sorrow is the worst and most degraded of suicides. I happened upon the youthful experience which even to-day still expressed its power in all these emotions. I might have been ten or twelve years old when my father began to take me with him on his walks, and in his conversation to reveal his view on the things of this World. Thus, he once told me the following incident, in order to show me that I had been born into happier times than he: “When I was a young man, I was walking one Saturday along the street in the village where you were born; I was well-dressed, with a new fur cap on my head. Up comes a Christian, who knocks my cap into the mud, and shouts, ‘Satan, get off my pavement!’ ” –“And what did you do?”—“I went into the street and picked up the cap,” he calmly replied. That did not seem heroic on the part of a big strong man who was leading me, a little fellow, by the hand. #RandolphHarris 2 of 8

My father maintained that violence, like suicide cannot be regarded as an adequate response to the experience of absurdity. There is nothing the body suffers that the soul might profit by. Who gave thee a power over thy life? The human being and the World—that together produce the tension described above. Suicide is thus an admission of incapacity, and such an admission is inconsistent with that human pride to which men like my father openly appeal. There is nothing equal to a spectacle of human pride. Only by going on living in the face of one’s own absurdity can human beings realize their full stature. The conscious espousal of the metaphysical arbitrariness of human purpose and action transforms nihilism (the rejection of all religious and moral principles, often in the belief that life is meaningless) from a passive despair into a way of revolting against and transcending the World’s indifference to humans. I believe that absurdity, in the sense of recognition and acceptance of the fact that there are no metaphysically guaranteed directives for conduct, could by itself generate a beneficial ethic. #RandolphHarris 3 of 8

In particular, the idea of human fraternity is connected with a heroic nihilism on the grounds that to accept oneself as the sole guarantor of one’s own values does necessarily involve accepting a principle of respect for other human beings. It seems that my father found it necessary to show by means of examples just what the specific implications for conduct of his doctrine of absurdity are and also make it plausible that these implications are consistent with the humanistic ideal to which he as an individual is clearly devoted. Life can be adequately motivated by an acceptance of absurdity. I agree that suicide and violence are mechanisms of this motor inhibition through nervousness in the intention of self-destruction is realized. One who digs a pit for others falls in themselves. Violence, suicide, and harassment are the severest terms for denial of human fraternity. The human apparatus of moral distinctions, of justice, and of guilt, as kind of a senseless rigmarole with no basis in reality. The whole World is in a peculiar state that is described as innocence, because in a World that affords no transcendental sanction for human judgments of right or wrong there can be no real guilt. #RandolphHarris 4 of 8

However, the difficulty in showing no optimistic ethic of human fraternity can be generated by a nihilistic attitude toward all values. Injustice and cruelty of humans to human should arouse others to action; by comparison with the hideous but remediable evils of human society, the cosmic injustice of the human condition seems to have lost some of its obsessive hold on the mind of society. The reason for the extraordinary incontinence of the Soviet revolution was that the revolutionary tradition had its roots in a revolt against the human condition as such, and such revolts can never lead to human fraternity but leads instead to a new enslavement of human by human. Much like the push for the first black president and socialism, many feel, enslaved many Americans and the capitalism ideals of the American economy and lead to the polar opposite being elected as president in 2016, with the election of a white business man, who puts Americans first and no foreign values. Political reaction is essentially a violent revolt, and the taking of human life is inconsistent with true revolt since the revolt involves the implicit assertion of a supraindividual value, the value of human life. #RandolphHarris 5 of 8

The metaphysical revolt is bad as it is a refusal of the human condition, resulting in either suicide or in a demonic attempt to disposed God and remake the World in the image of man. Its deepest motive is not love for humankind, but a desire to destroy the World as it is. The order it attempts to impose on the New World it constructs is informed by no ethically creative principle because nihilism can yield no such principle. A nightmare state of power for power’s sake is the ultimate fruit of metaphysical revolt. While many think we needed a black president in America because it has been known to be a racist county, was he elected just because he was black or because he was the best man for the job? Because if you give authority to someone just because you think others have abused authority in the past and it is time for a change, the danger of that is it can create a disaster because we should give power to those who are qualified, not those who we think she have it because it is a popular idea. #RandolphHarris 6 of 8

The historical tableau presents a principle of selection that seems to reflect a personal predilection for extreme or crisis situations rather than any objective assessment of real influence. Electing someone based on feeling and not qualification is no difference than the Nazi occupation of France or even totalitarianism as a political system, but all of the many forms that injustice and inhumanity can assume. Many have allowed practitioners to evade the responsibility that goes with moral self-ownership and to confirm them in their inhumanity to their fellow humans. Nihilism is a kind of immunizing experience, although one with very considerable dangers of its own, by virtue of which one is enabled to grasp the ideal of human fraternity in its pure form without the entanglements of ideology and doctrine by which it has so often been disfigured. My father had a stubborn moral integrity and a deep sympathy with his fellow humans, to which the somewhat meretricious rhetoric of revolt adds very little. At the same time, however, it must be conceded that the absence or unavailability of absolute values, whatever these might be, remains anything but trivial, and pervades the atmosphere of the humanistic ethic that are erected in their place. #RandolphHarris 7 of 8

Society also does not have the right to put criminals to death. The Fall of Adam is not the conception of evil. Evil is unjust social institutions or in the terms on which humans permitted to exist but in the very human heart of people themselves. Many people have an interior corruptness that is concealed from the World and for a long time from themselves—by a life of philanthropy and active sympathy for their fellow humans. Many people are, in fact, a sort of monster whose ultimate self-knowledge led them to create a sense of guilt and unworthiness in others by advertising their own corruption. They feed their obsessive need for superiority. The original sin has been forgiven by God and the locus of the struggle between good and evil. Thus, broadly speaking, one must emphasize their own inner complicity with evil and the lack of the kind of innocence that my father always claimed for humans. There cannot be a father in the World who would sell his child’s virtue. #RandolphHarris 8 of 8

What Pilgrim Soul can Resist God and German Beinenstich?
No, please do not ask what it is that James said. Not only did he use language not fit for the ears of a pirate, but the gist of what he said was offensive, more so because it is true. However, when said by people such as James, true things can sound vicious and frightening. Trust me on this. Hmm…do I have any ideas as to what you can tell your parents? A burning desire to see if the unicorns on the mainland are as shinny as the sheep in Stockholm, Germany? The insatiable itch to taste a German Bienenstich, to taste that delicious dessert made of sweet yeast dough with a baked-on topping of caramelized almonds, and filled with Buttercream? An urgent need to buy black marble urn? An indiscernible longing to follow a tall, athletic-build, attractive American man with caramel skin, dreamy brown bedroom eyes, soft pillow lips, bright white teeth, a charming personality, and a pleasant scent up to his house? Nonetheless, I will be leaving in the morning. I wanted to get one more letter off to you before departing Paris, as I am not sure when I will get the chance to mail another. Even though this is what I traveled across the ocean for, I cannot help but feel the twinge of nerves. We will see what tomorrow will Bring! #RandolphHarris 1 of 5
Are you having fun? All of the seriousness and the grim aspect of this aside, are you finding things to make you happy? Envy is painful because it arouses one’s own sense of inadequacy. And then we often resent the person whose successes have inadvertently provoked this feeling. Unconsciously, this resentment fuels one’s endless desire for a single decisive or powerful action, which will benefit us, and of course it will not come your way when you have a spirit of lack and limitation. As the cycle progresses, one might feel increasingly dissatisfied and unhappy in one’s job and alienated from one’s colleagues. There may be a false belief that everyone is against you. And your family members may grow weary of your constant complaints about the situation at work. In many cases, some people may seek to escape their vicious cycle of jealousy and envy by engaging in a binge of television, an over-indulgence in food, sleeping all day like a vampire, drugs, alcohol, and the sex. What is the way out of the evil vortex of envy and greed? The answer is to go within. When you are envious of someone else, you are constantly looking at them, making up stories about them, evaluating their accomplishments, and comparing yourself to them, and that is when you set your own self up to lose. #RandolphHarris 2 of 5
While weak souls are crushed by fortune, the brave mind maketh the fickle deity afraid of it. In our own hearts, we mould the whole World’s hereafters; and in our own hearts, we fashion our own gods. Whoever used to have a gas lamp in one’s room, but now uses electric light, will experience for a long time a definite feeling of pleasure when pressing the electric light button; this please continues as long as at that moment the individual remembers the complicated arrangements necessary to light the gas lamp. So, people who actually earn what they work for will feel a source of pleasure because we save a particular expenditure which we are willing to make, and which we are also ready to make at this time. That expenditure is expected and prepared for, and is a factor which stands unmistakably in the foreground. However, when you are jealous of someone and have to lie, steal, and cheat to get ahead, you will never be happy with anything. Nothing will ever be good enough. What you obtain will not fail to give you momentary pleasure, but it will not bring about a lasting alleviation so long as you did not truly earn it. Obviously, when people set goals and have dreams and work to honestly achieve their desires, this gives us a greater feeling of pleasure. Everyone in this World has their own fate intrusted to themselves. #RandolphHarris 3 of 5
Amidst our most swift and easy pace the rider must guard oneself against a fall, and it is when prosperity is at the highest that our prudence should be awake and vigilant to prevent misfortune. By addressing problems before they can grow larger, conscientious individuals maintain better health overall and, on average, live longer with better quality life. Meticulous individuals perform better at some jobs than others because they have a certain type of thoroughness, caution, vigilance and strive to be orderly, organized, and efficient. There is a mental benefit to exercising self-control because it helps people to regulate their emotions and behavior. Self-control helps people find a sense of meaning in life, the feeling that one’s existence has purpose and value. One way to obtain self-control is through religion because it generally dichotomizes right and wrong. Religion also helps people cope with life stressors that threaten meaning, such as the death of a loved one. The meaning that religion inspires can be of great consequence because people who perceive their lives as meaningful tend to be healthier and live longer. Learn to face and, ultimately, control your fear and anger so you can avoid being seduced by the dark side of reality. #RandolphHarris 4 of 5
One morning I was woken by my father coming through the front door, stirring up the fire, putting on the kettle. He has brought a pot of Bibbelsche Bohnesupp (a traditional bacon onion and potato soup from Saarland in Germany) with him to warm up for my dinner and spooned some into a bowl for me to take to Ms. Wonder Woman, who lived nearby. When I returned, the floor was swept, the sheets were airing, and the stew was bubbling on the fire. I had left your letters scattered all over the bed and they had been neatly put away, although I did not think must of it at the time. I was too in awe of the pot of traditional cuisine over my fire to worry about details like that! Obviously, he had read the whole stack of letters. Existence is a great put, and the antiquated Fate who stirs it ‘round cares nothing what rises to the top and what goes down, and laughs when the bubbles burst. He said to me, “Your marvelous faculty of dreaming as if you were awake is based upon your virtues, upon your goodness, your justice, and your love of truth; it is the moral clarity of your nature which makes everything about you intelligible to me.” Think, what right have you to be scornful, whose virtue is a deficiency of temptation, whose success may be a chance, whose rank may be an ancestor’s accident, whose prosperity is very like a satire? #RandolphHarris 5 of 5

Few People have not their Secret Moments of Deep Feeling
I have stood aside to see the phantom of those days go by me. They are gone, and I resume the journey of my story. The holidays are full of joy and happiness for a lot of people. I went to the Theatre of Lights last night in Sacramento City, California, USA. And it was amazing. A lot of the grown men thought it was too much because there were so many lights, but I was totally enthralled and had a really good time and everyone was happy and so excited. I had been there a few hours before Santa Klaus made his appearance, so I went for a walk to take a peak and the Golden State Warriors game playing in the Oracle Arena just a few feet away and came back right on time to see hear a story about Sacramento City and the oldest building standing, and there came Santa. I stayed around for a few more minutes to hear what Santa had to say, took a few pictures of him and then left and got a slice of cake, and a hamburger. I am a vegetarian, but I was feeling weak and thought it was from a lack of meat, but I guess I am actually sick. We are sparks, we are shadows, we are pollen, which the next wind will carry away. We are dying already; it is all a dream. #RandolphHarris 1 of 5
Men will dream; those most that can be asked of the is but that the dream be not too glaring discord with the thing they know. My dad and my grandfather both passed away in December. My dad passed away first on 4th of December and my grandfather a few years later on 10th of December. So, for me, the Theatre of Lights really did my heart and soul some good. I remember me sister and I used to wake up at 5am, when it was still dark outside to open our presents, but our parents would tell us to go back to bed. Nonetheless, it was so magical to wake up in the dark and smell the fresh pine tree, and see all the beautiful and colourful lights on the tree. Back in those days, we used to see the big light bulbs on the Christmas tree and the living room would be packed full of shinny gifts and it was so pretty. I remember my mother got big fish tank full of tropical fish and they were so pretty. And there was also an eel and I thought her name was nail because they sound alike and maybe it is just my imagination, but I think she had red cheeks. #RandolphHarris 2 of 5
So, one night, I thought the fish were cold and turned up the heater in the fish tank and the next morning they all died. I told my parents what happened and I did not even get in trouble, and we did not get any more fish either. I thought that they would replace them, but they did not. Then a year later, we got a goldfish named Ralph and I gave him a bath and he died. Later on, we ended up getting a dog, but my mother did not like dogs, so she kept him in the backyard and one day we went to play with him and he was dead. We had a pretty bad track record with pets. So, there was this pretty humming bird that used to come drink nectar out of the flowers and the back yard, and I used to make believe she was a princess with a magic traveling crown and all of the flowers were gifts from her to make us happy. Each swirl of colour was a memory of happy moments. Happy are they who are blessed with the power of making happy. #RandolphHarris 3 of 5
Few people have not their secret moments of deep feeling. Many people think that Christmas should not be about gifts and that we should focus on religion. Well, that is a great thought, but those gifts mean so much. My father and grandfather are no longer with us and you see how much joy the Theater of Light brought me because it took me back to a time when I was happy and it seemed that my parents would live forever and I remember the smiles on their faces. Thankfully my mother is still alive. When I was going home on Thanksgiving, one of my neighbors told me, “I wish I could go to my mother’s house, she is no longer with us.” And family is so important. When I was younger, my mother used to tell me to be thankful for the family because the World is full of snakes who will do you wrong and not even think a second thought about it, and I see that it is true. And I met so many cold people and I am kind of a contradiction because I saw that human relationships mean so much more than money, but at the same time I do not want to date or make relationships. I just want to build a career and focus on making money. The human heart is unsearchable. Who is to fathom it? #RandolphHarris 4 of 5
Money is different for people. Some people will burn you and use you for money and after you get used by so many people you no longer want romance or to focus on making friends. Some people just want a successful career so they can buy the things they like. Material possessions will not hurt you like people will. So anyway, the group of reporters and the particular celebrity who loves to make my life hard on me, I hope you are happy and you all deserve whatever you get. Sometimes we may be discouraged because our plans have not worked out, but those closed doors were not an accident. That was God directing our steps. The reason God closed them is because He has something better in store. Thank God for closing doors just as much as for opening doors. I believe and declare those of us who are kind and loving will see the exceeding, abundant, above-and-beyond future that God has in store. God never said that He would prevent life storms, but He did promise He would use every storm for His divine purpose. The human heart is vast enough to contain all the World. #RandolphHarris 5 of 5

The Film Stuck in Love Really Touched my Heart, and Soul
We are all kind of lost at various stages in our lives. People in general attach too much importance to words. They are under the illusion that talking effects great results. As a matter of fact, words are, as a rule, the shallowest portion of all the argument. They but dimly represent the great surging feelings and desires which lie behind. When the distraction of the tongue is removed, the heart listens. Yesterday, I was watching a film called Stuck in Love, and it was basically a true story by first time director Josh Boone, and the producers did not know if they could get financing for the film because it was a romantic drama, but once they plot was looked into many thought the movie would be a big hit because it was a form of cinema therapy. We live in a World that is a great mart, where all things are for sale to one who bids the highest in the currency of their desires. However, true love is the one thing on this Earth you cannot buy. #RandolphHarris 1 of 7
In the Film Stuck in Love, Greg Kinnear plays the role of William Borgens, who was Married to Erica Borgens (Jennifer Connelly), and they had two children Samantha Borgens (lily Collins) and Rusty Borgens (Nat Wolff). However, William fell in love with someone else while he was married to his wife and left her for six months, I suppose he was finding himself, and this caused the divorce and a rift in the family. William is a successful award winning writer, and I think it is possible that his character probably had a nontraditional affair because his wife is everything you would want a woman to be and I cannot understand why he would love her. He got to order the food she likes, pick the books she read and probably even picked out her clothes, but possibly the couple was married at a young age and he realized he was curious? The World is such a wheel-carriage, that it might very properly be called the Whirl’d. #RandolphHarris 2 of 7
Well, anyway, after leaving his wife, Erica, she remarries a younger man, and they live in a fabulous suburban house alone, and the kids live in a three-story beach house with their father William. William wants his children to be writers, so he pays them to write and his daughter who just recently graduates from high school and is in college gets her first book published. Bill’s son Rusty is still a virgin and does not really live life, here is just kind of their until he falls in love with a girl in his class who turns his World inside out. All along, Bill is kind of spying on his wife and praying that she will come back into his life, but everyone keeps telling him he should move on. And I really loved this movie because Bill is the type of father everyone would want and the kids and wife are just so precious and real. This movie made me feel love. Like it awakened my heart and made me realize that there are still people out there who believe in love and that love to many is far more important than money. #RandolphHarris 3 of 7
In itself, each ship is an island, a floating colony of the tribe to which it belongs. As I was watching this movie, I fell in love with the characters. However, you have to remember that they are actors and may not necessarily be the people you are looking for, in a manner of speaking. Many people tend to look up to celebrities and think that they are all kind and loving, but that many not be the case. The World can be ever tyrannical; it wraps our sorrows to edge them with keener affliction. However, what I really liked about stuck in love it is based on a true story and the boy in the film, Rusty Borgens really admired Stephen King and his sister, Samantha Borgens submitted one of his stories to Stephen King, after Rusty underwent a tremendous hardship and Stephen King actually phoned him and complimented him on his work and got his story published, and then Rusty complimented Stephen King on his work and they really bonded and I thought it was amazing because nothing would uplift a person more than one of your role models helping you out and taking the time to have a conversation with you. #RandolphHarris 4 of 7
What I find very impressive about these real-life aspects of this film, also, is the film and the production is full of heart and it has so much truth to it. Josh Boone based a lot of it on his parents’ divorce and he really admired Greg Kinnear and Jennifer Connelly and actually got them to work in his film. You can also tell that Rusty is based on Josh because of the scar by his left eye. Josh grew up in a religious household and was not allowed to read Stephen King and used to tear the covers off of religious books and paste them on to Stephen King books so his parents would not find out. However, his mother found his stash of books and burned them. When Josh was twelve, he wrote Stephen King a letter and told him that he wanted to be a writer when he grows up and send him the Dark Tower books and asked Mr. King to autograph them. #RandolphHarris 5 of 7
Unfortunately, Josh did not know Stephen King’s address, but he knew he lived in Bangor, Mane USA and sent the box of books to Bangor, Mane. A few weeks later he came back to his house from school and he got a package from Stephen King, and Mr. King wrote very inspiring things to him on each book cover and inspired him to write. Josh’s parents were so impressed that they let him read Stephen King books. And I was just really moved by the fact that so many things worked out for Josh in his real life and with the film. He was able to get a lot of the things he wanted, including his favorite actors and even Stephen King was involved in the project. This movie, Stuck in Love, really touched my heart and soul and made me feel good about humanity. It made me, once again, realize that love is real and dreams do come true and that there are good people in the World. #RandolphHarris 6 of 7
The film Stuck in Love ends with the family having a happy Thanksgiving together, and I posted a clip of it and put it on my Twitter accounts with the quote, “This is what I want my life to be like.” And after watching Stuck in Love, I went home for Thanksgiving and was kind of reluctant, but when I got to the door my mother greeted me and said she cooked because I had not been coming home the past year and it was really a nice time. Dinner was ready on time, the evening was peaceful, my sister and Step dad were there and everyone was nice. My sister’s friend told me, “I am so happy to see you. I walk past your apartment and think about your everyday.” As I sat down to have my coffee by the fire, which is adjacent from the family room, I heard my sister’s friend say, “I know he has been having a really hard time.” I also remember her brother passed away at a very young age. This day and move really meant a lot to me and it warmed my heart and today I called my mother and thanked her for dinner. It is the right nature of beauty to work unwitting effects of wonder. Also, thank you to Josh Boone and Judy Cairo for making Stuck in Love, and thank you to all of the actors. #RandolphHarris 7 of 7

Stuck in Love—There is a Dignity in Conscious Virtue

As colours should be as good as nothing if there were no eyes to behold them, so is beauty nothing without the eye of love behold it. You do not know, for you could never learn it from your own heart, which is all purity and rectitude, do not for a moment collapse in on yourself. You do not realize what a vibrant force you are on this Earth. You are not meant for mourning. You are meant for living and for loving. As long as you live, you are paying God tribute. There is so much infelicity in the World, that scarce any individual has leisure from one’s own distresses to estimate that comparative happiness of others. As long as you still love him, you are paying him tribute. Keep hold of that. When you believe, the surpassing greatness of God’s power is released. I believe right now the Creator of the Universe is breathing a second wind into you. Just receive it by faith. Happiness must be something solid and permanent, without fear and without certainty. Strength is coming into your body. Strength is coming into your mind. You will run and not grow weary. #RandolphHarris 1 of 5

Happy are they who are blessed with the power of making happy. You will walk and not faint. You will not drag through life defeated or depressed. You will soar through life on wings like eagles! God is wonderful in His design and excellent in His working. Believer, God overrules all things for your good. The needs-be for all that you have suffered has been most by your Lord. Nothing is more idle than to inquire after happiness, which nature has kindly placed within our reach. Nothing will take God by surprise. There will be no novelties to Him. There will be no occurrences which He did not foresee, and for which, therefore, He has not provided. He has arranged all. And you have but to patiently wait, and you shall sing a song of deliverance. The human heart is so fond of happiness, that we give easy credit to what we wish. The more knowledge an individual has, the better one will do one’s work. It is a common sentence that Knowledge is power; but who hath duly considered or set forth the power of ignorance? Knowledge slowly builds up what Ignorance in an hour pulls down. #RandolphHarris 2 of 5

When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you do not throw away the ticket and jump off the train. You sit still and trust the engineer. Real satisfaction comes not in understanding God’s motives, but in understanding the character of God, trusting God’s promises, and leaning on God and resting in the Lord as the Sovereign who knows what God is doing and does all things well. The individual minds are themselves not substances, but modes of mind (modi mentis) or of infinite thinking substances, which is identified with God. We are both from God and in God (ex Deo et in Deo). To the extent to which we can transcend the distortion forms of our limited understandings and see the enteral truths in ourselves as they are in the mind of God, we lose our status as limited beings and we are one with God. Virtue is not located in deed, but in a determination of the will—that is, in love of reason or, since reason as prescriptive comprises laws imposed by God, in devotion to divine law. In strong and involuntary bias, the heart is conscience. #RandolphHarris 3 of 5

Virtue alone is true honor, true freedom, and solid, durable happiness. Through virtue is one and simple, there are four aspects, and these are cardinal virtues are distinguished from and contrasted with the traditional cardinal virtues, which refer to actions or accomplishments, not to the locus of morality—namely, the condition of the will. Diligence is attention to the voice of reason. Its issue is wisdom and prudence in conduct. Obedience involves compliance with the dictates of reason. Though we are free to will in conformity to divine law or not, in the end we cannot do but what God wills. By obeying his prescriptions, we attain freedom in the highest degree: we will what we can do and do not will what we cannot do, and our volitions are effective. Justice, also, is a determination of the will: to will no more and no less than reason dictates. Humility consists in knowledge, and denial, of self (contemptio sui) in the love of reason and of God. Contrasted with the virtuous man is the egoist, whose end in life is happiness. One is the slave of one’s passions and the creature of circumstance, whereas the virtuous man, not seeking happiness and resigned to what happens to one, is in a position to attain it. #RandolphHarris 4 of 5

Such is the power of virtue over the heart, that even long course of vice will not render us wholly invulnerable to its divine influence. Father God, you are amazing! Thank you that you love me so much that you have not answered certain prayers. You have not allowed certain people into my life whom I really wanted, because they would have limited my growth. I know you are in complete control. There is no power greater than yours. I believe that my steps and my stops are ordered by you. I know just as you can close doors, you will open them. So, I am keeping a good attitude. I am moving forward in faith, knowing that you have my best interests at heart. I believe the reason you close certain doors is because you have something better in store. What is worship? —to do the will of God—that is worship. And what is the will of God?—to do to my fellow humans what I would have my fellow humans to do to me—that is the will of God. As there are virtues that are their own reward, so there are vices which are amply their own punishment. #RandolphHarris 5 of 5
