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Babies not only look cute, with their big eyes, chubby cheeks and button noses, their infectious laughs and captivating scent also make them sound and smell cute. Their soft skin and waxen round limbs make them feel cute. Together, these aesthetic qualities act as a crucial mechanism that enables babies to attract us through all our senses. Baides need constant attention to survive, and cuteness is one of the main ways they get it. With our first cries, steps, and words as babies, we were set on the road to manipulation, refining and personalizing our styles as we grew into adulthood. We learned a lot from experts along the way—our parents, brothers and sisters, playmates, and teachers. However, the most effective teacher of manipulation was our fear. It is fun to observe the machination of the person at the office who obsequiously and shamelessly tries to gain someone’s favour by being sycophantic and affecting a subservient attitude, being overly agreeable and flattering to make their way to the top of the corporate ladder, only to be passed over for the BIG PROMOTION by the young Master of Business Administration (MBA) graduate hired just six months earlier, whom the sycophantic had been training. Unless, of course, you happen to be that person! If you are that person, you have spent your career—your whole life—being helpful, ingratiating, pleasing, placating, noncombative, agreeable, and passive. You managed to avoid conflict at all costs—all because you were afraid. You were afraid people would not like you. If you said no, you were afraid someone might be angry with you. You had been so nice, how could such a bad thing happen to you! #RandolphHarris 1 of 24

What about that young MBA graduate you were training who got your promotion? It was quite satisfying when he did not last a year in the job you wanted (Of course, you would never say such a thing at the office). You could see through his feigned personality. You knew he only received the promotion because he had made the boss think that you were incompetent and that the rest of the staff was lazy and needed strong, unwavering discipline and control. The entire office had been reeling from his angry outbursts whenever anything went wrong. Even when nothing was wrong, he was nasty and accusing. Everyone avoided him like the plague. No wonder he finally got fired. He had spent his short career and whole life being angry, blaming everyone but himself for failings, real and imaginary. Like you, he was afraid. However, unlike you, he was afraid that if he was not careful, he might get too close to others, become dependent on them, and get rejected and hurt. He wanted to get them before they got him. However, they got him anyway. He was alone and angry and afraid. A neighbour of his, hearing he was unemployed and looking for a job, stopped by to offer his assistance. Actually, he had been trying to get a chance to ask him out, but had never been able to engage him in a conversation of any length. He was always brusque and in a hurry. Now he had his opportunity. As he knocked on his door, he sensed he was feeling defeated and weak. #RandolphHarris 2 of 24

“I heard you were fired from your job last week and thought you might need cheering up. How about dinner tonight? There’s this great French restaurant downtown. You’ve probably never been there—it’s expensive. Great place. I entertain my clients there quite often. It’s about time you found out how the other half lives. How about it? I’ll pick you up in my new Porsche. You probably know that I’m head of sales now for the whole western division. I’m pretty busy, keeping track of everything. Can’t trust those doltish salesmen; if I turn my back one minute, everything does to hell. But if I can fit you in tonight. Maybe I can give you some pointers on how to keep a job over a night cap at my place.” Slam! The he-man hero neighbour was afraid, too. He had spent his life playing strong and competent, afraid that someone might see how weak and unsure of himself he really felt. “How dare he slam the door in my face!” he thought. “He had his chance and blew it,” he muttered out loud, catching the ear of a middle-aged woman, standing helplessly by her car that had just run out of gas. “Young man, thank heaven you came by just now. My car just stopped. I don’t know what to do. I’m late for my doctor’s appointment, and the car won’t go.” “I’m in a hurry. Maybe your car needs service. When’s the last time you had your oil changed? Let me check under your hood. This looks odd. Must be this whirligig. Looks like the fan belt is loose. You probably burned up your engine. I could fix it, but I don’t have time now. Where do you live?” #RandolphHarris 3 of 24

“A block that way. But it’s such a long block, and I feel faint. Why do these things always happen to me? What can I do now? I don’t know where to get the car fixed.” “You might have to get a new car. I only buy new cars. In the meantime, you ought to call a tow truck and get this heap off the road.” “Can’t you call a tow truck for me? I don’t know how. Besides, I feel faint. I told you I was on my way to the doctor.” This woman is afraid, as well. She is afraid to take responsibility for herself. She wants everyone else to take care of her. She has spent most of her life avoiding responsibility and can only present a litany of complaints—of what is wrong in her life and why she can do nothing to help herself. Each of these people is a manipulator, but none of them is fully conscious of that fact. Their manipulative styles provide them with some measure of success: They are able to avoid what they fear, and they are often able to manipulate others to meet their needs, but their manipulative behaviours defeat their long-term personal goals and their relationships with others. The scenarios above are only slightly exaggerated. As psychologists, we meet people everyday who behave in one or more of these four styles. The first man described above expresses phony love and caring to avoid what he fears: conflict and confrontation. His manipulative formula is “If I’m nice to everyone, avoid fights and anger, everyone will like me. I’ll get what I want, and I won’t get hurt.” He can be described as a Nice Guy, and his behaviour pattern is “pleasing and placating.” #RandolphHarris 4 of 24

The young MBA graduate expresses phony anger because he is afraid of contact and intimacy. His manipulative formula is, “If I blame and attack others frequently, I can reject them before they reject me, and I won’t get hurt.” He is a Judge, and his predominant behaviour pattern is “blaming and attacking.” The man in the third scenario expresses phony strength because he is afraid to be vulnerable. His manipulative formula is “If I am stronger than everyone else, no one can threaten me, and I won’t get hurt.” He is a Dictator, and his main behaviour patten is “controlling and dictating.” And the last woman described above expresses phony weakness because she is afraid that too much will be expected of her. Her manipulative formula is “If I am weak, others will have to help me, and I won’t get hurt.” She is a Weakling, and her primary patten of behaviour is to, “avoid and withdraw.” The caricatures described above, such monikers as “dictator” and “weakling” and all their characteristics, have limitations in helping us to abandon manipulation. Indeed, they are devices useful to describe the intricacies of manipulation, the distinct patterns of manipulative relationships, and they help create awareness of the problem. However, part of the problem of manipulators is that they see themselves and others in just such reductive terms. To help manipulators abandon seeing themselves and others as “things,” we prefer to emphasize manipulative behaviour and action rather than to emphasize manipulative caricatures. If I say that I am a bully, I have no motivation to change—a bully is what I am. However, if I say that I am acting like a bully, I can still be me as I change my bullying behaviour. #RandolphHarris 5 of 24

When we consider the manipulative types, the Judge and the Bully are described as blaming and attacking, the Dictator and the Calculator are described as controlling and dictating, the Weakling and the Clinging Vine are described as avoiding and withdrawing, and the Nice Guy and the Protector are described as pleasing and placating. These terms describe aspects of behaviour, not what might be interpreted as the essence of the person. Manipulators, whether they are functioning the person with the most authority, power, or influence in a group or organization, commanding and imposing, or as less favoured, disadvantaged, complaint and submissive, are not purposely sabotaging their goals and relationships. They are coping, albeit in unsatisfactory and self-defeating ways. As we said before, four basic conditions of every human’s emotional experience are contained in two polarities: Love—Anger, Weakness—Strength. Love and anger are opposites, but are related to each other. Weakness and strength are also opposites, but relate to each other as well. These emotional elements of human experience are also the vehicles by which with authentic love and anger or phony love and anger, with authentic strength and weakness or with phony strength and weakness. When we express our emotions truly, we are authentic. When we express them manipulatively, we are phony. We can recognize others’ phoniness more readily than we can our own. One of the goals we are focusing on is helping you to identity the manipulations you use. The other goal, equally important, is to help you discover the Self that you truly are. Ironically, your true self is as difficult for you to see as is your manipulation. That authentic self you have been mistrusting, that core of your inner being, must be recognized and trusted to overcome your manipulation. #RandolphHarris 6 of 24

Some of your manipulation is a way of life that begun in early childhood and is ingrained so deeply that you can no longer distinguish the unreal mask you wear from your real face behind it. You have the chance to develop an awareness of yourself in the context of interpersonal relations, in learning about yourself and other simultaneously to maximize your potential as well as the potentials of other people in your life. Nonetheless, perhaps the most interesting basis for claims is that of “justice.” Because I believe in God, or because I have always worked, or because I have always been a good citizen—it is but a matter of justice that nothing adverse should happen to me and that things should go my way. Earthly benefits should follow from being good and pious. Evidence to the contrary (evidence that rewards do not necessarily follow virtue) is discarded. If this tendency is presented to a patient, he will usually point out that his feeling of justice also extends to others, that he is just as indignant if injustice is done to others. To some extent this is true, but it merely means that his own need to put his claims on the basis of justice is generalized into a “philosophy.” The emphasis on justice has a reverse side, moreover, which is to make other people responsible for any adversity which overtakes them. Whether a person applies this reverse aspect to himself depends upon the degree of his conscious rightness. If this is rigid, he will—at least consciously—experience every adversity of his as in injustice. However, he will tend more easily to apply the law of “retributive justice” to others: perhaps a person who becomes unemployed did not “really” want to work; perhaps in some way the Democrats are responsible for the persecutions. #RandolphHarris 7 of 24

In more personal matters such an individual feels entitled to receive value for value given. If it were not for two factors which escape his attention. His own positive values assume exaggerated proportions in his mind (good intentions, for instance, are counted among them) while he ignores the difficulties he has brought into a relationship. And in addition, the values put on the scale often are incongruous. An analysand, for instance, may put on his side of the scale his intention to be co-operative, his wish to get rid of disturbing symptoms, his coming and paying regularly. On the analyst’s side of the scale is his obligation to make the patient well. Unfortunately, the two sides of the scale do not balance. If he is willing and able to work himself and to change, only then can the patient get well. So, if the patient’s good intentions are not combined with effective efforts, nothing much will happen. Disturbances keep recurring and the patient, with increasing irritation, will feel cheated; he will present his bill in the form of reproaches or complaints and will feel entirely justified in an increasing distrust of the analyst. The over emphasis on justice may be, but is not necessarily, a camouflage for vindictiveness. When claims are raised primarily on the grounds of a “deal” with life, usually one’s own merits are stressed. The more vindictive claims are, the more the injury done is stressed. Here, too, the injury done must be exaggerated, the feeling for it cultivated, until it looms so large that the “victim” feels entitled to exact any sacrifice or to inflict any punishment. #RandolphHarris 8 of 24

Since claims are crucial for the maintenance of a neurosis, it is of course important to assert them. This applies only toward those directed toward people, because, needless to say, fate and life have a way of deriding any assertion directed toward them. By and large the ways in which the neurotic tries to make others accede to his claims are intimately connected with the basis on which they are put. He can try to impress others with his unique important; he can please, charm, promise; he can put others under obligations and try to cash in by appealing to their sense of fairness or guilt; he can, by emphasizing his suffering, appeal to pity and guilt-feelings; he can, by stressing love for others, appeal to their yearning for love or to their vanity; he can intimidate with irritability and sullenness. The vindictive person, who may ruin others with insatiable claims, tries through hard-hitting accusations to enforce their compliance. Considering all the energies invested in justifying the claims, and in asserting them, we cannot but expect intense reactions to their frustrations. There are undercurrents of fear, but the prevailing response is anger or even rage. This anger is of a peculiar kind. Since the claims are subjectively felt as fair and just, the frustrations are experienced as unfair and unjust. The ensuing anger has therefore the character of a righteous indignation. The person feels, in other words, not only angry but the right to be angry—a feeling which is vigorously defended in analysis. #RandolphHarris 9 of 24

If by living together, as so many couples now do, is to prove socially advantageous, it will do so because it enables men and women to go beyond the novelty of exploring freedom with pleasures of the flesh to the point where they are genuinely caught up in discovering how they feel about each other as individuals, not simply as male and female partners who need each other to engage in pleasures of the flesh. A thirty-six-year-old man named Ryan has been married for thirteen years—and up to five years ago, he was into drinking in a big way. Prior to marrying, he had slept with probably three or four woman—he really cannot remember—all the way from a swinger in Tokyo to a high-school sweetheart. He had his extramarital activity two or three years into the marriage. He and his wife were living in Greenhaven—it was very bohemian then, and he fancied himself some sort of gay blade. So, he decided, he was going to get laid somewhere. And he did. And he kept on doing this for probably eight years. It was very easy—just: “Hi, come on, let’s go. Fine!” Boom. He was twenty-three when he married, his wife was twenty. Marriage was something he just was not prepared to handle then. He was like a child, and it was fun to run away. Each time, he would give himself good reason, “She doesn’t like me, I’m unhappy, we’ll get divorced and all that nonsense.” However, after he stopped smoking marijuana, there was none of that. The reality of responsibility, of commitment, suddenly hit him at that time. When Ryan stopped smoking, he became away of a whole new kind of sober sexuality with his wife, so the extramarital activities sort of went down. #RandolphHarris 10 of 24

Being in bed with his wife and being sober was an incredible experience. However, he believes that they now have entered a stage where they are living apart in a sense, during the week, and he goes home on the weekends—that arrangement seems to be the best for them. Two weeks ago, his wife, for the first time, slept with someone else. She called him and said she was freaked out, and indicated that she really needed him. So he went up there and was really surprised that his attitude was one of wanting to confront her. Instead of throwing a fit, which he would have done in the not-so-distant past, he said, “This is wonderful” because she was upset by her own action. She felt that the experience was—“unclean.” She did not like the guy really; she did not intellectually have anything in common with him, but she was lonely after being married for thirteen years. She claimed not to be aware of Ryan’s activities involving pleasures of the flesh outside of their marriage, but he highly doubts that because he said he was always working, but his status in his career and his salary tells a different story. It is important to be aware that Ryan’s attitudes are more complex than they might seem. Certainly, the procedure of choice at the moment that his wife needed his reassurance was to provide comfort, as he did, particularly in view of his own history of multiple extramarital affairs. In addition, however, if only to protect his relationship with her from which he now obtains valued benefits, since he now finds his wife tremendously more attractive in every respect, he would want to be helpful and supportive. Finally, although he does not acknowledge it, he may be expressing guilt. He could hardly help wondering whether his absence at home was one of the key factors in pushing his wife into having the kind of distasteful extramarital incident that she since described to him, and so some responsibility clearly rests on his shoulders. #RandolphHarris 11 of 24

Whatever Ryan’s real feelings were about his wife’s single act of infidelity, his remark that he found it “wonderful” that she had finally taken this step is characteristic of men who want the scales balanced in some way so that they feel justified in continuing to have outside relationships with pleasures of the flesh. This kind of man, incidentally, is often likely to cajole his wife into taking part in swinging. Characteristically, he thinks of this as a way to do what he wants without feeling guilty—but he often becomes dismayed if he discovers that no matter how reluctant his wife may have been to engage in such activities, she may very well find it more rewarding than he himself does. At that point, he is only too eager to terminate the experiment. When I feel smashed or trapped or bound or pushed, it is helpful to me to ask myself, “What illusion is fouling me up now?” The illusion is what I think about something. The facts just are. I know this most clearly through reflecting on what happens in emergencies when “there is no time to think.” If I think about it, I am lost—either I am paralyzed and can do nothing else I move and do the wrong thing. However, if respond to what is the objective view—as seen by others, or by myself seeing me after the fact, or after the reality. That is all it means: I am seen as an object. Subjectively, there is no “I” and everything is just happening. This is experience to me. As soon as “I” returns there is thinking about—or when thinking about returns, there is “I”—and experiencing is lost. #RandolphHarris 12 of 24

It is sometimes worthwhile for me to think about, but when I am aware that it does shut out the experiencing which is life itself—gentle love, interest, and many happenings—then I become more discriminating. I ask myself if this thinking-about is before or after. If it is before, then it is fantasy—like my thinking about Doctors A and X. If it is after, then I ask myself if it serves a useful purpose. Usually, I discover that it serves only ego, assuring me of the cleverness of “I.” There is not a darned thing I can do with it except use it to impress others and myself. This becomes ridiculous. Is it life to go about impressing others and myself? It may come as a surprise to ego, but in this imagery ego is servant and the inner is the master. With ego= I, it seems to me necessary to be clear which I is me. Is “the inner” less myself? Or more? When I picked up servicemen in spite of warnings not to do so, I felt that “someone else” has put my foot on the brake to stop for them, However, that “someone else” was very much me—in opposition to the value that others were emphasizing, which I felt that I should be practical and accept. At that time, this was my “inner” because I had the “outer” too. However, when I let the inner act through me, then it became my outer too and I matched. No split. No separation. No conflict. I was whole. Ego-I/intellect stopped the car and then drove it on in this World, but the knowing of that World dictated when to stop, and when to drive on. Ego is just fine when it acts as my chauffeur. #RandolphHarris 13 of 24

It seems to me that his half-I/ego/intellect is my small mind, or the small part of my mind, behind my forehead—which I think of as my “intellect” because I can do things with it. Real-I simply is and does—acts through me. When this happens, I have no choice because there is only one thing (at this moment) that I want to do. No decisions. I feel then that I am living within a snowflake pattern, myself moving through the center, all things in place around me in a beautiful design. No collisions—within me or with the outside World. I feel like a smoothly spinning top which touches an obstacle lightly and glides away, without damage to either the top or the obstacle. It feels good to have some understanding of myself, of what goes on in me. I can get into an argument (conflict) within my intellect, but this is really between other people entirely. It has nothing to do with me. I can also get into an argument between my intellect (other people in me) and me. When I accept the me, then intellect falls back into its proper place, carrying out my wishes which are identical with those of the spirit in all of us. I think it is the proper function of my intellect to be practical, to enable me to get around and do things in the service of myself and all of us. The error comes in when my intellect makes the first decision, which it can only do “practically” in the service of itself and what it sees as its possession. The original meaning of “sin” is to “miss the mark” and it seems to me that this is the way in which I miss it. I have the feeling of hitting the mark when I move through the center of the snowflake pattern—the bull’s eye. #RandolphHarris 14 of 24

The prevailing concept of the ideal body is adopted by most people as their personal body-ideal. This is the source of many somatic concerns. The most common difficulty people have with their appearance in America is being above average weight. This is also a health problem, for overweight people are more susceptible to disease than thinner people. However, the cosmetic aspects of obesity are just as acutely worried about as the physical health aspects. America is one of the few countries in the World where being above average weight is a public health problem, where food is abundant, but a slender body is cultural value. Some people seem unable to maintain their caloric intake at a level that will enable them to lose weight, and other times it is a medical condition that causes people to gain weight rapidly and makes it hard to burn off. Medication can also cause weight again, as well as injury. When a person wants to stop some behaviour pattern but finds that will power is ineffective, it is evidence that unconscious motives of great strength lie behind the behaviour. Sometimes the overweight person is overeating for reasons other than hunger. Clinical studies of chronically overweight people have show that they may have unhealthy personalities. They may, for example, be unable to derive satisfaction from their work. They may be starved for love. Rather than live with no “highs,” they resort to a very primitive type of satisfaction—that provided by a rich meal. Some obese persons are not unlike chronic alcoholics in that they are addicted to a practice that harms them at the same time that it relieves anxiety and provides immediate gratification. Like alcoholics, some obese person might make daily renewed vows to “taper off,” but they never seem to achieve this end. #RandolphHarris 15 of 24

In some cities, groups of obese people—Weight Watchers—organize as do the members of Alcoholics Anonymous; they are all dedicated to the aim of reducing, and they lend each other moral support in adhering to reducing diets. Such groups are probably the most effective means for achieving and maintaining a weight loss. However, unless the conditions, medical or psychological, responsible for the excessive appetite are removed, persons will be obliged to remain dependent upon their group membership in order to preserve their weight loss once it has been achieved. This is not an unhealthy dependency. The intellect is only the totality of transient thoughts; it is not a separate and self-existent thinker.  The telephone operator in a business who attempted to manage all the departments of that business independently of the chief executive would be a usurper. The intellect is the telephone operator of our psyche and undertakes more than it is really capable of when it undertakes to decry the Soul. The intellect’s desire for total explanations of the Universe is impossible to satisfy, save with self-deception. The intellect produces thoughts without weariness. It looks for change instead of looking inside itself for its originator. To start with the data and come to the conclusion, joining the two by a series of logical steps, is the way of ratiocinating intellect. However, we need to guard against inaccuracy of thought and speech as well as against narrowness of mind and feeling. Kant saw how the mind forms its ideas under definitely limited conditions, and how it cannot help but do so, and that these ideas are merely the best it can produce under those conditions, not at all the truest ones. #RandolphHarris 16 of 24

Good leaders strive to leave an organization better than they found it and expect other leaders throughout the Sacramento Fire Department to do the same. You can create a beneficial organizational climate, prepare yourself to do well in your own duties, and help others to perform well. As good leaders, members of the Sacramento Fire Department look ahead and prepare talented firefighters and EMTs to assume positions with greater leadership responsibility in their organizations and in future assignments. The firefighter or EMT who develops people and the organization with a long-term perspective possess the following three competencies: Creates a welcoming environment. Seeks self-improvement. Invests adequate time and effort to developing individual subordinates and building effective teams. “There are times, no doubt about it, that we are knocking our heads against the wall. We speak with politicians about the fire safety of our citizens, and sometimes we get nothing in return. We know that politicians know that sprinkler systems work, that two people or more have never, ever dined in a building that is equipped with an operational sprinkler system. Yet the politicians are in the pockets of the real estate and building construction moguls who know that sprinkler installation increases their costs and diminishes their profits, and so we have hardly any residential sprinkler laws in the country, which really would have helped with the fires in Southern California. It is shameful. #RandolphHarris 17 of 24

“But then we live in a crass, statistical World, where the eight thousand or so people who are killed in firs each year are perhaps less important than the drain on our economy that would be created by reduced building profits. Pass along the costs to the consumer? It will never happen in a competitive real estate market. Sprinklers must be mandated by law by enlightened politicians. Still, our heads beat against the bricks. There are so many serious problems to be solved in the country, and we firefighters are only a one-issues lobby. And our issue is very costly. The problem of drug abuse, AIDS, illiteracy, homelessness are profound domestic challenges and good argument can be made that these issues can take priority over the problem of fire safety. The great difference is, however, that we know the answer to the fire problem. Put sprinklers in all of our shelters and we will save eight thousand lives a year. Until that happens, America’s firefighters will continue to risk their future and their families’ futures by running into a burning building where the fire is growing out of control. And they will fight those fires uncomplainingly, knowing all the while that they have been compromised by politicians.” We make the mistake of looking for a philosophical system that will confirm our preconceived beliefs and views. How few are really and sincerely seeking to establish truth; how many seek rather to establish victory. They can point out the errors in other people’s conclusions, opinions, and beliefs, but are blind to the errors their own. “Against stupidity the gods themselves strive unvictorious.” –Schiller. #RandolphHarris 18 of 24

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to outrun the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 19 of 24

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 20 of 24

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 21 of 24

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. As an incentive to buy American made cars, President Trump plans to made interest on loans for American cars tax deductible. Americans surely make superior products, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 22 of 24

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 23 of 24

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 24 of 24

The Winchester Mystery House

Experience an unforgettable journey back to the time of kings and queens with this entry ticket for The Winchester Mansion in Santa Clara, California which was the residence of Sarah L. Winchester. Take advantage of this fascinating experience. After tour, there will be time enjoy the mansion’s splendor at your own pace. You might even discover secret passages.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion.

For further information about tours, including group tours, weddings, school events, birthday party packages, facility rentals, and special events please visit the website: https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Please visit the online giftshop, and purchase a gift for friends and relatives as well as a special memento of The Winchester Mystery House. A variety of souvenirs and gifts are available to purchase. https://shopwinchestermysteryhouse.com/

We wish to express our gratitude to our families and friends and to our many associates and clients, whose lives touched our lives and whose ideas helped us to grow. We would also like to thank our employees and care takers for putting the technical ideas of this estate into conversational style, and we are, of course, extremely thank to all of our patrons for helping to keep the legacy of the Winchester Family alive. The Winchester Mystery House is full of surprises. What was your favorite, “Oooh!” moment during your visit at the mansion? (And for those of you who still have to check it off your bucket list… we will hopefully see you soon.)  https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

The Masters Calculate, at a Usurious Rate, the Price of their Own Blood

As far as America is concerned, those political parities that put their selfish interest first during this national security crisis, ahead of the Republic, are primarily to blame for the intermezzo of chaos, corruption, inflation, debt, and crime wave. That our people are not used to thinking in terms of foreign policy can be seen best by state of the nation. Manipulation of the masses is the only way to control people’s inevitable irrationality. The truth is that we are all manipulators some of the time. We all use deceptive means to get the particular response we want from another person. Uncertain that we are acceptable as we truly are, we try to convince others by being who we think they want to see; we don the mask of the manipulator. For some of us, the mask is sinister. It is the mask of the person with the most authority, power, or influence in a group or organization, and we use it to play tough, judgmental, overbearing, or mean. For the rest of us, the mask is angelic. It is the mask of a person who has little status in society, and we use it to play helpless, protective, gullible, or adoring. As manipulators, we refuse to allow ourselves to be who we are. At the same time, we refuse to allow others to be who they are. Instead, we get stuck and stay stuck in unsatisfying relationships. We document errors as they are encountered, but the process of documentation soon becomes overwhelming. #RandolphHarris 1 of 27

Learning about yourself is interesting, but it is useless unless you can apply what you learn to your relationships with others. Likewise, improving your relations with others is almost impossible to do without first improving your sense of self. Thoughts, feelings, actions, and bodily sensations can be summarized as four basic conditions of human experience on two polarities. Love opposing anger, and strength opposing weakness. Or anger opposing love, and weakness opposing strength. Like everyone else, you are capable of both love and anger, and you are strong as well as weak. Love is not better than anger, and strength is not better than weakness. They are simply conditions of your existence, opposing forces in your make-up. However, the polarities of love and anger, weakness and strength, have a great deal to do with your manipulation, and they will play a major role in your overcoming them. When a slave rebels against his master, the situation presented is one of man pitted against another, under a cruel sky, far from the exalted realms of principles. The final result is merely the murder of a man. The servile rebellions, peasants rising, beggar outbreaks, rustic revolts, all advance the concept of a principle of equality, a life for a life, which despite every kind of mystification and audacity will always be found in the purest manifestations of the revolutionary spirit—the terror attack of America in 2001, for example. #RandolphHarris 2 of 27

Spartacus’ rebellion, which took place as the ancient World was coming to an end, a few decades before the Christian era, is an excellent illustration of this point. First, we note that this is a rebellion of gladiators—that is to say, of slaves consecrated to a single combat and condemned, for the delectation of their masters, to kill or be killed. Beginning with seventy men, this rebellion ended with an army of seventy thousand insurgents, which crushed the best Roman legions and advanced through Italy to march on the Eternal City itself. However, this rebellion introduced no new principle into Roman life. The proclamation issued by Spartacus goes no father than to offer “equal rights” to the slaves. The transition from fact to right, is, indeed, the only logical acquisition that one can find on this level of rebellion. The insurgent rejects slavery and affirms his equality with his master. He wants to be master in his turn. Spartacus’ rebellion is a continual illustration of this principle of positive claims. The slave army liberates the slaves and immediately hands over their former masters to them in bondage. According to one tradition, of doubtful veracity it is true, gladiatorial combats were even organized between several hundred Roman citizens, while the slaves sat in the grandstands delirious with joy and excitement. However, to kill men leads to nothing but killing more men. For one principle to triumph, another principle must be overthrown. #RandolphHarris 3 of 27

The city of light of which Spartacus dreamed could only have been built on the ruins of eternal Rome, of its institutions and of its gods. Spartacus’ army marches to lay siege to a Rome paralyzed with fear at the prospect of having to pay for its crimes. At the decisive moment, however, within sight of the sacred walls, the army halts and wavers, as if it were retreating before the principles, the institutions, the city of the gods. When these had been destroyed, what could be put in their place except the brutal desire for justice, the wounded and exacerbated love that until this moment had kept these wretches on their feet. In any case, the army retreated without having fought, and then made the curious move of deciding to return to the place where the slave rebellion originated to retrace the long road of its victories and to return to Sicily. It was as though these outcasts, forever alone and helpless before the great takes that awaited them and too daunted to assail the Heavens, returned to what was purest and most heartening in their history, to the land of their first awakening, where it was easy and right to die. Then began their defeat and martyrdom. Before the last battle, Spartacus crucified a Roman citizen to show his men the fate that was in store for them. During the battle, Spartacus himself tried with frenzied determination, the symbolism of which is obvious, to reach Crassus, who was commanding the Roman legions. #RandolphHarris 4 of 27

Spartacus wanted to perish, but in a single combat with the man who symbolized, at that moment, every Roman master; it was his dearest wish to die, but in absolute equality. He did not reach Crassus: principles wage war at a distance and the Roman general kept himself apart. Spartacus died, as he wished, but at the hands of mercenaries, slaves like himself, who killed their own freedom with his. In revenge for the one crucified citizen, Crassus crucified thousands of slaves. The six thousand crosses which, after such a just rebellion, staked out the road from Capua to Rome demonstrated to the servile crowd that there is no equality in the World of power and that the masters calculate, at a usurious rate the price of their own blood. The cross is also Christ’s punishment. One might imagine that He chose a slave’s punishment, a few years later, only so as to reduce the enormous distance that henceforth would separate humiliated humanity from the implacable face of the Master. He intercedes, He submits to the most extreme injustice so that rebellion shall not divined the World in two, so that suffering will also light the way to Heaven and preserve it from the curses of mankind. What is astonishing in the fact that the revolutionary spirit, when it wanted to affirm the separation of Heaven and Earth, should begin by disembodying the divinity by killing His representatives on Earth? In certain aspects, the period of rebellions comes to an end in 1793, and revolutionary times begin—on a scaffold.  #RandolphHarris 5 of 27

Because we believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honouring, and sustaining the law, we support military service. We believe that governments were instituted of God for the benefit of man; and that He holds men accountable for their action in relation to them, both in making laws and administering them, for the good and safety of society. America must not be manipulated into being the victim of its own defaults. Seldom did Heaven’s judgment follow the act of sinning as rapidly as in case of Democratic leaders and federal judges. The same parties, which have placed their own interest above the Republic, to complain to the voting masses about the potential losses of the individual States’ sovereign rights and financial assistance for not upholding federal law, are witnessing without exception how they have overbid their power in fulfillment whose final consequences naturally have led to profound altercations in internal America, due to their matchless hypocrisy. It is unbelievable hypocrisy for the representatives of these different states to complain because they are flustered by the disasters they have created, when it was clear all along that the consequences of their illegal actions would lead to far-reaching internal changes in America. They may retard, but they cannot stop the revolutions of history. #RandolphHarris 6 of 27

Neurogeographical location determines the stage of neuroevolution. If you could voyage around the brain, you would find that where you are determines what you are doing and thinking. If you are in the mid-brain, you expect everyone to be running around concerned with mid-brain functions—territoriality. We expect the Mid-East to be involved in mid-brain functions—and they are Arab-Zionist mammalian competition. When you trip South to the African cortex, you expect nonlogical, intuitive, magical thinking—and that is what you will find. When you climb up to the left-frontal lobe, you expect to find concern with the future—and that is what we find in America. The passengers on the Mayflower were not stern, straightlaced, middle-aged religious zealots. The stuffy ones were Puritans, and they remained in Britain, protesting what they considered to be the liberal ways of the Church of England. The pilgrims were mostly young Elizabethans in their twenties and thirties. They wore colourful clothes, not those black hats and gray gowns you see in the paintings. They enjoyed good times, including the imbibing of strong spirits and the telling of bawdy stories. Not only did they believe in a simple form of worship without trappings and fanfare; they also believed strongly in individual freedom and—here is an important part of their success story—they became devoted capitalist two years after their arrival at Plymouth Rock. #RandolphHarris 7 of 27

On the ninth day, they rounded the tip of Provincetown and the Mayflower, dropped anchor in Cape Cod Bay; the Pilgrims sat down together and drafted the first written covenant calling for civil self-government and individual freedom. Independence was born. It was the forerunner of the United States Constitution. It was the Mayflower Compact. Because the Pilgrims had not possessed enough money to rent and provision the Mayflower for its lengthy voyage, they financed their trip with the profit-seeking British businessmen. The Pilgrims agreed to work for the profit of a joint stock company. They were to invest their labour, and share in the profits. The London merchants were to invest their money and also shared in the profits. It was the night independence was born. Each Pilgrim received a share of stock. Everything that was produced was to go into a common fund. At the end of seven years, they were to sell whatever was left, beyond the necessities of living, and divide the proceeds according to the distribution of the shares of stock. The British investors had demanded a communal setup in the New World. It would make the distribution of profits and land much more convenient at the end of the seven years of the contract. And though war and acts of terrorism have raged on the Earth since the days of Cain, “the Lord will extend His hand a second time to recover the remnant of His people,” reports Isaiah 11.11. #RandolphHarris 8 of 27

The intellect which changes hour by hour has no existence in the absolute sense. And it surely does not represent the ultimate possibility of experience. Thus, one can stop its movement for a time through profound meditation and be then aware of a deeper level of mind whence all these intellectual changes spring up but which is itself relatively unchanging. How to know whether this deeper level is worthy to be called enduring reality is a questions that is beyond most mystics. Humanity is discovering that it cannot solve its old problems in the old way—the logical thing to do is to try a new way. In an age of materialistic intellect and materialistic religion such as ours, that nee ways must consist of turning towards a spiritualized intellect and a spiritualized religion. The first step for the intellect to take is humility; the first step for the religious feeling to take is obedience. The intellect must sink down in the self-abasement of constant prayer to the Higher Power; the religious feeling must obey sincerely and honestly the admonitions given it by the great prophets. The intellect must no longer go on deceiving itself and the religious feeling must no longer go on deceiving God. The intellect has to become baffled and exhausted by its own activity in search of the Overself, must despairingly know that it has no possible chance of ever knowing the truth by its own self-defeating procedures, must realize that it is running round and round in a circle, and must finally abandon the effort altogether. #RandolphHarris 9 of 27

At this very point, a great opportunity awaits the seeker, but it is also here that so many go off at a tangent and miss their chance. Either they label the quest futile and illusory, losing further interest, or they take shelter in a hierarchical religious organization which imposes strict principles and demands complete submission to its authoritarian rule. The intellect can never stop asking questions. It has millions always in reserve. However, in the end, there is only one important question. So why not ask it in the beginning and save this long circular detour? When logic fails, men often betake themselves to occult, mystic, and even primitive paths. If the end is to sublimate thinking altogether, why go on collecting more and more thoughts from teachers and traditions—all outside one’s self? How haughty the intellect may become. It does not understand that there is an invisible circle around it labelled “Pass Not!” However, those who believe that “love” solves everything, that “love” entitles one to everything, must then exaggerate the depth or the value of love—not by way of conscious pretense but by actually feeling more love than there is. The necessity to exaggerate often has repercussions which may contribute to building a vicious circle. This is particularly true for claims put on the grounds of helplessness and suffering. #RandolphHarris 10 of 27

Many people, for instance, feel too timid to make inquires by telephone. If the claim is made that somebody else make the inquiry for him, the person concerned feels his inhibitions greater than they actually are in order to validate them. If a woman feels too depressed or helpless to do her housekeeping, she will make herself feel more helpless or more depressed than she is—and then will in fact suffer more. One should not, however, come to the hasty conclusion that it is desirable for others of the environment not to accede to neurotic claims. Both the acceding and the refusing can make the condition worse—that is, in both cases the claims may become more emphatic. Only if the neurotic has begun or is beginning to assume responsibility for himself, refusing usually helps. “I was married when I was twenty-one, right out of college, to a boy I thought I was in love with—just the person I thought was good for me and whom I thought I could make very happy. But from the first moment that we experienced any privacy, I was unhappy. I think I married too young, but I also felt, as soon as I had lived with him for a while, that he just wasn’t for me. But I managed to pretend—we lived together for four years, very miserably, not enjoying any kind of sexual life. And then, quite accidentally, a few months ago I met a man—really a boy—and I started having an affair with him. #RandolphHarris 11 of 27

“At the beginning I used to enjoy sleeping with him, because I felt that I was pleasing somebody and I was with somebody who was also pleasing me. Besides, it was illicit and exciting and very transient. But recently I broke it off because it began to dissatisfy me. It turned out that the fact that it was extramarital had no meaning for me. I mean, for years I felt guilty about wanting to sleep with another man, even though I never did. When I finally did it, I didn’t the feel guilty I expected. I just felt that I had gotten married too young and I didn’t like being tied down. Right now, I think a lack of emotional motivation has made it impossible for me to enjoy sex with my husband. Until recently, my husband had been committed to me, but he is very, very distressed at the fact that I’m not satisfied with him. I mean, whatever I tried to hide came through in bed, and there’s just no hiding anything there, I guess.” There is nothing more harmful than the idea that poor relationships involving pleasures of the flesh can be “cured” by learning techniques from a book or the Internet. Nothing good is going to happen in bed between a husband and wife, unless good things have been happening between them before they got into bed. There is no way for a good technique of intimate passions to remedy a poor emotional relationship. For a man and a woman, to be delighted with each other in bed, both must want to be in that bed—with each other. #RandolphHarris 12 of 27

Many young women of this generation are females in transition. They believe, intellectually at least, in their right to pleasure in regards to pleasures of the flesh—but they do not know how to go about discovering it. This is because, they are not fully sure of who they are. Their early encounters with pleasures of the flesh illustrate this point. These woman are able to function physically, apparently without too much guilt, but they have never learned to function emotionally—that is, they have never felt free or secure enough to be able to try to find out why pleasures of the flesh consistently prove to be emotionally unrewarding. These woman are sufficiently emancipated to engage in pleasures of the flesh but they are still prisoners of the past in the sense that they believe that their satisfaction with pleasures of the flesh is something that would happen all by itself, and that it was up to the young man to supply it. From listening to these stories, one things that has become obvious to me is that much like men, these women were initially attracted to their husbands because of his physical appearance. Perhaps he became less appealing to her because he put on weight and that caused her to lose interest. Love is very complex. However, it is clear that men and women like certain body images. That would explain why she had an affair with a man she found visually appealing. #RandolphHarris 13 of 27

With her husband, she was, at first, physically aroused by his presence, which means simply that he stood for something that she found pleasing, but it may not have just been his physical appearance, it could have been a combination of his physical appearance and his social attributes. Her excitement, therefore, was almost completely a reflection of her romanticized notion of what she thought that he represented. However, the failure of her relationship is also partly her fault because she failed to communicate with him in such a way that they either improved the satisfactions of their total relationship, including pleasures of the flesh, or ended their marriage. Many young women today are living—or trying to live—in accordance with two conflicting and often contradictory sets of rules. One set refers to the traditional relationship of a man and a woman. A woman chooses as a husband the man who makes the best possible match that she can hope for; she judges this by his background, his education, his family, his ambitions, and it may even include her estimate of him as a potential father. Perhaps where contemporary relationships have gone wrong is they see pleasures of the flesh as something they should do for fun, not just procreation, and this becomes the bedrock on which many marriages must stand or fall. Companionship is totally lost. Many young women today believe this intellectually but have yet to translate it into emotional terms. #RandolphHarris 14 of 27

No matter how confident people are in their relationships, at first, the ground under them will still be quaking because they have not achieved the kind of physical relationship that holds the promise of rewarding them both. This also has to do with feelings. When people remove themselves from the illusions, then they live with the actuality alone, and when the actuality changes, they change with it, responding to things as they are. What actually happens is there is nothing to hold them together. It is a lot like two men dating and because they cannot have kids, they lose their common bond. When relationships are based on lust and pleasures of the flesh, without a children birth, there is less to solidify the relationship, unless it has been long-term and the couple has acquired a lot of assets. This makes an entirely different social situation, and it could be said that you cannot change a whole society. We say that of ourselves, but at the same time we impose our concepts on others and make their societies change. If we removed these concepts from ourselves, what would happen? Is it kindness and “sympathy” to be distressed about others? Or is it as unkind, in its effect on others, as to be cold? It seems to me necessary that we get beyond both and arrive at caring without disturbance. Some people are made to feel unperceptive, unsympathetic, like a barbarian, lacking in decent human feeling when they should be distressed. So, when you make yourself distressed—you will come to see it their way, not your own. #RandolphHarris 15 of 27

However, others will tell you that you should not be distressed—“Do not be emotional!”—and sometimes these contradictory command come to a person from the same individual, at different times. You are expected to be whatever the other person was, in relation to any particular set of circumstances, and at the time, you may not realize this, and it can be very confusing to you that when you do what you are being told to do, you get rebuked for it and told that you “should be” that other way. Best not to worry about direction at all. Just be. Direction is already there. When you are being your authentic self, your caring will be present, and your not-caring will be present too, It is neither and both—just as a blue light washes out both a yellow light and itself and makes a white light, and yellow and blue paint mixed together become a green which contains both but is neither. However, you cannot mix your caring and not-caring. You have to throw out both, and what remains is what you want, the reality of you. No illusions. When you feel smashed or trapped or bound or pushed, it is helpful to ask yourself, “What illusion is fouling me up now?” The illusion is what you think about something. The facts just are. Winning or losing, the script is a way to structure the time between the first Hello and the last Good-by at the grave. #RandolphHarris 16 of 27

This life time is emptied and filled by not doing and doing; by never doing, always doing, not doing before, not doing after, doing over and over and over, and doing until there is nothing left to do. This gives rise to “Never” and “Always,” “Until” and “After,” “Over and Over,” and “Open-Ended scripts. These are best understood by reference to Greek myths, since the Greeks had a strong feeling for such things. “Never” scripts are represented by Tantalus, who through all eternity was to suffer from hunger and thirst in sight of food and water, but never to eat or drink again. People with such scripts are forbidden by their parents to do the things they most want to, and so spend their lives being tantalized and surrounded by temptations. They go along with the Parental curse because the Child in them is afraid of the things they want the most, so they are really tantalizing themselves. Some intellectuals have too many questions, give up in the end and turn agnostic or join the Catholic Church or, like Hume, spend the rest of their years shallowly. Unless intellectual thinking understands its own limitations and therefore knows when to stop its own activity, it will not lead man to truth but mislead him. However, if and when it is willing to deny itself at the correct time, it will allow intuitive thinking to be born and that will lead him still nearer to the goal. The same man at different times of his life may hold different views. It is unrealistic to demand that everyone should be consistent throughout the course of a lifetime. #RandolphHarris 17 of 27

Projecting confidence on the job and other situations requires moral courage. While physical courage allows that Sacramento Fire Department to defend their ground, even when the fire is blazing out of control and time is running critically short, moral courage empowers these leaders to stand firm on their values, principles, and convictions in the same situation. As a leader with moral courage, members of the Sacramento Fire Department take full responsibility for their decisions and actions. They are willing to critically look inside themselves, consider new ideas, and change what caused failure. Moral courage is fundamental to living the Sacramento Fire Department’s Values of integrity and honour. It does not take long for a team member to become suspicious of a leader who acts confident but does not have the competence to back it up. Having the appropriate levels of domain knowledge is vital for a firefighter, in turn, to display confidence through their attitudes, actions, and words. Leading by example demands that the Sacramento Fire Department stays aware of how their guidance and plans are executed. They cannot remain in safe, dry headquarters, designing complex plans without examining what their team members and civilians are experiencing. They have to courage to get out where the action is, whether it is in a burning building or a forest fire. #RandolphHarris 18 of 27

The Sacramento Fire Department, connects with the community by sharing hardships and communicating openly to clearly see and feel what does on from the public’s perspective. True warrior leaders lead from the front and share the experience of their community. Seeing and feeling the plan transform into action empowers the Sacramento Fire Department to better assess the situation and influence the execution by their immediate presence. If they stay a safe distance from the front, they risk destroying their communities trust and confidence. Competent leadership and communication are what allows the Sacramento Fire Department to get results. Although communication is usually viewed as a process of providing information, communication as a competency involves more than the simple transmission of information. The Sacramento Fire Department understands that communication needs to achieve a new understanding. They create new or better awareness because communication is critical information and being presented in a clear fashion is important to reaching a shared understanding of issues and solutions. It is by conveying thoughts, presenting recommendations, bridging cultural sensitivities, and reaching consensus that they are able to achieve success. The Sacramento Fire Department knows that they cannot lead, supervise, build teams, counsel, coach, or mentor without the ability to communicate clearly. #RandolphHarris 19 of 27

“When I married my wife, I was a cement finisher. On my time off, I’d always go to the firehouse. At the time her father was a fire lieutenant in that area. But I met my wife through her brothers. I went to high school with them. Also, her father knew my father. We got married shortly before I was called for the city ambulance job, and then, nine months later, I was called to be a fireman. She had a complete understanding of the fire department. She knew how to accept me coming home tired, or me going out and watching baseball with the guys after being up all night. She knew how to handle it pretty well, until I got injured. We have two children. Our daughter is ten, and our son is eight. Our son goes to Catholic school a block away from our house. His teacher told the kids, ‘Bring a picture of someone helping someone.’ I happened to have a picture of myself when I carried a woman out of a building, and, since there was no ambulance there, I was giving her oxygen. My son took the picture and gave it to his teacher, saying proudly, ‘That’s my dad.” So he’s proud of what I do, and I want to keep it that way. Would I want him to be a fireman? Sure. But I’m not going to press it into his head. I had a pair of fire boots that were given to me when I was seven years old. I saved them for him, and he’s got them now. He’s got his own fire helmet and his own fire coat. But I’m not going to force it on him. My daughter is an easygoing, loving person, like my wife. Happy-got-lucky. She likes school. #RandolphHarris 20 of 27

“I’m a God-fearing person. There are certain standards I live by. My wife and I don’t go to church every Sunday, but we make our kids go. We try to set an example for them. We’re sending them to parochial school, so they can learn religion, discipline, and certain things about life they wouldn’t learn at a public school. That’s why I work two jobs—to send them to a Catholic school. I don’t care if I have to pay, and I’m going to feel the same way about college. My second job was as a cement finisher, until I got burned. After that, being in the sun a lot wasn’t too good for my skin. There was a chief in the department who was retiring. He was fire marshal and safety instructor at a hospital. I’m state-certified as an instructor, so I asked him if he ever needed help to let me know. Two months later he called me and said the job was open. It’s a part-time job, and only five minutes from home. I give monthly classes on fire safety to all the employees. I enjoy giving these classes, and I really get into it. They had taken pictures of me the night I went into the burn center. I got the slides, telling the head nurse at the hospital that the only thing I wanted them for was to teach people what can happen when you get burned. You can feel more confident trying to teach someone something, when you’ve been there.” Our safety lies in repentance. Our strength comes of obedience to the commandments of God. #RandolphHarris 21 of 27

 One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to outrun the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 22 of 27

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 23 of 27

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 24 of 27

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. As an incentive to buy American made cars, President Trump plans to made interest on loans for American cars tax deductible. Americans surely make superior products, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 25 of 27

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 26 of 27

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 27 of 27

The Winchester Mystery House

Experience an unforgettable journey back to the time of kings and queens with this entry ticket for The Winchester Mansion in Santa Clara, California which was the residence of Sarah L. Winchester. Take advantage of this fascinating experience. After tour, there will be time enjoy the mansion’s splendor at your own pace. You might even discover secret passages.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion.

For further information about tours, including group tours, weddings, school events, birthday party packages, facility rentals, and special events please visit the website: https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

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We wish to express our gratitude to our families and friends and to our many associates and clients, whose lives touched our lives and whose ideas helped us to grow. We would also like to thank our employees and care takers for putting the technical ideas of this estate into conversational style, and we are, of course, extremely thank to all of our patrons for helping to keep the legacy of the Winchester Family alive. The Winchester Mystery House is full of surprises. What was your favorite, “Oooh!” moment during your visit at the mansion? (And for those of you who still have to check it off your bucket list… we will hopefully see you soon.)  https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Living with Less Money than Anyone Else on the Street without Getting Sick

All suffering is caused by being in the wrong place. To end suffering…move! You already understand how important it is to be kind. Even still, you may sometimes have a hard time. How aware are people of their claims? The more a person’s view of himself and the World around him is determined by his imagination, the more he and his life in general simply are as he needs to see them. There is no room then in his mind for seeing that he has any needs or any claims, and the mere mentioning of the possibility of his having claims may be offensive. People simply do not let him wait. He simply does not have any accidents, nor will he ever get older. The weather is fair when he goes on an excursion. Things do go his way and he does get by with everything. Other neurotic individuals seem to be aware of their claims, for they obviously and openly demand special privileges for themselves. However, what is obvious to the observer may not be obvious to the person himself. What the observer sees and what the observed one feels are two things, to be sharply distinguished. A person aggressively asserting his claims may, at most, be aware of certain expressions or implications of his claims, such as being impatient or not being able to stand disagreement. He may know that he does not like to ask for things or to say thank you. This awareness, however, is different from knowing that he feels entitled to have others do exactly what he wants. #RandolphHarris 1 of 27

He may be aware of being reckless at times, but often he will embellish the recklessness as self-confidence or courage. He may, for instance, quit a fairly good job without any concrete prospect for another one, and may regard such a step as an expression of his self-confidence. This may actually be the case, but there may also be present a reckless resulting from feeling entitled to having luck and fate on his side. He may know that in some hidden recess of his soul, he secretly believes that he, for one, will not die. However, even that is not yet an awareness of his feeling entitled to be above biological limitations. In other instances, the claims are concealed from both the person harbouring them and the untrained observer. The latter then will accept whatever justifying reasons of his own. He may, for example, find it inconvenient at times that his wife or mistress makes absorbing demands on his time, but it also flatters his vanity to think that he is indispensable to her. Or, a woman may make consuming claims on the basis of helplessness and suffering. She herself will merely feel her needs. She may even be consciously overcareful not to impose upon others. These others, though, may either cherish the role of protector and helper or, because of secret codes of their own, feel “guilty” if they do not measure up to the woman’s expectations. #RandolphHarris 2 of 27

However, some woman also come of age belatedly. Ironically, such women often seem quite grown-up as children. The fact is, however, that they have simply learned how to behave in a way that pleases adults and they are grown-up more in appearance than reality. They do what is expected of them—but their behaviour is usually no reflection of how they really feel. They may not even know how they feel, so well-trained are they to do what is required. This pattern is found among boys as well as girls but culturally it is more characteristic of the female, because she is taught to be “good,” which means being obedient, cooperative and reasonable. This kind of upbringing deprives children of the opportunity to explore their own attitudes and ideas, to forge a sense of personal identification by trying alternative ways of behaviour and discovering which of those ways feels better, produces better results, and in the end leads more frequently to satisfaction. Some women who get married and have children at a young age never had a chance to find out who they really are. Even if there had not been the trauma of being molested as a child, their inability to experiment as they grow up—because of their concentration on pleasing their parents—will limit their sexual development. #RandolphHarris 3 of 27

This is sometimes compounded by their mothers, who, in time-honoured fashion, let their daughters know that female sexuality is a secret, if not shameful, matter to be discussed among women but concealed from men—a lesson implicitly conveyed by the mother’s collusion with her daughter to keep their fathers from knowing that some of these young women are with child.  Consequently, if at all, many of these young women grow up believing the pleasures of the flesh is something not to be spoken about, and certainly not to men. Even in marriage these women remain tongue-tied when the subject of pleasures of the flesh arises and they have no way of communicating with their husbands. Not that pleasures of flesh have to be exchanged without having to resort to lengthy conversations on the subject. Nevertheless, if a woman feels that all her desires involving pleasures of the flesh or disappointments cannot or should not be shared with her husband, whom she does not expect to understand her feelings, there is almost no way for the two of them to overcome obstacles in the path of satisfaction with pleasures of the flesh. These young woman are looking for freedom but the freedom is not simply to enjoy extramarital affairs of pleasures of the flesh. The affairs are a symptom of a deeper need to learn who she is—not just a wife, but just a mother, but, in her own terms, the “total person” that she feels herself capable of becoming. #RandolphHarris 4 of 27

All too often, such women believe that their affairs are merely a search for the gratification of pleasures of the flesh that they are not experiencing in their marriages. In this sense, they too are victims of the idea that pleasures of the flesh and pleasures of the flesh involving intercourse are a separate function of the total human being, quite apart from the rest of their existence. They act as though the analogy of pleasures of the flesh and food is meant to be taken literally: if there is nothing to eat at home, they can go out to find a restaurant that will satisfy their hunger. It is a regrettable confusion because, despite the legitimate ways in which the appetite for pleasures of the flesh can be compared to hunger, satisfaction with pleasures of the flesh depends in the final analysis on more than the mere availability of a physical partner. This is even more true for women than men—again, for cultural reasons—because they have been taught to be more sensitive to circumstances, to be more responsive to subtleties of emotion, and to require more of a partner than just his physical presence, if they are to experience the pleasure they rightfully seek. Furthermore, if these women understood that what they really are trying to do is find themselves, they might succeed in using their affair in a more constructive way. #RandolphHarris 5 of 27

If, with her lover, a woman could learn how to establish a satisfying relationship, one that gives her a sense of personal fulfillment, and if a sense of guilt did not prevent her from bringing that new awareness with her back into the marriage, she could try to get her husband to join her in creating a comparable sense of pleasure in their emotional lives and lives involving pleasures of the flesh. Failing in that, she might then have the courage to divorce him. Either way, she would be constructively utilizing the extramarital experience as a means of learning what it is that she really wants from life—and how to achieve it. However, even if a person is aware of having certain claims, one is never aware of one’s claims being unwarranted or irrational. Actually, any doubt of their validity would mean a first step toward undermining them. As long, therefore, as they are vitally important to one, the neurotic must build up in one’s mind an airtight case in order to make them entirely legitimate. One must feel thoroughly convinced of their being fair and just. The patient in analysis goes to a great length to prove that one expects only what is coming to one. Conversely, for the sake of therapy, it is important to recognize both the existence of a special claim and the nature of its justification. Since the claims stand and fall with the basis upon which they are put, this basis itself becomes a strategic position. #RandolphHarris 6 of 27

If, for instance, a person feels entitled to all sorts of services on the grounds of merits, one must unwittingly so exaggerate these merits that one can feel righteously abused is the services are not forthcoming. Claims often are justified on cultural grounds. Because I am a woman—because I am a man—because I am your mother—because I am your employer…Since none of these reasons, serving plausibility or justification, actually entitles one to the demands made, their importance must be overemphasized. For instance, there is no rigid cultural code in this country that it offends masculine dignity to wash dishes. So, if there is a claim of being exempt from menial work, the dignity of being a man or a wage earner must be inflated. The always present base is that of superiority. The common denominator on this score is: because I am something extra special, I am entitled to…In this blunt form, it is mostly unconscious. However, the individual may lay stress upon the special significance of his time, his work, his plans, his always being right. Experience is the actual living through an event or events…It means what happens. Not what I think has happened or think may happen or think is happening. They are all in the same field as what I think should (or should not) happen, which has no reality except as an illusion. Illusions are a kind of reality, but they are slippery stuff to live with. People are better off without them. #RandolphHarris 7 of 27

The last act of human intellect, when it reaches its highest level, is to recognize its own limitations and surrender its own authority. However, the surrender is not to be made to another human intellect! It is to be made to the intuition. It is not that man is called upon to reject all his own knowledge and refuse the offerings of his intelligence. However, since he is striving to enter a state where the stillness precludes all questions and all answers, all mental concepts and mental images, he must make a beginning where they way to it is possible. If you try to make Mind a topic for analysis, worship, or discussion, it is no longer the unseen uncomprehended Mystery but a projection, whereupon it is at once objectified and becomes an idea-structure. Such an act falsifies it. If you stay silent in voice, still in thought, you honour it more truly. With so much education and information, so many particular pieces and fragments to keep together and carry in his mind, how is it possible for anybody to keep it really peaceful? Paradox transcends ordinary familiar experience and baffles ordinary logical thinking. If he lets it function, or by faith if he can trust the self-actualized Christians’ teaching, its leap can be made only by intuition. Even the intellectual theory is worth studying despite the intellect’s limitations. It acts as a set of red signals pointing out both dangers and deceptions, wrong ways and pitfalls. #RandolphHarris 8 of 27

Each society has its idiosyncratic standards of personal beauty. The Bushman of the Kalahari Desert, for example, esteems enormous hips and buttocks on a woman, whereas in America the desire hip measurements are much slimmer. The American woman wants to have large (but firm) breasts, a small waists, and narrow hips, and she wants to be relatively tall. In days gone by, the American glamor girl was considerably more voluptuous than our present beauties. Old pictures of burlesque queens look to the modern eye like many of the woman in hip-hop videos. The cultural concept of an ideal body has consequences for healthy personality, because the cultural ideal influences the personal body-ideal and congruence of the actual body with the body-ideal helps to determine self-esteem. If a person in our society is not able to conform with prevailing ideal body concepts, he or she may face problems growing out of diminished self-esteem. If the ideal body concepts in the society are highly restrictive and difficult for many people to conform with, the implication is that many people will suffer loss of self-esteem. The widespread dread that many people have of aging may be an outgrowth of both the rigid concept of an ideal body and the role of bodily appearance in gaining recognition. #RandolphHarris 9 of 27

Although a rational degree of concern for appearance is compatible with personality health, too much concern indicates that the individual’s self-esteem is founded on too narrow a base. Under optimum conditions, an individual will predicate his or her self-esteem on a variety of grounds, for example, achievement, social status, ethical behaviour. Attractive appearance is thus only one of many determiners of self-esteem. The healthy personality can face the inevitable changes in appearance associated with aging without a loss of self-esteem. He or she does not feel that when youthful beauty is gone, so goes personal worth. The healthy personality believes, in the words of a twelve-year-old girl at summer camp, “After all, beauty is only skin. Be a beautiful person, and do not worry so much about how you look.” The first thing to be decided about a script is whether it is a winning one or a losing one. This can often be discovered very quickly by listening to the person talk. A winner says things like: “I made a mistake, but it will not happen again,” or “Now I know the right way to do it.” A loser says, “If only…” “I should have…” and “Yes, but…” There are also near misses, nonwinners whose scripts require them to work very hard, not for the purpose of winning, but just to stay even. These are “at leasters,” people who say, “Well, at least I did not…” or “At least, I have this much to be thankful for.” #RandolphHarris 10 of 27

The future would mean that there is something that is going to happen, a “fate.” The minute you “see” a future you would necessarily change it by reacting, so it would not be the same future. Can you work towards the future? It seems to me false to channel your life. You in reality work in any direction from 0ᵒ, which is where you are now. However, “now” does not exist. You are walking backward into a hurricane and can only tell which way to go by the debris that flies past you. Or you are blown about in this hurricane, judging only the past whether you look into the wind or with it. If you “see it coming” you have already reduced it to a judgment of the past—since all judgments are necessarily of past experience. Best not to worry about direction at all. Just be. Direction is already there. Nonwinners make excellent members, employees, and serfs, since they are loyal, hard-working, and grateful, and not inclined to cause trouble. Socially, they are pleasant people, and in the community, admirable. Winners make trouble for the rest of the World only indirectly, when they are fighting among themselves and involve innocent bystanders, sometimes by the millions. Losers cause the most grief to themselves and others. Even if they come out on top, they are still losers, and drag other people down with them when the payoff comes. #RandolphHarris 11 of 27

A winner is defined as a person who fulfills his contract with the World and with himself. That is, he sets out to do something, says that he is committed to doing it, and in the long run does it. His contract, or ambition, may be to save $1,000,000.00 USD, run the mile in less than four minutes, or get a Ph.D. If he accomplishes his goal, he is a winner. If he ends up in debt, sprains his ankle in the shower, or flunks out in his junior year, he is clearly a loser. If he saves $100,000, comes in second at 4.05, or goes into industry with an M.A., he is an at-leaster: not a loser, buy a nonwinner. The important thing is that he sets the goal himself, usually on the basis of Parental programing, but with his Adult making the final commitment. Note that the man who goes for 4.05 and makes it is still a winner, while the one who goes for 3.59 and only makes 4.05 is a nonwinner, even though he beats the one whose ambition is lower. On a short-term basis, a winner is one who becomes captain of the team, dates the Queen of the May, or wins at the poker game. A nonwinner never gets near the ball, dates the runner-up, or comes out even. A loser does not make the team, does not get a date, or comes home broke. Furthermore, the captain of the second team is on the same level as the captain of the first team, since each person is entitled to choose his own league and is judged by the standards which he himself sets up. #RandolphHarris 12 of 27

An extreme example, “living on less money than anyone else on the street without getting sick” is a league. Whoever does it is a winner. One who tries it and gets sick is a loser. The typical, classical loser is the man who makes himself suffer sickness or damage for no good cause. If he has a good cause, then he may become a successful martyr, which is the best way to win by losing. If he loses, a winner knows what he will do next, but does not talk about it; if he loses, a loser does not know what he will do, but walks about what he will do if he wins. Thus, it takes only a few minutes of listening to pick out the winners and losers at a gambling table or a stockbroker’s, in a domestic argument or in family therapy. The basic rule seems to be that a winning script payoff comes from the nurturing Parent through the conterscript slogans. A nonwinner gets his payoff from the controlling Parent through injunctions. A loser is led down the path to a bad payoff by the provocations and seductions of his parent’s crazy Child, which tempts his self-destructive demon. Sometimes people are grateful to Fate for cutting short the agonizing process. Consequently, one’s social position should not force a job on the individual. His job should be attributed to his abilities at birth and to the education the community has provided to him. The eternal racial seed conflict always enormous in scope over time has now been reduced by the Internet, radio, and TV to one big black-white World heavy-weight match obliterating the sensual texture of the variegated colour boards of lovely local racisms. Mother Earth is a racist. Rainbow colours turn her on. #RandolphHarris 13 of 27

In theory, the word revolution retains the meaning that it has in astronomy. It is a movement that describes a complete circle, that leads from one form of government to another after a complete transition. A change of regulations concerning property without a corresponding change of government is not a revolution, but a reform. There is no kind of economic revolution, whether its methods are violent or pacific, which is not, at the same time, manifestly political. Revolution can already be distinguished, in this way, from rebellion. The warning given to Louis XVI: “No, sire, this is not a rebellion, it is a revolution,” accents the essential difference. It means precisely that “it is the absolute certainty of a new form of government.” Rebellion is, by nature, limited in scope. It is no more than an incoherent pronouncement. Revolution, on the contrary, originates in the realm of ideas. Specifically, it is the injection of ideas into historical experience, while rebellion is only the movement that leads from individual experience into the realm of ideas. While even the collective history of a movement of rebellion is always that of a fruitless struggle with facts, of an obscure protest which involves neither methods nor reasons, a revolution is an attempt to shape actions to ideas, to fit the World into a theoretic frame. That is why rebellion kills men while revolution destroys both men and principles. #RandolphHarris 14 of 27

However, for the same reasons, it can be said that there has not yet been a revolution in the course of history. There could only be one, and that would be the definitive revolution. The movement that seems to complete the circle already begins to describe another at the precise moment when the new government is formed. The anarchists, with Varlet as their leader, were made well aware of the fact that the government and revolution are incompatible in the direct sense. “It implies a contradiction” says Proudhon, “that a government could ever by revolutionary, for the very simple reason that it is the government.” Now that the experiment has been made, let us qualify that statement by adding that a government can be revolutionary only in opposition to other governments. Revolutionary governments are obliged, most of the time, to be war governments. The more extensive the revolution, the more considerable the chances of the war that it implies. The society born of the revolution of 1789 wanted to fight for Europe. The society born of the 1917 revolution is fighting for universal dominion. Total revolution ends by demanding—we shall see why—the control of the World. If it must, while waiting for it to happen, the history of man, in one sense, is the sum total of his successive rebellions. #RandolphHarris 15 of 27

In other words, the movement of transition which can be clearly expressed in terms of space is only an approximation in terms of time. What was devoutly called, in the nineteenth century, the progressive emancipation of the human race appears, from the outside, like an uninterrupted series of rebellions, which overreach themselves and try to find their formulation in ideas, but which have not yet reached the point of definitive revolution where everything in Heaven and on Earth would be stabilized. A superficial examination seems to imply, rather than any real emancipation, an affirmation of mankind by man, an affirmation increasingly broad in scope, but always incomplete. In fact, if there has ever been one real revolution, there would be no more history. Unity would have been achieved, and death would have been satiated. That is why all revolutionaries finally aspire to World unity and act as though they believed that history was concluded. The originality of the twenty-first century revolution lies in the fact that, for the first time, it openly claims to realize the ancient dream of Anarchasis Cloots of unity of the human race and, at the same time, the definitive consummation of history. Just as the movement of rebellion led to the point of, “All or Nothing” and just as metaphysical rebellion demanded the unity of the World, the twenty-first century revolutionary movement, when it arrived at the most obvious conclusion of its logic, insists with threats of force on arrogating to itself the whole of history. #RandolphHarris 16 of 27

Rebellion is therefore compelled, on pain of appearing futile or out of date to become revolutionary. It no longer suffices for the rebel to deify himself like Stirner or to look to his own salvation by adopting a certain attitude of mind. The species must be defied, as Nietzsche attempted to do, and his ideal of the superman must be adopted so as to assure salvation for all—as Ivan Karamazov wanted. For the first time, the Possessed appear on the scene and proceed to give the answer to one of the secrets of the times: the identity of reason and of the will to power. Now that God is dead, the World must be changed and organized by the forces at man’s disposal. The force of imprecation alone is not enough; weapons are needed and totality must be conquered. Even revolution, particularly revolution, which claims to be materialist, is only a limitless metaphysical crusade. However, can totality claim to be unity? That is the question which we must answer. The majority of revolutions are shaped by, and derive their originality from, murder. All, or almost all have been homicidal. However, some, in addition, have practiced regicide and deicide. Just as the history of metaphysical rebellion began with Sade, so our real inquiry only begins with his contemporaries, the regicides, who attack the incarnation of divinity without yet daring to destroy the principle of eternity. (However, before this the history of mankind also demonstrates the equivalent of the first movement of rebellion—the rebellion of the slave.) #RandolphHarris 17 of 27

Back on the subject of the geography as topological neuroanatomy, the frontal lobes of the cortex are the most recent additions to the brain’s neuroanatomical structure. Embryologically, the old cortex develops and splits into hemispheres by the fourth month of pregnancy. However, the overarching, forward pushing frontal lobes only emerge just before birth—which is where we are now—just before birth! North and South America are containers for the neocortex—the emerging frontal lobes of the brain. For decades the prevailing view of neurophysiologists was that the frontal lobes, which are behind the forehead, are the sites of anticipation and planning for the future. However, the situation is not so simple. A large number of cases of frontal lesions were investigated by Hans-Lukas Teuber of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology who found that many frontal lobe lesions have almost no obvious effects on behaviour. However, in severe pathology of the frontal lobes, “the patient is not altogether devoid of the capacity to anticipate a course of events, but cannot picture himself in relation to those events as a potential agent.” This corresponds to two neurogeographic observations. The newest lobe of the cortex apparently involves seeing oneself as a potential agent. The most recent ecological niche for the human species—the so-called New World—was activated after 1492. To West America—the left-lobe right-hand of the neuro-map—came floods of self-selected gene pools. A basic characteristic of the American-consciousness is “future-orientation.” North American was settled by gene pools self-selected for future reality fabrication and self-reliant independence. Old World visitors are always amazed at the American trust in progress and the optimism of individual-identity. #RandolphHarris 18 of 27

When you operate with an established command structure and common procedures, everyone’s roles and responsibilities are readily apparent. When you lead outside an established organization, your ability to assess the parties involves becomes another part of the operation. Identifying who is who, what role they have, over whom they have authority and influence, and how they are likely to respond to your influence, are all important considerations that the Sacramento Fire Department sometimes has to make. They key to influence outside the chain of command is to learn about the people and organizations. By understanding their interests and desires, the Sacramento Fire Department knows what influence techniques are most likely to work. While operating outside the chain of command, firefighters and EMTs often have to resolve conflicts between the fire department’s interests and local populations or others. The Sacramento Fire Department uses conflict resolution to identify differences and similarities among the stances of various groups. They analyze difference to understand what is behind them. By making proposals for reinterpreting the differences or negotiating compromise, they are able to reach common understanding or shared goals. Trust, understanding, and knowing the right influence technique for the situation are the determining factors in negotiating, consensus building, and conflict resolution, which can help save lives and property. #RandolphHarris 19 of 27

“I grew up in a rural area in an independent family. My father was self-employed, and my mother was, too. The exposure was nothing, I was sheltered. Life was new to me, and when I ventured out into the working World, I had to learn what it was all about. I had taken a lot for granted. Things were a lot worse than I had anticipated or ever been told. I’m speaking of the prejudices I had to learn about when I got into the working World at an early age, probably when I was in the last year of high school, when I was about sixteen. I was brought up to think that is a person worked hard in this country and you gave it your all, you would excel. Then I learned that color had a lot to do with it. That has stuck with me, and it has affected me. I’m delighted to see that it’s playing less of a role today than it ever has before. But there is a lot of improving that still has to be done. I think that people need to let go of the color barrier and look at people for what they are worth. There are a lot of good talents going to waste, because people look at what’s on the surface and never question what’s inside. In the fire department it’s kind of like the military. In the heat of action, it all disappears. We thrive on incidents. The more incidents we have, the more relations, the more interactions you’ll have between the troops. A leader of sound character exhibits good character at all times. Modeling the attributes of good character defines you to the people with whom you interact. As a leader of character, you do not have to worry about being seen at the wrong moment doing the wrong thing.” #RandolphHarris 20 of 27

The Sacramento Fire Department lives by the Warrior Ethos. They display character and lead by example. This means that they put the organization and their team members above self-interest, career, and comfort. For a firefighter or an EMT, it requires putting the lives of others above a personal desire for self-preservation. When you project confidence, you are an inspiration to others. People will follow leaders who are comfortable with their own abilities; they will question the leader who shows doubt. Displaying confidence and composure when tings are not going well can be a challenge for anyone. However, it is important when your takes to lead others through a grave situation. Confidence is a key component of leader presence. A leader who shows hesitation in the face of setbacks can trigger a chain reaction among others. On the other hand, a leader who is overconfident in difficult situations may lack the proper degree of care or concern. Leading with confidence requires a heightened self-awareness and ability to master emotions. Developing the ability to remain confident, no matter what the situation, involves: having prior opportunities to experience reactions to severe situation, maintaining an optimistic outlook when a situation becomes confusing or changes, remaining decisive after mistakes have been discovered, and encouraging others when they show signs of weakness. #RandolphHarris 21 of 27

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to out run the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 22 of 27

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 23 of 27

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 24 of 27

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. As an incentive to buy American made cars, President Trump plans to made interest on loans for American cars tax deductible. Americans surely make superior products, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 25 of 27

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 26 of 27

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 27 of 27

The Winchester Mystery House

Experience an unforgettable journey back to the time of kings and queens with this entry ticket for The Winchester Mansion in Santa Clara, California which was the residence of Sarah L. Winchester. Take advantage of this fascinating experience. After tour, there will be time enjoy the mansion’s splendor at your own pace. You might even discover secret passages.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion.

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I’m Never Going to See Daddy Again

Retrospectively reflecting on life, one will come to realize that the most difficult days were the most beautiful. Idea is not the ultimate reality, it is only a manifestation of something which is its ultimate reality. The latter seems to be an abstraction. Intellectually, it must be so because it is beyond the power of finite, human mentality to conceive it. However, it may not be beyond the power of a higher faculty lying latent within us to have the experience of this reality—at least for a time. It is not known how to verify whether this is so or not unless the intellect humbly realizes its own limitations and voluntarily abnegates itself at a certain stage. In most cases this is done prematurely, hence the self-deceptions and hallucinations which are rife in mystical circles, but in the philosophical mystic’s case it would come only after the fullest use of critical thought and analytic reasoning. This is the proper moment for such a suicidal act. For in the end, he will be brought to such an abrupt term. Perhaps Jesus’ statement, “Except ye become as little children ye shall in no wise enter the kingdom of Heaven,” is appropriate here, if understood as an invitation not to foolishness but to surrender of all human pride. If you are trying to grasp the great Mystery, do not make the mistake of unwittingly holding on to the intellect while doing so. When he has climbed to the peak of a series of abstract thoughts, they may end abruptly and the higher faculty of intuition may then become active. #RandolphHarris 1 of 25

The philosophic mystic seeks to stimulate thinking to its highest degree until finally it turns round on itself and examines the very nature of the ego—of the personal mind. Both practices lead in the end to the same result, the stoppage of thinking. Is it not strange that the most intense, the most active pursuit of thought leads to human knowledge, whereas the complete cessation of thought leads to divine knowledge! When it leads to its own rest and the mind transcends all thoughts, thinking achieves its highest object. For the intellectual knowledge puffs up a man, insight humbles him, has indeed the very opposite effect. For the intellectual type, the essence of his need is to see that he is not his thoughts, that they are but projections thrown up out of consciousness. He is that consciousness, the very knowing principle itself. A time comes when the searching intellect humbly recognizes at last that it can never recognize pure Spirit, but only its ideas, opinions, fancies, and imaginations about Spirit. If it follows this up to the fullest consequence and ceases all its theological or metaphysical or occult studies, it lays itself open to be penetrated by the intuition. The work done by original deeply penetrative thinking can go far, can uncover much not yet known; but it cannot solve the mystery of the thinker himself, unless it renounces its right to do so and lets the diviner Self take over in utter silence. #RandolphHarris 2 of 25

The same intellectual quality which obstructs the inner path or blinds the inner eyes of so many sceptical people actually helps the path of less egocentric persons. The intellect is not to be condemned. However, its presumptuousness in arrogating supreme, unchecked, and unbalanced control of man, is to be condemned. The mind will go on having doubts and asking questions, making problems for itself and creating illusions, as it has always done in the past. That is, it will do so until it attains Truth, or abides in the Stillness. He need not abandon rigorously logical thinking because he is cultivating mystically intuitive feeling. However, he should know its limitations. He must not depend on lesser faculties alone—good though they are in their place—when a higher faculty exists, when the intuition shines out of its certitude. Not the impure, ego-warped, narrowed, emotion-swayed and intellect-dried thing which serves so many; not man dictating to God but more humbled before God. A seeker must become free from fanaticism before the eyes can see. Let no one impose suggestion’s power not authoritarian rule; rather should the mind empty itself until Pure Consciousness is there. Weak minds which perceive the defects of logic, instead of rising above it into reason, fall below it into instinct or impulse. The silent mind receives spiritual guidance and allows grace to approach; the thinking mind delas with the World and attends to its activities. #RandolphHarris 3 of 25

Only when the intellect, after admiring its own massive historical achievements, will turn upon itself and perceive how puny is that by contrast with the still-awaited answer to the question, “What am I?—only then will the possibility of higher forces coming to its aid be realizable. Into crowded minds no revelation is possible, In the stillness of the mind, that admits, “I do not know,” illumination is more apt to be achieved. In telling us where knowledge must end and mystery must begin, in being forced to describe the Absolute by telling us what it is not and then confessing that it can go no farther, the intellect surrenders to its limitations and acquires that quality of humility which is an essential condition receiving grace. Correctly used, its limitations understood, its emotional and egotistic biases discounted, intellect may enable a man to think properly. It can then have a liberating effect; otherwise, it is likely to have a corrupting one. The limitations of intellect must be recognized, for then only will a man be ready to try the philosophic techniques whereby words are used to rise above words, thoughts directed so that he may extract himself from all thoughts. To develop intellect and then to know when to drop it, is to becomes its master. It then fulfills it proper purpose and serves man instead of dominating—and therefore unbalancing—him. #RandolphHarris 4 of 25

When a patient cannot attain happiness and goes to an analyst, the analyst will appreciate the patient’s wish for happiness as a good motive for coming to analysis. However, he will also ask himself why the patient, with all his desire for happiness, is not happy. He has many things which most people would enjoy: a pleasant home, a nice wife, financial security. However, he does not do much of anything; he has no vigorous interest of any kind. There is a great deal of passivity and self-indulgence in the picture. It strikes the analyst in the very first interview that the patient does not talk about his difficulties, but rather, in a somewhat petulant way, presents a chart of wishes. The next hour confirms the first impression. The patient’s inertia in the analytic work proves to be the first hindrance. So the picture becomes clearer. Here is a person, tied hand and foot, unable to tap his own resources and filled to the brim with tenacious claims that all the good things in life, including contentment of soul, should come to him. Another example illustrating the claim for help without effort throws further lights on its nature. A patient who had to interrupt his analysis for a week was upset by some problem that had emerged in the precious analytical session. He expressed his wish to get over the difficulty before he left—a perfectly legitimate wish. So I tried hard to get at the root of the particular problem. #RandolphHarris 5 of 25

As the hour went on, I sensed an increasing irritability on his side. Upon my direct question, he confirmed it y saying that of course he was irritated; he did not want to be left with his difficulty for a whole week and I had not yet said any thing to alleviate it. I pointed out that his wish was certainly sensible, but that apparently it had turned into a claim, which did not make any sense. Whether or not we could come any closer to solving the particular problem would depend upon how accessible it was at this juncture, and how productive he and I could be. And, as far as he was concerned, there must be something that was preventing him from making efforts toward the desire end. After a good deal of back and forth which I omit here, he could not help seeing the truth of what I had said. His irritability disappeared; his irrational claims and his sense of urgency also disappeared. And he added one revealing factor: he had felt that I had caused the problem, so it was up to me to set it right. How was I responsible for it, in his kind? He did not mean that I had made a mistake; it was simply that in the previous hour he had realized that he had not yet overcome his vindictiveness—which he had barely started to perceive. Actually, at that time he did not want to be rid of it, but only of certain upsets accompanying it. Since I had failed his claim to be freed from these immediately, he felt entitled to raise vindictive claims for retribution. #RandolphHarris 6 of 25

With this explanation, he had pointed to the roots of his claims: his inner refusal to assume responsibility for himself and his lack of constructive self-interest. This paralyzed him, prevented him from doing anything for himself, and made for a need that somebody else—here the analyst—should take all the responsibility and set things right for him. And this need, too, turned into a claim. This example points to a fourth characteristic of neurotic claims: they can be vindictive in nature. The person may feel wronged, and insist on retribution. That this can occur is in itself old knowledge. It is obviously so in traumatic neuroses, in certain paranoid conditions. There are many descriptions of this characteristic in literature, among others Skylock’s insisting on his pound of flesh and Hedda Gabler’s laying claim to extravagant luxuries at the very moment when she has learned of the probability that her husband will not get the professorship they have hoped for. However, if not regular, whether vindictive demands are a frequent element in neurotic claims. Naturally the individual’s awareness of them will vary. In the case of Skylock, they were conscious; in the example of the patient’s anger at me, they were on the threshold of awareness; in most instances they are unconscious. From my experience, I doubt their ubiquity. However, I find them to be so frequent that I have made it a rule always to look out for them. #RandolphHarris 7 of 25

In the context of the need for vindictive triumph, the amount of largely hidden vindictiveness we find in most neuroses is rather great. Vindictive elements are certainly operating when claims are made with reference to past frustration or suffering; when they are made in a militant manner; when the fulfillment of claims is felt as a triumph and their frustration as defeat. Words were what God used to create the World. “God said, Let there be light, and there was light” reports Genesis 1.3. His words conveyed creative power. Your words convey power too. They can strength, uplift, and comfort. They can also weaken, discourage, and destroy. Words undoubtedly reveal your attitudes and influence your behaviour. This is especially true in talking about pleasures of the flesh and intimacy. Your words can craft an environment about pleasures of the flesh that is strengthening and uplifting—or the opposite. Words matter! And the words you use in conversations can foster spiritual, intellectual, and emotional intimacy that will help prepare you for a complete expression of pleasures of the flesh in marriage. Talking about intimacy and pleasures of the flesh—at the appropriate times and in appropriate ways—is an important part of preparing for marriage. One woman we talked to called Leah, had been married for three years. She described herself as chronically distressed. Leah was sexually molested by a stranger. #RandolphHarris 8 of 25

Actually, Leah was abducted in a car and sexually abused. She often had nightmares about it for many years. However, at sixteen, she met a boy and fell madly in love and was with child, and the boy was forced to marry her. Leah’s mother did the forcing. Leah’s father was not told about it until afterward. Before she became pregnant, everything was fine, and she thought that she loved him and he loved her. After she had the child, though, it was terrible because she was totally rejected. The marriage lasted two years—he was in the army, so they were not together very often—and they had it annulled when she was nineteen. Leah stayed with family until she was twenty-three, and then she remarried. Retrospectively, Leah realized that when she married her second husband that she felt desperate. She wanted marriage very much because it meant a certain amount of freedom. After being married for ten years, Leah wanted freedom very much. After being in the marriage for seven years, Leah had two affairs. She lost a good job because of her affair. Leah felt pressured to get marriage at a young age and after having two children so early on, the great deal of responsibility took a heavy toll on her. Leah feels that she never grew up, and like she did something she should be punished for. The chemistry in her marriage had faded away, and the affairs were a trip into fantasy-land for her. She assumed that the affairs would make her feel refreshed, energized and attractive, but instead, they made her feel guilty. #RandolphHarris 9 of 25

Your body is created in the image of your heavenly parents. It is important to learn about your body and use the appropriate terminology. This will result in a better sense of identity and it shows respect for your marvelous bodies. Be especially careful to choose words and media that place pleasures of the flesh and gender within a gospel perspective. Healthy sexual intimacy is a sacred union, a mutual giving and receiving of each other’s bodies in an environment of trust and respect to deepen loving martial bonds. The purpose of pleasures of the flesh is to create children and also to strengthen the emotional, spiritual, and physical connection between spouses. Throughout your life, it is important to find beneficial, appropriate ways to talk about intimacy and pleasures of the flesh. Doing this can help empower you as you navigate sexuality and its many facets clearly and openly. However, if you talking about pleasures of the flesh and intimacy feels uncomfortable or scary for you, you should have clear, plain discussions with your parents, Church leaders, or other adults you trust about pleasures of the flesh. However, avoid talking about pleasures of the flesh casually, disrespectfully, or crudely with friends or other people, since those conversations might lead to wrong ideas about pleasures of the flesh and intimacy and may unintentionally make you excited and aroused to engage in pleasures of the flesh. #RandolphHarris 10 of 25

Learn about your anatomy, your emotions, and how these things together can motivate you to seek for a loving marriage. You can start developing emotional and intellectual intimacy within friendships and with people you trust in a safe environment. This does not mean talking about pleasures of the flesh; it means talking about things in life that really matter to you. You can practice this by expressing sincere feelings, opening up about your own experiences, and listening as your close friends do the same. Mastering these social and emotional skills gives you plenty of ways to form close, rewarding relationships without needing to rely on physical intimacy to create a connection. Remember that physical intimacy does not lead to emotional intimacy, so take the time to develop real friendships before looking for romantic relationships. Deep, open communication is linked to feelings of satisfaction and stability within relationships and with later satisfaction with pleasures of the flesh within the bonds of marriage. Couples who take the focus off their physical relationship tend to spend more time becoming friends, developing trust, communicating, and sharing common interests and ideas. Be friends first, and sweethearts second. Couples who focus on friendship and connection—without relying on physical arousal—build stronger relationships. Try learning more about each other’s families, beliefs about the World, or favourite way to serve others. You could also try a new skill or hobby together. #RandolphHarris 11 of 25

The one here who frowns on all this is the silly separated ego who is far from being any god. The point is central. The one who questions, doubts, feels separated is the limited ego. The one who does not notice separation is the other one—the Person among persons. The mentally ill person disowns his inner aspects and finds them intruding into his World. It is profitable that alternate sides of self become acquainted. Psychotherapy (and living) is the process of wandering over boundaries to enlarge the scope of one’s land. The other self should be encouraged to come forth, give its heed, let it live. This autonomous other self is heard in silence, whispers in feelings, comes calling as a neighbour, modestly stands as background to all that vaunted ego does. When ego sleeps, it speaks clearer and implies lands beyond the bounds of the limited self-identity. It is restful for us to contemplate how our thoughts are given, history is given, awareness is given, how it is all given. The mystery of I-Thou can be crossed in love and friendship when two become one. In appreciating the beauty of the World one savours the things of the World and finds in them one’s inner riches. This World, the World I know, is the World coloured with my meanings. If the World is no longer viewed as the physicist’s abstract, objective World—a totally impersonal other-than-one’s self, all this becomes more reasonable. That World is a conceptual construction convenient to physics but grossly inaccurate in the psychology of persons. #RandolphHarris 12 of 25

The personal World, the only one each of us really knows, is the World painted in the tones of all one’s own personal meanings. The World shuts off when I sleep. Its time slows down when I am bored and accelerates when I am involved. My boss is not an objective other. My boss, seen by me, known by me, reflects as much of myself as of him. The World of persons is a personal World. Lightning and thunder are beautiful to me. Are they something else to you? Where is the objective impersonal lightning and thunder? They are part of the “reported events” which does not mean much to a person. The impersonal objective World is the one no one cares about! In a deep sense one can know the quality of a person by the World he manages to find. The one who finds the World of ruthless competition, where people will do anything to succeed, even harm others, and becomes like this will be consumed by evil and greed. They very good person is as plastic and varied as people themselves. What has been described here is the World of persons, the one we live in. In it what I see in your is an image of myself. And what you see in me is an image of you. It is a World of mirrors. In it is a useless and obscuring fiction that there is a World. That is a fiction—a conception of some people that conflicts with their own experience. There are many interlocked Worlds. It is awesome and responsible to consider one’s World as one’s own representation. Then I am responsible when this World get mean and small, angry or guilty. I am not only my brother’s keeper. I am my brother. #RandolphHarris 13 of 25

There are times of mergence when the rustle of leaves, or the plaintive call of a bird is the whole of the World. This whole is peaceful, nothing to be done—no questions—no search—all in a simple sound. In rocks or furniture, I see stolid, permanent satisfaction with things just as they are. In silent matter is our deepest understanding. The natural depth of man is the whole of creation. Look at the scope of yourself. Freedom, “that terrible word inscribed on the chariot of the storm,” is the motivating principle of all revolutions. Without it, justice seems inconceivable to the rebel’s mind. There comes a time, however, when justice demands the suspension of freedom. Then terror, on a grand or small scale, makes its appearance to consummate the revolution. Every act of rebellion expresses a nostalgia for innocence and an appeal to the essence of being. However, one day, nostalgia takes up arms and assumes the responsibility of total guilt; in other words, adopts murder and violence. The servile rebellions, the regicide revolutions, and those of the twenty-first century have thus, consciously, accepted a burden of guilt which increased in proportion to the degree of liberation they proposed to introduce. This contradiction, which has become only too obvious, prevents our contemporary revolutionaries from displaying that aspect of happiness and optimism which shone forth from the faces and the speeches of the members of the Constituent Assembly in 1789. Is this contradiction inevitable? Does it characterize or betray the value of rebellion? These questions are bound to arise about revolution as they are bound to arise about metaphysical rebellion. #RandolphHarris 14 of 25

Actually, revolution is only the logical consequence of metaphysical rebellion, and the same desperate and bloody effort to affirm the dignity of man in defiance of the things that deny its existence. The revolutionary spirit thus understates the defense of that part of man which refuses to submit. In other words, it tries to assure him his crown in the realm of time, and, rejecting God, it chooses history with an apparently inevitable logic. Scripts are designed to last a lifetime. They are based on childhood decisions and parental programing which is continually reinforced. The reinforcement may take the form of daily contact, as with men who work for their fathers, or women who telephone their mothers every morning to gossip, or it may be applied less frequently and more subtly, but just as powerfully, through occasional correspondence. After the parents die, their instructions may be remembered more vividly than ever. In script language, a loser is called a frog and a winner is called a prince or a princess. Parents want their children to be either winners or losers. They may want then to be “happy” in the role they have chosen for them, but they do not want them to be transformed, except in special cases. A mother who is raising a frog may want her daughter to be a happy frog, but will put down any attempts of the girl to become a princess. (“Who do you think you are?”) A father who is raising a prince wants his son to be happy, but often he would rather see him unhappy than transformed into a frog. (“How can you do that to us? We have given you the best of everything.) #RandolphHarris 15 of 25

A high degree of self-esteem means that persons accept themselves as worthy. A number of studies have shown that self-esteem is highly correlated with beneficial attitude toward one’s body. In other words, persons who accept their bodies are more likely to manifest high self-esteem than persons who dislike their bodies. One reason for this correlation lies in the fact that the self-ideal includes a set of ideals pertaining to the appearance of the body, the so-called body-ideal. All persons have a more or less clear concept of how they want to look. If their bodies conform in dimensions and appearance with their concept of an ideal body, they will then like their bodies. If their bodies deviate from their body-ideals, they will tend to reject and dislike their bodies. In one study of college women, it was found that the ideal body proportions (which all women in the sample shared) were 5 feet, 5 inches tall; weighing about 120 pounds; and 35 inches, 24 inches, and 35 inches for bust, waist, and hips, respectively. If they coincided with these ideals, the woman like them. And disliked them increasingly as their bodies deviated from these measurements. The actual measurements of the women were slightly larger than these ideals, on the average—except for bust size, where the average size was slightly smaller than the ideal. A comparable study of college males showed that acceptance of the body was related to large size. The woman all wanted to be slightly smaller in dimensions than they actually were, but the men mostly aimed at larger size; they wanted to be taller, with broader shoulders and chests. It is evident that the body-ideals of the subjects in these studies are closely related to the cultural concept of an ideal body. #RandolphHarris 16 of 25

Speaking of body, when it comes to understanding neurogeography, we know that the posterior cortex is located in Africa-Europe. At this point, in our charting of neurogeography we consider two major fissurings of the global landmass. The Mediterranean corresponds to the longitudinal cerebral fissures—known as the median sagittal grove—which divides the cortex into the left and right brains. The left cortex mediates the right side of the body. Thus, the left cortex is Europe and the right cortex is Africa. The two neurogeographical hemispheres are linked at Gibraltar. The second fissuring of the global landmass is the separation of the forward parts of Africa and Europe, which—floating across the enormous sulcus called the Atlantic Ocean—created two large lobes of land, neuro-technically quiescent but ready for future innervation. Innervation means to supply a bodily part with nerves. The European right-hand mediates rational, logical, mathematical, linear, disciplined behaviour. The African left-hand mediates intuitive, nonliner, patterned-rhythmic behaviour. The left cortex is involved in manufacture of artifacts. The right cortex is involved in neurosomatic behaviour. The left cortex is scientific. The right cortex magic. To understand more precisely, the evolutionary stage of the European reality it is useful to contrast it with the next stage—the prefrontal American mutation—which we will focus on more next time. #RandolphHarris 17 of 25

To succeed and create true commitment, the Sacramento Fire Department uses influencing techniques to enhance their authentic and sincere values. They apply pressure when they using explicit demands to achieve compliance, such as establishing deadlines for completing tasks, imposing negative consequences for failure to complete. Indirect pressure, which includes persistent reminders of the request and frequent checking. Legitimate requests occur when a firefighter or EMT refers to their source of authority to establish the basis for a request. Sometimes it is important to use personal appeals. That is when someone complies with a request based on friendship or loyalty. This might often be useful in a difficult situation when mutual trust is the key to success. One of the most important methods used by the Sacramento Fire Department is relationship building. This is a techniques in which one builds a beneficial rapport and a relationship of mutual trust, making their team mates more willing to support requests. Examples include showing personal interests in the well-being of others, offering praise, and understand someone else’s perspective. The Sacramento Fire Department demands professional competence in their heroes. On duty, they want to know that the job is going to be done right, with no unnecessary casualties. “It was Valentine’s Day 2002 when my father was killed. I was seven, and I just happened to be at home with my mother. I was sick and had stayed home from school. My father was a battalion chief at the fire academy. There was a four-alarm fire in a four-story brick veneer building, any my father was dispatched to the fire in place of a chief who was tied up. My ma didn’t know what, so when she started getting phone calls asking if my father was at the fire, she said, ‘I don’t think so, because he’s at the fire academy today.’ #RandolphHarris 18 of 25

“My father and another chief, with their two drivers, went into the building to get everybody out because there was danger that the roof would cave in. They got everybody out, and they were just ready to come out themselves when the roof caved in. The other chief was killed, my father was killed, the two drivers survived. The other chief was found wedged under the first-floor doorway. My father’s driver rolled onto the roof of the back porch and rolled off onto the ground. My father and the other driver went all the way down through the floors to the basement. The other driver was floating down there. When they dug him out, all he had was a broken hand. My father was still alive, and he and the driver talked to each other for forty-five minutes. The department had a crane out there to remove the debris, but there was still a lot of fire and they couldn’t get to him. Then there was a secondary collapse, the building shifted slightly, not very much at all and that was the last the driver heard from my dad. He was crushed. My uncle, who was a lieutenant is a squad company at the time, came in the commissioner’s car and picked up my mother, and she sat at the fire for six hours before they took the building apart and got my father out. They didn’t have to tell me, I started getting the drift when they said he was hurt and they came and picked my mom up. They said he was trapped. Then I got the picture, piece by piece, as the rest of the family came home. I sort of knew what was going on. The next day I went back with my brother, who is a captain on the job now, and we dug through the bricks of what had become a vacant lot. We found one of my father’s boots, and I have it hanging in my basement now—the boot he was wearing when he was killed. I also have his helmet. I have a son now. As young as he is, he has an interest in the fire department. He kept asking what happened to my father, and finally I told him. Then, when I got burned and was in the hospital, the first thing he said to my wife was, ‘I’m never going to see Daddy again. The same thing that happened to his dad happened to him. I’m never going to see him again.’ That really broke my heart when she came to the hospital and told me that.” #RandolphHarris 19 of 25

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to out run the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 20 of 25

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 21 of 25

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 22 of 25

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. As an incentive to buy American made cars, President Trump plans to made interest on loans for American cars tax deductible. Americans surely make superior products, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 23 of 25

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 24 of 25

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 25 of 25

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To Refuse or to Take Anything

People claim to want freedom, but they do not really want freedom. Being free comes with a lot of responsibility, and a vast amount of people are too afraid to be competent and responsible. To evoke thoughts, make mental images, or gather words about the Overself is to remain just as much outside it and inside the ego as ever. Commentaries upon truth and exposition of it are not identical with truth. It must never be forgotten that such intellectual conceptions of Reality are mere photographs taken by the camera of imagination or diagrams drawn by reason. They are not the object itself. What the intellect is unable to grasp is truer than what it can. That part of man—the intuition—which operates in this sphere brings the truth-seeker to a satisfaction that is more intense. Why? Because it withdraws him from the illusions and errors to which the intellect, however sharply formed, is necessarily subject. However, the intellect can help by submitting, and serve by formulating into suitable words what the intuition reveals to it. The dangers of developed intellect are pride and complacency, over-analysis and over-criticism. The untrained and uneducated mind necessarily has shallow views. However, the academically trained and educated mind may still have distorted prejudiced or narrow views, even though they are deeper and better informed. Only a philosophy, based on insight, uninfluenced by social pressures, can produce truly reasonable minds. #RandolphHarris 1 of 23

Man must develop and nurture all the powers of intellect, but without its pride, arrogance, or conceit. Some married couples develop boredom from what might be called, and with some justice, specialization of labour in the bedroom. This, in effect, is the consequence of stereotyping roles which involved pleasures of the flesh. Each partner handles his or her particular responsibility. The husband, for instance, is expected to initiate pleasures of the flesh because both he and his wife believe that it is the man’s “job.” Thus, the sequences of events become completely routine and the relationship with pleasures of the flesh sooner or later becomes perfunctory—and then objectionable. The solution for avoiding such a deterioration might seem to some people to be obvious: with equal frequency, have the wife take the initiative with intimate passions. Such a solution, however, is a perfect example of the work ethic in action. Directing the wife to take the initiative in certain percentage of their encounters with pleasures of the flesh merely reinforces the notion that intimate passions, like work, can be improved by an improved technique. If only she learns to perform more tricks, or her husband learns more tricks, or if there is a “proper” assignment of activities involving pleasures of the flesh—and, most important, if they get better instructions and practice hard—everything will be fine. #RandolphHarris 2 of 23

This simply is not true. No formula answer is possible Each partner must feel free to discover his or her unique way of expressing wishes, desires and needs as they occur, spontaneously and naturally, never by assignment on the basis of being male or female, never by the numbers according to the book. It is often said that couples have to work at making a success of marriage. The term seems unfortunate, particularly in relations to pleasures of the flesh. If there is one things they should not do, it is to work at the relationship as though it were some kind of task. Yet this is the burden of the message carried by a discouraging number of books on the subject. In fact, two sociologist of the State University of New York at Buffalo, Dr. Lionel S. Lewis and Dr. Dennis Brissett, at the conclusion of a critical analysis of books that advise couples on ways to improve their lives in the sphere of intimate passions, noted that “sexual play in marriage has indeed been permeated with dimensions of a work ethic. The play of marital sex is presented by the counselor quite definitely as work.” More often than not, these books do a disservice to troubled couples. The intellect can quite expertly give its support to any position the ego desires it to take up. It can become instrumental in the search for truth only as it becomes freed from egoism. The danger that intellect will rule over mankind is as catastrophic in the end as has been the danger of emotion and passion ruling over mankind. #RandolphHarris 3 of 23

There is a dead intellectuality which, although quite unable to penetrate to the mystical heart of things, yet carries itself with an arrogant air of supercilious self-assurance! He must know that so long as various complexes sway the mind, it is not possible to take a detached impartial view of any situation to which those complexes have reference. Therefore, one aspect of such a situation will be seen, but not another, and any decision taken, any action called for, will be unbalanced and unwise. The gluttony of the intellect is as hard to curb as the gluttony of the stomach, and often much harder because less recognized. The ordinary intellect submits to the rule of passion, self-interest, desire, appetite, custom, and appearances; hence the knowledge it obtains may easily be illusory and is always undermined by doubt. The purified reflective intellect disregards the pull of these forces and tries to see things as they really are. Hence its knowledge is stamped with greater certainty. Husbands and wives seeking greater happiness with pleasures of the flesh need less, not more, emotional discipline; less, not more, deliberate direction of their efforts. If they have anything to discover, it concerns themselves as unique individuals and the privileges and responsibilities of their relationship. They have to learn to trust each other fully and to be vulnerable, one to the other, and to let their feelings unfold in their own way at their own time. They must learn to communicate, not simply with words, but also with a touch or a glance that needs no explanation. #RandolphHarris 4 of 23

Above all, a man and a woman must learn to be present to each other—not just to kook, but to see; not just to hear, but to listen; not just to talk, but to commune. Every man who is capable of thinking in a disinterested manner—and therefore capable of thinking truthfully—must come to this realization. It is a most unfortunate fact, however, that such disinterested thought is extremely rare, that men are prone to wishful thinking, to mental outlooks more or less strongly coloured by their personal desires, prejudices, and social positions. The possession of half a dozen imposing university degrees may just as easily hinger a man’s approach to philosophy as help it. It will do so if it generates emotional pride and intellectual self-conceit, if it makes hum sceptical of intuitions and antithetic to prayer, if it prevents him from approaching the Overself with humility and love so that he cannot weep at his estrangement from it. When the intellect has produced its sharp pointed criticisms and the voice or pen has formulated it logical emphatic sentences, in the end, in old age, or after many a lifetime, the man will have to drop his arrogance and submit humbly to the higher power withing. If there is a string of mistaken judgments running through a man’s life, even though he believed them to be accurately reasoned when he passed them, be sure that one end of it is being pulled by his own faults and deficiencies. #RandolphHarris 5 of 23

We have seen in certain lands the results of intellectual activity when placed at the service of materialism green, and sensuality. Its worst phases are then made manifest, especially its craftiness and lack of conscience, its trickery and dishonesty. Men who are unable to create, criticize. Thus, the work they do hands upon the work of other men. The pompous public figure who mounts the highest stilts of oratorical eloquence is not necessarily one whit wiser than the humble adept who seldom brushes the air with words and who prefers depth of thought to dissipations in speech. A smug and conceited mind may become spiritually inert. The pontifical self-important formality of such statements is intended to create an impression. It does. However, we must penetrate their surface. Then we find there is some hollowness beneath them. When a malice and egotism get into a mental picture, reliability goes out of it. Cleverness may be admired, but envy is reprehensible. When the mind is hazed and feeling glamoured, reason and judgment are at their feeblest. However, with stronger thinking power there comes also intellectual pride and egoistic conceit. He must offset them by humbling himself deliberately before the higher self. He must not hesitate to pray daily to it, on bended knees and with clasped hands, begging for its grace, offering the little ego as a willing sacrifice and asking for guidance in his darkness. #RandolphHarris 6 of 23

Every neurotic need can turn into a claim. To begin with, they are unrealistic in two regards. The person establishes a title which exists in his mind only, and he has little, if any, consideration for the possibility of the fulfillment of his claims. This is obvious in the frankly fantastic claims of being exempt from illness, old age, and death. However, it is just as true for the others. The woman who feels entitled to having all her invitation accepted takes offense at anyone’s declining, no matter how urgent are the reasons for not accepting. The scholar who insists that everything should come easily to him resents the work to be put into a paper or an experiment, regardless of how necessary such work is and often despite his realizing that it cannot be done without painstaking work. If help is not immediately and gladly given, the alcoholic who feels entitled to having everybody help him in a financial calamity feels it is unfair, no matter whether others are in a position to do so or not. These illustrations point implicitly to a second characteristic of neurotic claims: their egocentricity. It is often so blatant that it strikes the observer as “naïve,” and reminds him of similar attitudes in spoiled children. These impressions lend weight to theoretical conclusions that all these claims are just “infantile” character traits in people who (at least, on this score) have failed to grow up. Actually, this contention is fallacious. The small child also is egocentric, but only because it has not yet developed a feeling of relatedness to others. It simply does not know that others have their needs, and limitations too—such as the mother’s needing sleep or not having the money to buy a toy. #RandolphHarris 7 of 23

The neurotic’s egocentricity is built on an entirely different and much more complicated base. He is consumed with himself because he is driven by his psychic needs, torn by his conflicts, and compelled to adhere to his peculiar solutions. Here are, then, two phenomena which look similar but are different. It follows that to tell a patient his claims are infantile is of utter therapeutic futility. It can merely mean to him that they are irrational (a fact which the analyst can show him in better ways), and this at best sets him thinking. Without much further work, it will not change anything. So much for this distinction. The egocentricity of neurotic claims can be epitomized in terms of my own revealing experience: priorities in wartime are all right, but my own needs should have absolute priority. If the neurotic feels ill or wants something done, everybody should drop everything else and rush to his assistance. The analyst’s assertion that he has no time available for a consultation often meets with a furious or insulting reply, or simply falls on deaf ears. If the patient needs it, there should be time. The less related the neurotic is to the World around him, the less is he aware of others and their feelings. As a patient who at the time showed a lofty disdain for reality once said: “I am an unattached comet, rushing in space. Which means that what I need is real—others with their needs are unreal.” #RandolphHarris 8 of 23

A third characteristic of the neurotic’s claims lies in his expectation that things are coming to him without his making adequate efforts. He does not admit that if he is lonely, he might well call up somebody; somebody should call him up. If he wants to take off weight, the simple reasoning that he must eat less often meets with so much inner opposition that he just keeps on eating, still considering it unfair that he does not look as slender as other people. Another may claim that he should be given an honourable job, a better position, an advance in salary without having done anything special to merit it and—what is more—without asking for it. He should not even have to be clear in his own mind what it is that he wants. He should be in the position to refuse or to take anything. Frequently, a person may express in most plausible and touching words how much he wants to be happy. However, his family or his friends realize after a while that it is extremely difficult to make him happy. So, they may tell him that there must be some discontent in him preventing him from attaining happiness. He may then go to an analyst. Whenever a person’s fantasies about what will happen after his death, his will or his posthumous papers offer the last chance for a payoff. His whole life may have been based on a falsehood or a concealed treasure which is only revealed as a triumph after his death—a trick which he plays on posterity. There are many historical examples of this: hidden talents which only come to light when the manuscript or the canvases are found concealed among the papers. #RandolphHarris 9 of 23

Hidden wealth and hidden poverty are commonly revealed during the probate of wills. Wills are also favourite vehicles for switch tricks. The commonest has already been mentioned: mother leaves the bulk of her property to the “faithless” daughter and cuts the devoted one off with a pittance. Sometimes bigamy only comes to light after the will is read. The question here is: “What is going to be the most important item in your will? What is going to be the biggest surprise for those you leave behind after you die?” We have now followed Jeder in his script from before birth until after death. However, there are many more interesting things to consider before we go on to talk about treatment. The World as one’s own representation seems to be a picture of social and psychological truth. It seems to be a picture or image, a useful way of viewing social matters. Advance but a step further and one enters upon an ancient religious truth. It is not just an image. It is a fact. The oneness of all things is known to l’autre moi. It is intuited in varying degrees and times by all persons, it is referred to in all scriptures (id est, Matt. 25.40, John 17.21, Rom. 12.5), and in it lies the usefulness of kindness to all. Ego looks skeptical at this. Self-identity by its own choosing is a very limited realm. Beyond this is all things which views this identity as one of its images! There is a beautiful moment called satori or enlightenment given to some at odd times. In this moment, the One sees Itself create Itself into all things and the mystery of creation is undone. The One does this in the spirit of endless play. It strives as all things, through all time, to come back home where there is changeless peace. Back home it sees that wandering through all creation, it never leaves him. This is the great self that is all things, that speaks an ancient and nowadays language of symbols using all things to represent itself because they are itself. #RandolphHarris 10 of 23

Out of this insight grows a natural religious life that sees no aspect of life alien to itself including all religious, all ceremonies, all the ancient forms of its expression. Relaxed perception, drinking in the World, sees in itself things going on. We must now embark on the subject of this convulsive effort to control the World and to introduce a universal rule. We have arrived at the moment when rebellion, rejecting every aspect of servitude, attempts to annex all creation. Every time it experiences a setback, we have already seen that the political solution, the solution of conquest, is formulated. Henceforth, with the introduction of moral nihilism, it will retain, of all its acquisitions, only the will to power. In principle, the rebel only wanted to conquer his own existence and to maintain it in the face of God. However, he forgets his origins and, by the law of spiritual imperialism, he sets out in search of World conquest by way of infinitely multiplied series of murders. He drove God from His Heaven, but now that the spirit of metaphysical rebellion openly joins forces with revolutionary movements, the irrational claim for freedom paradoxically adopts reason as a weapon, and as the only means of conquest which appears entirely human. With the death of God, mankind remains; and by this we mean the history that we must understand and shape. Nihilism, which, in the very midst of rebellion, smothers the force of creation, only adds that one is justified in using every means at one’s disposal. Man, on Earth that he knows is henceforth solitary, is going to add, to irrational crimes, the crimes of reason that are bent on the triumph of man. To the “I rebel, therefore we exist,” he adds, with prodigious plans in mind which even include the death of rebellion: “And we are alone.” #RandolphHarris 11 of 23

The problem in understanding neurogeography is that neurologicians do not have a clear picture of the centers and pathways of the human nervous system. As they become more precise in locating brain functions then the correspondence with ecological-niche-containers will be more precisely described. All we can do is to simply sketch in the striking similarities between geography and brain circuit. The autonomic nervous system runs from China to the Middle-East. The autonomic nervous system regulates involuntary action. This ancient brain includes the spinal cord, the medulla and pons which comprise the hindbrain and the midbrain. Historically, we know that human civilization emerged in the Middle East around 4200 BC and for four thousand years was centered in cities stretching from China to the Middle East, flowing along trade-route-invasion pathways. This region of the globe—like the spinal column—has always stressed involuntary behaviour, discouraging and limiting individual-voluntary behaviour. The reptilian-mammalian nervous system—midbrain—is located in the middle east. The so-called reptile brain—R complex—is made up of circuits which surround the midbrain and according to Carl Sagan “plays an important role in aggressive behaviour, territoriality, ritual and the establishment of social hierarchies.” Also, surrounding the midbrain is the limbic area which “appears to generate strong or particularly vivid emotions…and the beginnings of altruistic behaviour.” The area just west of—above—Asia emerged as the dominant-civilization around 300 B.C. This Mid-East region continues to be a center of territorial disputes, jealousies, revenges and passionate conflict among neighbours and social hierarchies. #RandolphHarris 12 of 23

The unattractive person generally has a more difficult time winning friends and in being popular with the opposite gender than the person with a pleasing appearance. One of my students demonstrated that a man judged attractive in appearance from his photographs was overwhelmingly preferred as a prospective date by a group of college women over two men judged less good-looking. Several studies have demonstrated that a person’s appearance may be a source of anxiety for that person. Paul Secord and Sideny Jourard showed that measures of the degree to which people are like their bodies were negatively correlated with measures of anxious body preoccupation and security. In other words, the more persons accept their bodies, the more secure and free from anxiety they feel. Persons with a high measured degree of anxiety tended to be dissatisfied with their bodies. Anxious overconcern with the body is called hypochondriasis. Hypochondriacs are individuals who are continually preoccupied with their health. They make the rounds of doctors’ offices and does themselves regularly with laxatives, vitamin pills, and sedatives. Hypochondriacal anxiety is a substitute for, or a displacement of, anxiety that derives from other sources: repressed hostility, sexual difficulties, or achievement problems. The hypochondriac evidently finds it less threatening to worry about health than to think realistically about other problems. #RandolphHarris 13 of 23

Persons may become excessively concerned about their appearance. This is most likely to occur among persons who use their appearance to gain acceptance from others, to enhance their social status, or to attract attention. The name narcissistic overconcern seems appropriate to describe this pattern. If a wrinkle, gray hair, or change in weight appears, such a person will become panic-stricken. Hypochondriasis and narcissistic overconcern both may be viewed as unhealthy responses to the appearance and functions of the body. They are unhealthy for a variety of reasons: They fail to solve the problems basically responsible for the anxiety in the first place. Furthermore, while these persons concentrate so much attention on themselves and their bodies, they neglect other concerns of importance to healthy personality, for instance, productive work and healthy relationships with other people. Reasonable concern for one’s health and appearance is compatible with healthy personality, but reasonable concern does not place other values in jeopardy. If individuals with healthy personalities become physically ill, they will take the steps necessary to restore or improve health, but then they will turn their attention to other matters. Furthermore, they will live in accordance with a habitual health regime—adequate diet, rest, and exercise—that maintains their health without requiring too much conscious attention. They will take whatever steps are necessary for them to look their best, and then they will take their appearance for granted. They do not rely totally on their appearance for successful living. #RandolphHarris 14 of 23

All of the Sacramento Fire Department’s core leader competencies, especially leading others, involves influence. They draw on a variety of techniques to influence others. These range from obtaining compliance to build a commitment to achieve. Resistance is the opposite of compliance and commitment. There are many techniques for influencing others to comply or commit, and the Sacramento Fire Department uses one or more of them to fit the specifies of any situation. Compliance-focused influence is based primarily on authority. Giving a direct order to a follower is one approach to obtaining compliance during a task. Compliance is appropriate for short-term, immediate requirements and for situations where little risk can be tolerated. Compliance techniques are also appropriate for use with others who are relatively unfamiliar with their tasks or unwilling or unable to commit fully to the request. If something needs to be done with little time for delay, and there is no need for a team member to understand why the request is made, then compliance is an acceptable approach. Compliance-focused influence is not particularly effective when your greatest aim is to create initiative and high esteem within your department. The Sacramento Fire Department has found that commitment-focused influence generally produces longer-lasting and broader effects. Whereas compliance changes only a follower’s behaviour, commitment reaches deeper—changing attitudes and beliefs, as well as behaviour. For example, when a firefighter or EMT builds responsibility among their team members, they will likely demonstrate more initiative, personal involvement, and creativity. #RandolphHarris 15 of 23

Commitment grows from an individual’s desire to gain a sense of control and develop self-worth by contributing to the organization. Depending on the objective of the influence, leaders can strengthen commitment by reinforcing followers’ identification with the nation (loyalty), the Sacramento Fire Department (professionalism), the unit organization (selfless service), the leadership in a unit (respect), and to the job (duty). “In the beginning my boys were very proud of me, but now they are having a tough time. The eldest is seventeen, and his brother is sixteen. It’s a very hard age for boys. They go to a Christian high school, and there are no sons of civil servants in their class. I think it’s tough on them. My sixteen-year-old son is an honor student, and he plays football. He is Jack Armstrong, the All-American Boy. His dream is to go to Harvard. My oldest son is the creator in the family. He amazes me. He is the opposite of his brother, and yet they are more good friends than brothers. They are very close, yet very different. My oldest son questions everything. He is very intellectual and creative. He’s a good artist, and yet he’s a good student. I think he is the most like me, because he is the one that I don’t get along with. I also think he’s the one who is most threatened by what I do. Then there’s my youngest son. He’s twelve. I think his dream in life is to own a gym. He wants to help people get in shape and stay healthy. My daughter, who’s six, wants to be a firefighter. She never thought about it until she visited the firehouse. She thinks the guys are terrific. I thought it was just a passing thing, but she does have more of an interest than just being inquisitive. #RandolphHarris 16 of 23

“There was a made-for-TV movie about a Los Angeles woman who was the first woman firefighter. I believe her name was Cindy Frohlich. My wife recorded it on DVR at my daughter’s request. That’s her favorite film, and God help any who deletes it. She really identifies with it. In our house, the challenge has been getting through your teenage years. “One day at a time” is the motto in our house. I guess the focus has to be on them now, because it’s been very rough on the family. There has been a lot of tension, and it has taken a lot out of the family. Now that my wife and I are making a conscious effort to redirect that attention, things have calmed down a little bit. The tension of the first few years, then getting injured, the time off, the visits to the hospital have been very rough on the family. Not being home, getting a baby-sitter. Now we’re consciously trying to redirect all of that attention back onto the kids and to the family unit. We’re directing our energy to what the kids need and what they want. I’m not studying for lieutenant. I think it’s a great job, but my family needs me right now. I am happy that my kids are good kids. I spent time with them. My two oldest are driving and I constantly lecture them about peer pressure, drugs and alcohol. Our kids didn’t go to Christian grammar school, just high school. We took them out of Monterey Trails and sent them to Forest Lake Christian School.” It is true that no man can arrive at the truth about God through his own thinking, which is merely the ego thinking. However, it is also true that through keen, close, and sustained reflection, man can arrive at the truth which perceives the ego’s limitations, the intellect’s limitations, and thereby know the time has come to suspend such efforts to stop and to surrender in mystical meditation to the non-thought side of his being. #RandolphHarris 17 of 23

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to out run the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 18 of 23

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 19 of 23

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 20 of 23

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. As an incentive to buy American made cars, President Trump plans to made interest on loans for American cars tax deductible. Americans surely make superior products, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 21 of 23

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 22 of 23

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 23 of 23

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If it dominates a person as it does with most people, cerebral thought is an activity which prevents intuitions from deeper levels of consciousness gaining entry. It also prevents other minds from entering, thus barring hypnotic suggestion suggestions and telepathic transfer. Ordinary thinking is wholly related to experience connected with the five senses. It entirely misses the higher dimension which is the content of such insight. The same power which caused man to fashion a crude wooden plough eventually enabled him to fashion a motor-driven plough. That power was and is intelligence. The power to discriminate between the false and the true, to decide between the right and the wrong, to judge all the varied factors which present themselves to the senses, is the power of intelligence. God trusts us to make many important decisions, and in all matters, He asks us to trust Him. As we seek to understand and accept God’s will, it is helpful to remember that the boundaries between right and wrong are not for us to define. God has established these boundaries Himself, based on eternal truths for our benefit and blessing.  Intuition is often the explosive climax a long slow process of hard thinking but whether it comes swiftly or slowly, it must always be ready to justify itself at the bar of reason, for the latter is our only reliable guide to truth. Only when its fullest use has led him to the point of transcending it, may man lay reason side. #RandolphHarris 1 of 24

Man accepts all that mystical intuition can tell him about his own and the universal being. However, if he listens also to what the rational intellect can tell him, man sees that it will not be weakened, it will only be supported, checked and balanced. Unless every question is seen in relation to God, it is not seen rightly. Therefore, whatever answer is gained cannot be the final one. If man’s intellect is subject to error and illusion, how can it distinguish correctly the final Truth which is not subject to error, and the absolute Reality which is not subject to illusion? Life is an enigma to those who think, who have felt the intellectual urge to probe its meaning and the emotional urge to find a conscious relationship with it. Yet, if they pursue the attempt to satisfy these yearnings, they do not get far. The theories and beliefs offered from different sources too often contradict one another. Life continues to evade the deeper questions. The intellect, by its criticism and research, can serve and supplement the intuition’s work, can round and balance it; the service need not nullify it. Such a collaboration ought to be encouraged, not excluded as the more religious devotee in the past often excluded it. Thinking about the Overself is inferior to experiencing the Overself but in its own way and on its own level, it is helpful. Reason with a small “r” is the logical use of thoughts, which is a mediate process; but with a capital “R” it is the intelligent use of the understanding, which is a direct immediate thing: intuition. #RandolphHarris 2 of 24

Kant used reason somewhat in this sense—but went only part of the way into a semi-agnosticism, semi-knowledge of the truth. So the term got fixed into its lesser meaning alone: the Kantian use of it is somewhat obsolete and best used by laymen. The intelligence, as something more than intellect alone, can be used to carry his thinking to the verge of an intuition which will light up some of his understanding. However, such a success requires certain preconditions: a measure of equilibrium in his personality, a measure of self-discipline in his character, intensive pondering on the truth. There are no final conclusions in these matters. It is better to accept the truth and let life remain inconclusive than delude oneself. However, this is not to support those who claim that the only truth is that there is no Truth, or those who assent that all is mere opinion. Intuition speaks with its own authority but what does it lose if it has the support of argument? When intellect comes to understand that its own existence implies a superior existence which is its origin, it has served its highest function. When it accepts the fact of intuition and serves it by laying itself down in stilled prostration, there is born Intelligence. Then alone does truth appear and peace bless us. Intellect obstructs the light of the Overself. The intellect, which so usefully serves the purpose of analysis or exposition, discussion or explanation, is useless for the purposes of acquaintance with, or comprehension of, the essence of things, creatures, life, or mind. It is not capable of “touching the Untouchable,” to use an express borrowed from the most ancient and, at one time, the most secret Asiatic philosophy.  #RandolphHarris 3 of 24

Human thinking can only lead to, and produce, another thought, or series of thoughts. It cannot get beyond itself, cannot rise to any object that is not of the nature of a thought. The intellect is incompetent to solve the mystery of man by itself. However, in the absence of a properly developed intuition, it can render certain useful services to protect and guide the seeker. If it is not to be relied on altogether, it is nevertheless not to be abandoned altogether. All thought chases its own tail. Going far means returning. However, most staggering are certain secret claims toward life in general. Any doubt about the irrational character of claims is bound to disappear in this area. Naturally, it would shatter a person’s feeling of godlikeness to face the fact that for him at any time with an accident, bad fortune, illness, or death—and blast his feeling of omnipotence. For (to reiterate an ancient truth) there is very little we can do about it. We can avoid certain risks of dying and we can, nowadays, protect ourselves against financial losses connected with death; but we cannot avoid death. Unable to face the precariousness of his life as a human being, the neurotic individual develops claims of his inviolability, or claims of being the anointed, of luck always being on his side, of life being easy and without suffering. In contrast to the claims operating in human relationships, those toward life in general cannot be asserted effectively. The neurotic with these claims can do but two things. He can deny, in his mind, that anything can happen to him. In that case, he tends to be reckless—go out in cold weather when he has a fever, not take precautions against infections likely to occur, or have pleasures of the flesh without precautions. He will live as though he could never grow old, or die. #RandolphHarris 4 of 24

Hence, of course, if some adversity does strike him, it is a crushing experience and may throw him into panic. Trivial though the experience may be, it shatters his lofty beliefs in his inviolability. He may turn to the other extreme, and become overcautious toward life. If he cannot rely on his claims for inviolability being respected, then anything can happen and he can rely on nothing. This does not mean that he has relinquished his claims. Rather, it means that he wants not to expose himself to another realization of their futility. Other attitudes toward life and fate seem more sensible, as long as we do not recognize the claims behind them. Many patients directly or indirectly express a sentiment of its being unfair that they are afflicted with their particular difficulties. When talking about their friends, they will point out that despite their being neurotic, too, this one is more at ease in social situations; that one is more successful with women; another is more aggressive, or enjoys life more fully. Such meanderings though futile, seem understandable. Each one, after all, suffers under his personal difficulties, and hence will feel it more desirable not to have the particular ones that harass him. However, the patient’s responses to being together with one of these “enviable” people point to a more serious process. He can suddenly develop a cold, or become despondent. Going after such responses, we discover the source of the trouble to be a rigid claim that he should not have any problems at all. He is entitled, moreover, not only to a life devoid of personal problems but to the combined excellencies of those he knows in person, or, say, on the screen: to be as humble and intelligent as Charles Chaplin, as humane and courageous as Spencer Tracy, as victoriously virile as Clark Gable. #RandolphHarris 5 of 24

The claim that I should not be I is too obviously irrational to be raised as such. It appears in the form of resentful envy toward anybody better endowed or more fortunate in his development; in imitation or adoration of them; in claims directed toward the analyst to supply him with all these desirable, often contradictory perfections. This claim for being endowed with supreme attributes is rather crippling in its implications. It not only makes for a chronic smoldering envy and discontent, but constitutes a real drawback for analytic work. If it is unfair in the first place that the patient should have any neurotic difficulties, it certainly is doubly unfair to expect him to work at his problems. On the contrary, he feels entitled to be relieved of his difficulties without having to go through the labourious process of changing. This survey of kinds of neurotic claims is not complete. Since every neurotic need can turn into a claim, we would have to discuss each single one in order to give an exhaustive picture of claims. However, even a short survey gives us a feeling for their peculiar nature. For instance, in sharp contrast to individuals who use the work ethic either to avoid pleasures of the flesh or devalue it, are those men and women who place a high value on pleasures of the flesh but unwittingly approach it with a work perspective. Pleasures of the flesh, like work, becomes for them a matter of performance. They always have a goal in view: climax for the man, “excitement” for the woman. In their view, pleasures of the flesh are a purposeful activity and intercourse is its objective. If this goal is accomplished, the job has been satisfactorily handled. #RandolphHarris 6 of 24

Such an outlook logically enough includes an emphasis on quantity of achievement as a measurement of quality. If the man performs skillfully enough, for example, the woman may have several “excitments”—and as they see it, two or three are obviously superior to one. If the woman performs skillfully enough, the man may be stimulated to respond several times in one night. Pleasures of the flesh for them is not a way of being, a way of expressing the mood of the moment, a way of nourishing a continuing emotional commitment. It is always a single incident. Goal-oriented pleasures of the flesh concentrate on this moment as this act. It demands gratification now, and gratification is returned only through attainment of specific goals of pleasures of the flesh. Goal-oriented pleasures of the flesh is usually self-defeating. As the result of a constant demand for performance, which can blot out emotional appreciation of what is actually happening, interest in pleasures of the flesh is soon lost. At first, there may be extraordinarily intense excitement of the senses. However, a steady decline in sensual responsiveness is all but inevitable, because the power to evoke excitement by purely physical, tactile stimulation is subject to the law of diminishing returns. The first time a hand touches a body, the sensation may be explosive—nourished by expectations of what is to happen. By the tenth or twentieth time, however, if the expectations have not been fulfilled, the hand will probably be just a familiar physical presence with a considerably diminished capacity to evoke the desired response. And by the fiftieth time, even a demanding touch may have no beneficial effect whatsoever. It may even evoke aversion. #RandolphHarris 7 of 24

However, place that touch in contest of an emotional climate in which two persons are together simply because they enjoy being together, arrange the time and circumstances to permit them to express the feelings of a man and woman who, as caring human beings, kindle intimate passions in each other quite apart from the act of pleasures of the flesh; and then a hand’s caress results in more than just tactile stimulation. Then touch acquires emotional meaning. Pleasures of the flesh in a warm, emotionally committed relationship may change in character and response to intimate passions may become diffused after a while. It may not always reach the peaks of excitement that are sometimes experienced by a man and woman in their early, experimental encounters. However, other dimensions of pleasure with intimate passions may be discovered—the familiarity that is comforting, the safety that allows complete vulnerability, and the deepening sense of emotional intimacy, among other pleasures. In contrast, the peaks that occur in goal-oriented pleasures of the flesh decline steadily thereafter—to be achieved again, if at all, with a new partner, and then another. If that happens to be all an individual desires, finds available or is capable of achieving, this observation should not be interpreted as a condemnation of goal-oriented pleasures of the flesh. Pleasures of the flesh as a goal-oriented performance is the usual substitute when pleasures of the flesh with emotional commitment either fails to develop or is deliberately avoided. #RandolphHarris 8 of 24

How many people succeed in the quest for a relationship of mutually shared emotional involvement, married or not? For marriage does not automatically make the difference. On the contrary, in too many marriages pleasures of the flesh is goal-oriented, a one-dimensional demand for momentary gratification. This is one of the reasons so many couples complain of boredom with pleasures of the flesh. Like workers on an assembly line, they go through routine motions and produce predictable results. They are following directions, not expressing feelings. They want to know, for example, how many times a week they should have pleasures of the flesh. If everybody else has it three times a week, then they should have it three times a week. Three times is right and proper; anything less means that something must be wrong with them—and anything more means that something quite different is wrong with them. Numbers are useful to them in still another way. If one partner has a lower level of desire for pleasures of the flesh, numbers are a convenient way to limit the other partner’s demands. “How much do I have to do?” these individuals are asking. It is, of course, the work ethic all over again. These are moments of learning, of humility, when we go to our knees in prayer. We walk forward in faith, trusting in God, knowing that with time we will receive more spiritual clarity from our Heavenly Father. #RandolphHarris 9 of 24

At all times, it is helpful to remember Alma’s teaching that God gives His word according to the attention and effort we devote to it. If we heed God’s word, we will receive more; if we ignore His counsel, we will receive less and less until we have none. This loss of knowledges does not mean that the truth was wrong; rather, it shows that we have lost the capacity to understand it. Individuality, in the sense of a defended citadel in the midst of a sea of others, is hardly worth having—an encumbrance best overcome. Individuality is of worth insofar as it means allowing all aspects of one’s self (inner and outer, feelings and other people) to be and to grow in whatever richness is in their seed. This open self is not simply the tool or door mat for others. A colleague just startled me by bursting in my door for the hundredth time. It is good for him that I call into question his manners that we might get along together. It sometimes seems to me that God watches how much I measure out to others and how much to myself. It is Christian to deny one’s portion at least a bit (to be on the safe side). It is a genius who can be even fairer than that—to allow myself just equality and nothing more or less. If it denies itself, the open side is false for then it is not open to its own needs. While I admire the uniqueness of the tree outside my window, I can also appreciate this stoutish, middle-aged, German self here. The open self rates itself at least the equal of all others. This means equally as good as anyone else. #RandolphHarris 10 of 24

The struggling individual has available the guidance of both the outer forces and the inner. A relaxed perception of the inner lets it voice itself, to reveal what is. One’s own dreams can be read. They form the latest daily report on one’s favourite stock, one’s self. Once I had a long drive alone in the dark of night, so I went to work in my portable laboratory—my mind. If I relax, what fantasy comes? It was of a female companion driving with me. Like a professional psychotherapist, I set out to learn of him. Your fantasy may lead to deduction in the dark car, but not with my woman. She was thin, sad, dressed in mourning clothes. Poor woman. I learned of her sad tale, how she had been mistreated by her spouse until she no longer knew enjoyment in life. As I became more considerate, she cheered up and seemed less in mourning and even less thin. She really would enjoy doing things but she needed to be coaxed out of her sadness. It was many miles before I fully knew that sitting beside me was my own feelings, and I was sorry how I (her spouse) had treated her. The inner speaks of the more fundamental truth. It cannot do otherwise. Opening outward one can be guided by all others and even by nature. The relaxed perception of nature restores many to sanity. Opening outward there is increased appreciation for others. Worth is seen in their differences and uniqueness. Insofar as others are given life in one’s World, there is a lessening of conflict, difference, opposition. What values from the World shall guide me? The rights of others and all things—the golden rule. #RandolphHarris 11 of 24

The ego is a term psychoanalysts use to designate the functions of coordinating and controlling the movements of one’s body. One of the first signs that the ego has developed is infants’ capacity voluntarily to control their movements. Mastery of the outer environment and mastery of one’s body appear to be correlated. Before such mastery has been achieved, body movements are global, undifferentiated, and not subject to voluntary control. Once such mastery has been achieved, the infant or child is able to suppress undifferentiated responses to events and respond in a discrete, skillful manner. The ability to coordinate eyes, hands, and mouth is probably among the first signs that the ego is developing. As physical maturation proceeds, children acquire increasing mastery over the body and are able to perform according to their wishes. If suitably trained, by the time persons reach adulthood, they may be able to achieve such levels of bodily control as are found among athletes and dancers. The loss of control of body functions and performances is experienced as catastrophic by most persons. Not to be the master of one’s body—its movements, needs, and functions—is a loss of the most basic level of control. Adults who cannot control their appetite, or their bowel and bladder sphincters, will feel deep shame and will lose confidence in themselves. #RandolphHarris 12 of 24

Progress, from the time of Sade up to the present day, has consisted in gradually enlarging the stronghold where, according to his own rules, man without God brutally wields power. In defiance of the divinity, the frontiers of this stronghold have been gradually extended, to the point of making the entire Universe into a fortress erected against the fallen and exiled deity. Man, at the culmination of his rebellion, incarcerated himself; from Sade’s lurid castle to slavery plantations, man’s greatest liberty consisted only in building the prisons of his crimes. However, the state of siege gradually spreads, the demand for freedom wants to embrace all mankind. Then the only kingdom that is opposed to the kingdom of grace must be founded—namely, the kingdom of justice—and the human community must be reunited among the debris of the fallen City of God. To kill God and to build a Church are the constant and contradictory purpose of rebellion. Absolute freedom finally becomes a prison of absolute duties, a collective asceticism, a story to be brought to an end. The nineteenth century, which is the century of rebellion, thus merges into the twentieth, the century of justice and ethics, in which everyone indulges in self-recrimination. Chamfort, the moralist of rebellion, had already provided the formula: “One must be just before being generous, as one must have bread before having cake.” Thus, the ethic of luxury will be renounced in favour of the bitter morality of the empire-builders. #RandolphHarris 13 of 24

The tombstone, like the sweatshirt, has two sides. The questions here are: “What will they put on your tombstone?” A typical answer is: “They will say, ‘She was a good girl,’ and I will say: ‘I tried hard but I did not make it.’” Once more, “they” usually means the parents, or parental people. “Their” epitaph is the antiscript, while the patient himself writes his script injunction on his tombstone—in the case above: “Try hard but be sure not to make it.” Thus the tombstone speak of nothing but good of the dead, for one side says that he fulfilled the precepts of his antiscript, while the other indicates that he was also an obedient child who followed his mother’s script instruction, however encouraging or discouraging they might have been. If the patient tries to avoid reading this tombstone by saying there will not be one, that answer has its own meaning. Whoever cops out on death is also copping out on life. However, the therapist should then insist on getting the two epitaphs with the questions: “If there was one, what would be on it?” or “Here you have got to have one.” According to Wegner’s theories of continental drift in the beginning, there was one landmass on the planet—Gonawanda. This one blob of extruded rock split into continents. Inertia from planet-spin, West to East, pulled the continents a part. The continents and hemispheres of planet Earth have been settled by technological civilizations in stages which correspond to the evolution of brain centers. #RandolphHarris 14 of 24

Thus, the arrangement of landmasses corresponds topologically to the anatomy of the nervous system. Asia is the spinal column; the Middle East is the mid-brain, and the limbic system; Europe and Africa are containers for the right and left lobes of the old cortex; North and South America are platforms for the emergence of the neocortex, the self-defining future brain. When we chart the emergence of civilization, the emergence of increasingly complex technology and social-communication systems, it is apparent that different continents were activated at different times in history—Asia, then Europe, then America. The migration of human populations from Eastern to Western continents corresponds to the emergence of more evolved brain centers. Landmasses are literally platforms for emerging brain circuits. The distribution of landmass is an external representation of evolving brain circuits. The migration of neurotechnology from continent to continent has closely paralleled the opening-up of new neural pathways. Establishment of populations centers in Western areas paralleled the emergency of high-more-frontal brain centers. The new migratory pathways, probing Westward, correspond to the direction of neural pathways up from the spinal column, to the mid-brain, to the limbic system, to the cortex, to the frontal cortex. The landmasses of the planet Earth serve as container-niches for newly emerging brain circuits. Geography from the evolutionary point of view, is literally topological neuroanatomy. #RandolphHarris 15 of 24

Members of the Sacramento Fire Department have had to become pentathletes, multi-skilled leaders who are able to thrive in uncertain and complex operating environments…innovative and adaptive leaders who are expert in the art and science of the profession of fire science and medical care. Leaders provide purpose, direction and motivation. The Sacramento Fire Department works hard to lead people, to develop themselves, their team members, and organizations, and to accomplish their missions across the spectrum of emergencies. However, continuously building and refining your values and attributes, as well as acquiring more professional knowledge, is only part of becoming a competent firefighter or EMT. Leadership succeeds when you act and apply the core leader competencies. As you move from direct leadership positions to the organizational and strategic leader levels, those competencies take on different nuances and complexities. Extending influence beyond the chain of command requires the ability to operate in an environment, including both higher and lower command structures, and using your influence outside the traditional chain of command. This includes connecting with partners; local nationals; and governmental or nongovernmental agencies. In this area, the Sacramento Fire Department often operates without designated authority, or while others do not recognize their authority. #RandolphHarris 16 of 24

Nevertheless, leading by example is essential to leading effectively over the course of time. Whether they intend to or not, the Sacramento Fire Department provides an example that others consider and use in what they do. This competency reminds them to serve as a role model. Their actions are grounded in the Sacramento Fire Department’s Values and imbued with the Warrior Ethos.  Communication ensures that the Sacramento Fire Department gains a clear understanding of what needs to be done, and why, within their organization. This competency deals with maintaining a clear focus on the team’s efforts to achieve goals and tasks to accomplish missions. It helps build consensus and is a critical took for successful operations in diverse multinational settings. The Sacramento Fire Department refines their communicating abilities by developing advanced oral, written, and listening skills. “I read a lot, I keep very busy, it’s just the way I am. I work a lot, and I stay home a lot. I do a lot of writing, too. I’ve got a small sailboat, which I enjoy. I like sailing. There’s a pretty large reservoir north of town. My wife had a traditional East Coast kind of upbringing. She’s from Haverford, and she attended the prep school Bryn Mawr. It’s very different from the West Coat upbringing I had. She attended Elmira College in upstate New York. She went there for two years, then decided she wanted to do something entirely different. So she moved out to the West Coast and lived briefly with some cousins in Salme before she moved to Sacramento. #RandolphHarris 17 of 24

“She was working at a department store. I would drop buy and buy clothes. The least expensive thing I could buy were socks, tee shirts and underwear. I would go by on my days off to purchase a new shirt, shoes, or a pair of pants because it was a chance to strike up a conversation, have a joke or two. Finally, when this one drawer in my apartment was overflowing with socks and underwear, I figured it was time to ask her out to lunch. Then we got married. We have a daughter, who is four, and a son, who was born last April. My wife and I spent a lot of time outdoors before we had the kids. Our area is a great one for that. We did a lot of cross-country skiing, and of course, sailing. We like to go to the coast and go hiking on the beaches and the sand dunes. Sacramento if a great place if you’re into that. We’ve got a couple of guys in the department who are what we call “rock jocks.” They are heavily into mountain climbing and that sort of thing. Firefighting is a great job, because it gives them the chance to do that. They are also real good on the job if we get involved in an extreme-angle rescue. The advice I would give my kids is the same advice my dad gave me without being judgmental: ‘Do whatever you want to do, but just try to be the very best at it. Do the best you can.’ To him, if I wanted to be a teacher or a firefighter or whatever, as long as I showed some kind of commitment to that line of work and gave it my best shot, that was all that counted. I don’t think I could ask any more of my kids than that.” #RandolphHarris 18 of 24

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to out run the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 19 of 24

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 20 of 24

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 21 of 24

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. As an incentive to buy American made cars, President Trump plans to made interest on loans for American cars tax deductible. Americans surely make  superior products, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 22 of 24

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 23 of 24

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 24 of 24

The Winchester Mystery House

Experience an unforgettable journey back to the time of kings and queens with this entry ticket for The Winchester Mansion in Santa Clara, California which was the residence of Sarah L. Winchester. Take advantage of this fascinating experience. After tour, there will be time enjoy the mansion’s splendor at your own pace. You might even discover secret passages.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion.

For further information about tours, including group tours, weddings, school events, birthday party packages, facility rentals, and special events please visit the website: https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Please visit the online giftshop, and purchase a gift for friends and relatives as well as a special memento of The Winchester Mystery House. A variety of souvenirs and gifts are available to purchase. https://shopwinchestermysteryhouse.com/

The Winchester Mystery House is full of surprises. What was your favorite, “Oooh!” moment during your visit at the mansion? (And for those of you who still have to check it off your bucket list… we will hopefully see you soon.)  https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Why Are We Here?

If you do not make the unconscious conscious, it will control your life and many will call it fate. I am still grateful for an incident which occurred during the last war, because it opened my eyes to unconscious claims I haboured and, from these, to those of others. Coming back from a visit to Mexico, I was put off the flight in Corpus Christi because of priorities. Although I considered this regulation perfectly justified in principle, I noticed that I was furiously indignant when it applied to me. I was really exasperated at the prospect of a three-day train ride to New York, and became greatly fatigued. The whole upset culminated in the consoling thought that this might be a special provision by providence, because something might happen to the plane. At that point, I suddenly saw the ridiculousness of my reactions. And, starting to think about them, I saw the claims: first, to be the exception; second, to be taken special care of by providence. From then on, my whole attitude toward the train ride changed. It was no less uncomfortable to sit day and night in overcrowded day coaches. However, I was no longer tired, and even began to enjoy the trip. I believe that anyone can easily duplicate and extent this experience with observations of himself or others. The difficulties many people have, for instance, in observing traffic regulations—and pedestrian or as driver—often result from an unconscious protest against them. They should not be subjected to such rules. Other resent the “insolence” of a bank in drawing their attention to the fact that they have overdrawn their account. #RandolphHarris 1 of 23

Again, many fears of examinations, or the inability to prepare for them, stem from a claim to exemption. Similarly, indignation at seeing a bad performance may derive from feeling entitled to first-class entertainment. This claim of being the exception pertains also in regard to natural laws, psychic or physical. It is amazing how obtuse otherwise intelligent patients can become when it is a matter of seeing the inevitability of cause and effect in psychic matters. I am thinking of rather self-evident connections such as these: if we want to achieve something, we must strive toward assuming responsibility for ourselves. Or: so long as we are arrogant, we will be vulnerable. Or: so long as we do not love ourselves, we cannot possibly believe that others love us, and must by necessity be suspicious toward any assertion of love. Patients presented with such sequences of cause and effect may start to argue, to become befogged or evasive. Many factors are involved to produce this peculiar denseness. We must realize in the first place that to grasp such cause-and-effect relations means confronting the patient with the necessity of inner changes. Of course, it is always difficult to change any neurotic factor. However, in addition, as we have already seen, many patients have an intense unconscious aversion to the realization that they should be subject to any necessity. If they let their meaning penetrate at all—the mere words “rules,” “necessities,” or “restrictions” may make them shudder. In their private World everything is possible to them. #RandolphHarris 2 of 23

The recognition of any necessity applying to themselves, therefore, would actually pull them down from their lofty World into actuality, where they would be subject to the same natural laws as anybody else. And it is this need to eliminate necessity from their lives which turns into a claim. In analysis, this shows in their feeling entitled to be above the necessity of changing. Thus, if they want to become independent or less vulnerable, or want to be able to believe in being love, they must see that they have unconsciously been refusing to change attitudes within themselves. The intellect ought to work only as a servant, obeying intuition’s orders in practical life or filling in details for intuition’s discoveries in the truth-seeking quest. These competing tendencies of intuition and reason may, however, be harmonized in a balanced personality. All mystics have not advocated the paralysis of intellect—even Jacob Boehme wrote: “Human reason, by being kept within its true bounds and regulated by a superior light, is only made useful. Both the divine and natural life may in the soul subsist together and be of mutual service each to the other.” We should not rightly expect such a deliberately evoked intuition to act always as a substitute for reason. Its help is to be sought only when reason is baffled. We must not on the plea of the superiority of intuition desert our parallel duty of evolving reasoning power. We are endowed with intelligence, with the faculty to reason things out, with the ability to box the compass of our own life, and it is our task to use this most common of all potential qualities a little more frequently than we appear to do at the present time. #RandolphHarris 3 of 23

The greatest intellect is as nothing when compared with the intelligence, the so-called subconscious mind, which directs the involuntary functions of the body. Intellect, reason, and intelligence are not convertible terms in this teaching. The first is the lowest faculty of the trio, the third is the highest, the second is the medial one. Intellect is logical thinking based on all available and impartially collected facts. Intelligence is the fruit of a union between reason and intuition. The truth is not against intellect but above it, not opposed to thought but beyond it. None of these ultimate problems can be solved by the intellect: those who imagine they do so, deceive themselves. And if they communicate their specific solutions to disciples or followers they, unintentionally perhaps, mislead them. Human thought can go so far but no farther. The “truth” which intellect can attain is a perpetually moving one. Thinking can never arrive at a final conclusion that is completely final, or at an absolutely true “truth.” Outside my window is an oak tree. Every time I see it, it says something different. Today a woodpecker works on its side which is riddled with woodpecker hoes. Peck, peck, peck, peck—it says impatient. Not thorough. Other days I see it strong limbs cast eternally in a face posture saying “thus” like a symbol of endless meaning. Now the branches hang down leafless and say “go to Earth, peaceful.” Such an eloquent tree. Its massive trunk goes to Earth and says, “I am real before you.” And so it is. In this relaxed perception of things each wordlessly reveals something and endlessly changes in nuances of meaning. Obviously, the eloquence of the tree is mine. It says my meanings. Other see another tree there. Dull wits see merely an oak tree. In the relaxed, congruent, empathetic, unconditional regard for things they become beautifully eloquent of their/your nature. The perceived and apperceived World is one’s own representation. #RandolphHarris 4 of 23

Any meaning in the World has one’s own signature on it. Insofar as this deepest nature stands forth. The little enclosed self or ego can open inwardly into its own wiser aspects. Or it can open outwardly until it is nothing but all things. One can be friend to and enjoy all of one’s selves! It is difficult for ego to give up its little defended citadel. Ego doubts the wisdom of its inner aspects, such as dreams or fantasies. The less it knows of it, the more it doubts. Ego is afraid to open its door outwardly to others. If they knew my real feelings, how might they hurt me? And, why should I pay so much attention to them?—they are so dull and routine! Others are dull insofar as they are unknown. It continually amazes me how interesting anyone can be insofar as I open to understand them. And even these interesting ones become dull when I quit paying them heed. They become routine and dull again. The same is true for the material World. The major difference between one who enjoys art and a clod is that the first opens himself to appreciate what is before him. Did I ever tell you of the beauty of cobwebs on a dirty window? That is another long story. The journey from manipulation to mastery is unlike most other journeys in that its destination is not a place, but a process. What does this process look like? It looks a lot like another destination-less journey; it looks like life. The process called mastery consists of growth and contraction, opening and closing, like the petals of a flower. It consists of tension and relaxation, like the beating of your heart. It consists of progress and setback, success and failure, victory and defeat, joy and suffering, safety and fear—all the things that make life the delightful, maddening process it is. #RandolphHarris 5 of 23

Mastery consists of most of the same things manipulation does. What makes the two of them different is that, as a manipulator, you refuse to drive, but insist on driving the driver. As a master, you take the wheel. You become the driver. You take responsibility for your life and you know that wherever you get, however you get there and how much you enjoy the trip is strictly up to you—and no one else. When you reach your destination, when you become a master, what will you look like? Maybe you will look like the earlier masters. If we compare the faces of Christ and the Madonna of Michelangelo’s Pieta in St. Peter’s, Rome, with that astonishing statue of Saint Aldric of Le Mans, what do we find? Anxiety? Anguish? On the contrary, there is in all three faces an incredible mixture of tenderness, wise sadness, serene—and somehow utterly confident—resignation, all with the slightest hint of a smile. Each face is young and unwrinkled and yet immeasurably old—in the sense that these are the faces of immortal archetypes who have seen everything, understood everything, and endured everything without the least bitterness, at one extreme, or sentimentality, at the other. None are without concern or sorrow, and yet there is not the faintest trace of guilt or apprehension. These are the faces of great masters of the World and they all show mixtures of emotions. They show the polar dimensions of courageous vulnerability which are the marks of their mastery. #RandolphHarris 6 of 23

They are intensely human faces—and at the same time, intensely spiritual: not unlike the polarities, which are human, and the core, which is spiritual. It is the integration of the intensely spiritual and the intensely human which makes for the power of mastery. Even under the best circumstances, however, the work-ethic principle of self-discipline exerts an undesirable influence on response with involving pleasures of the flesh. If nothing else, it exists as a force to be overcome; some effort is required by man or woman seeking to regain freedom of the expression of pleasures of the flesh. A husband, for example, wanders into the kitchen, moved by an unexpected wish to touch his wife. He hugs her from behind, as she stands at the sink; she smiles perfunctorily and tells him that dinner will be ready in twenty minutes; and he nods and returns to the television set. Neither partner may be particularly disappointed by the sequence of events because neither one realizes that both of the are creatures of habit who have unwittingly arranged their intimate emotional life to conform to patterns established by impersonal on-the-job conditioning. For them to have behaved otherwise in the kitchen, to have enjoyed a moment’s pleasure even though it might interfere with the task at hand, would have required making a conscious effort to alter the habits of a lifetime. The wife would have had to stop herself from reacting as though her husband was just getting in her way, that he was expressing affection of pleasures of the flesh in the wrong place and at the wrong time. #RandolphHarris 7 of 23

And her husband would have had to summon his own convictions so that if his wife failed to respond to his touch, he could gently but firmly remind her without words that a loving gesture has its own priority. Such a change in conventional attitude is not easy to accomplish. It is most difficult for those individuals who have not been privileged to learn, as they grew up, that feelings involving pleasures of the flesh in their fullest expression deserve to be protected in a kind of sacrosanct domain. Even in a disciplined scheme of living, with a husband and wife who by nature and upbringing need always to be efficiently organized, it is possible to include protected time to be alone together—not necessarily in order to engage in pleasures of the flesh but simply in order to have the freedom to respond as a man and woman in a natural, unpressured and unscheduled way. For couples who do not honour their own sexuality, the capability to interact freely is never developed because it is not valued. Being alone together doing nothing is precisely that: doing nothing. They feel they are wasting time. If their relationship involving pleasures of the flesh is to flourish, for men and women who do not accept and value their intimate passions, the problem lies in understanding that they very part of themselves that they must discipline for purposes of work—their true emotions at any given moment—is the part that needs to be free of discipline. It is striking to note that during vacations, the one time when it is socially approved for people to do what they feel like doing at the moment they feel like doing it, non-“excitable” women frequently become “excitable” and minimally functional men are frequently revitalized. #RandolphHarris 8 of 23

This was the case with a young couple we mentioned in the past, who went off on vacation without their children. The absence of daily worries and intrusions will surely contribute to the resurgence of vigor involving pleasures of the flesh—but beyond that is the fact that when a husband and wife are vacationing, they feel free of the presumed cultural requirement to discipline their feelings. The impulse to touch, for example, can be immediately translated into touching; the wish to talk becomes a conversation that can take its own time wandering where it will; being silent and lying side by side is experienced as an intimate unity. All this and more can be profoundly intimate and passionate. Husbands and wives who fail to gain this insight, who persist in the belief that pleasures of the flesh should be scheduled for a specified time and place and that physical desire, like the capacity to work, is subject to will power, run the very real risk of returning home after a fulfilling vacation only to find themselves unresponsive to pleasures of the flesh again. Little ego is concerned for its individuality. Insofar as it is little more than the reflected opinions of parents, friends, and society, it is little more than an average, a cheap common item on the market. The more interesting individuality, such as that of a tree, lies in every aspect in which it is unique, one of a kind, different. It may seem paradoxical, but the more an individual permits expression of his uniqueness (becomes individuated in Dr. Jung’s sense) the more universal social values (Dr. Alder’s social interest) emerge. #RandolphHarris 9 of 23

It is the repeated experience of psychotherapists to see these core social values emerge with the fuller expression of a person’s potential. The ego can overlook the sufferings of people rejected for their skin colour. The inner cannot, for these people, too, are its representation. Insofar as the individual allows himself to be as he is, he is inclined to allow others to be also. This is simply another aspect of the way all others are one’s own representation. We can accurately measure what goes on in the deep recesses of the inner World of a person by measuring what he does with others. It is more than curious fancy that dreams represent one’s relationship to aspects of one’s self by relations to others in dreams. One is not simply the image of the other. They are one. In success scripts, this is usually visualized with good reality sense. Jeder has built up a large organization, or left a large body of work, or a lot of children and grandchildren who are well taken care of, and he knows that his life production will survive him and that those connected with it will see him to his grave. Those with tragic scripts, however, have a pathetic fallacy about what will happen after their deaths. The romantic suicide, for example, says: “They will be sorry,” and imagines a sad, sentimental funeral which may or may not come to pass. The angry suicide says: “I will fix them,” and may be equally misguided, since they may be glad to have him out of the way. “I will show them,” may fail by not getting his name in the papers much beyond the obituary file. On the other hand, the futility or frustration suicide, who tries to kill himself unobtrusively with the fantasy that nobody will really notice or care, may make the front-page headlines due to some unforeseen complication. If he had neglected to read his policy carefully, even the man who kills himself so his wife can have the insurance money may be foiled. #RandolphHarris 10 of 23

In general, the consequences of death by suicide are no more predictable than the consequences of killing someone else. Except for soldiers and gangsters, death, either suicide or homicide, is a poor way to try to solve life’s problems. Certainly, prospective suicides should be firmly told the two inviolable rules of death: (1) No parent is allowed to die until all of the children are over eighteen. (2) No child is allowed to die while either of his or her parents are still living. The cases of people who have no minor children and no living parent have to be considered on their individual merits, but every patient who is accepted for treatment must make a firm commitment not to violate ither of the two rules, if one or both apply. A similar commitment required of certain patients is that they will never use for improper purposes (including suicidal attempts) any medications prescribed by the therapist. A challenge confronting scientists is to explore how “inspirited” states of being—being engaged in meaningful tasks and projects—are reflected in bodily states, such that immunity mechanisms are most efficient, the nuclei of cells do not release cancerous growth, and the mechanisms of wound healing and recovery from fatigue are most rapid and efficient. Conventional up brining in Western World produces a partial sense of unembodiment in the majority of persons so socialized. This unemodiment manifests itself in interpersonal duplicity (playacting, pretense, role-playing, pseudo-self-disclosure) and in diminished awareness of one’s own bodily being. Unembodiment is the outcome of the repression of the early experience of pleasure and pain that young children undergo in the process of growing up, and that such repression produces a loss of a very important dimension of consciousness called somatic perception. #RandolphHarris 11 of 23

Somatic perception refers to persons’ awareness of the responses of their bodies to the situations in which they find themselves. They perceive the World somatically by “tuning in” on their bodily states as they go through life situations. Thus, their eyes see a person smiling; their ears hear that person say “I love you”; yet they continue to feel tense and on guard. They do not feel loved. Somatically, they are perceiving that all is not well; more information is called for before a less defensive posture will be taken. Reduction of the capacity for somatic perception appears to be a factor in the development of physical and psychological breakdown. If persons cannot discern how their relationships with others and their physical regimens are affecting them, they will continue to live in a way that generates harmful stress. They will be anesthetized to the pain and dispiritedness that are being generated, and hence will not change what they are doing in some life- and health-saving way. Consequently, unembodied persons behave their way into situations of stress and entrapment so overpowering that physical and psychological collapse are their only ways out. Medical care that does not seek to “reembody” persons and to sensitize their somatic perception is, at best, only first aid. Any sedating or tranquilizing medical care that further destroys the capacity for somatic perception is ultimately a menace to health, according to this perspective. If it is true that conventional socialization results in unembodiment in varying degrees, then the salutary functions of certain embodying disciplines and techniques become understandable. #RandolphHarris 12 of 23

Why are we here? How did life get started on this planet? These are crucial questions because your answer determines how you live your life here, and defines your goal. Your answer to the creation questions (how you got here) determines what the next stop is, and where you are going. There are two conventional theories of creation. The first, the scientific, is the most popular now. It is quite unique! It is the Darwinian doctrine of accidental, statistical mutation—natural selection. A blind, aimless, accidental forward lurching of evolution. Urey and Miller performed an experiment in Chicago years ago. They put ammonium, methane and water vapour in a jar, blasted it with an electrical charge and found prebiotic molecules. Then, they claim that is how life started. Look at any biological textbook! And marvel at the superstitions of current salaried scientists! Here is the orthodox hive scientific fantasy of evolution: Billions of years ago, there was this bunch of methane molecules and they had a parry one night with some ammonia molecules and invited a few carbon girls over, and started drinking water vapour, and the joint got hit by lightning. And they began to copulate! None of the biology textbooks explains self-replication, by the way. They quickly slide over the key issue. How did prebiotic amino acid become living organism? Now the other orthodox theory is a vulgar, populist misinterpretation of the Christian Bible. I am sure that the pre-civilized writers of the Christian Bible did not mean this, but the parrot-version taught in Sunday School is that life was designed by some kind of police-type God Almighty. An Arab desert macho character who went around interrogating, arresting and condemning anyone that he did not like, and stationed an Irish police officer named Michael at the gate of the Oasis to keep dissidents out. #RandolphHarris 13 of 23

Another view is Directed Panspermia—the theory that life was seeded on this planet by higher intelligence and evolves, stage by stage, according to a preprogrammed plan. The Panspermia theory was developed by a Swedish biologist named Svante Arrhenius who suggested that this planet was seeded by spores from outer space. Dozens of prebiotic-organic molecules have been found floating around in pre-stellar cloud complexes and in a type of meteorite called carbonaceous chondrites. The French were uninterested in Panspermia until they discovered that alcohol was one of the biological molecules in space. Paris Match immediately ran an article on the existence of extra-terrestrial intelligence! Then in 1973, a distinguished scientist, a geneticist named Sir Francis Crick—he decoded the DNA code with Watson—and his colleague Orgel suggested the theory of Directed Panspermia: This planet may have been deliberately seeded. It is possible, and it is certainly fun to believe, that there are millions or even billions of planets like ours in this small galaxy alone, that have been similarly seeded. And that the same process of evolution is taking place here and on many other planets. Some sophisticated geneticists now agree with the Panspermia theory because they say it is impossible that in two and a half billion years, accidental copying-error mutations could have taken us from simple, unicellular life to Monday night football and Howard Cosell. DNA does not play dice with the Universe. #RandolphHarris 14 of 23

The protest against evil which is at the very core of metaphysical revolt is significant. It is not the suffering children, which is repugnant in itself, but the fact that the suffering is not justified. After all, pain, exile, or confinement are sometimes accepted when dictated by good sense or by the doctor. In the eyes of the rebel, what is missing from the misery of the World, as well as from its moments of happiness, is some principle by which they can be explained. They insurrection against evil is, above all, a demand for unity. The rebel obstinately confronts a World condemned to death and the impenetrable obscurity of the human condition with his demand for life and absolute clarity. He is seeking, without knowing it, a moral philosophy or a religion. Rebellion, even though it is blind, is a form of asceticism. Therefore, if the rebel blasphemes, it is in the hope of finding a new god. He staggers under the shock of the first and most profound of all religious experiences, but it is a disenchanted religious experience. It is not rebellion itself that is noble, but its aims, even though its achievements are at times ignoble. At least we must know how to recognize the ignorable ends it achieves. Each time that it defines the total rejection, the absolute negation, of what exists, it destroys. Each time that it blindly accepts what exists and gives voice to absolute assent, it destroys again. Hatred of the creator can turn to hatred of creation or to exclusive and defiant love of what exists. However, in both cases it ends in murder and loses the right to be called rebellion. One can be a nihilist in two ways, in both by having an intemperate recourse to absolutes. #RandolphHarris 15 of 23

Apparently there are rebels who want to die and those who want to cause death. However, they are identical, consumed with desire for the true life, frustrated by their desire for existence and therefore preferring generalized injustice to mutilated justice. If it is true that the instinctive rebellion of the human heart advances gradually through the centuries toward its most complete realization, it has also grown, as we have seen, in blind audacity, to the inordinate extent of deciding to answer universal murder by metaphysical assassination. The even if, which we have already recognized as marking the most important moment of metaphysical rebellion, is in any case only fulfilled in absolute destruction. It is not the nobility of rebellion that illuminates the World today, but nihilism. And it is the consequences of nihilism that we must retrace, without losing sight of the truth innate in its origins. Even if God existed, Ivan would never surrender to Him in the face of the injustice done to man. However, a longer contemplation of this injustice, a more bitter approach, transformed the “even if you exist” into “you do not deserve to exist,” therefore “you do not exist.” The victims have found in their own innocence the justification for the final crime. Convinced of their condemnation and without hope of immortality, they decided to murder God. If it is false to say that from that day began the tragedy of contemporary man, neither is it true to say that there in was where it ended. On the contrary, this attempt indicates the highest point in a drama that began with the end of the ancient World and of which the final words have not yet been spoken. From this moment, man decides to exclude himself from grace and to live by his own means. #RandolphHarris 16 of 23

Fieldcraft describes the skills the Sacramento Fire Department and EMTs require to sustain themselves in the field. Proficiency in fieldcraft reduces the likelihood of casualties. Understanding and excelling at fieldcraft sets conditions for mission success. The Sacramento Fire Department makes sure that their team members take care of themselves, and they provide them with the means to do so. They gain proficiency in field craft through formal training, studying, and practice. Fieldcraft takes time to learn. That is why the Sacramento Fire Department strictly enforces tactical discipline and makes sure their skills are at top levels of performance. During training, skilled observers and controllers assess appropriate training casualties and make recommendations to reinforce the appropriate fieldcraft standards. Culture consists of shared beliefs, values, and assumptions among a group of people about what is important. The Sacramento Fire Department is mindful of cultural factors in three contexts: Team members: They are sensitive to their different backgrounds in order to best leverage their talents. Countries: They are aware of the culture of the nations in which the people they are assisting come from. Partners: They consider and evaluate the possible implications of partners’ customs, traditions, doctrinal principles, and operational methods when working with team members from different regions or countries. The Sacramento Fire Department believes that understanding the culture of others is just as important as understand their own culture. They are aware of current events—particularly those which interest the United States of America. #RandolphHarris 17 of 23

Before heading out to an emergency, the Sacramento Fire Department and EMTs are properly prepared to deal with the population of particular areas. The more everyone knows about them, including their language, the better off the unit will be. Working in a multicultural environment requires the Sacramento Fire Department to keep plans and orders as simple as possible to prevent misunderstandings and unnecessary losses. Cultural awareness has played a major role in saving lives and property. To be in intelligent fire fighter or EMT, you need to be mentally agile, sound in judgment, innovative, tactful, and knowledgeable in many areas. Being physically fit and ready for duty is difficult enough. To be mentally ready can be even more challenging. However, the nation expects the Sacramento Fire Department and their EMTs to be up to the challenge, and they work hard to succeed. They are trained very well and geared up to meet the challenge. “My wife and I are Catholic, and we’re raising our children Catholic. We maintain a Christian life. We like to go bowling. We take the kids bowling. I like to ski. My wife doesn’t like it too much. We go on trips. We do a lot of things. We like sports, all kinds of sports. I go to the gym three times a week, and I work out. I try to keep in shape. I came on the job when I was thirty-five, and guys with ten or more years on the job are my age. Luckily, I have always been in good shape. I went through the Marine Corps with no problem. I’m able to do the job, and I’m in pretty decent shape now, and I just try to maintain that. It keeps me a lot healthier on the job. My wife is thrilled to pieces that I got the job. Sometimes she worried about the dangers of the job. When I leave for work, I can see it in her face: “Be careful, and come home safe. Keep your eyes open.” #RandolphHarris 18 of 23

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to outrun the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 19 of 23

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 19 of 23

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 20 of 23

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. Americans make sure superior product, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 21 of 23

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Governor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 22 of 23

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 23 of 23

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The Devil Complex

Neurotics complain of their illness, but they make the most of it, and when it comes to taking it away from them, they will defend it like a lioness her young. The neurotic in his search for glory goes astray into the realm of the fantastic, of the infinite, boundless possibilities. To all outward appearances, he may lead a “normal” life as a member of his family and of his community, attend to his work and participate in recreational activities. Without realizing it, or at least without realizing the extent of it, he lives in two Worlds—that of his secret private life and that of his official life. And the two do not jibe; to repeat a patient’s phrase quoted in session: “Life is awful; it is so full of reality!” No matter how averse the neurotic is to checking with evidence, reality inevitably obtrudes itself in two ways. He may be highly gifted, but he still is in all essential like everybody else—with general human limitations and considerable individual difficulties to boot. His actual being does not jibe with his godlike image. Nor does the reality outside himself treat him as though it found him godlike. For him, too, an hour has but sixty minutes; he must wait in line, like everybody else; the taxi driver or the boss may act as though he were simply an ordinary mortal. The indignities to which this individual feels exposed are nicely symbolized in a little incident a patient remembered from childhood. #RandolphHarris 1 of 22

 She was three years old, and daydreaming of being a fairy queen when an uncle picked her up and said jokingly, “my what a dirty face you have!” She never forgot her impotent and indignant rage. In this way, such a person is almost constantly faced with discrepancies, puzzling and painful. What does he do about it? How does he account for them, react to them, or try to do away with them? As long as his personal aggrandizement is too indispensable to be touched, he can but conclude that there is something wrong with the World. He is entitled to be treated by others, or by fate, in accord with his grandiose notions about himself. Everyone ought to cater to his illusions. Everything short of this is unfair. He is entitled to a better deal. The neurotic feels entitled to special attention, consideration, deference on the part of others. These claims for deference are understandable enough, and sometimes obvious enough. However, they are merely part and parcel of a more comprehensive claim—that all his needs growing out of his inhibitions, his fears, his conflicts, and his solutions ought to be satisfied or duly respected. Moreover, whatever he feels, thinks, or does ought not to carry any adverse consequences. This means in fact a claim that psychic laws ought not to apply to him. #RandolphHarris 2 of 22

Therefore, he does not need to recognize—or at any rate to change—his difficulties. It is then no longer up to him to do something about his problems; it is up to others to see that they do not disturb him. It was a German psychoanalyst, Dr. Harald Schultz-Hencke, who was the first among modern analysts to see these claims which the neurotic harbours. He called them Riessenansprueche (gigantic claims), and ascribed to them a crucial role in neuroses. While I share his opinion of their importance, my own concept differs from his in many way. I do not think that the term “gigantic claims” is fortunate. It is misleading because it suggests that the claims are excessive in content. True enough, in many instances they are not only excessive but plainly fantastic; others, however, appear quite reasonable. And to focus on the exorbitant content of claims makes it more difficult to discern in oneself and others those which appear to be rational. Take, for example, a businessman who is exasperated because a train does not leave at a time convenient for him. A friend, knowing that nothing important is at stake, might indicate to him that he really is too demanding. Our businessman would respond with another fit of indignation. The friend does not know what he is talking about. He is a busy man, and it is reasonable to expect a train to leave at a sensible time. #RandolphHarris 3 of 22

Surely, his wish is reasonable. Who would not want a train to run on schedule convenient to his arrangements? However, we are not entitled to it. This brings us to the essentials of the phenomenon: a wish or need, it itself quite understandable, turns into a claim. Its nonfulfillment, then, is as an unfair frustration, as an offense about which we have a right to feel indignant. The difference between a need and a claim is a clear-cut one. Nevertheless, if the psychic undercurrents have changed the one into the other, the neurotic is not only unaware of the difference but is indeed averse to seeing it. He speaks of an understandable or natural wish when he really means a claim; and he feels entitled to many things which a bit of clear thinking could show him are not inevitably his. I am thinking, for instance, of some patients who are furiously indignant when they get a ticket for double parking. Once again, the wish to “get by” is completely understandable, but they are not entitled to exemption. It is not that they do not know the laws. However, they argue (if they think about it all) that others get by, and that it is therefore unfair that they should have been caught. For these reasons, it seems advisable to speak simply of irrational or neurotic claims. They are neurotic needs which individuals have unwittingly turned into claims. And they are irrational because they assume a right, a title, which in reality does not exist. #RandolphHarris 4 of 22

In other words, they are excessive by the very fact of being made as claims instead of being recognized simply as neurotic needs. The special content of the claims that are harboured varies in detail, according to the particular neurotic structure. Generally speaking, however, the patient feels entitled to everything that is important to him—to the fulfillment of all his particular neurotic needs. When speaking of a demanding person, we usually think of demands made upon other people. And human relationships do indeed constitute one important area in which neurotic claims are raised. However, if we thus restrict them, we underrate considerably the range of claims. They are directed just as much toward man-made institutions, and even beyond that, toward life itself. In terms of human relationships, an overall claim was fairly well expressed by a patient who in his overt behaviour was rather on the timid, withdrawn side. Without knowing it, he suffered from a pervasive inertia and was quite inhibited about tapping his own resources. “The World should be at my service,” he said, “and I should not be bothered.” An equally comprehensive claim was harboured by a woman who at bottom was afraid of doubting herself. She felt entitled to have all her needs fulfilled. “It is unthinkable,” she said, “that a man whom I want to fall in love with me should not do so.” Her claims originally emerged in religious terms: “Everything that I pray for is given to me.” In her case the claim had a reverse side. If a wish were not fulfilled, since it would be an unthinkable defeat, she put a check on most wants in order not to risk a “failure.” #RandolphHarris 5 of 22

People whose need is to be always right feel entitled never to be criticized, doubted, or questioned. Those who are power ridden feel entitled to blind obedience. Others, for whom life has become a game in which other people are to be skillfully manipulated, feel entitled to fool everybody and, on the other hand, never to be fooled themselves. Those who are afraid to face their conflicts feel entitled to “get by,” to “get around” their problems. If they insist on a square deal, the person who is aggressively exploiting, and intimidates others into letting him put something over on them, will resent it as unfair. The arrogant, vindictive person, who is driven to offend others but yet needs their recognition, feel entitled to “immunity.” Whatever he perpetrates on others, he is entitled to having nobody mind anything he does. Another version of the same claim is the one for “understanding.” No matter how morose or irritable one is, one is entitled to understanding. The individual for whom “love” is an over-all solution turns his need into a claim for exclusive and unconditional devotion. The detached person, seemingly quite undemanding, insists on one claim, however: not to be bothered. He feels that he does not want anything of others, and is therefore entitled to be left alone no matter what is at stake. “Not to be bothered” usually implies being exempt from criticism, expectations, or efforts—even if these latter are in his own behalf. #RandolphHarris 6 of 22

This may suffice as a fair sample of neurotic claims operating in personal relations. In more impersonal situations, or with reference to institutions, claims with a negative content prevail. Benefits accruing from laws or regulations, for example, are taken for granted, but it is felt as unfair when they turn out to be disadvantages. There are many ways that this so-called boundary between self and others is crossed. Love is one way, friendship another. In love it is as though the self and the loved one are a one which cannot easily be separated. Any relaxed (ego-less) perception is an example of this crossing. Watch, listen, let the other come forth. Enjoy the lovely nuances, the moods, feelings and concerns of the other one. Death to self is the birth of all else. When an empathic therapist is with a patient, there is little sense of self. The mild self present is mostly the other one. The weighing, measuring, worrying of one’s self is undone by opening into the life of the other person. It is easy for me to sit in my study and write neat little theories about mastery. However, it does not do much for you, does it? The first thing you have to deal with is time, which consists of only three elements: past, future, and now. I suggest you work primarily with the moment, the now. The now is your road map for the journey. When you live in the moment, the moment brings ideas into your mind, ideas which you will want to put into effect later on. The beauty of it, when an idea comes to you spontaneously, you will enjoy doing whatever is involved in making the idea happen. You will be living for the now while you are working toward a future goal. #RandolphHarris 7 of 22

It is inborn in the human mind to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions to a child’s curiosity, if it continues into the deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of the abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. Let us honour intelligence, and not insult it, for it is as much from God as piety. The intellect cannot lead us to infallible truth, yes, but it can keep us from straying into roads that would lead us to utter falsehood. What is called “Reason,” is a mystical plus intellectual faculty and not merely an intellectual one. It is not merely a coexistence but a fusion of the two capacities. If we reverse the words of Descartes, whose thought helped usher in the age of science, and proclaim, “I am, therefore I think,” we come nearer to the truth. True intelligence is the working union of three active faculties: concrete thinking, abstract thinking, and mystical intuition. The intellect can only speak for the Overself after the Glimpse has vanished and turned to a mere memory. That is to say, it is really speaking for itself, for what it thinks about the Overself. It has no really valid authority to speak. The wisdom of God cannot be found by the intellect of man. The fragment of knowledge which the finite mind can absorb and hold is so little that we must remain humble always. He may recognize the truth with his intellect and yet be unable to realize it with his consciousness. #RandolphHarris 8 of 22

For traditionalist, they stand at one extreme. To him, work means redemption and anything else is wasteful, if not immoral. Pleasures of the flesh is for procreation, not pleasure. A man and a woman who share this philosophy, fortified by their religious convictions, ought not be seen as caricatures. Measured by their own values, they can and often do live full, rich lives. The situation is not the same for couples less totally committed to religious principles. When they assign the highest priority to work and the lowest to pleasures of the flesh, they do so for materialistic reasons. In effect, they turn the work ethic upside down. They do not work in order to live. They live in order to work. They are the husbands and wives who search endlessly for ways to occupy their time and use their energies profitably: making more money, advancing in a career, improving homes, accumulating possessions, engaging in community affairs—in short, doing anything that feels like work, which affords them the only justification they can accept for their lives. A relationship with pleasures of the flesh has little chance to flourishing between a wife to whom polishing the floor takes priority over sitting in the room and talking, and the husband who busies himself polishing the car instead of driving off with his wife for a quiet hour together. Such a couple, of course, may be hiding behind work to avoid confronting their problems that involve intimate passions. (The husband who spends as much times as he can at the office and the wife who is “too tired” to indulge in pleasures of the flesh at night are all-too-familiar figures in American life.) #RandolphHarris 9 of 22

However, it is also likely that the couple may honestly be unaware that simply talking and being together could have any bearing on pleasures of the flesh. They may just think of pleasures of the flesh itself as a job to be done, at the appropriate time and place. Such an outlook is basically antisexual. The husband and wife cannot be comfortable with their sexual natures and are too insecure to permit free expression of feelings of pleasures of the flesh. When coitus takes place, they prefer it in silence and the less emotional involvement, the better. If, deprived of emotional sustenance, the impulse for pleasures of the flesh eventually withers and dies, either partner or both may secretly feel a sense of relief. For other couples another pattern of deprivation of pleasures of the flesh develops—not from antisexual attitudes, but from misuse of the principle of self-discipline. This is the most insidious element carried over from the work ethic to the relationship of pleasures of the flesh. The mood of the individual is expected to be subordinate to the task at hand. It could hardly be otherwise. How many people, for example, wake up happy and eager to start the day’s work? Except for those who are fortunate enough to be doing what they really want to do, men and women must disregard their feelings about the tasks at hand to get them done well and efficiently. This is as true for the woman in her home as it is for a woman or man in a factory of office. Such self-discipline takes its toll. Let a man at the office keep his emotions under tight reign eight hours a day while he concentrates on getting his work done, let a woman at home do the same for twelve hours a day—or for longer if she has an outside job as well—and the transition to becoming an individual who acts according to spontaneous and authentic feelings becomes difficult. For some persons it becomes impossible. #RandolphHarris 10 of 22

Actual death scenes result from either force majeure or script directives. The untimely death due to ineluctable forces of fate—disease or violence in time of peace or war—is always a stark and simple tragedy. Scripty deaths are usually marked by the gallows smile or gallows humour. The man who dies with a smile on his face or a joke on his lips is dying the death his script calls for, and the smile or the joke says: “Well, mother, I am now following your instructions, ha ha. I hope you are happy.”  The criminals of London in the eighteenth century were true disciples of gallow humour, often entertaining the admiring crowd with a final epigram as the trap was sprung, because their deaths followed their mothers’ injunction: “You will end on the gallows as your father did, my boy!” The last words of many famous men were also jokes because they were likewise at peace with their mothers: “You will die famous, son.” Deaths due to human force majeure are not accompanied by such levity, because they may be in direct contradiction to mother’s injunction: “Live long!” or “Die happy!” There are no stories of gallows humour in German concentration camps (as far as I know). There is also a special injunction, “Enjoy death as you enjoyed life!” which permits a deathbed joke even if death comes sooners than mother could tolerate. Such a joke is, in fact, an attempt to ease the mother’s bereavement. All this means that in most cases the witch parent plans Jeder’s life span and the manner of his death, and barring internal or external upheavals, he will, by his own decision, carry out the parental decree. #Randolphharris 11 of 22

Children who are told that they are weak, hungry, or sleepy by loving, overprotective parents may lose the ability to construe their bodily states and possibilities. Consequently, they may eat when their parents say they are hungry and not be allowed to stop eating until the parents say, “You have eaten enough.”  If their parents’ estimates of their food needs do not coincide with what their bodies actually need for maintenance, such children may become very much above average weight. If persons underestimate the capacity of their bodies to endure stress and hardship, they may sicken or die long before it becomes a physiological necessity. “Outward Bound” training, for example, teaches young people that they can endure and survive well beyond limits they had been taught to believe were inflexible. In short, one’s body is very plastic indeed—it does what one expects of it. One should be careful what one expects of one’s body, because that, likely, is what one will get. Clearly, the Olympic records of endurance and speed, which change periodically, show that we seldom expect enough of our bodies, but instead overestimate their fragility. Actually, our potential toughness and endurance have yet to be put to the ultimate test. If persons believe with utter certainty that they are going to die—for example, if they learn they have “terminal and inoperable cancer” or fatal heart condition—then they are likely to imagine, even wish themselves dead, thereby hastening the advent of their physical demise. #RandolphHarris 12 of 22

“Spiritual” death or imagined nonexistence become prophesies to which the organs and cells of the body respond. There is no way of estimating how many people die, as it were, through being hypnotized or persuaded by symbols and other people’s nonverbal expressions that signify, “Your life is finished.” Furthermore, cultural expectations about the “right” age to die function in the same way, as hypnotic suggestions or invitations to die; when persons reach eighty or ninety-five years of age, there is nothing for them to do, and they are expected to view each day as their last, thereby hastening their end. If they remained involved with the pleasures and challenges of life, then death would take them by surprise. The epic poem Gilgamesh celebrates Babylonian breakthroughs in science, mathematics, astronomy, medicine, and technology. Gilgamesh was a king of Uruk who lived about 2700 B.C. on the River Euphrates in Iraq. He personified the search for the seed-flower of immortality. His is a story of going beyond limits, beyond chartered realms, beyond the territories of the known to scout out gene pool futures. Concurrently, when the Greek wave migrated, Sophocles and Aeschylus wrote their plays; Phidias sculpted; Socrates, Plato and Aristotle, and the physical mathematical philosophers raised Greek civilization to its highest point. Next, the Intelligence Frontier moved to Rome. Virgil sang the song of the Migrating Aeneid. All the great epics are “trip” stories of classic heroes surfing genetic waves and of voyagers moving out beyond hive limits. #RandolphHarris 13 of 22

After Rome, the Arab empire explored from the Middle East across the North African coast. The great achievements of the Moslem wave came in the universities of Cordoba and Seville where Arab mathematicians, philosophers, musicians, and astronomers made their great contributions to the evolution of intelligence. When successful gene pool migrate, expand, explode outward, westward, they propel their seed-style into the future. For the last 2000 years, a wave of mutation and migration has moved the highest intelligence follower of our species relentlessly from East to West. The Phoenicians, and then the Greeks, pushing their risky spacecraft out across the Mediterranean, their brows cleaving the unknown sea. Marine technology started the movement of gene pools West towards the unknown future. The ecological niche inhabited by a gene pool stimulates specific survival skills. Where you live determines how you behave and how your gene pool evolves. When out marine ancestors crawled out of the water the new ecological niche—the shoreline—activated improved survival tactics involving new, more complex brain circuitry. Different shoreline environments stimulated different neurotechnological skills. Up on land, mobility and communications systems are determined by the climate and geological considerations of the pathways alone which gene pools evolve. #RandolphHarris 14 of 22

As the importance of geography in shaping human behaviour has become clearer, human ethologists have begun to study the effects of migration upon neural development. They have concluded that the location of the large landmasses has an effect in the evolution of human technology. Asians back East manifest survival techniques—especially in social organization and in the amount of power allowed the individual—which are different from Europeans. North Americans are a different species in their behaviour from South Americans. Two hundred and twenty years of metaphysical rebellion and of nihilism have witnessed the persistent reappearance, under different guises, of the same ravaged countenance: the face of human protest. All of them, decrying the human condition and its creator, have affirmed the solitude of man and the nonexistence of any kind of morality. However, at the same time, they have all tried to construct a purely terrestrial kingdom where their chosen principles will hold sway. As rivals of the Creator, they have inescapably been led to the point of reconstructing creation according to their own concepts. Those who rejected, for the same of the World they had just created, all other principles but desire and power, have rushed to suicide or madness and have proclaimed the apocalypse. As for the rest, who wanted to create their own principles, they have chosen pomp and ceremony, the World of appearances, or banality, or again murder and destruction. #RandolphHarris 15 of 22

However, Sade and the romantics, Karamazov or Nietzsche only entered the World of death because they wanted to discover the true life. So that by a process of inversion, it is the desperate appeal for order that rings through this insane Universe. Their conclusions have only proved disastrous or destructive to freedom from the moment they laid aside the burden of rebellion, fled the tension that it implies, and chose the comfort of tyranny or of servitude. Human insurrection, in its exalted and tragic forms, is only, and can only be, a prolonged protest against death, a violent accusation against the universal death penalty. In every case that we have come across, the protest is always directed at everything in creation, which is dissonant, opaque, or promises the solution of continuity. Essentially, then, we are dealing with a perpetual demand for unity. The rejection of death, the desire for immortality and for clarity, are the mainsprings of all these extravagances, whether subline or puerile. Is it only a cowardly and personal refusal to die? No, for many of these rebels have paid the ultimate price in order to live up to their own demands. The rebel does not ask for life, but for reasons for living. He rejects the consequences implied by death. If nothing lasts, then nothing is justified; everything that dies is deprived of meaning. To fight against death amounts to claiming that life has a meaning, to fighting for order and for unity. #RandolphHarris 16 of 22

Effective leaders are steady, levelheaded when under pressure and fatigued, and calm in the face of danger. These characteristics stabilize their team members, who are always looking to their leader’s example. The Sacramento Fire Department models the emotions for others to display, they do not give into temptation to do what personally feels good. A question they often ask is, “If you are under great stress, it might feel better to vent—but will it help the organization? Because the Sacramento Fire Department wants to make sure others are calm and rational under pressure, this is the same stability that they display. Domain knowledge requires possessing fact, beliefs, and logical assumptions in many areas. Tactics is the art and science the Sacramento Fire Department uses to employ available means to fight fires and deal with other emergencies. The science of tactics includes capabilities, techniques, and procedures that can be codified. The art includes the creative flexible array of means to accomplish missions, decision making when facing an emergency situation, and the effects of firefighting on the firefighters. “My wife has never expressed any feelings of apprehension about the fire service, not out loud, anyway. In a sense, I met my wife through the fire service. She used to spend a lot of her away-from-work time in the mountains in the area where I worked. That’s where I met her. She became interested in the forestry fire service and worked two summers as a lookout. So she kind of learned the business and what it was about, understood the training program, and knew lots of the Forest Service people. So she kind of grew up with it at the same time I did. #RandolphHarris 17 of 22

“I think that made a great difference. I’m sure she worries at times when I’m gone, but she’s been around the system long enough to know that the guys are not a bunch of dummies out there deliberately trying to get themselves hurt, and that it doesn’t happen that often. She knows that I’m cautious, that I’m not going to go out there and do something dumb, that I’m a little more conservative than most people, and that I’ve never really been hurt in this business. So she never really worries about that. Being away ten or twelve days is not unusual in this business. So the wife raises the kids. When I come home, I paint the house, fix the washing machine, and the cars get taken care of. The wives become very self-sufficient and independent, however. We have three children, all gone from home now. My son is in the Navy, and I have two daughters. The youngest spent a summer as a seasonal firefighter. She’s kind of the renegade of the family, very small, five-foot-four. She became more interested in the fire service than the other two. She spent one summer chasing brush fires around Sacramento and just totally fell in love with it. That’s what she wanted to be. But unfortunately, at the same time, she also met a young man and fell in love with him. And one thing led to another, and they got married. Now she has a youngster, and her family position doesn’t allow her to be in the fire service. She’d like to be. She still talks about it.” #RandolphHarris 18 of 23

One thing we witness all the time during emergency situations is people ignoring the sirens of fire trucks and ambulances. Often times, people even try to out run the emergency vehicles and this can create dangerous situations. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 19 of 23

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean, and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 19 of 23

The American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 20 of 23

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. Americans make sure superior product, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 21 of 23

Additionally, State Farm did ask the California Department of Insurance if they could raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent, but this request was denied. However, in 2022, California Govenor Gavin Newsom signed Senate Bill 1107, also known as the Protection California Drivers Act, into law which increases the minimum auto lability limits for bodily injury to $30,000 per person and $60,000 per accident. Senate Bill 1107 also increased the minimum liability limits for property damage to $15,000 per accident and the DMV deposit for uninsured drivers to $75,000. The bill went into effect on January 1, 2025. This means that drivers with existing policies with lower limits will renew at the new minimum limits on or after January 1, 2025, and insurance premiums could increase by as much as 54 percent. America is in a state of crisis right now because of mismanagement by democrats. If elected for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and to offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance and auto insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 22 of 23

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 23 of 23

The Winchester Mystery House

Experience an unforgettable journey back to the time of kings and queens with this entry ticket for The Winchester Mansion in Santa Clara, California which was the residence of Sarah L. Winchester. Take advantage of this fascinating experience. After tour, there will be time enjoy the mansion’s splendor at your own pace. You might even discover secret passages.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion.

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The Winchester Mystery House is full of surprises. What was your favorite, “Oooh!” moment during your visit at the mansion? (And for those of you who still have to check it off your bucket list… we will hopefully see you soon.)  https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

This mansion not only provides a luxurious lifestyle but also offers a chance to immerse oneself in the timeless beauty and cultural heritage of what some call Winchester Valley, making it an exceptional residence or an exquisite retreat in the heart of California. This stately property presents itself in an absolutely spectacular, dreamlike manner. With every tour, every purchase, you are contributing to the preservation of this privately owned estate. Ever wish you could go behind the ropes and explore the mansion freely? You can with our virtual 360 tour! This online tour lets you wander through the home at your own pace and admire every intricate detail up close ✨ Only $8.99. https://360tourwmh.com/

He Can Obtain these Powers Only on the Condition of Selling His Soul or Going to Hell

The real of imagination is seen as a “reservation” made during the painful transition from the pleasure principle to the reality principle on order to provide a substitute for instinctual satisfactions which have to be given up in real life. The artist, like the neurotic, has withdrawn from an unsatisfying reality into this World of imagination; but unlike the neurotic, he knows how to find a way back from it and once more to gain a firm foothold in reality. His creations, works of art, are the imaginary satisfactions of unconscious wishes, just as dreams are; and like them they were in the nature of compromises, since they too were forced to avoid any open conflict with the forces of repression. However, they are differed from the asocial, narcissistic products of dreaming in that they are calculated to arouse sympathetic interest in other people and are able to evoke and to satisfy the same unconscious wishful impulses in them, too. The more the neurotic’s irrational imagination has taken over, the more likely he is to be positively horrified at anything that is real, definite, concrete, or final. He tends to abhor time, because it is something definite; money, because it is concrete; death because of its finality. However, he may also abhor having a definite wish or opinion, and hence avoid making a definite commitment or decision. To illustrate, there was the patient who cherished the idea of being a will-o’-the-wisp dancing in a ray of moonlight: she could become terrified when looking at a mirror—not because of seeing possible imperfections, but because it brought to bear on her the realization that she had definite contours, that she was substantial, that she “was pinned down to the concrete bodily shape.” #RandolphHarris 1 of 22

It made her feel like a bird whose wings were nailed to a board. And at that time when these feelings emerged to awareness, she had impulses to smash the mirror. To be sure, the development is not always so extreme. However, every neurotic, even though he may pass superficially for healthy, is averse to checking with evidence when it comes to his particular illusion about himself. And he must be so, because if he did, they would collapse. The attitude toward external laws and regulations varies, but he always tends to deny laws operating within himself, refuses to see the inevitability of cause and effect in psychic matters, or of one factor following from the other or reinforcing the other. There are endless ways in which he disregards evidence which he does not choose to see. He forgets; it does not count; it was accidental; it was on account of circumstances, or because others provoked him; he could not help it, because it was “natural.” Like a fraudulent bookkeeper, he goes to any length to maintain the double account; but, unlike him, he credits himself only with the favourable one and professes ignorance of the other. I have not yet seen a patient in whom the frank rebellion against reality, as it is expressed in Harvey (“Twenty years I have fought with reality, and I have finally overcome it”), did not strike a familiar chord. Or, to quote again the classic expression of a patient: “If it were not for reality, I would be perfectly all right.” It remains to bring into clearer relief the difference between the search for glory and healthy human strivings. On the surface they may look deceptively similar, so much so that differences seem to be variations in degree. It looks as though the neurotic were merely more ambitious, more concerned with power, prestige, and success than the healthy person; as though his moral standards were merely higher, or more rigid, than ordinary ones; as though he were simply more conceited, or considered himself more important than people usually do. And, indeed, who will venture to draw a sharp line and say: “This, is where the healthy ends, and the neurotic begins”? #RandolphHarris 2 of 22

Similarities between healthy strivings and the neurotic drives exist because they have a common root in specific human potentialities. Through his mental capacities man has the faculty to reach beyond himself. In contrast to other animals, he can imagine and plan. In many ways, he can gradually enlarge his faculties and, as history shows, has actually done so. The same is also true for the life of a single individual. There are no rigidly fixed limits to what he can make out of his life, to what qualities or faculties he can develop, to what he can create. Considering these facts, it seems inevitable that man is uncertain about his limitations and, hence, easily set his goals either too low or too high. This existing uncertainty is the base without which the search for glory could not possibly develop. The basic difference between healthy strivings and neurotic drives for glory lies in the forces prompting them. Healthy strivings for glory lies in the forces prompting them. Healthy strivings stem from a propensity, inherent in human beings, to develop given potentialities. The belief in an inherent urge to grow has always been the basic tenet upon which our theoretical and therapeutic approach rests. And this belief has grown ever since with ever-new experiences. The only change is in the direction of more precise formulation. I would say now that the live forces the real self urge one toward self-realization. The search for glory, on the other hand, springs from the need to actualize the idealize self. The difference is basic because all other dissimilarities follow from this one. Because self-idealization in itself is a neurotic solution, and as such compulsive in character, all the drives resulting from it are by necessity compulsive, too. #RandolphHarris 3 of 22

Because the neurotic, as long as he must adhere to his illusions about himself, cannot recognize limitations, the search for glory goes into the unlimited. Because the main goal to his illusions about himself, cannot recognize limitations, the search for glory goes into the unlimited. Because the main goal is the attainment of glory, he becomes uninterested in the process of learning, of doing, or of gaining step by step—indeed, tends to scorn it. He does not want to climb a mountain; he wants to be on the peak. Hence, he loses the sense of what evolution or growth means, even though he may talk about it. Because, finally, the creation of the idealized self is possible only at the expense of truth about himself, its actualization requires further distortions of truth, imagination being a willing servant to this end. Thereby, to a greater or lesser extent, he loses in the process his interest in truth, and the sense for what is true or not true—a loss that, among others, accounts for his difficulty in distinguishing between genuine feelings, beliefs, strivings, and their artificial equivalents (unconscious pretenses) in himself and in others. The emphasis shifts from being to appearing. The difference, then, between healthy strivings, and their artificial equivalents (unconscious pretenses) in himself and in others. The emphasis shifts from being to appearing. The difference, then, between healthy strivings and neurotic drives for glory is one between spontaneity and compulsion; between recognizing and denying limitations; between a focus upon the vision of a glorious end-product and a feeling for evolution; between seeming and being, fantasy and truth. The difference thus stated is not identical with that between a relatively healthy and a neurotic individual. #RandolphHarris 4 of 22

The former may not be wholeheartedly engaged in realizing his real self, not is the latter wholly driven to actualize his idealized self. If this striving were not in him to being with, the tendency toward self-relations operates in the neurotic too; we could not in therapy give any help to the patient’s growth. However, while the difference between the healthy and the neurotic person in this respect is simply one of degree, the difference between genuine striving and compulsive drives, despite surface similarities, is one of quality and not of quantity. (“The neurotic” is the person in whom neurotic drives prevail over healthy strivings.) The most pertinent symbol, to my mind, for the neurotic process initiated by the search for glory is the ideational content of the stories of the devil’s pact. The devil, or some other personification of evil, tempts a person who is perplexed by spiritual or material trouble with the offer of unlimited powers. However, he can obtain these powers only on the condition of selling his soul or going to hell. The temptation can come to anybody, rich or poor in spirit, because it speaks to two powerful desires: the longing for the infinite and the wish for an easy way out. According to religious tradition, the greatest spiritual leaders of mankind, Jesus Christ and Moses, experienced such temptation. However, because they were firmly grounded in themselves, they recognized it as a temptation and could reject it. Moreover, the conditions stipulated in the pact are an appropriate representation of the price to be paid in the neurotic’s development. Speaking in these symbolic terms, the easy way to infinite glory is inevitably also the way to an inner hell of self-contempt and self-torment. By taking this road, the individual is in fact losing his soul—his real self. #RandolphHarris 5 of 22

If you want to have a happy marriage, it is just as important and maybe more important to do a good job of running your home and taking carer of your children. However, judging by one of the things I have read these day, it seems to be that people are forgetting that there are other things in life besides pleasures of the flesh. Why do some seem to feel that pleasures of the flesh are like recreation, something to enjoy if and when they have finished the work that must come first? A young couple go away for a vacation, leaving their children with the wife’s parents. Although neither one has said a word to the other, both husband and wife hope that having some time to themselves will be all they need to overcome the dissatisfaction with pleasures of the flesh that has arisen between them. She has been achieving climax less and less frequently, and he has been troubled by a diminished physical drive. To their delight, the vacation proves a complete success. Their problems fade away and they find themselves responding to each other with an intensity that both had secretly feared they had lost forever. When they talk about it, they agree that the explanation is obvious: because the children are not around to interfere, because he is not distracted by business matters and she is not fatigued by household tasks, they have the time and energy they need to enjoy themselves physically. Many American couples look forward to vacations for this very reason, and become reigned to the fact that when they return home, the distractions and obligations of daily life will resume and take their inevitable toll on pleasures of the flesh. #RandolphHarris 6 of 22

What they do not realize is that they are accepting without question the principle that being productive is always more important than being pleasured, that work comes before play. This assumption has its roots in the old Calvinist philosophy which took hold in this country during colonial days. The Calvinists preached that work redeemed the believer, but that indulging in pleasure, especially the pleasures of the flesh, brought eternal damnation. However, this is also what The Book of Mormon and the Christian Bible teach. So perhaps pleasures of the flesh are only for procreation, as God states, and after having kids, pleasures of the flesh should not be something that is used like a tool for fun. If the relationship was meant to be passionate for life, it would naturally be. After a while, some men are even no longer to perform, and perhaps that is the way it should be. By the time people become of a certain age, they are supposed to be look at as pure, and honorable, so they should not be engaged in intimate passions. The reason so many people have affairs is because they have come to believe that pleasures of the flesh are meant to be enjoyed and they can only find this connection by seeking out something they lust after, but do not love. In the 2024 movie, Cellar Door by Vaugh Stein, we see an example of this. A couple Sera and John marry and are trying to have a baby and Sera is undergoing In vitro fertilization to become pregnant. Meanwhile, she ends up becoming pregnant and has a miscarriage. In the process, John is having an affair with his colleague Alyssa. He tells Alyssa that he is in love with her and plans to leave his wife. However, a while late, Sera becomes pregnant and Alyssa confronts her after John refuses to divorce his wife. Alyssa reminds John that he said that he loves her, but John is so excited about becoming a father that he is not willing to leave his wife. Perhaps John was lusting for Alyssa, but knew deep down inside that pleasures of the flesh are supposed to be reserved for procreation. #RandolphHarris 7 of 22

During the process of trying to procreate, some couples, especially men may really start to enjoy it and believe that is what love is supposed to feel like. Romance, gratification, pleasure, excitement, and after a couple is with child, the man realizes his job as a procreator is complete. He enjoyed creating a life so much that he looks for this same type of enjoyment from another person, and has an affair. However, after he realizes that he truly loves his wife and that marriage and pleasures of the flesh are for procreation, he then takes his relationship with his wife more seriously because he realized that he was confused, and does not want to lose his family. However, for many, work as virtue and play as a sin proves to be an intimidating and tenacious doctrine. Since the sexual revolution, people have been taught that it is acceptable to be promiscuous and as a result, marriage rates are declining, divorces are increasing, and many people are no longer interested in keeping up their reputation or maintaining the family name and image. Also, men are conditioned to believe that love is for the weak, for wimp and that it is manly to play the field and sew their wild oats. Therefore, it is not hard to believe that any vestige of marriage being to raise a family and pleasures of the flesh being solely for procreation could persist today, four hundred years later in our affluent, leisure-oriented society. However, old attitudes and myths die hard, especially where pleasures of the flesh are concerned. Often, they may seem to disappear only to turn up again in a different guise. Men man may start to realize that…divorce is too expensive, can ruin their reputation and business and choose to accept marriage as a commitment. #RandolphHarris 8 of 22

In another film called The Revival, which came out in 2017 and is by directed by Jennifer Gerber, we see an example of how a man called Eli, chooses to honor God, his wife, June, and his family by breaking off his affair with a man named Daniel. Daniel admits to June that Eli is only leaving him because he is dedicated to his God. This movie is worth watching because you will see what man is willing to do to honor God and his commitment to his religion. In trilogy called The Falls 2012 directed by Jon Garcia, The Falls: Testament of Love, The Falls: Covenant of Grace, we see an example of forbidden love and how it rips families apart, causes a rift in the Mormon Church, and utterly devastates a woman. This movie is an important film because it shows the consequences of divorce, the consequences of lying, and what happens when a marriage is built on fraud. It also questions if people should lie about their feelings to honor God or be honest with themselves so not to hurt themselves and others. All of these movies present great scenarios which people should really think about and decide what is best for them. Marriage fraud can disturb lies, an entire community, and rock the church. However, is it best to remain in a marriage that was only based on procreation? These are all questions one has to answer for one’s self. In the Western World, on the surface, considerable change has taken place—many people are increasingly reluctant to make a job all there is to life and more willing to accept pleasures of the flesh as part of their birthright. However, for many others, there has been no change or else the apparent change is illusory. #RandolphHarris 9 of 22

Some people assign the highest priority to work and the lowest to pleasures of the flesh. In other intricate cases, a person may assign pleasures of the flesh a high priority only to approach intercourse as though, it, too, were a performance task to be mastered and measured—an ironic and unfortunate reapplication of work-ethic standards. Nonetheless, what we realize is that individuals cannot be neatly categorized, of course, and most people live with overlapping—and even contradictory—beliefs and attitudes. “Here is the grand truth: while the World insists that power, possessions, popularity, and pleasures of the flesh bring happiness, they do not! They cannot! What they do produce is nothing but a hollow substitute for the blessed and happy state of those [who] keep the commandments of God. The truth is that it is much more exhausting to seek happiness where you can never find it! However, when you yoke yourself to Jesus Christ and do the spiritual work required to overcome the World, He, and He alone, does have the power to life you above the pull of this World.” reports President Russell M. Nelson. Another thing has become clear to me as these Worldly times have come upon us. Leviticus 18.22 states, “You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.” However, if the verse was a little more forward thinking, I wonder. The Obama and Biden administration, celebrities and the radical governor of California have ushered in gay marriage and have even gone as far as to sponsor drag shows, convince boys that they should get cut wide, deep, and long so they can have private parts like women, and the military and state prison system would even pay for these services. And that makes me wonder if this is not the warning Leviticus 18.22 was referring to? One thing is clear, “The wages of sin is death,” reports Romans 6.23, and we all sin one way or another. #RandolphHarris 10 of 22

Death is not an act, nor even an event, for the one who dies. It is both for those who survive. What it can be, and should be, is a transaction. They physical horror of the Africans who were enslaved were compounded by the psychological horror, the prevention of dignity, self-assertion, or self-expression on the plantation. There was no brave blind fold and cigarette, no defiance, no famous last words: in sum, no death transaction. There were transactional stimuli from the dying, but no response from the killers. Thus, force majeure takes from the script its most poignant moment, the deathbed scene, and in one sense the whole human purpose of life is to set up that scene. In script analysis, this brought out by the question: “Who will be there at your deathbed, and what will your last words be?” An added question is: “What will their last words be?” The answer to the first query is usually some version of “I showed them”—“them” being the parents, especially mother in the case of a man and father in the case of a woman. The implication is either, “I showed them I did what they wanted me to,” or “I showed them I did not have to do what they wanted me to.” The answer to this question is, in effect, a summary of Jeder’s life goal, and can be used by the therapist as a powerful instrument in breaking up the games and getting Jeder out of his script: “So your whole life boils down to showing them you were right to feel hurt, frightened, angry, inadequate, or guilty. Very well. If you want to keep it that we, then that will be your greatest accomplishment. #RandolphHarris 11 of 22

The deathbed scene may be part of the hidden, or script contract in marriage. The husband or wife may have a very clear image of the other partner dying first. In such cases, the spouse often has the complementary script, and is obligingly planning to do so. Thus, they get along well and pass contented years together. However, if they each have the image of the other dying first, so that the scripts are crossed in this respect, those years will be contentious instead of contented, even though the scripts are complementary in other ways, as they must be for the marriage to take place. The difficulties will come out most clearly when one or the other is ill or in pain. A common script based on the death scene is found in the marriage of a younger woman to an older man. Even if the cynics say she marries him for his bread, the script scene is equally important, and she will always be at his side in time of danger, on the good side to take care of him, but also so as not to miss the final payoff transaction. If he is intuitively aware of this, the marriage may have only a very narrow margin of safety, since it is not easy to get along with someone who is waiting for you to die. The same situation, with the double payoff, may arise in the marriage of a younger man to an older woman, although these are less common. It is evident that the original script protocol has father in place of the aging husband, or mother in place of the aging wife. To substitute a new morality for current morality is the cause of all our evils. We are being confronted with the horror of a period in which man is persistently degraded in the name of certain principles, and we need to return to traditional morality. The president hesitation is perhaps but a hesitation of nihilism and the real progress of rebellion. It is also the absolute proof that there is no comfortable wisdom: We want, we shall have, the hereafter in our lifetime. Ego or self-awareness seems like a pitiful little cramp, like a bit of food stuck in the throat. In a Zen novel a wise monk, confronted by an assassin’s sword, admire the rainbow colours gleaming on its edge as it came. The assassin did not kill him because it was so obvious he was no ordinary man. The beast, personal pride, is most difficult in workshops when one is a leader before many people. #RandolphHarris 12 of 22

Egoism is plain unhandy. Insofar as I am Somebody, I cut myself off from other-buddies. I am trapped in should/oughts, moment by moment weighed and evaluated in the eyes of others, a victim of opinion (mine and theirs), constrained to put on my best shopkeeper’s face and coat. One becomes caught within imposed goals. “Everyone should try to be successful, have a BMW, McMansion, Sharp FC Series 220” UHD 4K Direct-View LED Display Kit, et cetera. Ego or pride is separateness, and separateness conflicts with how to be with others. Insofar as one is separate, one has a castle to defend, and there is defensiveness. There is a Chinese saying that “Locked doors make thieves.” The one that is not permitted in the little cell self escapes into the World (is projected). “Those monsters who would start war in outer space!”—but I have been known to start a way over the breakfast table. Sometimes the good side of a person is projected too. For instance, the one who marvels at the cleverness of others often projects greater greatness than exists in the others. Adolescents (young and old) are famous for this. Life is a kind of long-term seasoning where it is discovered that there is not greater wisdom or stupidity out there than there is in here. Nonviolence is not a doctrine of practical defeatism and emotional surrender. One the contrary, it is, in these atomic days, the only sure road to a real victory rather than to the illusory one which modern warfare brings. Nor is it a doctrine of escapism. Whether it be right or wrong, this refusal to take human life under any circumstances is noble and magnificent. It must be admired even by those of us who cannot agree. #RandolphHarris 13 of 22

The decision to accept nonviolence will be made, not necessarily on an exalted plane of moral values but on a practical plane of superior effectiveness. It will be not because we have been spiritually transformed that we choose the pacifist way but because we have reached an impasse and have no other way out from Worldwide suicide than this one. We are in no position any longer to make any choice at all. The way in which persons perceive, think about, and imagine their bodies to be (body image) is another way in which embodiment, or peculiar ways of being embodied, may be revealed. Seymour Fischer and Sideny Cleveland were able to show that persons who saw many things in the Rorschach ink-blot test that had shells, walls, or definite boundaries (high “barrier” scores) differed from persons who saw objects with blurry or shattered boundaries (high “penetration” scores), in styles of behaviour and sickness. Thus, patients with cancer of internal organs had higher “penetration of boundary” scores and lower “barrier” scores than persons with skin cancers. Dr. Fischer and Dr. Cleveland propose that the responses to the ink-blot test reveal the way in which persons unconsciously imagine their bodies to be. However warranted their hypothesis, it does appear that what persons believe to be the case about their bodies becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. I believe that we have been grossly unimaginative in our ways of thinking and theorizing about the body. The way physicians, anatomists, and physiologists see the body, from the outside, has become the way in which schoolchildren and finally adults experience their bodies. We do not yet have a phenomenological anatomy and physiology that would heighten our consciousness. #RandolphHarris 14 of 22

Sound judgment goes hand in hand with agility. Judgement requires Sacramento Firefighters and EMTs to be able to assess situations or circumstances and draw conclusions. Good judgement enables the members of the Sacramento Fire Department, on a consistent basis, to be successful leaders, and much of it comes from experience. Innovation is also an important skill the displayed by the Sacramento Fire Department. Being innovative means producing ideas that are original and worthwhile. Sometimes a new problem presents itself or an old problem requires a new solution. The Sacramento Fire Department seizes such opportunities to think creatively and innovate. The key concept for creative thinking is to develop ways to challenge others with new ideas. It is also involves devising new ways for firefighters, EMTs, and civilians to accomplish tasks and missions. Creative thinking includes using adaptive approached (drawing from previous similar circumstances) or innovative approached (coming up with a completely new idea). The Sacramento Fire Department thinks creatively and adapts to new environments. The crew may find themselves in a fire house which is isolated, small, and with limited athletic facilities and without much room to run. In this case, they have learned to devise reliable ways to maintain their physical fitness. Innovative solutions include weight training, games, stationary runs, aerobics, treadmills, and other fitness drills to stay in shape for saving lives. #RandolphHarris 15 of 22

As innovative leaders, the Sacramento Fire Department prevents complacency by finding new ways to challenge team members with forward-looking approaches and ideas. As innovators, they rely on intuition, experience, knowledge, and input from their crew. They also reinforce team building by making everybody responsible for the innovation process. Interacting effectively with others also means that members of the Sacramento Fire Department are able to see things through the eyes of others. They accept the character, reactions, and motives of others as being just as valid as their own. Interpersonal tact combines with these skills, along with recognizing diversity and displaying self-control, balance, and stability in all situations. They avoid conclusions based on negative stereotypes, and instead understand that it is better to understand individuals by acknowledging their differences, qualifications, contributions, and potential. The Sacramento Fire Department and EMTs control their emotions. Instead of hysterics or showing no emotion at all, they display the right amount of sensitivity and passion to tap into others’ emotions and find out how to help them. Maintaining self-control inspires calm confidence in the team and in patients. Self-control encourages feedback from others that can help in understanding what is really happening. Self-control in fighting fires or providing medical care is especially important. The Sacramento Fire Departments self-control, balance, and stability creatures an atmosphere of control and healing. Understanding that people are human beings with hopes, fears, concerns and dreams is a powerful leadership tool. “Anyone can get angry—that is easy…but to [get angry with] the right person, to the right extent, at the right time, for the right reason, and in the right way is no longer something easy that anyone can do,” reports Aristotle. #RandolphHarris 16 of 22

“I have five kids. I know my youngest son is going to be a fireman for sure, because every time he hears a siren he runs to the window. So for Christmas I bought him a little fire engine set with a dashboard like on a chief’s car. It’s got the fire extinguisher and the microphone and a little crank that you turn for the siren. And a helmet. It was a funny coincidence. My company is in Battalion X, and on his helmet was “Battalion X.” I didn’t notice it until we opened it up at Christmas. Basically I divide my time between my family and the force. I spend time with all of my kids. Not only that, I’ve got a lot of little cousins and nieces and nephews and whatever. I spend a lot of time entertaining them, because to them I’m the hero, so I feel obligated to them. I am constantly going around and visiting and just entertaining them any way I can. Playing ball with them, telling them stories. They love to hear fire stories. That’s what I’m doing on my time off, or I like to travel. I’ve got family down South. In the summertime, I’ll jump on the highway and go to visit my family.”  Therefore, physical and mental toughness are just the basic requirements. You achieve excellence when you habitually show discipline and commitment to the department’s values. Individuals and organizations pursue excellence to improve. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 17 of 23

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 18 of 22

American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 19 of 22

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. Americans make sure superior product, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 20 of 22

Additionally, State Farm is asking the California Department of Insurance if they can raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent. If election for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 21 of 22

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 22 of 22

The Winchester Mystery House

Did you know that in the Grand Ballroom, behind a locked door and fireproof wall, inside a safe within a safe, Sarah kept her husband’s and daughter’s obituaries, along with a lock of her daughter’s hair? A reminder that, above all else, her family was what mattered most to her.

Experience an unforgettable journey back to the time of kings and queens with this entry ticket for The Winchester Mansion in Santa Clara, California which was the residence of Sarah L. Winchester. Take advantage of this fascinating experience. After tour, there will be time enjoy the mansion’s splendor at your own pace. You might even discover secret passages.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion.

For further information about tours, including group tours, weddings, school events, birthday party packages, facility rentals, and special events please visit the website: https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Please visit the online giftshop, and purchase a gift for friends and relatives as well as a special memento of The Winchester Mystery House. A variety of souvenirs and gifts are available to purchase. https://shopwinchestermysteryhouse.com/

The Winchester Mystery House is full of surprises. What was your favorite, “Oooh!” moment during your visit at the mansion? (And for those of you who still have to check it off your bucket list… we will hopefully see you soon.)  https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Steeped in history and owned by the same family for over 100 years, The Winchester Mansion forms the iconic centrepiece of the estate. Depicting three different styles of architecture in which the mansion was constructed over a period of almost 40 years. At one time, the magnificent Winchester Mansion possessed 500 to 600 rooms and was nine stories tall. In the 1906 Earthquake, the nine-story tower collapsed, and it took much of the fourth floor with it. Today, experts believe over 160 rooms exist, of which 110 are open to guests, expanding over 100,000 square feet. While historical authenticity is extremely important, many would like to see the mansion fully restored, with some of its rustic character remaining. Over the years, several restoration projects have been untaken, along with important maintenance projects to keep this important work of Americana open for future generations to enjoy.

This mansion not only provides a luxurious lifestyle but also offers a chance to immerse oneself in the timeless beauty and cultural heritage of what some call Winchester Valley, making it an exceptional residence or an exquisite retreat in the heart of California. This stately property presents itself in an absolutely spectacular, dreamlike manner. With every tour, every purchase, you are contributing to the preservation of this privately owned estate. Ever wish you could go behind the ropes and explore the mansion freely? You can with our virtual 360 tour! This online tour lets you wander through the home at your own pace and admire every intricate detail up close ✨ Only $8.99. https://360tourwmh.com/

The Vogel Victorian haunted high tea is coming to the Winchester Mystery House… and you’re invited. 🫖✨

Join  Vogel Victorian for an evening of Victorian enchantment, featuring:

🥂 a welcome gathering in front of the mansion + a complimentary drink
🌿 crafting protection jars in the twin dining rooms
🔮 a séance in the basement
🍵 a full high tea in the grand ballroom

Séances where popular during the late 1800 and early 1900’s as death was rampant and loved ones became overwhelmed with grief and desperate to connect with those on the other side. You never know who will come through.

Available March 28, 29, & 30—more details + tickets in our bio! https://app.hauntpay.com/events/manchester-mystery-house-haunted-tea-party

The Theme of the Devil’s Pact Begins to Emerge

Imagination is a way to escape reality and fulfill unconscious desires. The role imagination plays in the search for glory may show unmistakably and directly in daydreams. In the teenager, they may have a frankly grandiose character. It is a way to bridge the gap between imagination and reality. There is for instance the college boy who, although timid and withdrawn, has daydreams about being the greatest athlete, or genius, or Don Juan. There are also in later years people like Paris Hilton, who almost constantly indulge in dreams of romantic expression, of a mystic perfection, or of a mysterious saintliness. Sometimes these take the form of imaginary conversations in which others are impressed or put to shame. Others, more complicated in their structure, deal with shameful or noble suffering through being exposed to cruelty and degradation. Frequently daydreams are not elaborate stories but, rather, play a fantastic accompaniment to the daily routine. When tending her children, playing the piano, or combing her hair, a woman may for instance see herself in much the way a tender mothers, a rapturous pianist, or an alluring beauty would be presented in the movies. In some cases, such daydreams show clearly that a person may, like Paris Hilton, constantly live in two World. Again, in others equally engaged in the search for glory daydreams are so scarce and abortive that they may say in all subjective honesty that they have no fantasy life. Needless to say, they are mistaken. Even if they only worry about possible mishaps that might be fall them, it is after all their imagination that conjures up such contingencies. #RandolphHarris 1 of 23

However, daydreams, while important and revealing when they occur, are not the most injurious work of imagination. For a person is mostly aware of that fact that he is daydreaming, id est, imagining things which have not occurred or are not likely to occur in the way he is experiencing them in fantasy. At least it is not too difficult for him to become aware of the existence and the unrealistic character of the daydreams. The more injurious work of imagination concerns the subtle and comprehensive distortions of reality which he is not aware of fabricating. The idealized self is not completed in a single act of creation: once produced, it needs continuing attention. For its actualization the person must put in an incessant labour by way of falsifying reality. He must turn his needs into virtues or into more than justified expectations. He must turn his intentions to be honest or considerate into the fact of being honest or considerate. The bright ideas he has for a paper make him a great scholar. His potentialities turn into factual achievements. Knowing the “right” moral values make him a virtuous person—often, indeed, a kind of moral genius. And of course, his imagination must work overtime to discard all the disturbing evidence to the contrary. Imagination also operates in changing the neurotic’s beliefs. He needs to believe that others are wonderful or vicious-and lo! there they are in a parade of benevolent or dangerous people. It also changes his feelings. He needs to feel invulnerable—and behold! His imagination has sufficient power to brush off pain and suffering. He needs to have deep feelings—confidence, sympathy, love, suffering: his feelings of sympathy, suffering, and the rest are magnified. #RandolphHarris 2 of 23

The perception of the distortions of inner and outer reality which imagination can bring about when put to the service of the search for glory leaves us with an uneasy question. Where does the flight of the neurotic’s imagination end? He does not after all lose his sense of reality altogether; where then is the border line separating him from the psychotic? If there is any border line with respect to feats of imagination, it certainly is hazy. We can only say that the psychotic tends to regard the process in his mind more exclusively as they only reality that counts, while the neurotic—for whatever reasons—retains a fair interest in the outside World and his place in it and has therefore a fair gross orientation in it. Nevertheless, while he may stay sufficiently on the ground to function in a way not obviously disturbed, there is no limit to the heights to which his imagination can soar. It is in fact the most striking characteristic of the search for glory that it goes into the fantastic, into the realm of unlimited possibilities. All of the drives for glory have in common the reaching out for greater knowledge, wisdom, virtue, or powers than are given to human beings; they all aim at the absolute, the unlimited, the infinite. Nothing short of absolute fearlessness, mastery, or saintliness has any appeal for the neurotic obsessed with the drive for glory. He is therefore the antithesis of the truly religious man. #RandolphHarris 3 of 23

For the latter, only to God are all things possible; the neurotic’s version is: nothing is impossible to me. His will power should have magic proportions, his reasoning be infallible, his foresight flawless, his knowledge all encompassing. The theme of the devil’s pact begins to emerge. The neurotic is the Prince Lestat who is not satisfied with knowing a great deal, but has to know everything. This soaring into the unlimited is determined by the power of the needs behind the drive for glory. The needs for the absolute and the ultimate are so stringent that they override the checks which usually prevent our imagination from detaching itself from actuality. For his well-functioning, man needs both the vision of possibilities, the perspective of infinitude, and the realization of limitations, of necessities, of the concrete. If a man’s thinking and feeling are primarily focused upon the infinite and the vision of possibilities, he loses his sense for the concrete, for the hear and now. He loses his capacity for living in the moment. He is no longer capable of submitting to the necessities in himself, “to what may be called one’s limit.” He loses his sight of what is actually necessary for achieving something. “Every little possibility even would require some time to become actuality.” His thinking may become too abstract. His knowledge may become “a kind of inhuman knowing for the production of which man’s self is squandered, pretty much as men were squandered for the building of the Pyramids.” His feelings for others may evaporate into an “abstract sentimentality for humanity.” #RandolphHarris 4 of 23

If, on the other hand, a man does not see beyond the narrow horizon of the concrete, the necessary, the finite, he becomes “narrow-minded and mean-spirited.” It is not, then, a question of either-or, but of both, if there is to be growth. The recognition of limitations, laws, and necessities serves as a check against being carried away into the infinite, and against the mere “floundering in possibilities.” The checks on imagination are malfunctioning in the search for glory. This does not mean a general incapacity to see necessities and abide by them. A special direction in the further neurotic development may make many people feel safer to restrict their lives, and they may then tend to regard the possibility of being carried away into the fantastic as a danger to be avoided. They may close their minds to anything that to them looks fantastic, be averse to abstract thinking, and overanxiously cling to what is visible, tangible, concrete, or immediately useful. However, while the conscious attitude toward these matters varies, every neurotic at bottom is loath to recognize limitations to what he expects of himself and believes it possible to attain. His need to actualize his idealized image is so imperative that he must shove aside the checks as irrelevant or nonexistent. There are over one million people locked up in mental hospitals because they cannot shut up about the crime. One thing is clear in my years with these people—the more mentally ill they are, the more they are caught in egocentricity, selfishness, and uselessness. #RandolphHarris 5 of 23

In mental hospitals, there are many relics of people with vaunted selfhood even though their World is riddles with strange influences. The more vaunted, the more riddled. It is apparent to us, but not to the mentally ills, that this diseased World is representative of them since the disease walks where they walk. They contend that it occurs only in the hospital, but when they visited a large city, there is this same monstrous business going on. It is the same thing whether we say they are diseased or their World is diseased. The two are really one. In ordinary social intercourse with others, or in the more intense experience of group psychotherapy, there is a manifest difference between the person who must explain and must defend their view from the person who enjoys and easily accepts the Worlds of other persons. The first is a bore, a difficult person, one who rouses anger or needs to be treated carefully. The second is an easier, more likeable person. In group psychotherapy one often sees the clever professional or layman who must tell, must be right, must interpret what the other person really means. A less obnoxious egotism is the one who is very concerned what to say, how a thing will be taken, whether he is understood or appreciated. These people are painfully trapped in the evaluations of others because they are so concerned for themselves. In my own little World, it has become clear to me that I am of use to others insofar as I am not concerned for my reputation. I have seen brilliant intuitive insights come out of me when I was only aware of the other person. #RandolphHarris 6 of 23

I have also seen miserable failure when I was out to prove that I was clever. I look for pride in me, and if it is there, I had best be silent. In both therapy and social relations, there is an almost mystic beauty when my self vanishes and the style, nuances of bodily movement, voice inflection and concerns of the other person fill the whole stage. I am liked best when I am not. For most of my young life, I had been told it was not okay to display anger. Thus, the journey from manipulation to mastery is not a neat, two-dimensional, passionate, random, helter-skelter journey, with our emotions swinging from one polarity to another, from love to dependency to weakness to criticalness—often many times in a matter of minutes. Exactly how the process takes place should not concern you, unless you are a therapist. All you need to be concerned with is that the process does work—and you can use it to improve the quality of your life, the dynamism of your relationships. What therapy does is start a person on the road to mastery. It starts them looking at their internal conflicts. The process of dealing with polarities goes on through life—at all times and on all fronts. Those who follow spiritual ideals will have to take their stand. Nonviolence is a good. Violence is an evil. However, in the compulsory choice between violent defense against violent aggression or passive submission to such aggression, it is often the lesser of the two evils. For the first may bring the aggressor to suffer the consequences of his crime whereas the second may condone it. The first may re-educate him to abandon his evil ways whereas the second may encourage him in them. #RandolphHarris 7 of 23

There are savage creatures, moral monsters and insane animals who look like men but have only partially risen into the human species in their passage from the lower ones. Having human faces and limbs, digestive and sense organs, is not enough to render them worthy of human classification. With a wise mercy, which need not be stretched too far but must not be stretched too little, we must temper natural desire to punish the violent criminal adequately. The pacifist who believes that his attitude will affect the war-makers and alter their attitude is as irrational as the sparrow who appeals to the hawk for his life to be spared. However, pacifism has a far sounder basis than this weak one. The adherence to nonviolence is not a sign of ignorable weakness but rather of noble wisdom. The folly of war cannot be reconciled with the dictates of reason. To use violent means for the defense of nonviolent ideals can only lead to the loss of those ideals. To use violent means for the defense of nonviolent ideals can only lead to the loss of this ideals. What is conquered by violence must be maintained by violence. Every form of totality is restrictive. Surrealism is not concerned with action, but with asceticism and spiritual experience. The profound originality of the movement is the restoration of the sacred and the conquest of unity, which make surrealism so invaluable for a consideration of the problem of rebellion. Surrealism—the fusion of a dream and of reality, the sublimation of the old contradiction between the ideal and the real. We know the surrealist solution: concrete irrationality, objective risk. #RandolphHarris 8 of 23

Poetry is the conquest, the only possible conquest, of the “supreme position.” A certain position of the mind from where life and death, the real and the imaginary, the past and the future…cease to be perceived in a contradictory sense. What is this supreme position that should mark the “colossal abortion of the Hegelian system”? It is the search for the summit-abyss, familiar to the mystics. Actually, it is the mysticism without God which demonstrates and quenches the rebel’s thirst for the absolute. The essential enemy of surrealism is rationalism. Should we dissolve contradictions in the fires of love and desire and demolish the walls of death? Magic rites, primitive or naïve civilization, alchemy, the language of flowers, fire, or sleepless nights, are so many miraculous stages on the way to unity and the philosophers’ stone. Vitality on old age depends on three factors: constitutional robustness; physical health; type of script. The onset of old age is determined by the same three factors. Thus, some people are vital at eighty and others start vegetating at forty. Constitutional robustness is a force majeure, that is, it cannot be changed by Parental programing. Physical disability is sometimes a force majeure, and sometimes a script payoff. In the “Cripple” Script it is both. The crippling itself may occur because of unavoidable physical illness, but it is welcomed because it is part of the script and fulfills mother’s injunction to end up disabled. #RandolpHarris 9 of 23

This occurs occasionally in cases of poliomyelitis in young adults, where the man in the wheel chair says: “When I knew I had polio I almost welcomed it, as though I had been waiting for something like that.” If his script called for him to be a cripple, and Nature did not help him out, he might have crashed a car. Nature’s solution is simpler to deal with. Older people may similarly welcome a stroke or a coronary occlusion, but for a different reason: not because it is part of the script, but because it relieves them of the compulsion to carry on with their script strivings. For the Child in them, these catastrophes become “Wooden Leg” or “Wooden Heart,” so that they can say to the Parent in their heads: “Even you cannot expect a man with a Wooden Leg or a Wooden Heart to carry on your witch’s curse.” Faced with a blood clot in Jeder’s brain or heart, only the most ruthless parent does not concede defeat. If a disability occurs early in life, it may fit very well into a mother’s script, or may throw it off completely. If it fits, the child will be raised as a professional cripple, sometimes with the help of outside organizations devoted to helping Crippled Children (as long as they stay cripped) or Children with Intellectual Disabilities (as long as they have an intellectual disability). (If the child recovers, the drag is due to the fact that the government subsidy usually stops.) In such cases, the mother learns to “face it,” and teaches the child to do likewise. #RandolphHarris 10 of 23

If it does not fit the mother’s script, however, she does not learn to face it. She keeps trying, and the child learns to do likewise, so that he ends up as a one-legged jitterbug, a clubfooted broad-jumper, or a brain-damaged orthopedic specialist (all these examples exist or have existed in real life). The Crippled Children’s organization and the Mentally Ill organization pitch in here, too, and are delighted if one of their proteges makes it (with outside help). If the mother’s script does not call for a physically or mentally disabled child, and the disability is so severe that it is necessarily permanent, then her life becomes a script-frustrated tragedy. If her script does call for a disabled child, and the disability is borderline, and possibly remediable, then the child’s life becomes an unnecessary, script-inflicted tragedy. Now to return to old age. If they have “Open-Ended” Scripts, even people with robust constitutions and no physical disabilities (or only minor or hypochondriacal ones) can begin to vegetate at an early age. These are commonly people living on pensions. The Parental precept is: “Work hard, and do not take any chances,” and the payoff is “After that, give up.” Once Jeder has put in his twenty or thirty years, and Santa Claus has come and given him his retirement banquet and gold watch, he does not know what to do. He is accustomed to following his script directives, but now they are exhausted, and he has no further programing in his head. Therefore, he is content to sit and wait until something turns up: Death, for instance. #RandolphHarris 11 of 23

This raises an interesting question. What do you do after Santa Clause comes? With an “Until” Script, he comes down the chimney and brings a Freedom Certificate. Jeder has fulfilled the requirements of his script, is freed of the curse by the antiscript, and is now at liberty to do what he always wanted to do since he was a little boy. However, going his own way is full of dangers, as many Greek myths attest. While he is free of his witch parent, he is also unprotected, and can easily come to grief. This is shown in fairy tales as well. A curse gives protection as well as trial and tribulation. The same witch that laid on the curse sees that the victim continues to live while he is under it. Thus, Sleeping Beauty was protected by the briar forest for a hundred years. However, the moment she woke up, and could tell the witch to buzz off, her troubles began. A handy situation is to have a double script: an “Until” Script from one parent and an “After” Script from the other. In the commonest case this reads “You cannot be free until you have raised three children” (from mother), and “After you are free you will become creative” (from father). Thus, in the first half of her life Zoe is controlled and protected by her mother and in the second half by her father. In the case of a man, the double-script directive may be the same as above, but the control and protection are reversed: Father during the first phase and Mother during the second. #RandolphHarris 12 of 23

The vegetating age are divided into three classes, and in this country the insignia are financial. Those with losers’ scripts live alone in rooming houses or rundown hotels, and are called old men and old women. Those with nonwinning scripts own and live in small houses where they are free to develop their idiosyncrasies and eccentricities, so that they are known as old characters. Those with winning scripts live in retirement homes run by financial promoters, and are called Senior Citizens, or Mr. and Mrs. Taxpayer, which is how they sign their Letters to the Editor. The cure for the scriptless age is permission, but they seldom use it. There are thousands of older men living in small rooms in every large city, each of them wishing there was someone to cook for him, talk to him, and listen to him. At the same time, there are thousands of older women living under the same circumstances, wishing they had someone to cook for, talk to, and listen to. Even if the twain do happen to meet, they rarely take advantage of it, each preferring to remain in his or her familiar drab surroundings hunched over a glass or a TV set, or sitting with folded hands, waiting for a riskless, sinless death. Those were mother’s directives when they were little, and these are the directives they are following seventy or eight years later. They never took chances before, beyond a small bet at the racetrack of the stadium, so why should they jeopardize everything now? The script has vanished by its own fulfillment, but the old slogan lingers on, and when death comes, they will greet him gladly. And on the front of the tombstone, they will carve: “Gone to rest with his forebears,” and on the back it will say: “I lived a good life, and never took any chances.”. #RandolphHarris 13 of 23

They say that in this century, children will be grown in bottles, according to specifications laid down by the state and the parents, and there they will be genetically programed However, everybody is already raised in a bottle according to specifications laid down by the state and his parents, and there he is script-programed. Script-programing is easier to shake off than genetic programing, but few people exercise the privilege. For the ones who do, there can be a more inspiring tombstone. Nearly all pious epitaphs, translated into Martian, come out “Raised in a bottle, and stayed there, too.” And so they stand, row after row of crosses and other symbols in the graveyard, all with the same motto. Only here and there is a surprise: “Raised in a bottle—but I jumped out.” Many people refuse to do that, even when there is no cork. Genetic history, as opposed to political history, is a record of those moments when a successful gene pool migrates in response to swarming pressures when the hive castes out its future probes. The migrating waves produce the highest peaks of civilization, of culture, of hive philosophy and of art and science. Civilization began in the East. Shuttling up and down the spinal column from Suez to China. The great pyramids of Egypt remind us that long ago women and men looked at the stars and built enormous highways aloft. Inside the pyramids, they assembled all the instruments and comforts needed in a post-terrestrial life. The Egyptian gene pool evolved rapidly and prematurely because they had temporarily solved the four terrestrial survival problems—security, political autonomy, technological predominance and a national sociosexual mythos. The Nile Valley geography produced this early genetic probe into the future. #RandolphHarris 14 of 23

If you are not intelligent about your leadership, the best training in the World cannot make you an effective, respected leader. An intelligent firefighter or EMT is one who is mentally agile, sound in judgement, innovative, tactful, and knowledgeable. Intelligent action will get you through many difficult situations. The Sacramento Fire Department’s intelligence draws on their mental tendencies and resources, shaping their conceptual abilities. These conceptional abilities enable them to exercise sound judgement about their duties and responsibilities even before they implement their concepts and plans. They help the firefighters and EMTs think creatively and reason analytically, critically, ethically, and with cultural sensitivity. Conceptual abilities enable them to consider unintended consequences. The Sacramento Fire Department always thinks through what they expect to occur as a result of a decision. Some decisions may set off a chain of events, so they must attempt to anticipate the second- and third-order effects of their actions. The conceptual components affecting the Sacramento Fire Department’s intelligence include: Mental agility, judgement, innovation, interpersonal tact, and domain knowledge. “I met my wife in 1995, but we didn’t get married until 2000. One of the first things that got us acquainted was when I found out that she went to the same oral surgeon that I did. It wasn’t just broken teeth, I had shattered my upper jaw, I busted it in a million pieces, and I was all wired up. We didn’t meet in the doctor’s office, but once we started talking, you known when you first meet somebody, you have to have something to talk about. She had some problems and went to the same doctor, so we started talking about different ordeals. That’s what we talked about. #RandolphHarris 15 of 23

“I was crazy about the fire department, and she knew before we were married that she was going to be second to the fire department. She doesn’t tell me she worried about the dangers, but when there are firemen’s funerals on TV, she says, ‘Please don’t ever do that to me.’ I tell her I’m real careful. I am aggressive, but I’m careful. She knew about the dangers early on. We were just about to get married, we were getting ready for the pictures and the parties and all that stuff, when we had a fire in the high school library. I was on the hose with this other guy. We crawled in. You know you can take the heat before you crack the line. This guy put the nozzle on a narrow fog. If it had been me, I would have put it on a straight stream, because that stuff turns around and the steam comes right back. I was behind him, and the man behind the line takes a rose beating than the man on the nozzle, because they hit the ceiling.  Everything was hot. It burned this guy and myself. So the big worry of everybody at the wedding was whether I was going to look like a wreck in my wedding pictures. I had these Dumbo ears. When the blisters went down, I still had a lot of scars, but it wasn’t so bad. But it was a big concern to her. How was I going to look? We have one, child, a two-year-old boy. He better get all the education that he can, because I think that we’re looking at two-class society—the people that have the education and the wealth, and the people that don’t have anything. I don’t know where the firefighters are going to fit in, but if firefighters don’t continue to increase their skills—and we’re heading in the right direction—in areas like hazardous materials and emergency medical, we could easily end up down there with the huddled masses #RandolphHarris 16 of 23

“My wife knows that the fire department is giving me something no one can give me, including herself. She knows it is giving me a sense of satisfaction and a sense of personal worth. You see some joker win a million-dollar lottery on TV, I don’t need that. I want to be comfortable, and I want to be secure. My wife knows it. If I ever lost this job or became crippled, I don’t know what I could do. I would have to go to a psychiatrist and have him tell me that I am worth a damn as a human being, and try to get me interested in something else. But I would have a heck of a time, and my wife realizes that.” All members of the Sacramento Fire Department are loyal, dedicated to duty, respectful, selfless, honourable, possess a great deal of integrity and display personal courage in the face of danger and adversity. You can save lives by making a donation to the Sacramento Fire Department. The proud members of the Sacramento Fire Department are committed to providing the highest quality and highest level of courteous and responsive services to the residents, businesses, and visitors of Sacramento. This is accomplished by implementing comprehensive strategies and training in fire prevention, fire suppression, emergency medical services, and all risk mitigation, including human-caused and natural disasters, emergency preparedness, emergency services and community-based fire services. The Sacramento Fire Department physical requirements for the firefighters and EMTs state that you must be medically and physically fit, and able to pass the Occupational Physical Assessment Test. #RandolphHarris 17 of 23

 Therefore, physical and mental toughness are just the basic requirements. You achieve excellence when you habitually show discipline and commitment to the department’s values. Individuals and organizations pursue excellence to improve. Citizens, remember to give the right-of-way to any law enforcement vehicle, fire engine, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle using a siren and red lights. Failure to pull over may result in a ticket. Drive to the right edge of the road and stop until the emergency vehicles(s) have passed. When approaching a stationary emergency vehicle with flashing emergency signal lights (hazard lights), move over and slow down. If you are in an intersection when you see an emergency vehicle, continue through the intersection. Drive to the right as soon as it is safe and stop. Obey any direction, order, or signal given by a law enforcement officer, or a firefighter. Even if they conflict with existing signs, signals, or laws, follow their orders. When their siren or flashing lights are on, it is against the law to follow within 300 feet of any fire engine, law enforcement vehicle, ambulance, or other emergency vehicle. If you drive to the scene of a fire, collision, or other disaster, you can be arrested. When you do this, you are getting in the way of firefighters, ambulance crews, or other rescue and emergency personnel. Moral courage is the willingness to stand firm on values, principles, and convictions. It enables you to stand up for what you believe is right, regardless of the consequences. #RandolphHarris 18 of 23

The concept of professional courage does not always mean being as tough as nails, either. It also suggests a willingness to listen to other peoples’ problems, to go to bat for them in a tough situation and it means knowing just how far they can go. It also means being willing to tell the boss when he or she is wrong. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. Having the Southern American boarder open and not having American farmland protected, not producing beef, poultry, fish, fruit, produce and dairy in America, and without American goods and services being our number one manufactured and selling items, America has created a dangerous and significantly elevated risks to national security, national economic security, and national public health. Some people may believe that these claims are overstated, but by not routinely monitoring Common Vulnerabilities and Exposures (CEVs) or other security relevant alerts, such as end-of-life of machinery is how the Oroville Dam Crisis occurred in 2017. Other crises that have occurred due to neglect of critical infrastructure is the 2025 Palisades fires because Southern California ran out of water, when they are located next to an ocean and they could have simply created desalinating plants to help with the water shortage. The water is so plentiful that it is currently eroding land and causing homes to fall into the sea. #RandolphHarris 19 of 23

 American government should know all exploitable vulnerabilities and fix them prior to the situation becoming a crisis. Failure to take such mitigating actions is dangerous and significantly elevates risk to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. The American government must understand that significant time and resources must be invested in America. They must also encourage corporations to plan for both mitigating safety vulnerabilities in the short term and eliminating them in the long term. For instance, a company might begin by reaching out to the federal, state or local government and requesting tax incentives to provide security to dangerous communities, to help the government repair bridges and potholes. America needs an approach to eliminate safety vulnerabilities in American cities. There needs to be a road map by the end of 2025, outlining a prioritized approach to eliminate crisis situations in America. There is enough money to send aid to foreign nations, but the American government does not have enough money to care their infrastructure, provide adequate resources, nor end the affordable housing crisis. Nor is there enough money to fund other national critical functions (NCFs). These bad practices of putting America and Americans last is considered exceptionally risky, particularly to national security, national economic security, and national public health and safety. In 2024, Americans spent $100 billion on Japanese cars. #RandolphHarris 20 of 23

In an effort to help America pull through the massive national deficit, please buy American made cars. American made cars used to be the envy of the World and because American car brands are offering a wide range of options, from family SUVs to electric vehicles and luxury sedans, we are now seeing a resurging interest. American made cars are equal or superior to those made overseas. The Chevrolet Trax, for instance, is a well-designed, fuel efficient, and safe SUV. And as you know, there is no better car on Earth than 1950-1970s American Muscle Car. Americans make sure superior product, but we are buying things from other nations. American food imports have risen by 300 percent since 1999. American farmland declined by nearly 20 million acres between 2017 and 2022. As of 2022, there were 880.1 million acres of land dedicated to farming, compared to 900.1 million in 2017. The data shows there are now little more than 1.9 million farms in the country.  Americans and American corporations spent $136 billion on food and beverages from other countries. It is a national security risk to lose American Farms and farmers. If there is a war, and most of our meat, produce, poultry, dairy, and fruit is coming from foreign counties, we stand the risk of starving. With war breaking out all over the World, in these uncertain times, it is very important to bring American farms back. Las Vegas is running out of buildable land and is expected to reach its maximum number of homes in 2032. So, home prices are expected to rise dramatically. #RandolphHarris 21 of 23

Additionally, State Farm is asking the California Department of Insurance if they can raise homeowner insurance rates by 22 percent. If election for an unprecedented third term, to make housing more affordable and offset the cost of homeowner’s insurance, President Trump plans to abolish property taxes. Much like the land crisis in Las Vegas, we could also run out of land to farm and will not be able to grow or cultivate our own food. We can protect American farmland and support American farmers by buying American made beef, poultry, dairy, and produce. Also, country of origin labeling is very important so Americans can know where their food is coming from and have the ability to support American farmers and ranchers. As money flows, it influences further investment. Save the land that sustains us by protecting American farmland. Once the land is built on, we lose it forever.  And in the future, there may be food wars. Also, to ensure that we have farmland and buildable land for future use, we need to start limiting the number of people allowed to immigrant to America. Perhaps with the immigrants we do allow into America, there needs to be a diversity program to make sure we have a population that equally represents all races of people. If Americans continue to spend money on American products, then more need to be made to keep up the inventory. When investors notice these goods are selling, it gives them the confidence to pour more money into that local business. It shows that people want these goods made in America and pressures investors to keep these goods and services in America. The jobs stay here, the business stays in American, wages naturally increase, and more money is invested to keep up with demand. This reduces the burden on the taxpayer. #RandolphHarris 22 of 23

When you support American businesses, that money stays in our economy and can help to reduce the national debt. The government creates debt by borrowing from businesses in the private sector or from foreign countries. It also increases the national debt by spending more than it gains in tax revenue in a fiscal year. When people shop locally, more tax money stays in the economy and goes to the government. This way, it keeps more money in our national economy and keeps more jobs located in American which also sends more taxes to the government, which can again help to reduce the national debt. When you buy foreign goods, these companies usually have lighter tax loads or exemptions, meaning less money for the nation debt, plus you are helping to strengthen these foreign nations by send more money overseas. Buying American made products is also better for the environment and helps to reduce the carbon footprint because these products do not have to travel nearly as far. Furthermore, American companies and manufacturers are held to much higher standards in regard to pollution. American companies have to be more careful about air, land, and water pollution and have proper ways to dispose of waste. Moreover, please remember to respect law and order and treat your elders with the utmost dignity and kindness possible. And take your education seriously so that you will be successful in life and make your family proud. It is inborn in the human minds to wish to know. If this begins with the endless surface questions of a child’s curiosity, if it continues into deeper questions of a scientist’s probing investigation, it cannot and does not stop there. For the higher part of the mind will eventually come into unfoldment, that union of abstract reflective thought with mystical intuition, which is true intelligence, which needs and sees a view of the whole of things. And so, the knowing faculty enters the realm of philosophy. As a reminder, parents, pleasure teach your children love America and be patriotic citizens and to buy goods and services made in America. It is also important to respect law and order and treat your elders with respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 23 of 23

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