Straight up, I just want to be your beneficiary. The coincidence of grief and human loss seem to surround so many sudden deaths. The real cost of a deep personal love for another human being can only been seen in the shattering loss that is felt when that love is suddenly and permanently taken away. I have learned not to feel sorry for anyone and to trust my instincts and intuition. People will use others for money and anything they can get from them and when they finally get what they want they will leave you broke, and broken, while they are out taking luxury vacations with friends and eating rich foods and staying in hotel rooms as big as an apartment and pretend they do not even know you. I felt sorry for someone because he always looked miserable and I just wanted to show him a little support for a while and then let him go in hopes that he would feel better, but it became a situation of exploitation, and when he finally got his career back on the ground, he has nothing more to do with me.  #RyanPhillippe 1 of 6

I had worked so hard to support this individual that I ended up getting sick and burning my food and not being able to buy Christmas presents for my family, and not even with enough money to pay my phone bill and with chest pains from all of the problems I went through with this individual. While I was not feeling well, I noticed that I had been eating moldy food and the only reason I noticed is because it tasted funny, and when I turned on the light, I saw my salad had black mold on it and my doughnuts had green mold. So, after a few years of helping this person, my bills increased dramatically, and someone stole my identity and I got a $7,900.00 credit card bill and a $21,000.00 bill from the IRS, which is under investigation. So, my advice to never let someone use you until you are sick and broke. All I can say is there are a reason some heroes are hidden and miserable. And as you have learned, a broke heart can kill.  As you see, Carrie Fisher died, and days later her mother Debbie Reynolds passed away also. #RyanPhillippe 2 of 6

 Many divorced and single people who contribute to the marked increase in cardiovascular death rates not only lack human companionship but also alter their life-styles in a number of ways that contribute to cardiac disease. Many other single and divorced individuals live with other human beings and therefore need not lack either human companionship or love. Furthermore, many individuals listed as married on statistical tables are married in name only. Through excessive dedicated to their jobs or life-styles, many individuals live in a state of complete psychological divorce from their mates. Their lives are essentially devoid of love. From a scientific point of view, therefore, the widow or widower who suddenly loses a loved one presents a far less ambiguous picture than single, divorced, or even certain married individuals. The sudden loss of a loved one abruptly removes human companionship and a source of love from one’s life. At least 50 percent of sudden deaths is usually the departure of the last or only child in the family for college or marriage. #RyanPhillippe 3 of 6

 Other investigators have also noted the link between interpersonal difficulties, depression and sudden death from a coronary hear attack. Loneliness and grief often overwhelm bereaved individuals, and the toll taken on the heart can be clearly seen. As the mortality statistics indicate, this is no myth or romantic fairy tale—all available evidence suggests that people do indeed die of broken hearts. Patients now die of atherosclerosis, ventricular fibrillation, or congestive heart failure brought on by age, damaged hearts and arteries, or poor eating happens. Modern science has recognized the killing potential of human grief, most physicians are also intuitively aware of its lethal power. In these stories the physicians implicitly recognizes the importance of human companionship and the devastating effects of loneliness. For example, a physician-friend once asked me with a great deal of anguish upon the death of his mother-in-law, “How much time do you think my father-in-law has now?” #RyanPhillippe 4 of 6

Most people seem to recognize the medical reality of a broken heart. Many of us who had watched couples who have lived together die coincidentally within a few months. Many of us have had uncles, aunts, cousins, or grandparents who showed the same patterns.  Adding empirical evidence to this intuitive perceptions Doctors Kraus and Lillienfeld were among the first to call attention to the abrupt rise in mortality among widows and widowers, especially in the young widowed group. Carefully examining data published by the National Office of Vital Statistics, they observed that the excessive rick in the widowed under the age of 35, compared to the married, was greater than tenfold for at least one of the specific age-sex groups, involving several leading causes of death, including atherosclerotic heart disease and vascular lesions of the nervous system. Arteriosclerosis is generally thought of as a degenerative disease that can begin in childhood and then usually progresses slowly through life.  #RyanPhillippe 5 of 6

The increased morality among the bereaved is especially high during the first six months after the loss of a loved one. This finding is especially important because it clearly implies that the increase in mortality in widows and widowers is not due to the fact that these individuals are simply too sick to remarry. Most of the increase in sudden deaths occur before there would have been sufficient time to remarry in any event. Strange life mine—rather curious history—not extraordinary, but singular. Tough, huh? Especially when someone keeps breaking your heart on purpose. Any body’s life may be just as romantic and strange and interesting if he or she fails as if he or she succeed. All the difference is, that the last chapter is wanting in the story. Some people saw death as the only escape from an oppressive social climate because they were lonely, alienated, and lacked support from the doomed victim. The social environment as a support to morale is probably much more  important and impressive in a World haunted by fear and massive physiological changes that could abruptly terminate life.  #RyanPhillippe 6 of 6