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Come Out and Play—Robbie the Enchanted Doll

 

 

 

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Psychologist have spent considerable time studying the patterns of Children’s play. This gives them a chance to explore his surroundings and practice manipulating toys and other objects, the learning coordination, enjoyment and creativity, which is tremendously important in a child’s life. Play helps children experience happiness and creativity, but sometimes child’s play can be a very bad thing. The Harris family found a charming Victorian house, in Oakland California and it had a history. Dale was sad that he had to move, so his parents took him to Toys R Us and let him pick out a few toys. “I always wanted a Teddy Ruxbin and that Robbie Doll and the boy My Buddy and Robbie the Enchanted Doll, but my parents would never let me have one and I never knew why?”

 

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Robbie the Enchanted Doll is supposedly cursed has become a fixture of ghost tours since it was inducted into the Fort East Martello Museum. It was rumored that Robbie the Enchanted Doll had human hair. Eugene was given the doll in 1906 by a Bahamian servant who was skilled in black magic and voodoo and was displeased with the family. Soon afterward, the family supposed that there was something eerie about the Robbie doll. Eugene’s parents often heard him talking to the doll and that Robbie the Enchanted doll spoke back. Many assumed that Eugene was simply answering himself in a changed voice, they claimed to have later realized that the doll was actually speaking. Neighbors claimed to have seen the doll moving from window to window when the family was out. Sometimes the Robbie the Enchanted doll would emit a terrifying giggle, and the Otto family caught glimpses of it running from room to room. In the night Eugene would scream, and when his parents ran to the room, they would find furniture knocked over and Eugene in bed…looking incredibly scared, telling them that “Robbie did it!” In addition, guests claim to have seen Robbie the Enchanted Doll’s expression change before their eyes and he often blinked.

 

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When Eugene died in 1974, the doll was left in the attic until the Victorian house was bought again. The new family included a five-ear old boy, Dale, who became Robbie’s the Enchanted Doll’s new possession. It was not long before the boy began screaming out in the night, claiming that Robbie the Enchanted Doll moved about the room… and the boy claims that Robbie the Enchanted Doll even attempted to attack him on multiple occasions, and wanted to kill him. So the parents took Robbie the Enchanted Doll and no one knows what they did with it? Rebecca says they threw that doll in Ocean Beach.

 

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Typically, toddlers have imaginary friends, and that is considered normal. However, as the child grows older and goes to school, the imaginary friends go away. People on social media should be looked at as imaginary friends, do not get attached to them. If they are not helping you, then let them go. Often times, people develop imaginary relationships in their heads, they think they are dating Orlando Bloom, or that if they adore Paris Hilton enough, she will magically descend from the sky, and buy you a cup of coffee. While it is healthy to admire people, it is not healthy to get attached to people online because they may simply string you along and manipulate you, and you have no one to blame, but yourself. Often times, people who you form imaginary friendships and relationships with, know you have feelings about them, and they will subtly manipulate you, so it looks like you are obsessed with them. On the flipside, they make it seem that they have no connection to you, and every time you try to break up with your imaginary friend, they try to make you feel sorry for them. They make take pictures to look sad, or suggest they are going to harm themselves if you move on, but who really knows? Imaginary friends are not real. They may provide companionship, to lonely children, and are someone they can trust. These imaginary friends are simply preparing your children for when they make real friends, then they will have practice and know how to deal with real people.

 

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Imaginary friends give your children a chance to play out relationships, feelings and emotions, in their head, and it is safe because no one is physically getting hurt. Imaginary friends are not necessarily a problem; these friends give you a chance to get to know your kid and their darkest secrets. For example, Dale might say that is imaginary friend Ken does not like to go out at night. Ken does not exist. The fact of the matter is Billy may have a fear of the dark, and he is just using Ken, his imaginary friend, as an excuse, so he does not seem like a baby. Sometimes you have to treat the imaginary friend as they are your child. To further illustrate my point, “Mom, Ken said we get to have Milkshakes and cake today for dinner.” Now, no reasonable parent, unless it is a special occasion, will approve of such a meal. So what you have to do is pretend Ken and real and say, “Ken, that is too much sugar, you and Dale better eat your vegetables, so you both can be strong and healthy.” That way, on a subliminal level, you are letting young Dale know that you know Ken is a figment of his imagination, without hurting Dale’s feelings. After a while, Dale will let go of Ken and make real friends, and you will never hear of Ken again. There is nothing wrong with your child, he may just be shy. As long as his imaginary friend Ken is not hurting him, then that is okay. However, if you are worried and want to speed things up, to exorcise Ken, you need to introduce Billy to real people, and help him have good experiences. Ken may just be there, for Billy, until Billy is not so fearful of the real World.

 

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When Dale gets older, he may remember Ken, and it could become clear to him, why he created this imaginary friend, Ken. Past life regression, some think it is a myth, but I think it is a reality. Some people believe that past life regression is studying a former life, at another space and time, but you are not the same person you were ten years ago, your life and circumstances have changed. So if people bringing up things that happened to you as a child, you are technically experiencing past life regression; you may have moved on, and these may be some very painful memories, and I am not sure why anyone would want to keep bringing up painful experiences? Perhaps some of them are trying to get a clear picture of what happened, and others may be trying to manipulate you? Nonetheless, if you do not want to keep living the same life over and over again, you need to talk to these people and tell them, “I am an adult now, there was a time when those matters should have been investigated, but it is old news and time to move on. That was ten years ago, and the only way I can let go is if you do. If not, I have to let go of you. I am to try and have a normal life and the more you bring the past up, the harder that is.” Not only Dale, but others are tired of the crying, emotions and painful memories too. Nonetheless, if you think your life is hard, try reading Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl by Harriet Ann Jacobs; modern American life is heaven. “I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”

 

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Dale grew up and forgot all about Robbie the Enchanted Doll and Kenny the bad boy, until he graduated from college and tried to get into the field as a reporter. Social media is magical, I love it, but it can also be a source of danger and stress, as you never truly know who you are communicating with or what their intentions are. For all you know, one individual could be a group of people simply toying with you for giggles and amusement. Before long, Dale started having a lot of problems because a photojournalist Kenny, thought it would be fun to play games with his life and make up wild stories about him. After a while, everyone hated Dale and would make fun of hit and attack him and he got seriously hurt because of rumors that Kenny was spreading. Then Kenny took it upon himself to start stalking Dale. One day, on 1 June 2013, Dale opened his door and Kenny was started right there, he quickly shut the door and gave a description of the man at the door to Ian, Ian identified the man as Kenny. Dale was shocked because he had talked to Kenny on social media and looked up to him, but was unsure what Kenny was doing at his door, in the hallway. He blew it off and sent Kenny a nice pair of shoes that Kenny had requested, in exchange for meeting him. However, Kenny never came back to meet Dale, like he had promised, instead Kenny started stalking Dale. Dale would look up, and there would be Kenny in front of his house or waiting on the side of the freeway, holding a sign. No one believed Dale, at first, until they checked the video cameras, in the house, and on the car.

 

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To further confirm that Kenny was a problem and had been stalking Dale, Dale received a letter from Kenny’s employer saying that they were going to have him arrested for cyber stalking Kenny and harassing him. However, everyone is not aware that Kenny had been online harassing Dale, for years. Calling him a demon, tranny, saying that he was inbred and all kind of horrible things, Kenny has an account on thoughts.com called Wirelessguru1, and Kenny claims that he his god and basically is mean or annoys everyone on the site. After years of relentlessly harassment by Kenny, under the guise of wirelessguru1, Dale deleted all 1,500 of his research reports and moved to another site. Because of Kenny’s rumors, an older man invited Dale over for drinks, got him drunk, pushed him to the ground and sodomized him, just to make sure he had a penis. As a result, Dale now has a spine that has been fracture, in two places and was on bed rest for a month.

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Kenny would wake up every morning and leave a nasty comment on Dale’s page, and Dale got fed up because Kenny was stressing Dale out to the point that it was causing health problems, that are well documented by his medical doctor. Dale’s hair was falling out; he could not use the bathroom, even after taking 8 laxatives and drinking two cups of prune juice. So Shannon stepped in and says, “Hey, stay away from him, stay away from the site and just ignore him, so Dale did. At this point, everyone can see that Kenny has a mental problem and is has been going overboard to mess with Dale and even getting other reporters to join in on the fun. Yet, no one is sure of what is going to happen to Kenny, as of now, but it is clear that Kenny needs psychological help. The FBI and the police have been notified about the harassment from Kenny, but there is so much that has happened over the years that I cannot even tell you all in one paper. Nonetheless, Dale’s sister, Rebecca said that Kenny looked like that doll, Robbie the Enchanted, that Dale used to play with as a child, and reminded Dale that often times, art imitates. She also told Dale that she truly believes that Kenny is a demon, in human form and that is why he is so evil.

 

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Kenny has not yet been punished and his employers are even protecting him. Everyone in the community is aware of Dale and knows that a group of people have been harassing him. The moral of the true story is to be careful what you wish you, and do not complain when you get it because at one time, it was exactly what you wanted. However, Kenny has been putting Dale’s life in danger and people are sick of it and the tables are about to turn.