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Your Love is My Drug

 

 

 Oxytocin is a hormone, once thought to only be present in women, but studies have some that men also have oxytocin in their blood steam. Oxytocin is known for reducing fear and generating a feeling of well-being.  It makes people feel like they are in love, which can help a pair enjoy mutual absorption of affection.  Levels of oxytocin naturally increase when people are hugged, kiss, or shake someone’s hand.  Also, people, who are in love, are shown to have increased levels of oxytocin in the plasma.  High levels of oxytocin are said to make people more social, and can be used to treat people with autism by helping them to better communication their emotions. Oxytocin seems to have so many benefits; it is a hormone that is naturally created in the body, and released into the blood steam. Oxytocin is typically manifested in the hypothalamus and distributed into the plasma. This hormone is distributed by pituitary gland throughout the brain and the spinal cord, where it is bonded to oxytocin receptors, released throughout the body and influences behavior. In general, oxytocin is said to give a feeling of overall well-being. Although oxytocin is common in both men and women, this chemical has some enhanced functions for women.  Studies have shown that women, who have higher levels of oxytocin in their blood, tend to connect better with their babies.  These women have a special relationship with their babies, their babies are generally then center of their world. They tend to find joy in, “singing to their babies, pleasure in giving them bath, and enjoy feeding them. In looking at this evidence, it is possible that women with low levels of oxytocin may experience postpartum depression.

 Studies have shown that newborns, which have a close relationship with their mothers, are more likely to be healthier. This is because women and babies get to know each other better, and the mother knows how to respond to the needs of her child. For the baby, connection with the mother and being held by the mother reduces stress on the baby because they cry less, are warmer, and have a sense of well-being because oxytocin is released, during skin-to-skin contact. These babies also get used to the natural bacteria on the mother’s skin and develop a natural immunity to other agents in the environment, so they are stronger. The more time two people spend together, the better they get to know each other. Since oxytocin is known to help people communicate better, synthetic oxytocin may help children with autism.  Autism Spectrum Disorder is a range of complex neurodevelopment disorders, which create social impairments, communication difficulties.  Studies have also shown that autism is linked to mothers who experience maternal stress. So to prevent Autism, women should limit the amount of stress they endure while they are pregnant. They should also have a close bond with their newborn babies. If Autism does develop, it is possible that oxytocin hormone therapy could help.

 There is a clear connection that most people who are social, loved and hugged tend to develop better socially. We have focused on the benefits of oxytocin in women and children. However, oxytocin is also important for men, and helps to make a relationship better. Loving couples tend to want to hug, kiss, touch and have sexual intercourse.  This is a good thing because it will increase their oxytocin levels. Skin to skin contact is known to generate higher levels of oxytocin.  Oxytocin is released during sexual intercourse in both men and women, which encourages bonding. However, testosterone neutralized oxytocin in men, so men are less likely to want prolonged contact after sexual orgasm.  So if you want a long-lasting relationship with a man, it is better to hold out on sex, until the man has genuine feelings for you.  That way there will be an attachment between the couple and the man will not only want to have sex with you, but he will crave your attention and be more likely to stick to the relations for the long haul. Couples who share thoughts, ideas, and other commonalities will have a relationship that is far more intimate than just sexual partners.

How Many of You Men and Women have been Raped?

 

 

 

There are many ways to win in this World, but none of them is worth much without good hard work back of it. It is devastating to know that when you are in a room, nearly half of them men and women in the room have been forced to have sex. While the legal definition of rape varies from state to state, most states have laws that define rape as sexual intercourse occurring under the actual or threatened forcible compulsion that overcomes the serious and honest resistance of the victim. We are concerned about how many journalists have been raped by a coworker or photographer because you people work alone with your photographers often, and in isolated areas, at unusual hours, and it is possible that someone has been raped and is not speaking up. It is possible that these concerns have been brought to the attention of your legal department, but you were threatened by union staff that if you speak up, they will have you arrested, sue you, or make it so that you cannot work again. Rape can range anywhere from the violent assault by a stranger, to a planned romantic date that devolves into coerced sex. What these acts have in common is a disregard of the feeling of victims and a willingness to take advantage of and, often, to harm them. There are usually three different types of rape. Stranger rape, which is rape by an unknown assailant; acquaintance rape (date rape) is committed by someone known to the victim. Statutory rape is intercourse with a person under the age of consent (usually 18) or having consensual sex with someone is mentally disabled.  If an individual is incompetent, they cannot consent. Despite the fact that rape is a significant problem, it has been difficult to obtain accurate statistics on its frequency. And 97 percent of rapists have never been sent to prison, but 50 percent of rape claims have been deemed as false accounts.

 One of the reasons is that many individuals do not report when they are raped, and men and women are both often raped. It is reported that 38 percent of men have been raped, and 40 percent of women have been raped. That is alarming that at any time, half of the people you look at have been forced to have sex. Some people think that real rapes are only violent attacks, but that is not the case. This definition includes victims who were forced to penetrate someone else with their own body parts, either by physical force or coercion, or when the victim was drunk or high or otherwise unable to consent. When those cases were taken into account, the rates of non-consensual sexual contact basically equalized, with 1.270 million women and 1.267 million men claiming to be victims of sexual violence. 54 percent of men have been raped by other men, and 88 percent of women have been raped by men. However, women and especially men do not report being raped because they are embarrassed, fear they will not be taken seriously, fear reprisal by the offender or his or her family, and are concerned about unwanted publicity may deter individuals from reporting rapes. It just blows my mind that someone would get you drunk, assault you and seriously hurt you, then take advantage of you. Then the rapist walks around like they own the World and did nothing wrong. There are so many drawbacks to regard and intimacy, from pride, from property, and various other collateral causes, that rarely as we meet with people of brilliant parts, there is almost ever some objection to our desire of meeting them again.

Versatility is the Foundation of Success–Great President

 

 

It is fate of most individuals who mingle with the World, and attain even the prime of life, to make many real friends, and lose them in the course of nature. It is the fate of all Presidents and journalist to create imaginary friends, and lose them in the course of art. A treacherous friend is the most dangerous enemy. The President has to interact with the media frequently, and the problem is that not all journalist are good, some of them have bad intensions. So the best thing for you to do, is open yourself up to them, invite them into your home, for an art show or something. Not every event with the press has to be about a pressing issue. Sometimes you can just hang out with the reporters and treat them like they are your friends, but understand that they may have ulterior motives. On the other hand, you have members of the press that will have your back even more than your lawyer. The idea of public relations is to have a group, who is a management tool for your business, the media, your branch of government, and other institutions. You want your public relationship team to establish beneficial relationships to accomplish goals. If we could just cool it with some of the negative coverage, threats and crime, those seeking attention may stop misbehaving. 

As the President of the United States of America, think as yourself as the father of everyone in this country, and the media as your children. Children seek attention. If a child cannot receive good feedback, he or she will seek negative attention. Often children seek attention when it is difficult for parents to give it to them, such as when a parent is engaged in another activity like signing bills, dealing with an economic crisis, or spending time with his family, who still lives at home. When the journalists are behaving, their parents may not pay attention to them because they are doing what they are supposed to be doing. However, to keep your journalist behaving well, compliment them, maybe give their station a compliment for great coverage on something you did well, or send them a nice letter. Journalist misbehave to get attention, power, revenge, or to make their parents feel inadequate. So basically, they are seeking good attention, in all the wrong ways. In modern society, institutions have many relationships. The President, for example, has relationships with Congress, its faculty, its staff, and law enforcement, its benefactors, the neighborhood, the community, colleges, accreditors, banks, and many other programs. The list could go on forever. Each of these constituencies is called a public—hence the term public relations. And the object is to be on good terms with the public, so the like you and share good things about you.

 Through research, the public relations practitioner studies these relationships to determine how well they are working. This evaluation is an ongoing process. If a complaint comes to your office, you never want to overlook it, but at the same time, you do not want to issue a threat, that is how you make enemies. First of all, let them know that you can relate to their concern and will address the issues, but first you need to gather more information. Give a few weeks, and if you decide it is the issue at hand is serious, then take corrective action. However, if it is just someone who is upset about something, never apologize—the President is not supposed to say sorry, it will make you look weak.  Also, if students and the Press are disrespecting you, do not let them taunt you. Put them in check, professionally, on the spot, and have them removed from your meeting. This will show people that you are a strong President and will not tolerate foolishness, and will discourage anyone else from stepping out of line. When people start to think they are better than the President that is when we have a problem. These social media accounts, which are disrespecting you, need to be shut down. Never in my life have I seen so many people make such bad remarks about a President and get away with it, but that goes to show bad behavior is contagious and need to be eliminated. On your public relations team, you may want to have a few lawyers, a few journalists, former members of congress, and people you know like you. Their job is to recommend policies to top management to make these relationships work better, not only for you, but also for the partners in each relationship. However, being too nice, which many think you are could have consequences.

 During the great, of 1929, it was discovered that some corporations were too nice to the public and their employees, which put them at risk with many public, including its own employees. I am not saying go all out and be mean, but you have to let it be known that you are not a joke and there will be serious repercussions for slander, harassment, assault, theft and lies.  You need to have enlightened self-interest, which is a mutually beneficial public relationship with the media. Face, bad news tanks the economy and makes people act ugly, but when you point out all that is going well, people feel better and see that this is not the end of the World. However, when you are too nice to others, they lose their motivation and will monolithically run all over you and get the notion that they are running the game. Nonetheless, have some less formal events. Have journalist play golf with you, playing golf with the President would make their career and life and they will be happy. Invite them over for an ice cream social, and this will get them to like you as a person, but they will also know business is business.  You can also set up municipal programs with certain cities and grants for schools and scholarships for employees’ children and people who share your views. Still, you will need critics, on your staff, to keep you on your toes, and critics and haters are not the same.

 Some of you most valuable supporters are your critics. It is often those who love you, who will do you wrong out of concern, until they learn the truth. Once you straighten the nation out and let them know what time it is and who is boss, you will benefit from a revised image, and in the spirit of enlighten self-interest, so will the rest of the America and the World. Public relations are used to accomplish goals. Plant good press releases that you know newspapers, magazines, and TV news and radio stations will pick up, do not be afraid to seek some good press. Maybe someone has overcome a challenge and it is found out that you are supporting this person through college. That will look good in the public’s eye, especially if that person is from a group, who opposes you. And keep in mind, many huge corporations found themselves in disfavor, in the late 1800s, for ignoring the public good to make profits. This idea that just because corporations have so much money and support the economy, so they skate on fraud, assault and corruption, because taking them down would hurt the economy is just bogus. If bad behavior keeps spreading, it will hurt us all more. This will be a nation fighting itself and at war with the rest of the World. We have to set an example. We do not need to arm anyone, people need to learn to communicate, be fair and show respect. Nothing is so dangerous, especially to those who are not much accustomed to it, as a little success.

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A World of Our Own—Must End Poverty in America

 

A good mind ought to be incited and a bad mind restrained. A virtuous mind soon finds consolation is itself. Miracles seem impossible, just because they break the laws of Nature. There seems something blasphemous in supposing the Universe can mar ITS own order. The misery that overspreads so vastly a part of mankind exists chiefly because those are able to relieve it do not know that it exists. To love and live well is wished of many, but incident to few. To live and to love well is incident to few, but indifferent to all. To love without reason is an argument of lust, to live without love, a token of folly. The measure of love is to have no mean, the end to be everlasting. There is nothing in lobe more requisite or more delectable than pleasant and wise conference; neither can there arise any storm in love which by wit is not turned into a calm. Tender love maketh greatest show of blossoms, but tried love bringeth forth sweetest juice. If we want to understand the dark forces within ourselves, we must give up the haughty idea that we are unique in all creation. Just as every part of your body is interrelated with every other part, so each of us is interrelated and integrated into the larger human system—the society which we are a part of. And, by extension, each society is directly related to every other one, as nation is to nation, continent to continent. The entire planet can be seen ultimately as a gigantic network or web of interwoven parts. One thing you learn when you study your first spider web is that a slight pressure on any single strand of that web is felt everywhere on it. That is how the spider uses her web: when a bit of food lands there and becomes stuck in the sticky coatings, vibrations travel all along the network, and whenever the spider lies in watchful waiting, it picks up these vibrations and gets the message. 

So it is in the network of human experiences: pressure on any part of it affects the rest of the web. An earthquake in Napa, California affects individuals the World over, as does a war in Ferguson, Missouri or Stockton, California, as the political-religious conflict going on in the State Capitol in Sacramento with the arrested of four Democratic Senator’s this year: Ben Hueso (DUI), Leland Yee (Corruption, guns, murder for hire in an FBI affidavit in support of a criminal complaint against him and 25 other people.), Ron Calderon (taking bribes in exchange for government acts), and Rod Wright (was convicted of perjury and voter fraud for lying about his legal residence in Los Angeles County) and the ethnic unrest all around the World. The network ties each particle of humankind to every other particle. There are virtually no dark or hidden groups of human life on the globe. When stone age tribes are discovered, in Stockton, California, it is only a matter of time until the entire World knows about them, and information gleaned from studying their lives provides insight to every culture and nation in the World. This sort of interrelatedness has its disadvantages. Communications media have literally shrunk the distances between individuals and peoples. A decreasing amount of privacy is available to each of us. Is this lack of privacy important? We think so. People drive enormous please from involvement with each other, but each of us also need time apart, time alone. Our own personal lives are in need of development just as much as our social lives. If privacy is eliminated, what happens to the interior World of each of us? What happens to meditation, introspection, self-study, to contact with oneself? These must not be lost in the patterns of growth and ever-increasing interinvolvement. Does that confuse and complicate the situation even more? It should not surprise you. Among the perennial and essential human dilemmas is this each of us must somehow find ways of developing our own life, gaining personal growth and depth, reaping advantages for ourselves—while still cultivating a healthy, outgoing, cooperative, and caring relationship with other people. This is almost as difficult as running in two directions, at the same time.

And I hear you thinking, “What if that was me, I would want someone to speak up?” Well, that aspect of it is a little hard to deal with, so I guess since no one wants to do the right then, whenever one feels betrayed or guilty, just go meditate and focus on the bright future. Trust, me, I really feel so good and am able to repress the memories, but then to look at these people know they know want is going on, but will not say anything makes me feel kind of blue and makes me want to distance myself from them. I have tried to share some of the best insights of the best human minds of the human species. These only begin to scratch the surface of what we need to know. The human relations problems yet to be explored are immense, and the solution will come no more easily than did the others. Children use words to express how they feel; adults use words to hide how they feel. To me, one of the most baffling aspects of the behavior of men and women in highly-responsible positions in some segment of our society, is their comparative lack of concern for—perhaps its lack of awareness of—the factor of communication, as such, in the problems and situations in which they have to deal—It is communication that makes human society possible. For communication to take place, the receiver must also be receptive. That means more than just having one’s ears cleaned. One must also want or need to get the message and be willing to decide ad fit it into his existing pattern of ideas or associations. If a student is asleep in a classroom, even the professor’s most exciting and beautiful message will not get through to him.

If I am angry at you, I may not receive your message, no matter what or how you try to send. If you are unwilling to hear me because you do not like or respect people of my gender, ethnic background, profession or generation, then I am spilling my message onto unreceptive ground. Influence through mass communication need not be blatant—it can be very subtle indeed. Even when communicators are not making a direct attempt to sell something, they can succeed in influencing the way we look at the World. All I have to say is we need to stop rewarding and supporting those we know have done wrong. And in the media, it would be nice to get news stations with different content, and not have every station go to commercial break at the same time. Sometimes it feels like the TV news, is all one station, ran by the government, with different labels. You all, for the most part do a great job, we understand that is just how the business has evolved, but we want to change the World back to when Walter Cronkite was reading the trade papers on national TV. The diversity is great, but more originality, research and reports. Through education, books, encounter and sensitivity groups, and programs on television and other media, we are trying to bring about awareness of such issues: racism (only one race), sexism, elitism—all these are increasingly being brought to our collective attentions. This is the era of consciousness-raising, when underrepresented groups are seeking to awaken their members to the abuses of racism and the glories of ethnic heritages long in disrepute, and when women are trying to draw the attention of other women (and men) to the problem of sexual stereotyping and discrimination. However, the major problems in society are the institutions they are controlled by evil people.

However, we are firmly committed to the idea that human nature is not instinctively violent—that we all start out neutral in this regard. It is in the learning that occurs in the home, the neighborhood, the classroom, the playground, the streets, shops, offices, military institutions, newsrooms and other places that individuals acquire the skills and attitudes needed to do violence. Cooperation, respect, appreciation, mutual interaction, and selflessness are often taught ineffectively, irrelevantly, or too late! To pretend to be a good person is not enough. Much violence is spawned by frustration. Frustration will always be found where people’s basic needs go unsatisfied—so if you are jealous of someone, it means you have an inadequacy someone in your life to make you hate that person. Where poverty is the frustrator, it is up to not only the government, but also to individual citizens and groups to pressure for the eradication of poverty. So before we jam pack this country, with people who do not belong here, we need to help the ones who are here legally, first and foremost. If one gets ahead at the expense of another individual—or of whole groups of people—that inequality pollutes the society of which we are all a part of, and one cannot be surprised at the violence that results. Some violence is created by mental and emotional disorders, for which successful treatment is sometimes available. However, society needs to create an improved climate of acceptance for these programs of help and therapy that are available. The stigma attached to mental illness must be eradicated, and so must the feeling of shame or weakness that keeps many people from seeking available professional help when they need it. On men reprieved by its disdainful mercy, the immortal sea confers in its justice the full privilege of desired unrest.

Democratic Senator Benjamin Hueso Wet and Wild

In the cold courts of justice, the dull head demands oaths, and holy writ proofs; but in the warm halls of the heart one single, untestified memory’s spark shall suffice to enkindle such a blaze of evidence, that all the corners of conviction are as suddenly lighted up as a midnight city by a burning building, which on every side whirls it reddened brands. After leaving a Latino Caucus dinner, at the Il Fornaio restaurant, honoring Latino Legislators, Democratic Senator Benjamin Hueso, of San Diego, California was arrested on 22 August 2014, at 3:27 a.m., in Sacramento California for Driving Under the Influence, and going the wrong way, on a one-way street. Senator Benjamin Hueso was elected to the senate in March 2013; he was not released from jail until 10am 22 August 2014. The arrest was conducted by the prestigious California Highway Patrol. It is reported that the Senator’s blood alcohol level was twice the legal limit of .08. “When I first came up to you, I could smell alcohol from your mouth Senator Benjamin Hueso.” The Senator has been described as, defendant and had watery eyes and heavy eyelids, and wreaked of the odor of an alcoholic beverage . . . and was unsteady on his feet and he failed two Breathalyzers — blowing .159 and .113. The meeting was over at 9pm, and Democratic Senator Benjamin Hueso sat in a conference room, for two hours, chatting, snacking, drinking and playing cards. By the end of two hours he had drunk three cocktails, but had no idea how many shots were in each. However, most people will tell us that they would not drive when they get to about an .04 or .05. There is no such thing as moral responsibility for past acts, no such thing as real justice in punishing them, for the reason that human beings are not stationary existences, but changing, growing, incessantly progressive organisms, which in no two moments are the same. Therefore, justice, whose only possible mode of proceeding is to punish in present time for what is done in past time, must always a person more or less similar to, but never identical with, the one who committed the offense, and therein must be no justice.

There is so such thing as Earthly justice, and especially none under the head of Christendom. Senator Benjamin Hueso “Quite the coward, it would appear. Ben Hueso wants to play dirty politics, but not to stand in front of the media to defend his unethical actions.” Just a year ago, Senator Benjamin Hueso claims he witnessed Former San Diego City Councilman, Carl DeMaio masturbating, in City Hall bathroom. However, many would like to know Why was Senator Benjamin Hueso stalking DeMaio in a private restroom, lying in wait, to rush a door, which locks shut after entry? Why did Senator Benjamin Hueso intentionally rush out of a council meeting to go to that restroom to grab the door before it closed behind Carl DeMaio? Senator Benjamin Hueso behavior is downright creepy, and his ulterior motives are crystal clear: he is determined to bring down City Councilman, Carl DeMaio, a Republican, at any cost … including the loss of his own integrity and moral compass. Senator Benjamin Hueso loved to watch men masturbate. It is a little fetish of his. Senator Benjamin Hueso had been watching Carl Demaio for a while. He would listen at the door and wait to wait to hear the low moans or slapping sounds. Ben Hueso, in 2009, acknowledged to this reporter that he witnessed Carl DeMaio engaging in the masturbation practice twice. Describing the scene that spring, when Senator Benjamin walked in on Carl DeMaio, who was in front of a urinal, with his pants down, Senator Benjamin Hueso said: ‘Carl DeMaio was masturbating. Then Senator Benjamin Hueso then slide his hands down to touch himself. Supposedly, Carl Demaio groaned as he erupted, spurting hot, white jets of it over his hand, landing thickly on his belly. Just the sight of his produce made Senator Benjamin Hueso release too, shuddering against the doorway, pressing himself there, like he was going to collapse. However, this time the senator could not just sneak out like he had often done in the past. Carl then jumped, caught by surprise. He jumped to the sink … saying “I’m sorry, I’m sorry” about six times and then washed his hands, darted out.’” Men in masses, when goaded by disappointment, are never just.