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Evil Behind Smiling Eyes

Obviously, one must hold oneself responsible for the evil impulses. Therefore, beware of the evil behind the smiling eyes. As we increase our understanding and love for the Saviour, His light will illuminate everything around us. We will then see evil for what it is. Working as a special agent for the FBI, my friend investigated organized crime groups transporting illegal drugs into the United States of America. On one occasion, he and another agent approached an apartment where they believed a known drug dealer was distributing cocaine. My friend describes what happened: “We knocked on the door of the drug dealer. The suspect opened the door, and upon seeking us, tried to block our view. However, it was too late’ we could see the cocaine on his table. A man and a woman who were at the table immediately began removing the cocaine. We had to prevent them from destroying the evidence, so I quickly pushed the drug suspect who was blocking the door to the side. As I pushed him, my eyes met his. Strangely, he did not appear angry or afraid. He was smiling at me. His eyes and disarming smile gave me the impression that he was harmless, so I quickly left him and started to move toward the table. The suspect was now behind me. At that instant, I had the distinct, powerful impression come into my mind: ‘Beware of the evil behind the smiling eyes.’ #RandolphHarris 1 of 17

“I immediately turned back toward the suspect. His hand was in his large front pocket. Instinctively I grabbed his hand and pulled it from his pocket. Only then did I see, clutched in his hand, the semiautomatic pistol ready to fire. A flurry of activity followed, and I disarmed the man.” Later, in another case, the drug dealer was convicted of murder and boasted that he would have also killed my friend had he not turned around at that very moment. He was a weak sniveling punk. A born snitch. He caused my friend trouble before. He had this place near Palm Springs. Used it for a hideout. It was loaded with guns and heroin. One weekend, there was this underaged girl that the heat was looking for and they went to the door. They were looking for this girl, and he said get a warrant. My friend in the FBI said he would. So, the other dudes covered the side doors, and one of them got a shotgun and two pistols and waited at the end of the hallway. His old lady answered the door, but when the FBI came, the sixteen-year-old girl went to the door and gave herself up. So, the offenders piled the guns in the car, and drove to another location. On this planet, evil has been allowed a position of influence to give us the chance to choose between good and evil. #RandolphHarris 2 of 17

The scripture says: “God gave unto man that he should act for himself. [And] man could not act for himself [unless] he was enticed by one or the other. The choice between good and evil is at the very heart of our experience on Earth.  If we are rich or poor, if we were athletic or not, if we had friend or were often forgotten, in the final review of our lives, it will not matter. The suspect with the guns in the car was apprehended. The morning after sentencing, the orders came through transferring him to the State Prison. Emigration from short-time County Jail to long-term penitentiary. In the basement holding tank, stripped of county wrappings, he dressed for the final time in mod flannels. He was stored in a special isolated holding tank until the County Jail bus drove through the smoggy freeways to the Prison Reception Center at Chino, California. The welcoming committee was grim and blunt. “Strip naked. Throw your personal belongings in the box. Bend over for body inspection. Run your hands through your hair, both your ears. Open your mouth. Wag your tongue. Lift your testicles. Turn around spread your buttocks. Left foot. Right foot. Shower,” the authorities told him. He dressed in the new prison uniform. #RandolphHarris 3 of 17

A tall African American in blue danced over. He gave him ten hand-rolled cigarettes. The rumor wind was blowing around him. They were going to put him in the hole. The Captain wanted to see him. They were going to ship him to the Medical Center at Vacaville. And he would be getting bailed out the next day. The sergeant checked inmate for long hair and ordered him to the barber. He got a last mirror glimpse at forest hair and moustache. He asked the barber to leave as much as he could, but the barber grunted and clipped. “Don’t complain, man. You look twenty years younger,” he said. Our offender then took sheets and blankets and followed the sergeant to solitary confinement. It was a bad-boy lock up for him. He walked by the cages of the dangerous wild men. They shouted in pleasure to see him. An African American man shouted: “Hey man, we gotta talk to you. We cannot see each other. Just cries from cage to cage.” A nasty Brooklyn voice denounced the offender. “Oh, he’s that bad man! Hang him.” Another African American defended him. Shorty’s Brooklyn voice turned friendly. “Hey Doc, look at these pictures.” A hand from the next cell appeared holding colour snapshots. Sadeyed blue wife and clear-eyed kids. “Hey Doc, here’s a record of my trial. Read it.” “Hey Doc, you want some cigarettes.” “Hey Doc, you need some stamps and envelops.” “Hey Doc, you wanna a Playboy magazine?” #RandolphHarris 4 of 17

Dinner was passed through a slot in the bars of the narrow white counter bod. Then the evening sports. African American used mirrors to catch the setting sun, playing sunshine tag, racing reflected birds of light against the wall. Laughing and shouting. At the hour of romance, from his solitary cell a young man sadly coos a soft message and an African American voice rumbles back: “You Karl I going to get you expletive. What I’m gonna do to you girl! Hoooeee. I got me twenty inches for you. You my expletive.” “Oh no big boy, I’m my own man,” he repiles. “Great God almighty, I gotta het me some sweet white meat. I sick to death of my own right hand. Wheee—here I come Karl. Ohhhhh what I’m gonna to do to you siter. I gonna split your pink expletive girl. Stuff my tool up your belly, split yo kidneys girl. Gut you baby so you gonna never be able to walk again. Oh, Mr. Guard let that man out. Oh let him loose. I need that man.” Our offender now has a momentary reflex, fear of being trapped in a cell holocaust was calmed by the cement steel of maximum security. Next morning the offender is called to the Captain’s office; sitting watching trustees run the prison, typing, phoning, filing, serious responsible people working proudly. “We’ve finally got you, huh. You are going to be with us a long time. Ha ha. You’re smaller than on TV. I guess we cut you down to size, huh,” said the Captain. #RandolphHarris 5 of 17

Prison is a very dangerous place. Be sure to think before committing an illegal act. You may think you are high and mighty, until the cell doors close on you. We can work, study, laugh and have fun, dance, sing, and enjoy many different experiences. These are a wonderful part of life, but they are not central to why we are here. The opportunity to choose good over evil is precisely why we are here. Not one of us would say, “I want to choose evil.” We all want to choose the right. However, the choice of good over evil is not always easy, because evil frequently lurks behind smiling eyes. Listen to these warnings: “Take heed…that ye do not judge that which is evil to be of God.” “Ye must watch and pray always lest ye enter into temptation; for evil desireth to have you.” The message is: Beware of the evil behind the smiling eyes! I have known a few young men who began with every intention to stay firm in their loyalty to the Saviour but who slipped from the path because they did not see the evil behind eyes that appeared quite harmless. They saw the fun, the pleasure, the acceptance, but they did not see the other consequences. How, then, can we discern the evil being something that does not appear evil? First, talk to your parents. We fathers know we are far from perfect, but we love you, and along with your mothers, have deep interest in your choosing the right. #RandolphHarris 6 of 17

Very importantly, let the Holy Ghost be your guide. The Lord has promised us that as we live righteously, the still, small voice will come into our mind and into our heart. You have felt this influence. You know this voice. The gift of the Holy Ghost is a spiritual gift. It is sensitive and will not be associated with unworthiness. You cannot offend or ignore it one day and expect it to strengthen you the next day. However, as you heed its promptings and remain righteous, it will grow stronger within you. The Holy Ghost warned my friend of physical danger; they Holy Ghost will also warn you of spiritual danger. Finally, gain your own testimony of the Saviour. Pray passionately. When no one is watching, read the Christian Holy Bible and the Book of Mormon. Take time alone to think about who Jesus Christ really is and how His life and sacrifice are important to you. If we bother to look back at America’s foreign policy after the 2020 election, we are shocked by the constant failures of our government. The August 2024 jobs report reveals a sharp contrast in employment trends between American born and foreign-born workers. Native-born Americans lost over 1.3 million jobs over the last year, while foreign-born workers gained more than 1.2 million jobs. #RandolphHarris 7 of 17

New York City hands illegal immigrants $4,000 and gift cards to move out of shelters. And the Department of Justice reports an illegal immigrant used a stolen identity to vote. A man who sees the constant and incomprehensible decline of his government can only drop his head in despair, or feel the beginning of an internal desire for a flaming rebellion against such a regime. However, as we increase our understanding and love for the Saviour, His light will illuminate everything around us. We then will see evil for what it is. Children need the peace that comes from knowing they have a loving Heavenly Father, who sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to bring light and hope into the World. It is up to us as adults to direct children to that peace and light. From the flight against the authority of Church, State, and family which characterize the last centuries, we have come back full circle to a new obedience; but this obedience is not one to autocratic persons, but to the organization. The “organization man” is not aware that he obeys; he believes that eh only conforms with what is rational and practical. Indeed, disobedience has become almost extinct in the society or organization men, regardless of their ideology. Yet one must remember that the capacity for disobedience is as great a virtue as the capacity for obedience. #RandolphHarris 8 of 17

One must remember that, according to the Hebrew and Greek myths, human history began with an act of disobedience. Adam and Eve, living in the Garden of Eden were still part of nature, as the fetus is in the womb of the mother. Only when they dared to disobey an order were their eyes opened; they recognized each other as strangers and the World outside as strange and hostile. Their act of disobedience broke the primary bond with nature and made them individuals. Disobedience was the first act of freedom, the beginning of human history. Prometheus, stealing the fire of the gods, is another disobedient dissenter. “I would rather be chained to this rock than be the obedient servant of the gods,” he said. His act of stealing the fire is his gift to men, thus laying the very basis for civilization. He, like Adam and Eve, was punished for his disobedience; yet he, like them, has made human evolution possible. Man has continued to evolve by acts of disobedience not just in the sense that his spiritual development was possible only because there have been men who dared to say “no” to the powers that be in the name of their conscience or of their faith. His intellectual development was also dependent on the capacity for being disobedient, disobedient to the authorities who tried to muzzle new thoughts, and to the authority of long-established opinions which declared change to be nonsense. #RandolphHarris 9 of 17

If the capacity for disobedience constituted the beginning of human history, obedience might cause the end of human history. I am not speaking symbolically or poetically. There is the possibility that the human race will destroy itself and all life on Earth within the next tend to fifteen years. There is no rationality or sense in it. However, the fact is that while we are living technically in the atomic age, the majority of men live emotionally still in the stone age, including most of those who are in power. If mankind commits death by suicide, it will be because people will obey those who command them to push the deadly buttons, because they will obey the archaic passions of fear, hate, and greed; because they will obey obsolete cliches of state sovereignty and national honour. By the time he gets to “I Guess I’D Better Drive You, Dear” or “Getcher Expletive Outa Bed,” or even, “I’ll Beatcher Goddam Brains Out If You Don’t,” the child already has certain convictions about himself and the people around him, especially his parents. These convictions are likely to stay with him the rest of his life, and may be summarized as follows: I’m O.K. or; I’m not-O.K; You’re O.K. or; You’re not-O.K. On the basis of these he makes his life decisions. “It’s a World, some day I’ll make it a better one”—through science, service, poetry, or music. #RandolphHarris 10 of 17

“It’s a bad World, someday I’ll kill myself”—or kill someone else, go crazy, or withdraw. Perhaps it is a mediocre World, where you do what you have to do and have fun in between; or a tough World, where you make good by putting on a white collar and shuffling other people’s papers’ or a hard World, where you sweep or bend or deal, or wiggle or fight for a living; or a dreary World, where you sit in a bar hoping; or a futile World, where you give up. I believe that we are in great danger of being converted into complete organization men, and that means, eventually, into political totalitarianism, unless we regain the capacity to be disobedient and to learn how to doubt. In working with unusually defensive, withdrawn or fearful individuals we find it even more important than ever not to impose ourselves on them. How is non-imposition consistent with a therapist who expresses more of himself more openly and actively, and who initiates relationships by expressing himself? Tentatively, if he will express himself—his own imaginings, his own feelings, desires, the events which transpire in him—and if he does this clearly and explicitly as statements about himself, or about events transpiring within him at the moment, I think the answer is: the therapist can be more active and at the same time present less imposition and threat. In this way he shares himself more openly, yet he does not impose on the client’s experience. He speaks for himself with events in the client. #RandolphHarris 11 of 17

The content of our field of perception is necessarily selective; it cannot include all inner and outer reality that exists at a given moment. Only part of the ongoing flow of feelings, thoughts, and external events is defected by our sense organs and represented in our field of awareness. Our sense organs resemble TV or radio receivers, in that they are differentially sensitive to stimuli of different intensities and qualities. However, even within the receptive range of our senses, we still notice only a fraction of all the sensory information reaching our brain. Some of the important determiners of figure, that is, of our focus of attention, are unfulfilled needs. Our feelings and our needs direct our perception, thinking, remembering, and fantasy, so that the figure will be that perception, thought or memory most relevant to our needs of the moment. Our cognitive processes are thus servants of our needs. When we are hungry, we think and dream about food, we search for it, and we tend to ignore everything in the World that is indelible or that will not help us to get food. If we are deprived of pleasures of the flesh, we tend to have fantasies with erotic themes, we find it difficult to think about other things, and we look at the World from the standpoint of the gratification of pleasures of the flesh and frustration it is likely to afford. #RandolphHarris 12 of 17

If we are anxious because of some threat to our security; we are too busy seeking the source of danger so that we might escape from it. There have been many experiments conducted to demonstrate how needs determine our attention and the content of our consciousness, and so we need not dwell further upon this point. More germane to our discussion is the manner in which emotions and unfulfilled needs operate to distort our perceptions and beliefs. We hear much from the moralists about the need of encouraging young men and young women to express themselves and of not letting society impose its will upon them, as we hear much from the psychoanalysts about the need of liberating them from secret inhibitions and of satisfying their repressed emotions. Both these movements are excellent. They are antidotes to the tyrannic soul-crushing, hypocrisy-breeding, and self-deceiving conventions of the old society. However, a good overdone may become an evil a virtue stretched too far may become a vice, and a method which ignores all the facts of the diamond of psychological truth except a single one may become unbalanced. The new morality may free people to the point where liberty is merely license and expression a dangerous disregard for the knowledge yielded by experience and age. The new psychoanalysis may free them to the point where mental liberation is mere lack of self-control and emotional satisfaction is dangerously anti-social. #RandolphHarris 13 of 17

This is not to say that we would belittle the value of either. Both standard points may be philosophically used, which means they may be used in a balanced manner as a part of a wider one. The whole man is the natural man. Whoever sets up a cleavage between the intellectual and emotional functions, and would ignore the latter in order to enthrone the former, is unnatural and cannot attain that truth which is the voice of nature. This is not to say that emotional or reason should run riot; it is proper and necessary to give reason the reins, but this done, any sharper division will lead to unbalance, distortion, and error. Yes, the emotions of a person who is called hard and dry may need to be released, but this applies only to the positive ones. The negative ones are not worth releasing and should be got rid of. Anger and hatred are dangerous emotions to carry about with you. Whether or not they lead to actions harmful to the person they are directed against, they are certainly harmful to you. Conquer them quickly, get these psychological poisons out of your system. There is another kind of negative trait which, although unaggressive, is only less unpleasant by a matter of degrees than the aggressive ones. It is the black and bitter mood of sullen coldness, of the self-centered, self-tormenting, self-pitying sense of being wronged by the other person, the introverted, withdrawn, sulky, resentment at being hurt, a resentment so deep as to find no fitter expression than gloomy, frozen, and tense silence. #RandolphHarris 14 of 17

He places all the blame for the situation on the other and consequently adopts a grieved unconciliatory attitude towards the other. He wounds by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being boorish. The atmosphere around him is full of sustained and hostile emotional tension. It is, of course, an adolescent trait and cannot endure when spiritual maturity is really attained. What the unawakened man feels as fear, the awakened one transmutes into needful caution and careful forethought. It is a feat of emotional surgery to relinquish attachments and to renounce possessiveness. Emotions unchecked by reason may become our betrayers. Beware of them when exceptionally strong and unduly excessive. The fears which are natural or necessary should not be confused with the fears which are neurotic or excessive. If the aspirant is to remake himself effectively, he must begin by attacking the lower emotions. They must be killed and eliminated from his life scene. So long as they dominate it, so long will experience yield poisonous fruits instead of healthy-giving ones. Every fresh situation will only give fresh life to his ego because those emotions will involve themselves in that situation and cause him to misread it. The first enemies, the hidden sources of his own difficulties, are within himself. To take the attitude in a depressing situation that the only action is to sit down and be depressed by it is unphilosophical. He should never give himself up to despair, although he may give himself up in hard situations to gravest reflection and deepest resignation.  #RandolphHarris 15 of 17

The Sacramento Fire Department provides Sacramento City with the best possible all-risk emergency service in the protection of lives and property. They are and will continue to be identified by their dedication and pride in outstanding customer service, public health, safety, prevention and education. “For the last three years in fire prevention week, another firefighter and I go to all the different schools—anywhere from preschool up to twelfth grade—and teach fire prevention. The students enjoy it. It’s amazing how many students actually remember you. I’ve had kids come up to me in church, and say, ‘I remember you. Stop, drop, and roll!’ And I say, ‘Yeah, you’re right.’ Then I say, ‘What do you do if you have smoke in your room?’ And they’ll tell me, ‘I stay low, and I crawl.’ To me, that’s worth every ounce of time I’ve spent with these kids. If I can just save one of these kids, ever, that’s all I can ask. I couldn’t want any more. One Christmas Eve, we came home from my family’s party, and we tucked our children in. Just like in the storybook, they were all nestled in bed. And my wife and I were being Santa’s helpers, setting out all of Santa’s gifts with their name tags on them, when I got a call that we had a house fire. I remember giving her a kiss and saying, ‘I’ll be back as soon as I can.’ And I left her sitting among all these toys that weren’t put together yet, and all this stuff scattered around, and I went on the house fire. #RandolphHarris 16 of 17

“Thankfully, there was nobody in the house, they were out visiting, but their house was destroyed, a total loss. I came back home, and it was like magic: everything had been done. And there my wife was sitting, with a cup of coffee for me, and she made my Christmas really special. In fact, it was Christmas morning by the time I got back. But she didn’t complain. It didn’t upset her. There have been a lot of occasions when I’ve had to leave her. She has been really good, very supportive, and she’s proud of me, she really is.” The lives and well-being of the citizens of Sacramento, visitors, and department members is their highest priority. The Sacramento Fire Department is fiscally responsible in all they do. You can help save lives by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. To keep our community peace, please raise your children to love America, love God, and love Jesus Christ. It is also important to be patriotic and buy American cars and other American made goods and services. In order to maintain the tranquility of our city, we must always remember to respect law and order, and treat our elders with the utmost dignity, reverence, and honour. Good neighbours play a vital role in creating a strong and resilient community. They come together in times of need, facing challenges as a united from. Good neighbours build a foundation of unity and creative a beneficial impact on the neighbourhood as a whole. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. #RandolphHarris 17 of 17

The Winchester Mystery House

“One Halloween night, after work, I was playing with another tour guide the front of The Winchester Mystery House. It was Autumn, and the grass was stiff; I remember it was cold that day. We were tumbling on the grass, throwing each other over our shoulders, laughing. I remember the other tour guide twirling me around. We were both getting dizzy and were laughing uncontrollably. We had wandered somewhat from the center of the lawn and started to pick the roses; the petals were stiff and dry. I could see the sun on their dry red, pink, and yellow petals. The other tour guide was laughing. I was running around chasing him, and he picked me up, a bit too fast, tumbling me over his shoulder. I remember the roses coming at my eyes like colorful orbs in slow motion, and then into them. I started screaming, hearing myself scream, and I was flailing my arms and hands, trying to pull the orbs from my eyes, sitting on the ground and screaming uncontrollably, shrieking, my entire body shaking, and then feeling hands on me. His hands were on my face, and the sticky mass of tears and blood, and then I could feel him tugging at the roses, orbs, pulling them free one at a time, gently, and there was a sound as he did it, a sucking sound. The last thing I remember seeing was my coworker’s face after he pulled the last orb free. I could see his face through blood, though I could not see very clearly. There was a look of horror on his face, and then my eyes began to unfocused, as if the world were being pulled away, taking the light with it, and I was alone and screaming. I was so alone. I was sent away to have my eyes cared for. They told me later, much later, that I had been traumatized. I was ill for a very long time, and would not eat or speak; I lived inside. I went through a lot of therapy, and there were a lot of different doctors and hospitals. I was never sent home. I remember screaming, lot of crying, and then, after a long, long time, a kind of peace came over me. I became calm. I told them I was alright, that I wanted to go home. But they wouldn’t listen to me. They wouldn’t send me home. I started to cry. I wanted to see my friend from work again, I want to see him, to tell him I was all right, that he didn’t have to have that look on his face anymore, that it wasn’t his fault. But they wouldn’t send me him. I became so hysterical again, and the therapy began again. For a whole year I didn’t speak. For another year I screamed. And then I became calm again. The other tour guide was sent to an institution. No one knows what actually happened that day. Whatever the case may be, there is no denying that The Winchester Mystery House is a truly mysterious place… and its ghosts just keep getting creepier!”

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion. For further information about tours, including group tours, weddings, school events, birthday party packages, facility rentals, and special events please visit the website: https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

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Golden Moments of Love and Content

The loss of hope and the increasing brutalization are, unfortunately, not the only evils that have befallen Western civilization since 1914. Through honouring our covenants, we enable God to pour out the multitude of promised blessings associated with those covenants. However, is not excessive melancholy just as undesirable, and as much of a stumbling lack in the path of spiritual progress as, for instance, excessive drinking—or any other fault? What is being gained by these self-demeaning tactics? Is anyone benefiting from them? The time has come to ask himself these questions. Certainly, he is not alone in having made mistakes—everybody makes them! If everybody continued to punish themselves over and over again, needlessly remaining on the level of their own errors, consider what would happen? What then is to be done? Only when he is willing to change his attitude towards it, will his gloomy situation improve. He must make a deliberate attempt to cultivate happiness! Just as he raises the window shade in the morning to allow sunshine to pour into the room, so he must open himself to the higher power and let hope invade his heart! Jesus Christ taught through stories and symbols—a mustard seed to teach the worthy of souls, a prodigal son to teach the character of God. His parables were symbols through which He could teach deeper lessons to those who had “ears to hear.” However, those not seeking the deeper meaning would not understand. #RandolphHarris 1 of 18

As long as he continues to cling to despondency and to misunderstand, he is shutting out God and preventing His message from reaching him. Every say is a new day, with new possibilities of a fresh, determined, and more courageous approach to all daily difficulties. Let him forget the past, and start planning for a happier tomorrow! No one else can do this for him, but he can draw faith from the knowledge that his efforts will count towards his joyful resurrection. When God the Father offered His Only Begotten Son as a sacrifice for us, Jesus Christ Himself became the highest symbol of our Father in Heaven’s undying love for each of us. Jesus Christ became the Lamb of God. We have the privilege and blessing of being invited into a covenant relationship with God, in which our own lives can become a symbol of that covenant. Covenants create the kind of relationship that allows God to mold and change us over time and life us to become more closer to the Saviour, drawing us closer and closer to Him and our Father and eventually preparing us to enter Their presence. It is an heroic and stoic goal to set before a man, that he shall not be dependent upon others for his happiness and that he shall be emotionally self-sufficient. However, it is a goal reachable by and, in the present kind of faulty human society, useful to, only the few. #RandolphHarris 2 of 18

Each person on Earth is a beloved son or daughter of God. When we choose to be part of a covenant, it enhances and deepens our relationship with Him. As we make covenants with God, our relationship with Him can become much closer than it was before our covenant, and it enables Him to bless us with an extra measure of His mercy and love, a covenantal love referred to as hesed in the Hebrew language. The covenant path is all about our relationship with God—our hesed relationship with Him. Our Father wants a deeper relationship with His sons and daughters, but it is our choice. As we draw nearer to Him through a covenant relationship, it allows Him to Draw nearer to us and more fully bless us. If man reaches finality of decision and recognizes that enlightened self-discipline is to be achieved and not resisted, he takes the first step to true happiness. So long as we believe that some other person is essential to our happiness, so long shall we fail to attain that happiness. Happiness is not the monopoly of the successful One of the happiest men I ever knew was an aged tramp who wandered from poorhouse to poorhouse across the country. His eyes were blazing with a strange light. Happiness? It is so important and so necessary? Are not strength, understanding, and peace of mind more indispensable to a human life? #RandolphHarris 3 of 18

When inner conflict goes out, inner harmony comes in. There can be no happiness without such harmony. Only they who have brought all the different sides of their being into equilibrium, as well as they who have lived filly between opposite poles of human experience, can appreciate the quest for serenity over the quest for happiness. Goethe in Europe was one man who appreciated this superiority. It is as erroneous to expect perfect happiness through another person as it is to expect perfect salvation. Each must find the one or the other for himself in himself. No one else can bear such a great and grave responsibility, or ought to bear it. No human relationship can adequately or properly be substituted for what everyone must in the end do for himself. He who asks for happiness asks for something he cannot and shall not get while his body breathes. The wise man does not ask more from life than it can yield him. If it cannot give happiness, it can give peace. “Are you happy?” is a question people often ask him. However, he has not sought happiness. He has sought to find out why he is here and to fulfill that purpose. The aim of getting as much person happiness as one can out of ever situation is no longer the dominant one. Other and loftier aims now coexist with it in some cases or even displace it in others. #RandolphHarris 4 of 18

During no one’s lifetime are all desires fully realized. To look for a happiness that is complete is to look in vain. It is more philosophic to look for peace of mind. Happiness may leave a man in a single moment or come to him in the same way. However, if he identifies it solely with the ego and nothing more, only then can this happen. If a man has inner peace, he does not have emotional disturbances or mental agitations. Who then, really enjoys living—the disciplined philosopher who has the peace, or the undisciplined sufferer from the agitations? The emotions are uppermost in primitive man. With time and evolution, reason begins to mix with them and eventually to rule the lower ones. With further time and further evolution, intuition appears as the fruit of the finer ones. This is the place of emotional life in man. Few persons can separate—in their consciousness—emotion from thoughts. The capability of doing so is essential both to self-knowledge and to self-conquest. Therefore, it is important to every Self-actualized Christian. We must keep the emotional issues separate from the intellectual ones. However, this is not to say that the intellect is to live an emotion-proof existence. Such separation always needs to be kept up only so long as the lack of it is likely to impair the quest of truth. #RandolphHarris 5 of 18

This danger arises only during the earlier stages of man’s seeking. When he has attained a balanced personality, cultivated a serene disposition, and master the egotistic urges within himself, then emotion and reason join forces with intuition in producing the quality of intelligence. Henceforth, he feels what he thinks and thinks what he feels, his emotions are rightly directed and his thoughts are truthfully formed. They work together harmoniously, satisfactorily, and unitedly. He who seeks to arrive at the truth about a matter must banish his personal inclinations and egoistic desires about it during the time that he contemplates it. He must make his emotions submit to the facts which displease them and he must compel his reasoning to accept the conclusions which surprise them. Otherwise, his emotions may betray him and his reasonings delude him, so that white will appear black and illusion will appear as reality. There is a special quality which we will do well to develop during this particular period in which we live, and that is calmness. For whenever we turn our gaze, we perceive great upheavals of thought and emotion, great stirring of violent passion and bitter hatred, mass excitement and mob restlessness. In such a disturbed atmosphere we are liable to be swept off our feet against our better judgment and may thus injure the true interests of ourselves or of our country. #RandolphHarris 6 of 18

We should remember that to keep a cool head is the way to act wisely and successfully, whereas to yield to hot impulsiveness is to act rashly and often wrongly. We should also remember how unfortunate younger folk of Germany were cunningly swept into the Nazi current of blind impulses and become the bomb-fodder for the insatiable ambitions of Mr. Hitler. Let this be a lesson on the need and value of calm judgment and levelheadedness. We may also draw a further lesion from Germany, that is, the importance of practicing food will to all. Had it realized this virtue, the continent of Europe could never have arrived at the present unhappy condition of its people. The more we try to be kindly and helpful to others, no matter what class or creed they belong to, the more others are kindly and helpful to us. Therefore, even from the purely selfish point of view it, pays good dividends to practice goodwill. Moreover, it will help us as much as anything else to get on in life, for it will bring friends, gratitude, and even opportunities. Once engaged on this Quest, it becomes necessary to attend closely to the emotional and mental movements within himself, rejecting the lower ones and consenting to the higher. He must study carefully the differences between them, so that he may be able to recognize them. #RandolphHarris 7 of 18

Not through fearing their bad effects, but through willing consent to the truth that his real being is above them and that it is better to live in reality than in illusion he must come to the discipline of passion and emotion. God sets the conditions and obligations of the covenants we make. When we choose to enter into that relationship, we witness to Him, through the symbolic actions of each covenant, that we are willing to abide by the conditions He has set. Through honouring our covenants, we enable God to pour out the multitude of promised blessings associated with those covenants, including increased power to change and become more like our Saviour. Jesus Christ is at the center of all covenants we make, and covenant blessings are made possible because of His atoning sacrifice. Ultimately, we can look to the example of the Saviour, who prayed so very often. However, it has always been intriguing to me that Jesus Christ felt the need to pray at all. Was he not perfect? Well, I have come to realize that He too with us, wanted to “seek [the Father’s] face, believe His Word, and trust His grace. Time after time, He retreated from society to be alone before piercing Heaven with His prayers. At other times, He prayed in the company of a few companions. Then He would seek Heaven on behalf of multitudes who would cover a hillside. #RandolphHarris 8 of 18

The first script programming takes place during the nursing period, in the form of short protocols which can later be worked into complicated dramas. Usually, these are two-handed scenes between the baby and his mother, with littler interferences from onlookers, if any, and with such breast-fed titles as “Public Performance,” “It is Not Time Yet,” “Whenever You Are Ready,” “Whenever I Am Ready,” “Hurry Up,” “He Who Bites Gets Brushed Off,” “While Mother Smokes,” “Pardon Me, The Phone Rang,” “What is He Fussing About?” “There is Never Enough,” “First One Then The Other,” “He Looks Pale,” “Let Him Take His Time,” “Is He Not Amazing,” “Golden Moments of Love and Content,” and “Lullaby.” Slightly more complicated are the corresponding bathroom scenes in the same families: “Come and See How Cute,” “It is Time Now,” “Are You Ready,” “You Can Just Sit There Till You Do,” “Hurry Up,” “Naughty Naughty,” “While Mother Smokes,” “While Mother is on the Telephone,” “Enema Tube,” “If You Don’t I’ll Give You Castor Oil,” “Here is Your Laxative,” “You Will Get Sick If You Do Not,” “Let Him Do It His Own Way,” “That is a Good Boy,” “That is a G-o-o-d Boy,” and “I Will sing While You Are Doing It.” Three-handed protocols are more frequent at this stage, including: “I Told You He Was Not Ready,” “Do Not Let Him Get Away With That,” “I Will Make Him Do It,” “You Try,” “You Are Disturbing Him,” “Why Do You Not…Yes, But,” and “He is Sure Coming Through This Time.” The Phantom in the Bedroom, may begin to appear: “Dr. Spock Says,” “Tessie Had Her Trained By the Time,” and “Sister Mary Was Only.” In later life these will become “Freud Says,” “Nancy Always Has One,” and “Helen Has It Every Night.” #RandolphHarris 9 of 18

It is already fairly predictable who the winners and the losers will be. “Is He Not Amazing?” reinforced two years later with “That is a God Boy” will usually do better than “What is He Fussing About?” reinforced one year later by “Enema Tube”; similarly, “Lullaby,” first at nursing and later in the bathroom, will probably prevail over “While Mother Smokes.” Already the feeling of O.K.ness or not-O.K.ness, which separates the now and future princes from the now and future frogs, is being implanted, and several types of frogs and princes (or for the ladies, goose girls and princesses) are being set up. “Is He Not Amazing?,” the Forever Prince with the success script, is often but not always the first-born. The Conditional Prince, “Come and See How Cute,” or “Hurry Up,” for example, can remain a prince as long as he stays cute or hurries up. The Conditional Frogs, “He Who Bites,” “Naughty Naughty,” or “He Looks Pale Needs a Laxative,” can stop being frogs by not biting or not looking pale; the Doomed Frogs, on the other hand, will hardly ever make it with anybody. Touching are the frogs who try not to care “While Mother Smokes” or “Has a Highball.” Only a disaster can turn the Forever Princes into frogs; only a miracle can transform the Doomed Frogs into princes. There are three conditions necessary and sufficient for psychotherapy. They are: empathy, unconditional regard, and congruence or genuineness. “Congruence,” implies that the therapist attempts to drop any personal or professional artificiality, any maneuvers or postures, and the he be himself. #RandolphHarris 10 of 18

In our work with schizophrenics this condition has become more and more important. Gone are formulas—even that most characteristic of client-centered modes of responding, which was called “reflection of feeling.” As the term “empathy” implies, we strive as always to understand and sense the client’s feelings from his own inward frame of reference, but now we have a wider scope of different behaviours with which therapists respond to clients. In fact, I believe that it was in part the undesirable tendency toward formulas and stereotyped ways of responding which led to the formulation of the condition of “congruence” as essential. To “be himself” has also meant that the therapist has become more expressive. The therapist much more often expressed his own feelings, his experiencing of the moment. The client expresses himself, then naturally the therapist’s present experiencing consists largely of an empathic sense of the client’s meaning. However, when the client offers no self-expression, the therapist’s momentary experiencing is not empty. At every moment, there occur a great many feelings and events in the therapist. Most of these concern the client and the present moment. The therapist need not wait passively till the client expresses something intimate or therapeutically relevant. #RandolphHarris 11 of 18

Instead, he can draw on hos own momentary experiencing and find there an ever-present reservoir from which he can draw, and with which he can initiate, deepen, and carry-on therapeutic interaction even with an unmotivated, silent, or externalized person. Also, “congruence” for the therapist means that he need not always appear in a good light, always understanding, wise, or strong. I find that, on occasion, I can be quite visibly stupid, have done the wrong thing, made a fool of myself. I can let these sides of me be visible when they have occurred in the interaction. The therapist’s being himself and expressing himself openly frees us of many encumbrances and artificialities, and makes it possible for the schizophrenic (or any client) to come in touch with another human being as directly as possible. However, it would seem that many of the erstwhile guidelines for therapeutic behaviour have disappeared. Only the basic attitudes are specified, not how one manifests or expresses them. If one knows how to function effectively, one has a sound basis for the development of a healthy personality. The ability to perceive reality as it “really is” is, therefore, fundamental to effective functioning. It is considered one of two preconditions to the development of the beautiful and noble person. Our need systems heavily affect our ability to perceive reality—we often perceive what we want to see rather than what is really there. #RandolphHarris 12 of 18

Our behaviour is always undertaken with reference to the Worlds as we believe it to be. Unless we somehow learn from individuals how the World appears to them, what they are paying attention to, how they interpret the things they see and hear, and what their expectations are regarding the World about them–we can hardly make sense out of anybody’s behaviour. If we see someone run in terror from an automobile engine as it starts up, because the automobile is simply something to get us from place to place, we will be puzzled. However, if the person is a primitive who has never seen an automobile, that person may perceive it as a punishing instrument of the gods that is about to engulf someone. If we know how the person perceives the situation, we can understand the situation better and offer help. Unless the person takes steps to verify them, a person’s perceptions and beliefs will be inaccurate or distorted. Reality contact is not a given; it is an achievement! Efficient contact with reality must be worked for, because there are powerful forces at work at all times, tending to distort perception, thinking, and recall. One thing people do not perceive, however, is that a cause of the deterioration of the Western civilization is connected precisely with its greatest achievements. #RandolphHarris 13 of 18

Since technology has advanced so rapidly, Western people have a standard of living which would have seemed unthinkable one hundred and fifty years ago, or even forty years ago, for that matter. However, the satisfaction of real and legitimate needs has changed into the creation and satisfaction of a powerful drive, namely “Commodity hunger.” Just as depressed individuals often are seized by a compelling desire to buy things or in other cases to eat, modern man has a greedy hunger for possessing and using new things, a hunger which he rationalizes as an expression of his wish for a better life. If they are not directly enriching to life, he claims that the things he buys help him to save time. Yet he does not know what to do with the time he saves, and spends one part of his income to kill the time he is so proud of having saved. We see this phenomenon most clearly in the richest country of the World, in the United States of America. However, it is quite clear that the trend in all other countries is the same. The goal everywhere has become maximal production and maximal consumption. The criterion or progress is seen in the figures for consumption. This holds true for the capitalist countries as well as for the communist countries. In fact, the rivalry between the two systems seems to center around the question of which can produce a higher level of consumption, rather than a better life. #RandolphHarris 14 of 18

As a result, man in the industrialized countries transforms himself more and more into a greedy, passive consumer. Things are not provided to serve the perfection of man, but man has become the servant of things, as a producer and as a consumer. Things have gotten so bad that people are willing to let their hands be pulled being their back and have the cuff slipped on. As they ride to the county jail in a squad car, over the goods and services they stole out of greed, they think about how efficient the process is. As radio messages crackle back and forth between the cruiser and headquarters, they stand under the hard glare in front of a reception panel. The door of a hold cell clicks open and slips shut behind them. There is a concrete floor with no benches. The guards gather around in New Testament style and look curiously, laughing at the new martyr. “For you, we throw away the key. If we have it our way, you’ll never get out. Their cellmate, dozing, head on knees, is roused to interest. “How come they tell you that, man. What you done? “God knows,” he replies. Then came those weary, lonesome jailhouse blues, thinking about how he will not be in his wife’s arms tonight due to consumer greed. The industrial system has had very unfortunate effects in still another direction. #RandolphHarris 15 of 18

The method of production has dramatically changed since the beginning of last century. Production, as well as distribution, is organized in big corporations which employ hundreds of thousands of workers, clerks, engineers, salesmen, etcetera. They are managed by a hierarchically organized bureaucracy, and each person turns into a small—or large—cog in this machine. He lives under the illusion of being an individual—while he has turned into a thing. As a result, we observe an increasing lack of adventurousness, individualism, willingness to make decisions and take risks. The goal is security, to be part of the big powerful machine, to be protected by it, and to feel strong in the symbolic connection with it. All studies and observation of the younger generation show the same picture: the trend to look for safe jobs, not to be concerned so much with high income but rather with satisfactory retirement provisions; the tendency to marry young and to shift quickly from the haven of the parental family to the haven of matrimony; cliché thinking, conformity and obedience to the anonymous authority of public opinion and of the accepted patterns of feelings. I supposed it is a better life than being confined to N tank, protective custody for bad actors, noncooperators, snitches, low-riding arm robbers, messianic acid head, baby robbers and assorted sex thieves, while someone softly calls threats down the tier at fearful titillated inmates trembling in the corner of the cell in the cold prison mist. #RandolphHarris 16 of 18

The Sacramento Fire Department provides timely, accurate, and relevant information to the residents of Sacramento regarding fire safety, emergency preparedness, and department activities. They aim to ensure the safety and well-being of the community by enforcing fire codes, conducting inspections, and saving lives and property of the citizens of Sacramento. “I’m only at Engine X a month, and at that time I’m an eager beaver because I want to do the best I can and want to be right at the front. I mean, I’d rather be the pipe man, not the backup man, but they rotate all the jobs, so it’s a big letdown when I’m not the pipe man, because that’s obviously the best job. We went to a fire in a run-down hotel. The fire was in one apartment on the sixth floor, and we got word that one of the occupants might still be in the apartment. There were no standpipes or sprinklers, so we stretched a line up the aerial ladder and into an adjacent window. And we picked the right window. There’s a tremendous amount of smoke in there, and everybody’s got their masks on, because you couldn’t move in there without them. Everybody’s moving around trying to make a search as well as stretching the line further in. And I bump into that occupant. I put my arms around the guy and drag him out into the hallway. He survived.” #RandolphHarris 17 of 18

The Sacramento Fire Department is committed to providing the highest level of service to the community by ensuring safety and preparedness. You can help save lives by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. We are blessed with a great and noble heritage that offers a pathway to truth that veers dramatically from the so-called ways of the World. We need to remind ourselves about the value of heritage, so we do not underestimate its worth.  I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.  We all have life events that, when we recall them years later, acquire new and important meaning. Please raise your children to love America and to love God and Jesus Christ. It is essential to buy American made cars and other goods and services produced in America. As always, in order to ensure tranquility on our community, respect law and order and treat your elders with dignity and respect. Make a point to be a good neighbour as to keep harmony in the community. We are imperfect people trying to follow the perfect example of Jesus Christ. We love each other, help each other, and try to follow Jesus’s teachings the very best we can. In any community of Saints, we all work to serve each other in the best way we know how. Our work has a higher purpose because it is work to bless others and to build the kingdom of God. #RandolphHarris 18 of 18

The Winchester Mystery House

There are countless stories about The Winchester Mystery House’s ghosts, some more believable than others. Some say that the ghost of Mrs. Winchester still haunts the mansion’s grounds. And even more people claim to have experienced paranormal activity, such as sightings or heard strange noises at The Winchester Mystery House.

There are said to be all sorts of weirdness going on at The Winchester Mystery House – from apparitions of people who have died in violent accidents to cold spots that appear only when no one is around. Some even claim to have heard voices and seen shadows moving about during their visits.

Whatever the case may be, there is no denying that The Winchester Mystery House is a truly mysterious place… and its ghosts just keep getting creepier!

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In the Face of Threats, Can You Maintain Your Openness to New Ideas?

Let us feel that we are trying to become goof men of warm hearts, not good statues of cold marble. A grateful heart comes through expressing gratitude to our Heavenly Father for His blessings and to those around us for all that they bring into our lives. Through divine intervention those who are lepers are spared from a cruel, lingering death and given a new lease on life. It is not necessary that he remain married in order to pay repentance, nor on the other hand is he free to follow personal desires in the matter. It is a mistake to think that such a debt must continue to be paid until the end of one’s life. Yet, if one’s inner life and path are not to be obstructed, it must be paid off. Only the voice of his own deeper conscience may decide this point. An individual may keep the ideal of a true mate but understand that one cannot be absolutely certain to meet him or her on this Earth. The spiritual path is a call to renunciation of personal attachments, inwardly at least, and to a renunciation of the terrestrial nature also. If inner peace is to be obtained, both have to be overcome. However, once overcome, the World can be enjoyed without danger because his happiness no longer depends on it. If he lets the natural desire for a mate be included in but transcended by the higher desire for spiritual realization, he stands a chance to get both. However, if he feels that the first is wholly indispensable, he may miss the chance to get either. #RandolphHarris 1 of 18

The truth is that the Soul will not give itself to you unless you love It more than anything or anyone else. He may have great capacity for love in his nature which, properly directed by wisdom, may lead him to great spiritual heights and human satisfactions. However, directed by impulse, unchecked by reason, it can bring him into situations productive of much misery to himself and to others. He must therefore make it a part of his spiritual discipline to secure this balance. Until he has secured it, he should not commit himself to any decision without consulting with a spiritually mature person. Much harm has been done by the pseudo-romantic nonsense and false suggestions put out by cinema, magazines, social media, and novels. When one of the two belongs in every way—spiritual, intellectual, and social—to a class higher than the other, marriage is a risky affair. If they cannot meet on these levels, where can they? The bad in both is brought out and made worse; the good is diminished. If it were an essential part of religion, this was one of the original reasons why the caste system got established in some form or among the Old World, celebrities, and business elite. Marriage multiples burdens, entanglements, anxieties, difficulties, and Worldly preoccupations. #RandolphHarris 2 of 18

The single man has a better chance to wed his life to a single undistracted aim. Nevertheless, philosophy does not condemn marriage but leaves it to individual choice. Indeed, when two persons are temperamentally harmonious and spiritually suitable, it definitely approves of marriage. If he could find a companion who has the character and capacity to help, and not to hinder, his own inner pilgrimage, then it might be useful for him to marry; but is she were to tall short of this ideal, then greater inner misery would descend upon him. If she has to some, she will come into his life of her own accord, and there is a certain fate about such matters. In any case, it will be advisable to wait to make sure that the inner harmony does really exist. Some questions asked about marriage problems ought not to be answered by anyone other than the individual’s own higher self. Let him hear the voice of the Overself, which concerns itself neither with conventional contemporary attitudes, outdated Old World teachings, nor merely personal reactions. Let him listen mentally in profoundest prayer to hear this voice. My brothers and sisters, do we remember to give thanks for the blessings we receive? Sincerely giving thanks not only helps us recognize our blessings, but it also unlocks the doors of Heaven and helps us feel God’s love. #RandolphHarris 3 of 18

When you walk with gratitude, you do not walk with arrogance and conceit and egotism, you walk with a spirit of thanksgiving that is becoming to you and will bless your lives. It would be a profound error to believe that because the philosophic life is so deeply concerned with self-improvement and the philosophic mind so attached to serious studies, therefore the philosophic student must be a gloomy, dreary, and miserable individual. However, the contrary is the fact. His faith uplifts and upholds him, his knowledge brings joy and peace to him. Nor should the renunciatory preachments of therapists, friends, and parents, the bitter complaints of Job, the harsh pessimism of Schopenhauer, and the appraisal of the World’s life as vain and foolish in Ecclesiastes make us forget the cheerful optimism of Emerson and the bright rapture of many a mystic. The quest for an ideal place or person can never be satisfied; consequently, it can never really end. What we may hope to find are better places, better persons. The dream of the Best will always remain only a dream. Where is the Earthly thing, attraction, creature, which can compete successfully with THAT in the deepest heart of men? Without knowing what he is really doing, he is seeking THAT amid all other activities, loving THAT behind all other loves. #RandolphHarris 4 of 18

Given certain conditions, thinking only of oneself and without care for the welfare of other men, it is possible to attain happiness, but it is not possible to keep it. For if destiny or nature do not interrupt or destroy it, some among those others will become envious and may turn into potential danger to one’s happiness. Only to the extent that we unfold ourselves to the light of the impersonal Overself shall we secure personal happiness. The happiness which everyone wants can be found only in the eternal, not in the temporal. However, everyone continues to try this or that, with the same endlessly repeated result. Nobody listens to the prophets who tell this, or listens with more than his ears, until time teaches him its truth. Then only do his heart and will begin to apply it. The danger of seeking for personal happiness over and above self-improvement is one of nurturing egoism and thus hindering that improvement. And how could anyone find happiness so long as the cases of his suffering lie so largely in his own frailties? With a single exception, no living man is ever really content either with his lot or, what in the end is the same thing, with himself. That exception is the illuminate. In the timed state, all living men are unconsciously strive to become what they already are in the eternal one. #RandolphHarris 5 of 18

Human beings are unwittingly in search of themselves. This is the hidden cause of all their discontent, all their restless desires, endeavours, and ambitions. Happiness cannot be found by those who seek it as a goal in itself. It can be found only by those who know it is a result and not a goal. We have all experienced times when our focus is on what we lack rather than on our blessings. Said the Greek philosopher Epictetus, “He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.” Gratitude is a divine principle. The Lord declared through a revelation given to the Prophet Joseph Smith: “Thou shalt thank the Lord thy God in all things and in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things. In the Book of Mormon, we are told to “live in thanksgiving daily, for the many mercies and blessings which [God] doth bestow upon you.” If we will but pause and contemplate our blessings, regardless of our circumstances, each of us has much for which to be grateful. This is a wonderful time to be on Earth. While there is much that is wrong in the World today, there are many good things that are right. There are marriages that make it, parents who love their children and sacrifice for them, friends who care about us and help us, teachers who teach. Our lives are blessed in countless ways. #RandolphHarris 6 of 18

We can lift ourselves and others as well when we refuse to remain in the realm of negative thought and cultivate within our hearts an attitude of gratitude. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues. Someone has said that “gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.” How can we cultivate within our hearts an attitude of gratitude? The grateful man sees so much in the World to be thankful for, and with him the good outweighs the evil. Love overpowers jealousy, and light drives darkness out of his life. Pride destroys our gratitude and sets up selfishness in its place. How much happier we are in the presence of a grateful and loving soul, and how careful we should be to cultivate, though the medium of a prayerful life, a thankful attitude toward God and man! A prayerful life is the key to possessing gratitude. Material things possession make us happy and grateful momentarily. However, those things which provide deep and lasting happiness and gratitude are the things which money cannot buy: our families, the gospel, good friends, our health, our abilities, the love we receive from those around us. Unfortunately, these are some of the things we allow ourselves to take for granted. #RandolphHarris 7 of 18

In fact, most human beings have an almost infinite capacity for taking things for granted. We often take for granted the very people who most deserve our gratitude. Let us not wait until it is too late for us to express that gratitude. Speaking of loved ones he had lost, my father declared his regret this way: “I remember those happy days, and often wish I could speak into the ears of the dead the gratitude which was due them in life, and so ill returned.” It is true that the student of philosophy, understanding the impermanent and imperfect nature of this World, has in one sense renounced the quest of personal happiness, but he has renounced it only as an end in itself. He comprehends, on the one hand, that it is futile to demand perfection and permanence when the ever-changing World cannot by its very nature give them. To seek to establish personal happiness under such conditions is to travel farther away from it. He comprehends, on the other hand, that so long as he feels for and with other living creatures, he cannot be fully happy whilst so many among them are immersed in suffering. However, all this is not to say that he needs to forgo the guest of the higher transworldly happiness which is entirely independent of persons, places, and things and which is to be found within the Overself alone. #RandolphHarris 8 of 18

Moreover, he realizes that it is his duty to attain it precisely because he must attain the power to lift those suffering creatures above their misery and gloom, to infuse in them the life-giving qualities of hope, courage, and serenity which will help them triumph over difficulties. Thus, there is no adequate reason why he should be less happy than other men. The depth of his thinking and discipline of his senses do not prevent his sharing in the beauty-brining arts, the laughter-raising fun, and the lighter diversions of human living. Indeed, by his efforts to reshape his thought and conduct, he is eliminating a number of causes which would otherwise bring him future worry and misery, just as he is fortifying himself to bear present trouble with calmness and wisdom. Moreover, if he has not already partially realised it–he is on the path to realizing for himself that inexpressible inner beauty and satisfying bliss which accompany the consciousness of Overself. Even from afar its reflected light shines down upon his path, to cheer the mind and warm the heart. No—he cannot be a miserable man. He is in the process of finding an exalted and enduring happiness which is not bought at the expense of others, but rather shared with others. #RandolphHarris 9 of 18

If it is approached with reason, impersonality, and the determination to learn wisdom, some worthwhile lessons may be got by analysis and reflection from experience of human love. We may see the risks in permitting happiness to depend upon another person, whoever that other person may be. The first love must be given to the divine soul within one’s own heart, because it alone will never desert, betray, or disappoint. Then and then only may an individual turn to human love for comfort. Although psychotherapy seems to me to be the same process in neurotics and in schizophrenics, the differences manifested by schizophrenics are important, because here we find written large and unavoidable some of the factors which we may overlook in usual psychotherapy. For example, we often tend to overlook the problems of externalization and trivial talking in ordinary therapy. We know it happens and that such clients are most often eventual failures. If, however, nearly every person we saw in therapy confronted us with it, how different would be our reaction to this problem? We would then have to do something to meet the problem. We do not as yet have conclusive findings about the effectiveness of psychotherapy with schizophrenics. Roger Price, in his book What Not To Name The Baby, lists some common American forenames and gives a one-sentence description of the kind of personality that goes with each. #RandolphHarris 10 of 18

The uncanny accuracy, or at least plausibility of his descriptions is of great interest to script analysts. There is no doubt that in many cases given names, short names, and nicknames, or whatever praenomen is bestowed or inflicted on the innocent newborn, is a clear indication of where his parents want hm to go; and if he is to break away from the obvious hint, he will have to struggle against such influences, which will be continued in other forms as well. Names as script indicators are most likely to take hold in high school, where the boy or girl reads about famous namesakes in myth and history, or where his or her classmates bring home to them with more or less brutality the hidden meanings in their names. This is something parents have control over and should be able to foresee. There are four ways in which a forename can become scripty: purposefully, accidentally, inadvertently, and inevitably. Purposeful. The name may be a very specialized one, such as Septimus S. (who became a professor of classical philosophy) Randolph (who built several castles), Napoleon (who became a corporal), or Jesus, a common name in Central America. Or it may be a variant of a common name. Charles and Frederick were kings and emperors. A boy who is steadfastly called Charles or Frederick by his mother, and insists that his associates call him that, lives in a different style of life than one who is commonly hailed as Chuck or Fred, while Charlie and Freddie are likely to be horses of still another colour. #RandolphHarris 11 of 18

Naming a boy after his father or a girl after her mother is usually a purposeful act on the part of the parents, and puts an obligation on the offspring which they may not care to fulfill, or may even actively rebel against, so that their whole life plan is permeated by a slight bitterness or an active resentment. Accidental. A girl called Durleen or Aspasia, and a body called Marmaduke, may get along smoothly in one state or country or high school, but if their parents’ chance to move elsewhere, they may be made acutely conscious of their names and be forced to take a position about it. Similarly with a body called Lynn or a girl named Tony. Inadvertent. Pet names such as Bub, Butch, Sis, and Junior may not be intended to stick, but quite often they do, so that the person remains Bub, Sis, Butch, or Junior for life, willingly or unwillingly. Inevitable. Since parents have little option but to pass on what they got from grandfather, surnames are a different matter. There are many honorable European names which become obscenities in English; as one man morosely remarked: “I’m so lucky. I’ve got only one dirty word in my name.” This was brought to the attention most clearly in high school, where he suffered not only the indignities bestowed on immigrants, but in addition offered a ready-made handle for ribaldry. However, he felt that his name was no asset in the business World either. #RandolphHarris 12 of 18

Some people in this same predicament feel that they are cursed by their ancestors from birth to be losers. On the other hand, Christ is a not uncommon surname, and this also poses a script problem, albeit of a different kind, especially for church-going boys. It is no wonder that H. Head and W.R. Brain both became well-known neurologists. Besides being asked, “Who chose your name?” and “Where does your surname come from?” the patient should also be asked in every case: “Have you ever actually read your birth certificate?” If he has not, he should be instructed to do so, or even better, bring it in for the therapist to see. When they read them carefully for the first time, about fifty percent of people find surprises on their birth certificates: omissions, misapprehension, or information they were not aware of. Often the name on the certificate is different from what they have been called all their lives, much to their astonishment or chagrin. Almost all of these surprises will throw additional light on the scripts of the parents and the context of the patient’s birth. If not impossible, while it is good to reflect upon one’s own experiencing, but excessive reflections make action difficult. Nevertheless, there is value in examining the structure of one’s field of consciousness, especially in the light of a quest for further self-development. A different kind of warning is sounded by Schur with regard to the current consciousness fascination. #RandolphHarris 13 of 18

Schur has raised the question about whether or not the emphasis upon individual consciousness will lead young, committed persons to concern themselves entirely with themselves and turn away from the hard work involved in righting social wrongs. Schur points out that all of our societies are riddles with problems that cannot be correctly seen as originating even in collective consciousness. Societal problems require social answers. Particularly in the sphere of chemical alterations of consciousness, including alcohol and the mind-altering drugs such as lysergsaure-diethylamid (LSD), is the phenomenon of escape from social responsibility apparent. (It is important to avoid using all drugs, specially those that are known to be severely mind altering. While all drugs can lead to death, psychoactive and hallucinogenic compounds such as LSD and psilocybin can get you so high that you never come down, and for the rest of your life you will be “out of your mind,” and may or may not realize it.) What modes are predominant in your consciousness? Is there some one sensory modality that is not functioning? When was the last time you really looked at something, smelled it, tasted it, fondled and touched it? There are “sensory awakening” exercises that are fun to do and that enrich the quality of experience. #RandolphHarris 14 of 18

However, imagine that you are trying to stimulate sensory awakening with drugs and are never able to see colours again, lose you hearing, are never able to taste a peace, totally fry your brain, or cause one or several of your organs to fail. Dreams offer us glimpses of other ways to live, as well as flashes of truth about ourselves and our situation. “Openness” is becoming one of the few characteristics of the healthy personality that is agreed upon by all writers. In self-actualized individuals, creativity, among men particularly, is highly correlated with openness to theoretical, and aesthetic experiences. This suggests the “natural” consciousness expansion as being characteristic of the high-level-functioning person. Can you maintain your openness to new ideas in the face of threats? This practice often involves intercession prayers twice a day. Such activities quite down the outer and inner voices and enable one to listen to self and are worthwhile for personal growth. In the harried and hassled World of learning and of the marketplace, it is a rare person who can systematically, daily put aside the external World for long periods of time. However, there is much to say for such an effort. “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Lament and mourn and weep! Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will life you up,” reports James 4.8-10. The results strongly indicate that the program reduces anxiety, depression, and neuroticism and increases self-actualization. Through intercession, some have even reached “high” levels of awareness through supernatural means.  #RandolphHarris 15 of 18

The significance of the positive experience in developing high-level-functioning person is shown in a study of critical experiences that tested persons, ranging from undergraduate students to octogenarians, reported their critical experiences as being essentially happy and more self-actualized. Furthermore, the high-level-functioning person is able to derive positive results even from painful experiences. Do you bemoan misfortunes or make the most of them? Is your consciousness governed by D-motivation? Can you recognize teachers and companions who are consciousness-expanding influences? Equally important, can you distinguish between those who do open your consciousness and those who are simply looking for others to share their short-term escapes from reality? Which “side” of your brain needs developing, the analytical or the emotional? The Sacramento Fire Department has a staff of high-level-functioning persons. Their goal is to protect the lives and property of Sacramento City and County residents. “All the racial and religious prejudices existed. They dominated the city in the old days. How did I cope with it? I coped with it by being tough. You have to learn how to get along, how to get to know people, and how to make them respect you. I encountered many examples of prejudice in the city as a kid, and yet, in the end, people accepted me as an individual if I could pull my weight, and I could. #RandolphHarris 16 of 18

“As a kid, I was polite and learned what the rules were in the firehouse. They learned to trust me and to respect me, as I respected them. And so the barriers began to fall everywhere. As a fireman, yes, I faced prejudice. There was no doubt that certain individuals I knew and certain areas had a lot of prejudice people. But the whole thing came down to what you did out there on the fire ground. What you did there did all the talking for you. People saw I cared no matter what the color of their skin was, their surname, or their religion. If you pulled your weight as a firefighter, and you did what was expected of you, and you did it well, they had to respect for it. That really is what breaks the barriers. With blacks, woman, and Hispanics, affirmative action really helped those who had talent. They worked harder than other guys and it made people like them. There is a lot of tension, and all side have to learn to adjust to each other. What is really going to even it out in the end is how they do out on the streets. How do they stand up to the test of being a firefighter? If they stand up and are able to meet the test of firefighter, they will earn acceptance the same as anybody else has earned acceptance. If they fail, the individual will never be accepted as a firefighter. That is why affirmative action programs worked. If they could not cut it, they got cut. We did not allow substandard work.” #RandolphHarris 17 of 18

The Sacramento Fire Department provides professional life safety, property protection, and disaster preparedness services. They achieve this through extensive fire prevention and safety education efforts, along with quick and effective responses to emergencies. You can save lives by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. Also, it is absolutely important to raise your children to love America and to be patriotic citizens. By loving God and Jesus Christ, we can keep America a cohesive country. By supporting our local businesses by buying American cars, and other goods and services produced by Americans, this will stimulate our economy and help produce more high paying jobs in America. It is also important to respect law and order. As God loving citizen, we make it a goal to treat our elders with dignity, care, reverence, patience and empathy so that we may continue to be blessed by God. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. “My country, ‘tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing; land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrims’ pride, from every mountain side let freedom ring. Our fathers’ God, to Thee, Author of liberty, to Thee I sing; long may our land be bright, with freedom’s holy light; protect us by Thy might, Great God, our King.” #RandolphHarris 18 of 18

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Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways. Many good, and stupid, American gimpel willingly landed on the sticky twig which was specially pruned by the Democrats to capture them. Democrats pass acts or decree which have the most devastating consequences, yet nobody bears the responsibility for it. No body can be called to account. Sanctuary cities have brought a catastrophe upon America. In Aurora, Colorado Venezuelan gangs have commandeered apartment complexes, are holding tenants hostage, and collecting rent. When our cities have police departments, it is unfathomable that things like this can happen. However, some of the problems associated with Venezuelan gang activity is taking place in properties that are under out-of-state ownership whose transgressions with code violations and criminal activity may have preceded the migrant crisis. Yet, experts are telling us that citizens all over the country are living in fear because the winter is approaching soon, the border is still open, and this crime wave will only get worse. Is it at all possible actually to call to account the leaders of a parliamentary government for any kind of action which originated in the wishes of the whole multitude of deputies and was carried out under their orders or sanction? #RandolphHarris 1 of 19

The devastating influence of this parliamentary institution might not easily be recognized by those who watch the Democratic controlled TV news media, unless he has learned how to think independently and examine the facts for himself. This institution is primarily responsible for the crowded inrush of mediocre people into the fields of politics. Confronted with such a phenomenon, a man who is endowed with real qualities of leadership will be tempted to refrain from taking part in political life; because under these circumstances the situation does not call for a man who has a capacity for constructive statesmanship but rather for a man who is capable of bargaining for the favour of the majority. Thus, the situation will appeal to small minds and will attract them accordingly. The narrower the mental outlook and the more meager the amount of knowledge in a political jobber, the more accurate is his estimate of his own political stock, and thus he will be all the more inclined to appreciate a system which does not demand creative genius or even high-class talent; but rather that crafty kind of sagacity which makes an efficient town clerk. Indeed, he values this kind of small craftiness more than the political genius of a Pericles. Such a mediocrity does not even have to worry about responsibility for what he does. #RandolphHarris 2 of 19

From the beginning he knows that whatever be the results of his “statesmanship” his end is already prescribed by the stars; he will one day have to clear out and make room for another who is of similar mental caliber. For it is another sign of decadent times that the number of eminent statesmen grows smaller and smaller the more the individual political has to depend upon parliamentary majorities. A man of real political ability will refuse to be the beadle for a bevy of footling cacklers; and they in their turn, being the representatives of the majority—which means the dunder-headed multitude—hate nothing so much as a superior brain. For footling deputies, it is always quite a consolation to be led by a person whose intellectual stature is on a level with their own. Thus, each one may have the opportunity to shine in debate among such compeers and, above all, each one feels that he may one day rise to the top. If Peter be boss today, then why not Paul tomorrow? This new invention of democracy is very closely connected with a peculiar phenomenon which has recently spread to a pernicious extent, namely the cowardice of a large section of our so-called political leaders. Whenever important decisions have to be made, they always find themselves fortunate in being able to hide behind the backs of what they call the majority. #RandolphHarris 3 of 19

In observing one of these political manipulators, one notices how he wheedles the majority in order to get their sanction for whatever action he takes. He has to have accomplices in order to be able to shift responsibility to other shoulders whenever it is opportune to do so. That is the main reason why this kind of political activity is abhorrent to men of character and courage, while at the same time it attracts inferior types; for a person who is not willing to accept responsibility for his own actions, but is always seeking to be covered by something, must be classed among the knaves and the rascals. If a national leader should come from that lower class of politicians the evil consequences will soon manifest themselves. Nobody will then have the courage to take a decisive step. They will submit to abuse and defamation rather than pluck up courage to take a definite stand. And thus, if needs be, nobody is left who is willing to risk his position and his career in support of a determined line of policy. One truth which must always be borne in mind is that the majority can never replace the man. The majority represents not only ignorance but also cowardice. And just as a hundred blockheads do not equal one man of wisdom, so a hundred poltroons are incapable of any political line of action that requires moral strength and fortitude. #RandolphHarris 4 of 19

Democratic rule taking place in these modern times are similar to what America went through after the first World War. The First World shattered two thousand years of hope, but it did not destroy it. Men rallied their energies and tried to take up the task where it had been interrupted in 1914. Many believed that the League of Nation, much like the 2024 president elections in America, would bring about a new era of peace and reason; others, that the Russian revolution would overcome its Czarist heritage and would develop into a true humanist-socialist society; aside from this, people in the capitalist countries believed that their system would follow a straight line of economic progress. The years between 1929 and 1933 shattered what was left of these hopes. In direct comparison, people who that Donald Trump will once again ascend to the office of president and quail the unrest in American cities, and that he will, once again, make American prosperous. In the past, the capitalist system showed that it was not capable of preventing unemployment and misery for a large part of the population. In Germany, the people permitted Mr. Hitler to come to power. In Russia, after Mr. Stalin had transformed the revolution into a conservative state capitalism, he initiated a system of terror which was consider ruthless. #RandolphHarris 5 of 19

While all this was happening, the approaching World War was already becoming visible on the horizon. The power which had begun in 1914, which had been followed by the systems of Mr. Stalin and Mr. Hitler, now came to its full fruition. The Germans initiated it by their air attacks on Warsaw, Amsterdam, and Coventry. The Western allies followed by their attacks on Cologne, Hamburg, Leipzig, Tokyo and, finally, with the dropping of the atomic bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. In hours or minutes, hundreds of thousands of men, women, and children were killed in one city, and all this with few scruples and hardly any remorse. Indiscriminate destruction of human life had become a legitimate means for attaining political goals. The process of increasing brutalization had done its work. Each side brutalizes the other, following the logic “if he is inhuman, I must (and can) be inhuman too.” The war ended, and there arose a new flicker of hope, of which the foundation of the United Nations was a symbol. However, soon after the end of the war the new power force continued. The weapons of destruction became ever more powerful; now both sides are able to destroy at least half of each other’s population (including more of their educated populations) in one day. Yet the consideration of the possibility of such mass destruction had become commonplace. Many on both sides were fighting to prevent the final act of madness; groups of men and women who followed the tradition of science, of humanism and of hope. #RandolphHarris 6 of 19

However, million had succumbed to the process of the new power force, and many more were just apathetic, and escaped into the trivialities of the day. The purpose of learning history is to honour our heritage and learn from the things that happened in the past so we can repeat the good and avoid the bad. Historical monuments mean different things to different people, and some that are seen as negative, actually started off as representing something good. In destroying property and removing historical artifacts, we are defacing our culture and disrespecting something other hold as a prideful symbol. Regardless of what the masses believe something to stand for, often times, there is something sacred in the artifact. Even if something is said to represent evil, when we remove or deface these cultural relics, we are erasing part of our heritage and forgetting what we stand for. For instance, some people could find a statue of a freedom fighter offensive, while others many see it has a symbol of good. If it were removed from society, we would forget the history of why it was erected, and eventually people might forget the past, and repeat mistakes. While it is important to be inclusive and represent all cultures, it is evil to destroy someone else’s heritage and culture. #RandolphHarris 7 of 19

Growing out of client-centered therapy and especially its application with hospitalized schizophrenics, there is now emerging a mode of psychotherapy which centers on the “experiencing” of the two persons in the therapy interaction, rather than on the discussed verbal contents. This development is similar to recent trends in other orientations: there is a strong tendency to emphasize the interaction in psychotherapy, to emphasize that two human beings are involved, and to focus on the concrete subjective events occurring in these two persons, rather than only on the verbal contents being discussed. Basic to this development is the view that psychotherapy involves “experiencing” (by whatever name), a somatic inwardly felt process, the manner and meanings of which are affected by the interaction. Some attention is being given to the theoretical problem of how inwardly felt bodily events can have “meaning,” be “explored” and “symbolized,” and how these concrete implicit “meanings” can be affected and changed by interaction. Now that psychotherapy is widely thought to involve a concrete feeling process, we are less specific about the (still vital) role of cognitive symbols and exploration. The different orientations use different cognitive vocabularies, yet their patients and clients appear able to work with any of these vocabularies. #RandolphHarris 8 of 19

Apparently, any good vocabulary can be employed as a symbolic tool for good vocabulary can be employed as a symbolic tool for “working through” and interacting. It appears that personality difficulties lie in the “pre-conceptual” meanings of experiencing—that they are concrete, and that they are amenable to symbolization and change through interactions using any of the many different therapeutic vocabularies we have. Apparently, it is not so much a question of just which vocabular you use, but rather how you use it. If used in “direct reference” to experiencing, then more or less any vocabulary can be well employed. If used as abstract explanatory substitutes for the individual’s experiencing, no cognitive vocabulary will engender much constructive personality change. Of course, this is an opinion which awaits much more research support than we have so far, but it is a widespread current trend in therapeutic thinking. Not only the best use of words, but also the best use of therapist behaviours, would seem to depend not so much upon just what the therapist behaviour is, as on how the behaviour relates to and affects the individual’s experiencing. The attempt to specify just what therapists should and should not do tends today to concern not so much what behaviour is used, but more just how it is used. Furthermore, this “how” concerns how the behaviour relates to the experiencing of the two persons. #RandolphHarris 9 of 19

“Subverbal” communication always sounds mysterious—how is anyone to know what the client means when he cannot say what it is. The specification I would like to offer concern not “what” the client means (and not how we can guess “what” he means). The specifications concern how client’s and therapist’s words can be employed to point at and refer to experiencing. Philosophy says that the marriage state is necessary for most people, the less advanced. It also says that even for the others, the more advanced, the smaller love of two persons mating can coincide with, and remain within, the larger lover of the individual for the Higher Self. Of course, if the relationship is a successful and harmonious blending of the two personalities, only then is this possible. For some people, marriage does take away from the higher life, but not for others. It all depends upon the two individuals concerned in it as to which of these results will come about. Marriage hinders some aspirants because of the distractions and burdens it imposes, but it helps others because of the release from tormenting thoughts involving pleasures of the flesh which it may give. When sensibly fitted into the framework of a spiritual understanding of life, marriage need not be a bar and success may be achieved. #RandolphHarris 10 of 19

It is true that men who are lonely or young or romantic are likely to marry a young woman with whom propinquity has brought them in touch. In such cases, he puts an illusion around the woman to the pressure of desire. When the illusion goes and the facts show themselves, he is left alone with the hard lesson of discrimination. The situation can repeat itself with the victim being the woman. Many marriages are based on calculation, not on love. They are business transactions bearing social of financial rewards, not emotional ones. Yet if animated by goodwill, they may be successful. One man who seemed to make no spiritual progress generally, and little progress in meditation particularly, found the situation completely altered when he adjusted himself to a new attitude towards his wife. She was a shrew and a scold, hostile to his higher aspirations and quite Earthy. He was several times on the brink of leaving her but be thought of responsibility toward their growing children restrained him. He did leave her mentally and bitterly resented her presence in his life. When he was taught how to bring a new viewpoint to bear upon his marriage, he began to regard it as a perfect opportunity for the better development of his character and his wife as an unwitting instrument for the better control of his mind. He learned to accept her in his life without complaint. #RandolphHarris 11 of 19

He came to regard the marriage as a piece of Self-Created destiny to be worked out, in its own unpredictable time, by his fostering the needful qualities. He set to work upon himself and gradually unfolded patience, calmness, strength of will, and unselfishness. Within a few years, he not only became expert at meditation but also gained higher awareness. Nor was this all. In his work as an executive in a large commercial office involved in accounts, calculations, and business decisions, formerly he would easily become excited, irritated, or angry with subordinates over their mistakes, their inefficiency or stupidity. Now, he taught himself how to hold on to the inner peace found in periods of meditation until the time arrived when he could pass through the whole day’s activity without losing or disturbing it. If a woman has done all that was humanly possible to hold her husband and has failed, she must realize that acceptance of the inevitable—even the temporarily inevitable—is the only way to bear this painful result. The husband’s weaknesses may have found their expression in outer action. However, through the painful results of that expression, he may eventually discover a truer set of values. If she has tried to appeal to his better nature and failed, she must now let him do what he wishes and try the path of personal experience in the satisfaction of his desires, which is the common path for most people. #RandolphHarris 12 of 19

Otto Rank believed that the circumstances of birth itself, the “birth trauma,” are imprinted on the psyche of the infant and often reappear in symbolic form in later life, particularly as a desire to return to the blissful peace of the womb, as described by his disciple Fodor. If that were so, the fears and longings which arise from passing under that arch through which no man can ever pass again, nature’s original one-way street, would certainly appear as important elements in the script. Perhaps they do, but there is no reliable way to check it, even by comparing Caesarean births with normal ones. Hence the influence of the “birth trauma” on the life script remains in the realm of speculation. As a matter of fact, real-life scripts said to be based on the actual occurrences of Caesarean birth, like their theatrical counterparts, are unconvincing. As in Macbeth, the event is exploited as a mere play on words or a conundrum, a foetus ex machina, rather than forming the serious basis for a script. It is quite likely, however, that a child who is told later that he was a Caesarean birth, and can understand what that means, might incorporate that fact somehow into his scripts and elaborate upon it further when he learns who his distinguished predecessors were. A decision on this point awaits the collection of some good case histories. #RandolphHarris 13 of 19

In practice, the two most common “birth scripts” are the “Foundling Script” and the “Tom Mother Script.” The Foundling Script arises from the fantasies of adopted or even natural children about their “real” parents, and comes out as some version of the Myth of the Birth of the Hero described by Otto Rank in his book of that name. The Torn Mother Script is also common, and in my experience occurs with about equal frequency in both genders. The foundation for this script is the mother telling the child that she has been sickly ever since he was born; or in a more vicious form, that she was so badly torn by his birth that she has never been the same. His reaction, and his script, is based on his own observations in the matter. If mother has indeed been invalided or crippled all his life, then he feels compelled to take the full responsibility, and no amount of Adult reasoning will convince his Child that it is not his doing. If the impairment is not visible, however, and particular if someone in the family, such as father, implies or states that her illness is a fake, then the patient’s script will be heavily loaded with ambiguity, hypocrisy, and exploitation. Sometimes the mother does not make the accusation, but leaves it to father, grandmother, or aunt. #RandolphHarris 14 of 19

The script which evolves is then a three-handed one, with important messages and announcements, usually “bad news,” coming from a third party. It is easy to see that where the Foundling Script comes out as the Myth of the Birth of the Hero, the Torn Mother Script is the Myth of the Birth of the Villiam, one saddled from birth with the horrendous crime of matricide, or, more precisely matriclasty. “Mother died in childbirth (mine)” is almost too much for anyone to bear without good help. If mother was injured or has a cystocele, it is never too late to have it repaired, and the less said about it the better. “All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of Heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Children are an heritage of the Lord,” reports Psalms 127.3. Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations. #RandolphHarris 15 of 19

Whether or not the enlargement of consciousness is conducive to healthier personality depends upon several factors, including the projects to which a person is committed and the person’s ability to acquire skills commensurate with the enlarged awareness. Healthy personality rests upon competence, the ability to act effectively in pursuit of the gratifications and meanings that make life possible and worth living. If a person has become excessively aware of self and of the World, as sometimes happens with unwise users of psychedelic drugs, that person cannot deal effectively with everything of which he or she has become aware. Maslow was aware of this when he cautioned of the “dangers of Being-cognition.” The hyperconscious individual may arrive at a sense that all things are of equal importance and value. Such a stance is equivalent to valuelessness, and it results in paralysis of action. People of advanced age prepared to die may have such enlightenment, but it is not of much use to younger persons with a life yet to be lived. There is some optimum harmony among the magnitude of a person’s awareness of the World, the goals and projects to which that person commits his or her life, and the skills and capacities for enriches one’s sense of meaning and is accompanied by increased effectiveness at living a life-engendering existence, then such alteration is conductive to healthy personality; otherwise, it might be pernicious. #RandolphHarris 16 of 19

Another point of view that should be considered is that many forms of changed consciousness, particularly those that come from the use of chemical substances such as LSD and alcohol, are not really enlarged, expanded, or higher, but rather are simply changed, and changed in such a fashion to disguise reality and prevent the person from dealing with the problems of real life, of responsibility for others, and even of maintaining personal health and sanity. The nature of experience itself is such that it cannot be checked and validated by scientific methods; Castaneda’s experience cannot be validated by Don Juan. This is particularly true of reported experiences of “higher” consciousness and greater awareness of self. Substantiated evidence for this is difficult to develop. For some, this enlarged consciousness is the stuff of which dreams are made.  The Sacramento Fire Department has made dreams come true for many people. Their core values are professionalism, service, integrity, teamwork innovation, and courage. The Sacramento Fire Department is committed to providing excellence in all aspects of conduct and performance with the highest level of customer service. They uphold the public trust and conduct themselves responsibly by maintaining ethical standards by effectively and efficiently supporting their common goal of excellence through service. #RandolphHarris 17 of 19

“When I was hired on, I was already an EMT 1. Then our department wound up getting into the EMS business. A private company that had provided the service for twenty years went out of business on two and a half hours’ notice. We picked up the ball, and we’ve had it ever since. We’ve had some pretty drastic cuts in manpower, but right now we have about a hundred thirty people on the line out of the stations, and the majority are EMT-certified to one degree or another, ranging from EMT 1 to paramedic. The folks on our medical units are paramedics, of course. However, everyone has to be a firefighter first. We have been involved in lots and lots of rescues, but the majority have been extrications and pretty basic things like that. Our medics are sometimes helicoptered out of town to do rescues. A lot of logging accident take place outside of our area up in the woods. We have an arrangement with the local helicopter service, so that if a helicopter rescue is necessary, our paramedics will be picked up by the helicopter, and they will go out and do what is necessary. Then they will transport the patient back. Two of our local hospitals have helipads; one has it helipad right up on the roof, so our paramedics can treat the patient all the way back to the hospital. #RandolphHarris 18 of 19

“We had one recue where a guy had a giant earth mover roll over on him. The guy was underneath tons and tons of equipment, and one of the guys went under there and treated him before they moved him. That was a pretty dangerous situation.” The Sacramento Fire Department stives to advance in their profession with new methods and technology to overcome fear through fortitude and accept the risk to protect others. You can help save lives by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. In an effort to keep America a God loving and patriotic community, please raise your children to love America, love God and Jesus Christ. In order to help America become a creditor nation again, it is best to buy American cars and other American goods and services. To help maintain peace in our communities, please respect law and order and treat your elders with admiration, respect, dignity, and compassion. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, with liberty and justice for all. “O Say, can you see, by the dawn’s early light, what so proudly we hailed at the twilight’s last gleaming, whose broad stripes and bright stars, through the perilous fight, o’er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming? And the rockets’ red glare, the bombs bursting in air gave proof through the night that our flag was still there. O say, does that star-spangled banner yet wave o’er the land of the free and the home of the brave? O, thus be it ever, when free men shall stand between their loved homes and war’s desolation; blest with victory and peace, may our Heaven-rescued land praise the power that hath made and preserved us as a nation. Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just, and this be our motto, ‘In God is trust.’ And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave o’er the land of the free and the home of the brave.” #RandolphHarris 19 of 19

The Winchester Mystery House

Happy Labor Day! Take a moment to scroll through some pictures of Sarah’s amazing staff—these dedicated individuals played a key role in turning her vision into reality!

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Raised as an Unwanted Child

The human charioteer drives his in a pair of horses; and one of them is noble and of noble breed, and the other is ignoble and of ignoble breed; and the driving of them of necessity gives them a great deal of trouble to him. The family is the most important organization. A loving Father in Heaven organized His church here on the Earth as a means of teaching families how to be eternally happy. We know that none of us can receive the fulfillment of true happiness except as a member of an eternal family unit. We also know, or should know, that the success we experience in our homes as families is going to have a most significant effect on the eternal happiness of each of us. Happiness in the life hereafter is geared to our learning and living celestial laws while we are here on the Earth. This being so, then our homes an atmosphere that will encourage the learning and living of the teaching of the Saviour. If corrupt politicians can bring about disunity, discontent, disharmony, and a host of other spiritual illnesses, they know that they can cause unhappiness in our homes. By this insidious process, they have grained no small measure of success in their plan to lead astray the children of our Father in Heaven. For instance, politicians know that they can cause parents to quarrel with each other, their children may well follow the example. #RandolphHarris 1 of 21

If parents show little respect for each other, immoral legislators know so will their children. They know that children mirror the actions of their parents. They also know that their greatest effort to block the work of the Lord must be in the home. Unfortunately, it is here where dishonest politicians enjoy their greatest success, first by destroying family relationships and then by destroying the family unit. They are using many devious means to accomplish their political purpose. Such as how President Biden declared Easter Sunday in 2024, “Transgender Day of Visibility.” Also, a bill passed by the state legislature this week would allow illegal immigrants to receive up to $150,000 in taxpayer-backed home loans, which will only drive-up housing prices, add to the national deficit, and provide a new incentive for people to come into the country illegally, while many Americans are struggling to afford housing and pay their bills. Many homes do not recognize immoral politicians’ encroachment into their happiness and security. One of unethical politicians’ most effective tools is at work among us today—it is a destroyer of happiness, peace, contentment, family solidarity. Families are stumbling and falling because of its hobbling and crippling effect. This tool of Democrats is called contention. The dictionary describes contention as follows: “To argue, to bring discord or strife, to dispute, to quarrel.” Democrats have been indoctrinated by their parties’ skilled propaganda machine to ridicule the Constitution of the United States of America, allowing illegal immigration, and even pay people hundreds of thousands of taxpayer dollars to immigrate illegally, and in doing so they are committing one of the World’s most shameful acts of rape. Yet, Congress has not paid reparations to the descendants of the Africans they enslaved. And many are wondering, how could such a racist country, which has robbed and suppressed the Black community, give so openly to illegal immigrants, as if they have suddenly lost their minds? Not too long ago, the state of California could not afford to pay workers and was cutting their pay. And now Social Security and Medicare are expected to go broke and Vice President Kamala wants to speed up the process by handing out these benefits to illegal immigrants. #RandolphHarris 2 of 21

Now, some will say, “This is our way of life—everybody is doing it.” Lest we think these acts are not serious and are just our way of life, to be accepted and lived with, let us hear the word of the Lord as expressed by an ancient prophet. We read in 3 Nephi: “…And there shall be no disputations among you, as there have hitherto been; neither shall there be disputations among you concerning the points of my doctrine, as there have hitherto been. For verily, verily I saw unto you, he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to content with anger, one with another. Behold, this is not my doctrine, to stir up the hearts of men with anger, one against another; but this is my doctrine, that such things is my doctrine, that such things should be done away,” reports 3 Nephi 11.28-30. “And ye will not suffer your children that they go hungry, or naked; neither will ye suffer that they transgress the laws of God, and fight and quarrel one with another, and serve the devil, who is the master of sin, or who is the evil spirit which hath been spoken of by our fathers, he being an enemy to all righteousness. But ye will teach them to talk in the ways of truth and soberness; ye will teach them to love one another, and to serve one another,” reports Mosiah 4.14-15. #RandolphHarris 3 of 21

The home should be the great workshop of the Lord. Here is where children must be taught to walk in ways of truth and soberness, of love and service to each other. The most effective examples a child will ever have—for good or for bad—are his own parents. Few of us realize how very pliable and teachable children are in their primary years of life. How quick they are to pick up parental habits and traits and teachings! May I suggest that parents require more of themselves. Parents must give more of themselves, that they give more good experiences to their children, experience that are love-producing and family-solidifying. Whether the times give are measured in minutes or hours is not as important as what is done in them. It may be five minutes at a child’s bedside each night or a fifteen-minute walk in the evening. It can even be the experience of a family learning to pray together and reading the scriptures together and fasting together. We must expand our thinking on ways to develop happy children. As the Lord has said, the power is within us to do so. The ways of the Lord are simple ways. Simple experiences with children develop unbreakable ties that will endure forever. It might be something as precious as a smiling more in your home. Parents are the catalyst in creating loving human beings. Loving actions are contagious. #RandolphHarris 4 of 21

With love, children will learn to be happy and more pleasant. Homes will be cherry. When I was young, and even when I was not quite so young, there were so many experiences which I could not communicate to anyone. One day when I was nineteen, I was walking along a New York street in early morning, feeling good. Not many people were around. The sun was shinning and a bright reflection of it caught my eye. It came from a safety pin, lying on the pavement. The safety pin lying on the pavement in a huge city with millions of people and towering buildings had an absurdity about it that made me smile. This switched to seeing the safety pin as a part of the World, as much as I was myself, and I felt myself very strongly in accord with everything, in touch with all there is, known and unknown. Then the safety pin became a key, as thoughts, starting there, went through my head more rapidly than anything that I can think of now, each thought leading to another, like steps up the Twin Towers higher and higher, until they arrived at an explanation of the Universe. It was all so beautifully clear, and at the same time simple and amazing. I was delighted with this Universe in which I lived. Then I thought, “This is crazy. I cannot know anything about the Universe.” Then, what had been clear became a crazy jumble. The speed with which the thoughts followed on each other was too much for me. #RandolphHarris 5 of 21

I fixed my mind on things around me in determinedly commonplace way—street, cars, people, fronts of buildings—to do what I called “calming me down.” There was no one to whom I could speak about this and other things that happened, and sometimes this made a roaring in my head. Not a real roaring; the feeling or roaring. If I lot it and let the roar engulf me, I would be lost, so I held on to that knowing. When I had been here on Earth for nearly half a century, I worked at a ranch college where there were may freedoms still, and the surrounding country moved me deeply and released me, as it still does. Often, I came out of my room in the early morning, walked out on the verandah which was on a rise on one side of the valley, and looked across the fields of alfalfa, the high desert land beyond, and to the mountains on the other side. I would so burgeon with glory that my arms moved to each to the sky. I needed the job. I could not afford to be thought crazy. I walked down the steps, my arms at my sides, with a singing inside me but a crying too, that my singing could not get out. Behind the bodily response there were many happenings in me full of meaning. I wished to live with them awhile, to know them more deeply, but when I walked down the steps with my arms at my sides, I lost even the knowing that I had had. We do not have words to express that knowing. Perhaps there can never be such words. #RandolphHarris 6 of 21

There was one man on this ranch with whim I could converse about these deep meanings and universal understandings that I sometimes felt, by using a few words which he picked up, and with a few words of his own, he gave my meaning back to me so that I knew he understood. He told me, too, about his World. “The way I see it,” he says, and then there is a long pause, a waiting that is not waiting, a blank space which gets filled in somehow. “It’s like a tree…” His arms sweep gently in a way that says something to me about the way that he sees a tree, and the relation of this to what he is expressing about life. I could repeat all the words he said and they would say no more than “The way I see it…it’s like a tree.” My own words say no more. My free gestures, like his, convey nothing to people around us. It is the words, the gestures, the feeling I have from him directly, and the feeling and knowing which they bring from me, which says something. Even if they do not reject what I am saying, with most other people, when I try to speak my World, they insist on having all the blanks filled in by me—clear sentences with precise meanings. When I try to do this, it brings it down to nothing. The life is gone. And then they say, “That’s nothing.” I have presented them with a cadaver, not a living being. I feel that I have desecrated life, and I am sad. #RandolphHarris 7 of 21

I feel cut off. I long for my schizoid friend who does not require of me what is not possible, and who accepts with understanding what I say. We stand side by side or sit on the same rock, not touching each other, but the boundaries are lost without touching and I feel that we are one, and the more I am with him, the less inclined I am to “carry on a conversation” except in terms of utility—explaining to another person something that needs to be done, or what I need him to bring to me. For utility, this language is good. I can explain why a nut should be put back on a bolt when the bolt has been removed from whatever it was in. I can answer a question about the best way to get back to town. However, for being with people, what I love is the poetry of life, the art, and the language which conveys this, in which there is a vast expanse, something not put in, which my large mind can encompass. My small mind cannot understand that. It was not built to. My large mind cannot learn to fix dinner. That is not what it is for. When I am free, my small mind and my large mind function together. I do not know how they do it. However, it is something like breathing, which I say that I am doing without usually noticing that it has two parts. I do not think, “I am breathing in,” “I am breathing out” unless for some reason I am paying attention to it. Otherwise, I am just breathing. When I say, “My breath stopped,” or “I caught my breath,” I do not think whether the breath was out or in. #RandolphHarris 8 of 21

It is something like that with my large mind and my small one. Not much, but something like: at least, both are necessary. If I am too much in my large mind, I lose touch with Earth. If I am too much in my small mind, I lose touch with Heaven. Not a hereafter Heaven, but a Heaven now. When I am living with my bothness properly, my work is joy, my play is joy. When I am living with my bothness properly, life and death do not concern me: I am prepared for both. When for long periods of time I am never with anyone who speaks the language of art and poetry and music, or with the rest of nature, more and more I feel tight, and bound, isolated, living in a World where I do not belong, where all the people seem to be against me. I can easily feel that they are my enemies, because they get between me and my joy. If people push me down into a cellar and shut me in a room without light or air or sun, are they not my enemies? And that is what people do to me so often. When I do not confuse the image with physical reality, I can feel that this is what they are doing to me in the physical sense. So long as I know that it is only the image expressing to me in the outside way what is going on inside me, I am all right, even though I hurt and am deeply distressed and feel trapped, as though people will not let me out. Am I really wrong that people will not let me out? #RandolphHarris 9 of 21

I want to share my World with them, to have them roam with me and freely play and dance and sometimes weeps, but they insist that I come into their World which is “real.” Both Worlds are real and one when I do not split them. Sometimes when I have gone into their World, the half-World that is called real, the pain is so great…I do not know how to live with it. There is horror, too, at the unknowing cruelty of people, like animals tearing a person apart because to them a person is just meat. Then I feel like shutting my small mind which sees only the small World that is known as this one, and curling up in a ball with the half-World inside me, known as that World, and making it my whole. Or else I feel like lashing out at the beasts who do not know I am a person, trying to get from them what they have taken away from me. People are afraid of my whole World, afraid that I may get lost in it and have no conscience and no caring. However, it is in the whole World that no one can get lost. In either half-World I am lost because I have lost the other. I think that I have made my choice, haven chosen my whole. However, in this there is no choosing, any more than I can choose between night and day. My whole is both, and my happiness cannot be without it. I am always searching in one half-World or the other for what I need to complete me, to make me whole. #RandolphHarris 10 of 21

One general guiding principle as to whether or not a young aspirant on the quest should enter into marriage is that it is necessary that there should be a spiritual harmony. Both must purse the same ideal, for if disharmony enters this would lead to disaster. Both must stand within measurable distance of each other on the spiritual path. In addition to that, it is advisable that there should be physical, magnetic, and temperamental suitability to each other. In any case this decision is a matter which should not be rushed and it will be well to take enough time for consideration. It would be well also to ponder the opinions of wise friends who have met the other person. A decision about marriage should not be made on the basis of emotion alone, but the checks of critical reason and outside judgment should also be introduced. Committing oneself to a life-partnership in marriage is not only of vital importance to Worldly life but also to spiritual life. It may either help inner progress or else lead to spiritual disaster. It is necessary, therefore, that a man, for example, should explain his views to the lady that he is interested in, and if she is unable to accept them sincerely within a reasonable period then he may face the fact that he would be headed for a stoppage on his spiritual journey if he married her. To make a mistake in marriage will bring both pain and trouble to his wife as well as to himself. He should resolve to choose correctly or else to wait patiently until the right young lady appears. #RandolphHarris 11 of 21

The marriage partner should fulfil both the human characteristics needed for satisfaction and the spiritual qualities needed for affinity. Where fate denies this, wisdom counsels abstention from marriage altogether. Otherwise, unnecessary unhappiness is invited. The general rule is that, other things being equal, children will follow their parents’ script regarding family constellation, and this is best shown by taking the simplest factors: number and spacing of children. (The gender of the children cannot be considered, since that is still beyond the control of most parents’—fortunately, since that is one way the scripts are broken up from generation to generation, so that some children, at least, get a new chance.) A careful inquiry among a number of families will reveal a surprising number of “coincidences” in this respect. To further highlight this illustration, there were three boys in the Able family: Cal, Hal, and Val. When Val was born, Hal was four and Cal was six, so that their spacing is 0-4-6. Their father, Don, was the oldest of three children spaced 0-5-7. Their mother, Fan, was the oldest of three girls spaced 0-4-5. Her two sisters Nan and Pan, also had three children each. Fan’s mother was the older of two girls spaced 0-6, with a miscarriage in between. It can be seen that all of these threesomes were spaced within five to seven fertile years. #RandolphHarris 12 of 21

This type of family tree shows how some people tend to follow their parents’ example in family planning as far as number and spacing of offspring are concerned. Let us consider some of the possible “script directives” that might have come from Gramp and Granny to Don and Fan in this particular case. a. “When you grow up, have three children, and then you are free to do as you please.” This is the most flexible, and involves no hurry or constraint. Only if Fan approached menopause without having produced the required three offspring, can fear of “script failure” and loss of mother’s love can occur. However, note that Fan is not free until she third children. This is an “Until” script. b. “When you grow up, have at least three children.” There is no constraint here, but there may be a sense of hurry, particularly if Gramp or Grany makes jokes about Don and Fan’s fertility. This is an “Open End” script, since Fan is free to have as many children as she likes after the third. c. “When you grow up, have no more than three children.” This is no hurry, but there is constraint, and Don and Fan may be uneasy about further pregnancies after the three children are born. This is an “After” script, since it implies that there will be trouble is there are any children after the third. Now let us consider Fan’s point of view if she should have a fourth child, Pedwar, under any of these directives. a. means “The first three children belong to Granny, and must be brought up her way.” #RandolphHarris 13 of 21

Pedwar then becomes Fan’s very own boy, and he may or may not be brought up the same as Cal, Hal, and Val. Fan can use her own autonomy with him, and he may grow up to me freer and more autonomous than the others. Fan may treat him as she did her Raggedy Ann doll. Raggedy Ann was her own very special doll to love as she pleased when she was little, while her other dollars had to be cared for Granny’s way. In other words, Raggedy Ann may have prepared a “script slot” for Pedwar which Fan could fill after she had done her duty by Granny. (b) is similar to (a) expect that Granny has more hold over Pedwar than under plan (a) because he may be considered an extra bonus granted by Granny, rather than a free choice. Under (c) Pedwar is in trouble because Fan has disobeyed Granny in having him; he must therefore be raised as an “unwanted” child, defiantly, uneasily, or guiltily. In such a case, if our working principle is correct, the people around him will remark again and again how different he is from his three older brothers. The next item to consider is the games parents play about the size of their families. For example, Ginnie was the oldest of eleven children, and her mother, Nanny, complained that the last five were unwanted. The naïve assumption would be that Ginnie would be programmed to have six children, but that was not so. She was programmed to have elven children and complain that the last give were unwanted. #RandolphHarris 14 of 21

In that way she would be able to play “There I Go Again,” “harried,” and “Frigid Woman” in her later years, just as her mother did. In fact, this example can be used as a test of psychological sophistication. Given the question: “A woman had eleven children and complained that give of them were unwanted. How many children will her oldest daughter most probably have?” the script analyst would answer “Eleven.” People who answer “Six” will have difficulty in understanding and predicting human reactions, since this answer assumes that important behaviour, like trivial behaviour, is “rationally” motivated, which is not so. It is usually decided by the Parental directives of the script. In investigating this aspect, the parents of the patient are asked, first, how many brothers and sisters they each have; second, how many children they want to have; and third (since as any obstetrician knows, there is many a slip ‘twist the cup and the lip), how many they actually expect to have. If the parents understand how to distinguish correctly between their ego states, a great deal more information can be gained by asking the second and third question in structural form: “How many children does your (Parent, Adult, Child) (want, expect) to have?” This may bring out otherwise hidden conflicts among the three ego states, and between the two parents, which have an important bearing on the script directives they are giving the patient. #RandolphHarris 15 of 21

An even more sophisticated version of this, with corresponding increase in information gained (providing the parents are properly educated to understand the question), is to ask it in a twelve-barreled instead of a six-barreled form: “How many children does your (nurturing, controlling) Parent, Adult and (natural, adapted, rebellious) Child (want, expect) to have?” With the patient himself, the most profitable question to ask, since it is the one he is most likely to have the answer to, is: “What is your position in the family?” followed by “When were you born?” The exact birthdays of the next older and the next younger must be obtained so that the differences can be calculated in months, if the children came close together. If the speaker comes into a World which is already occupied by a sister or a brother, it will make a considerable difference in his script decisions whether that sibling is older by eleven months, thirty-six months, elven years, or twenty years. This difference will depend not only on his relationship with that sibling, but also on his parents’ attitude toward that particular spacing of children. The same two consideration apply concerning the next born: it is important to know the speaker’s exact age—for example, eleven months, nineteen months, five years, or sixteen years, at the time the next child arrived on the scene. In general, all siblings born before the speaker reaches his seventh birthday will have a decisive influence on his script, and one of the important factors is the number of months’ difference in age between them, since as noted above, this will affect not only his own attitude but that of his parents as well. If the speaker is a twin, or came before or after twins, notable variations occur. #RandolphHarris 16 of 21

In some cases, where the patient is interested in astrology, meteorology, or hagiology, the exact date of his own birth will have a strong script significance. If his parents had a similar interest in the calendar, this is especially important. A person’s experience of the World is invisible to others. All that anyone can perceive directly of another person is action, body, and speech. The gulf between one consciousness and another cannot be crossed, except through acts of intuition, empathy, and imagination and through communication with shared understandings. If the other person experiences the World in more dimensions, in greater depth, and with more breadth of vision than oneself, one cannot even imagine what that experience might be, because one can imagine only within limits set by one’s own experience. How, then, can a person recognize when he or she is in the presence of a teacher? One answer lies in surprise and unpredictability. If the other person presents ideas that come as a surprise to the listener; if the other person’s actions are of surprising skill and grace; of if he or she achieves truly lofty, noble objectives that seem unthinkable to the average person; the possibility arises that the other person is an enlarged consciousness. Boris Spassky, the Russian chess master, may have had a moment of suspicious that Bobby Fischer was a larger awareness, when he finally yielded the championship to him. #RandolphHarris 17 of 21

A second key lies in authenticity. There must be come clear evidence of this attribute; one indicator, as discussed earlier, is that the teacher always permits the follower to be psychologically and physically free to leave immediately. Instances of mind control by various colorful, seductive cult leaders require the immediate freedom test. A person with a larger awareness faces a problem in communicating with those of lesser awareness. Indeed, we cannot help but realize that all training schemes, even those devised by “behaviour modification” experts, are ways to alter and enlarge consciousness. Enlarged consciousness is infectious. Thus, dictators of authoritarian nations and cult leaders seek to censor writers and artists, to avoid having their awareness of tyranny and control transmitted to the masses, who then would be less manipulable. Awareness is power, the power to affect others for their betterment or to their detriment. Perhaps this is why, in all the mystical and religious traditions, the “mysteries and secrets” are never revealed to novices until they have proven to their elders that they will employ the knowledge that is revealed to them for the good of humanity, not to exploit this knowledge. Young people must undergo tests of their maturity and virtue before they are initiated into the knowledge and responsibilities of adulthood. Fathers and mothers and children, wherever you are, I want you to know that I know we have a Father in Heaven, and I want you to know that His Son Jesus is the Christ; and I want you to know what I know He established His kingdom on the Earth for our blessing and for our benefit. If we will follow His teachings, I testify that there is a prophet on the Earth, and we will be happy. #Randolphharris 18 of 21

The Sacramento Fire Department provides an all-hazards approach in the protection of the lives and property of the residents, businesses, and visitors of Sacramento, California. The men and women of the Sacramento Fire Department are committed to delivering best in class service to its community. “We recently had a fire in an old rooming house, which had been abandoned by the owners and had turned into an urban campground for transients. They would literally set up camp in this place, cooking on the floors and whatnot. It was a three-story frame building with some thirty rooms in it. It was just a maze. Several guys went inside, and they found it funny. But they rescued some of the transients, and it was a rescue. We’re a very professional and very strong department. We had a whole generation of people who joined the fire department right after the war in Afghanistan and were retiring in this decade. So our current members are quite young, with a lot of young officers. There have been some major changes. We are now wearing masks routinely. We did a training program recently in a rural area. We were setting up a practice fire for rookies in a shed outside the farmhouse, and when we went into the shed, we found the remnants of all kinds of hazardous chemicals and pesticides. The stuff is everywhere. So we are much more conscious about breathing apparatus, and we have become much more concerned about personal safety. #RandolphHarris 19 of 21

“I have never seen people back away from a situation where there is a life at risk. But I have seen fires in the last few years that might have been fought offensively in the old days—in large buildings, or buildings which are unsafe, or where a large body of fire is involved. Today we are doing more defensive stuff. And I think that’s healthy. When you fight a fire offensively, you will up, throw on a mask, take a nozzle into the building, and you don’t open up the nozzle until you’re right on top of the fire. So you’re in a building that can collapse at any moment, and if there are bad calls on strategy, you run the risk of the fire pushing at you. On the other hand, when you fight a fire defensively, you don’t place your personnel in dangerous situations but fight it from outside. As they say, surround and drown. Or, in other words, break out the hot dogs and marshmallows.” The Sacramento Fire Department provides prompt, quality services to their stakeholders that promote safety and well-being, enhance sustainability, and enrich the quality of life through professional development and dedication to service. The Sacramento Fire Department strives for excellence in emergency preparedness and response to enhance their customer-focused, innovative role as industry leaders while overcoming expanding risks. Their core values are innovation, inclusivity, dedication, courageousness, excellence, ethicality, professionalism, and transparency. You can help save lives by making a donation to the Sacramento Fire Department. #RandolphHarris 20 of 21

In an effort to keep the country cohesive, please raise your children to love America, to be patriotic, to love God and Jesus Christ and buy American cars and other American goods and services. As along, respect law and order, and treat others with kindness and respect. And to ensure you have a bright future, please take your education seriously. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all. O beautiful for spacious skies, for amber waves of grain, for purple mountains majesties above the fruited plain! America! America! God shed His grace on three, and crown thy good with brotherhood from sea to shining sea! O beautiful for pilgrim feet, whose stern, impassioned stress, a thoroughfare for freedom beat across the wilderness! America! America! God mend thine every flow, confirm thy soul in self-control, Thy liberty in law! O beautiful for patriot dream that sees beyond the years, Thine alabaster cities gleam, undimmed by human tears! America! America! God shed His grace on thee, and crown thy good with brotherhood from sea to shining sea! God never gave us express allowance, only He gave us reason, charity, nature and good example to bear us out. #RandolphHarris 21 of 21

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It is Not Something We Like to Talk About

Something caught my eye. Ahead of me, and so still I had not noticed, someone else was in the Grand Ballroom. A figure in white. A cold breeze touched my spine. It was a girl, dark hair loose around her shoulders. Cautiously I moved toward her. I was afraid that any noise would make her disappear. As I drew closer, I heard her soft, melancholic humming, a tune I had heard once before, although I could not remember when. A simple cadence, like that of a nursery rhyme, and somehow haunting. A few feet away, and the hair, the narrow shoulders, were familiar. Close enough to touch. The tune stopped. The woman seemed about thirty years old, had fair skin and hair, a trim figure, and was rather attractive. Her dress indicated good taste and a degree of wealth. It was in high fashion. The young woman then stood there looking at me, and vice versa. She seemed animated enough, but made no sound. Despite this, I had the distinct impression that the ghost wanted me to know something specific. The encounter lasted for ten or fifteen minutes, then the figure slowly disintegrated. The experience left me frightened and worried. In the following weeks, I felt an unseen presence all about the house, without, however seeing my mysterious visitor again. It seemed the woman was watching me as I worked. #RandolphHarris 1 of 8

I had no idea who the ghost might be. Could the ghost have some connection with the land itself, or perhaps with some of the antiques I treasured? About two weeks after the initial experience, I was studying in the library, which was located at the far eastern end of the house. Then I heard a loud noise reverberating throughout the house. It made me freeze with fright in the chair, when my niece Daisy ran into the library to ask what the noise had been. Upon investigation, I noticed a broken string on an antique zither hanging on the dining room wall. It was unlikely that the strong could have broken by itself, and if it had, how could it have reverberated so strongly? A few weeks went by, and the ghost’s presence persisted. By now, I had the distinct impression that the ghost was annoyed at being ignored. Suddenly, a crystal chandelier fell to the floor and shattered and a gas jet ignited. Sometime had passed. I began to hear footsteps upstairs, when there was no one about, and the sound of a marble being rolled across the hall. When the manifestations persisted, I would walk up to the foot of the stairs and ask, “Why do you not just come out and show yourself or say something instead of making all of those noises?” As if in answer, an upstairs door slammed shut and then there was utter silence. #RandolphHarris 2 of 8

After a moment’s hesitation, I dashed upstairs and made a complete search. There was no one about and the marble, which seemingly hard rolled across the floor, was nowhere to be seen. When Christmas rolled around, Diasy, Bretha Haas and myself had a séance. We joined hands and sat quietly in front of the fire place. Nothing happened for a while. Then Daisy, who had read some books on psychic phenomena, suggested that we needed a guide or control from the other side of life to help us, but no one had any suggestions. I decided to call William. As Daisy and Bertha were staring into the fireplace, I followed the direction of their eyes and saw what appeared to be some kind of light similar to that made a star in the night’s sky. It stayed on for a short time and then disappeared altogether. From that day on, I started to find curious objects around the house that had not been there a moment before. They were diamonds, emeralds, and sapphires. I collected them and put them in the safe. Several weeks later, Daisy inquired as to who the company was the previous evening. I informed her that there had been no quest at the house, but she insisted that a lady had entered her bedroom, sat on her bed and looked at her, and then departed. #RandolphHarris 3 of 8

 In order to calm her, I told her that she had probably dreamt the whole thing. However, Daisy insisted that she had not, and furthermore, she described the visitor in every detail. Appalled, I realized that Daisy had seen the same ghostly woman. Apparently, the ghost felt greater urgency to communicate now, for a few days later, after going to bed, the apparition returned to my bedroom. This time she wore a different dress than on first meeting, but it was still very fashionable. She was wiping her hands on an apron, stayed only for a little whole, and then slowly disintegrated again. The room seemed to be permeated with something terrible evil. I could neither see nor hear anything, but I had a feeling that there was a presence there and that it was very strong and about to overcome me. As I looked out into the hall, I saw on the wall a little red object resembling a human eye, and directly below it what seemed like half a mouth. Looking closer, I discerned two red eyes and a white mouth below. The vision remained on the wall for two or three minutes, and then vanished completely. I felt ghosts wandering about in my room, I actually heard one of them crying pitifully for two hours. Obviously, the distraught ghost wanted attention, and was determined to get it at all costs. #RandolphHarris 4 of 8

The next morning, the housemaid explained that she could not draw me a bath for the bathroom door was locked. Since the door can be locked only from the inside, and since this bathroom was attached to my chamber, I assumed that my ghost lady was at it again. When the bathroom door remained lock for an hour and my needs became more urgent, I went to the door and demanded in a stern tone of voice that the ghost open the door. There was anger in my voice and it brought quick results. Clearly the click of a lock being turned was heard inside the bathroom and, after a moment, I opened the bathroom door easily. There was no one inside the bathroom, of course. Who, then, had turned the lock—they only way the door could be opened? For a while, things went smoothly. A few weeks later, I felt ghost near me. I clearly heard the door-to-nowhere fly open and slam shut by itself, as if someone in great anger was trying to call attention to my presence. Immediately, I locked the door, and made sure there was no draft from any window. An instant later, it flew open again by itself. Now I attached the chain to the latch—but it did not seem to stop the ghost from fooling around with the door. With enormous force, it flew open again as far as the chain allowed, as if someone were straining at it. I glimpsed many horrors of awesome magnitude. The dead were reincarnated with dignified ceremonies. An enormous army connected with the fathomless darkness and horrible bygone struggles dominated my home. #RandolphHarris 5 of 8

There came a fateful night. Worn out with emotion, irresolution and despondency, I had retired early and fallen into such sleep as was still possible to me. In the middle of the night—something malign power bent upon the wrecking of my peace forever—caused me to open my eyes and sit up, wide awake and listening intently for I knew not what. At that moment came in through the open window a long, wailing sound like the cry of a lost child in the far deeps of the darkening wood! I climbed out of bed to see what the noise was. However, as I was walking toward the window, my legs felt awkward, as though the knee joints had loosened, my stride having no rhythm, no coordination. I staggered, each step jolting my body, my lungs seeming to jar against my rib cage. Gazing towards the window, the stark blueness of the sky dazzled me as hands grabbed my chest, a figure blocking my way. I would have collapsed had not those same hands steadied me. I blinked to clear the mist over my vision (caused by the sudden brightness, or fear’s teardrops?). Again, and nearer than before, sounded that unearthly cry upon my failing sense. Perhaps there was a wild beast in the house; perhaps it was a dream. For I was asleep. #RandolphHarris 6 of 8

Some hours later, as it afterward appeared, I awoke and lifting my head from my arms intently listened—I knew not why. There in the black darkness, recalling all without a shock, I strained my eyes to see—I knew not what. My senses were all alert, my breath was suspended, my blood had stilled its tides as if to assist the silence. Who—what had wakened me, and where was it? Suddenly, the bed shook, and at the same moment I heard, or fancied that I heard, a light, soft step—sounds as of bare feet upon the flood. I was terrified beyond the power to cry out or move. Perforce I waited—waited there in darkness through seeming centuries of such dread as one may know, yet live to tell. I tried vainly to speak the name of my beloved husband, namely to stretch forth my hand to learn is he was there. My throat was powerless, my arms and hands were like lead. Then occurred something most frightful. Some heavy body seemed to hurl against the wall, and at the same moment I heard and felt the fall of something upon the floor with so violent a thump that the whole house was shaken by the impact. This is the point at which terror turned to madness. By illumination from the moonlight, I vividly witnessed a ghoul dragging a dead woman toward the window. His claw fixed around her throat! #RandolphHarris 7 of 8

There was a blackness darker than before, and silence; and when I returned to consciousness the sun was high and the wood vocal with songs of birds. The body lay near the window, where the ghoul had left it when it was apparently frighted away. The clothing was deranged, the long hair in disorder, the limbs lay anyhow. From the throat, dreadfully lacerated, had issued a pool of blood not yet entirely coagulated. The ribbon with which it had bound the wrists were broken; the hands tightly clenched. Between the teeth was a fragment of the ghoul’s black cloak. Evil signs that occult entities were growing strong and numerous in the inner walls continued to manifest. There were sporadic irruptions of particularly hideous character in certain remote locations of the mansion—places where the paths had not been properly sealed or guarded. After that, greater precautions were taken, and many of the paths were closed for ever—though a few were left with sealed trap-doors for strategic use if the darkness ever broke forth in unexpected places; fresh rifts caused by the supernatural forces. Many séances had clearly foretold of the horror, and had resolved that none could escape it. The foray of vengeance by the monstrous entities to reoccupy the physical World was wakening. And always the shadow of nameless fear hung about Llanada Villa. I now have only two hundred acres, but when I bought the property, it was part of seven hundred and forty acres, and a hundred years ago it was about two thousand acres. #RandolphHarris 8 of 8

The Winchester Mystery House

People all over the World have moved into houses that seemed ordinary and pleasant, and spent years without ever encountering anything out of the ordinary. Then, one day, something happens to disturb their tranquility: a ghost appears, strange noises are heard, and a psychic presence makes itself known. Why is it that phenomena sometimes occur at times long after someone moves into an affected house? Of course, there are just as many cases where the ominous presence is felt they very moment one steps across the threshold. However, in cases where ghost make their presence manifest long after the new tenants have moved in, certain conditions have not been right for such manifestations to take place at the beginning. For instance, it may involve the presence of youngsters in the household who furnish energy for ghosts to appear. Or it may be that the shadowy entities remaining behind in the house are dimply aware of the new tenants, but wish to find out more about them before manifesting to them. Either way, once manifestations begin, the owner of the house has the choice of either ignoring them, fighting them—or coming to terms with them.

In the majority of cases, unfortunately, people simply think that by ignoring the phenomena or trying hard to explain them by so-called natural causes, the matter can be solved. Ignoring problems never helps, in any area of life. When it comes to psychic phenomena, the phenomena may become worse, because even the most benighted ghost, barely aware of its predicament, will become more powerful, more restless, by being ignored. Along with the mansion, there once existed several other houses on the Winchester Estate, along with gazebos. However, as acres of land were sold off, and the City of San Jose required the gates to be moved back by twenty feet, some other structures had to be demolished. Today, Mrs. Winchester’s beautiful mansion rests on four acres of land. As the group of friends roam the mansion’s halls, they come face-to-face with somebody who warns them: “Run! You have to escape before it’s too late!” But little do they know, the owner is a vampire who has been secretly gathering a collection of otherworldly creatures. Now those creatures have broken free and are after us all!

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The Overreaching of a Bridge too Far

Life, as we find it, is too hard for many of us; it brings too many pains, disappointment and impossible tasks. Many people of today are most culpable to not think it worth while to take the trouble to sympathize with their own kinsfolk and give to the hard-working son of the national family what was his by the iron logic of justice, while at the same time placing his seducer and corrupter against the way. However, there is of no better way to bring about harmony in the home, in the neighbourhood, in organizations, peace in our country, and in the World than for every man and woman first to eliminate from his or her heart the enemies of harmony and peace such as hatred, selfishness, greed, animosity, and envy. Selfishness so often is the basis of money problems, which are a very serious and real factor affecting the stability of family life. Selfishness is at the root of adultery, the breaking of solemn and sacred covenants to satisfy selfish lust. Selfishness is the antithesis of love. It is a cankering expression of greed. It destroys self-discipline. It obliterates loyalty. It tears up sacred covenants. It afflicts both men and women. Thus, selfishness denies the individual worth of the human personality, impugns the teaching the nation greed and envy have a primary significance. By adopting these unsavory traits, it takes away the very foundations of human existence and human civilization. #RandolphHarris 1 of 19

If the doctrines of greed and envy were to be accepted as the foundation of the life of the Universe, it would lead to the disappearance of all order that is conceivable to the human mind. And thus, the adoption of such a law would provoke chaos in the structure of the greatest organism that we know, with the result that the inhabitants of this early planet would finally disappear. Should people who adopt the doctrines of green and selfishness triumph over the people of this World, his Crown will be the funeral wreath of mankind, and this planet will once again follow its orbit through ether, without any harm life on its surface, as it did millions of years ago. In our failures, there is usually disguised selfishness, the overreaching for a “bridge too far.” Whether in financial or civic ruin or in infidelity and divorce, proud selfishness is usually there. Lack of intellectual humility is there among those who have deliberately cultivated their doubts in order, they think, to release themselves from their covenants. Some nurture their grievances assiduously. Were their grievances, instead, Alam’s seed of faith, they would have long ago nourished a mighty tree of testimony. Selfishness is really self-destruction in slow motion. No wonder Prophet Joseph Smith urged, “Let every selfish feeling be not only buried, but annihilated.” #RandolphHarris 2 of 19

Surging selfishness, for example, has shrunken some people into dungeons; they seek to erase their emptiness by sensations. However, in the arithmetic of appetite, anything multiplied by zero still totals zero! Each spasm of selfishness narrows one’s Universe that much more by reducing his awareness of or concern with others. In spite of its outward, Worldly swagger, such indulgent individualism is actually provincial, like goldfish in a bowl congratulating themselves on their self-sufficiency, never mind the food pellets or changes of water. Inherent limitations may cause a premature termination of self-analysis in another way as well. The person may arrive at a kind of pseudo solution by arranging his life to fit in with his remaining neurosis. Life itself may be instrumental in bringing about such solutions. He may be thrown into a situation that provides an outlet for a craving for power, or permits a life of obscurity and subordination in which he need not assert himself. He may seize the possibility of a marriage to solve his urge for dependency. Or he may more or less consciously decide that his difficulties in human relationships—some of which he has recognized and understood—are too great a drain on his energies, and that the only way to live a peaceful life or to save his creative abilities is to withdraw from others; he may then restrict to a minimum his need for people or for material things, and under these conditions be able to work out a tolerable existence. #RandolphHarris 3 of 19

These solutions are not ideal, to be sure, but a psychic equilibrium may be reached on a better level than before. And in some circumstances of very severe entanglements such pseudo solutions may be the most that can be attained. In principle these limits to constructive work are present in professional analysis as well as in self-analysis. In fact, if the deterring forces are strong enough, as was mentioned before, the idea of analysis will be rejected altogether. And even if it is not rejected—if the person suffers so much under the pressure of his disabilities that he undertakes analytical treatment—the analyst is no sorcerer who can conure up forces that are entirely choked. There is no doubt, however that by and large the limitations are considerably greater for self-analysis. In many instances, an analyst can liberate constructive forces by showing the patient concrete problems accessible to a solution, whereas if the patient were working alone, and felt blindly caught in invisible and apparently inextricable entanglements, he could not possibly pick up enough courage to grapple with his problems. Moreover, the relative strength of the various psychic forces within the patient may change during treatment, because none of these forces is quantity given once and for all. #RandolphHarris 4 of 19

Every step that leads him closer to his real self and closer to others renders him less hopeless and less isolated and thereby adds to his active interest in life, including also his interest in his own development. Therefore, if necessary, after a period of common work with an analyst even patients who started with severe neurotic difficulties may in some cases be able to continue on their own. Though on the whole the comparison with professional analysis is in favour of the latter whenever intricate and diffuse entanglements are concerned, there are certain reservations that should be borne in mind. It is not entirely fair to compare self-analysis, and its unavoidable deficiencies, with an ideal analytical treatment. I know several people who were barely touched by treatment but afterward grappled successfully on their own with rather serious problems. We should be cautious both ways, and neither underrate nor overrate what can be done without expert help. If he has already had some analytical treatment, and if conditions are favourable, I believe that he can continue alone with the hope of achieving far-reaching results. The example of Clare—and also other cases not presented here—shows clearly that it is possible, with previous experience, to deal alone with even severe and intricate problems. #RandolphHarris 5 of 19

It appears a reasonable hope that both analysts and patients will become more aware of this possibility, and that more attempts of this kind will be made. It may be hoped, too, that analysts will gradually assemble criteria that will enable them to judge when they can reasonably encourage the patient to continue his work independently. In this context there is a consideration I should like to emphasize, though it does not refer directly to self-analysis. If the analyst does not assume an authoritative attitude toward the patient, but makes it clear from the beginning that the enterprise is a co-operative one in which both analyst and patient work actively toward the same goal, the patient will be able to develop his own recourses in a much higher degree. He will lose the paralyzing feeling that he is more or less helpless and that the analyst must carry the sole responsibility, and will learn to respond with initiative and resourcefulness. Broadly speaking, psychoanalytic treatment has developed from a situation in which both patient and analyst are relatively passive to one in which the analyst is more active, and finally to one in which both participants take an active role. Where the latter spirit prevails, more can be accomplished in a shorter time. However, there is no doubt in my mind that severe neuroses belong in the hands of experts: anyone who suffers from severe disturbances should consult an expert before embarking upon self-analysis. #RandolphHarris 6 of 19

However, in considering the possibility of self-analysis, it is a mistake to think primarily in terms of sever neuroses. Beyond doubt they are far outnumbered by the milder neuroses and the various neurotic troubles caused primarily by the difficulties if a particular situation. Persons suffering from these milder disturbances should consult an expert before embarking upon self-analysis. However, in considering the possibility of self-analysis it is a mistake to think primarily in terms of severe neuroses. Beyond doubt they are far outnumbered by the milder neuroses and the various neurotic troubles caused primarily by the difficulties of a particular situation. Persons suffering from these milder disturbances rarely come to the attention of analysts, but their difficulties should not be taken lightly. Their troubles not only cause suffering and handicaps but also result in a waste of valuable energies, for the person is prevented from developing to the best of his human capacities. With regard to these difficulties experienced, I believe there is hope. If any experience with analytical treatment, in several instances, persons had little. To be sure, they did not go far enough in their endeavours at self-examination. #RandolphHarris 7 of 19

However, there seems no good reason not to believe that with a more widespread general knowledge of the nature of neurotic troubles and the ways of tackling them attempts of this kind can be carried further—always provided the severity of the neurosis is not prohibitive. The structure of personality is so much less rigid in milder neurotic entanglements than in severe ones that even attempts that are not carried very far may help considerably. In sever neurosis it is often necessary to do a great deal of analytical work before any liberating effect is achieved. In milder disturbances, even a single uncovering of an unconscious conflict may be the turning point toward a freer development. However, even if we grant that a considerable number of people can profitably analyze themselves, will they ever complete the work? Will there not always be problems left that are not solved or not even touched upon? There is n such thing as a complete analysis, and this answer is not given in a spirit of resignation. Certainly, the greater the degree of transparency and the more freedom we can attain, the better for us. However, the idea of a finished human product not only appears presumptuous but even lacks any strong appeal. Life is struggle and striving, development and growth—and analysis is one of the means that can help in this process. Certainly, its positive accomplishments are important, but also the striving itself is of intrinsic value. As Goethe has said in Faust: Who’er aspires unweariedly, is not beyond redeeming. #RandolphHarris 8 of 19

It is difficult to know to what extent a man born in 1900 can convey his experience to people born after 1914, or after 1929, or after 1945. I selected these dates, of course, intentionally. Anyone who was, like myself, at least fourteen years of age when the First World War broke out, still experience part of the solid, secure World of the nineteenth century. To be sure, if he was born as the son of a middle-class family with all necessities and quite a few luxuries provided, he experienced a much more comfortable aspect of this prewar period than if he had been born into a poor family. Yet even for the majority of the population, and especially for the working class, the end of the last and the beginning of the present century were a tremendous improvement over the conditions of existence even fifty year earlier, and they were filled with hope for a better future. It is difficult for the generations born after 1914 to appreciate to what extent his war shattered the foundations of Western civilization. This war broke out against the will of everybody, yet with the connivance of most participants or, rather, of special interest groups in each country which exercised sufficient pressure to make war possible. #RandolphHarris 9 of 19

By and large, Europeans, after almost one hundred years without major and catastrophic wars, and almost fifty years after the German-French war, were prone to think that “it cannot happen.” The powerful Socialist International seemed to be resolved to prevent war. The antiwar and pacifist movement was a potent force. However, even the governments, whether that of the Czar, of the Kaiser, or of France and England, seemed to be resolved to avoid war. Yet it did happen. Reason and decency seemed suddenly to have left Europe. The same socialist leaders who only months before had pledged themselves to international solidarity, now hurled at each other the vilest nationalistic epithets. The nations that had known and admired each other, suddenly broke out in a mad paroxysm of hate. The British became cowardly mercenaries to the Germans; the Germans became vile Huns to their enemies; the music of Bach and Mozart became tainted; French words in the German language were ostracized. Not only that, but the moral rule against the killing of civilians was broken. Both sides bombed helpless cities and killed woman and children; it was mainly the lack of development in aviation that restricted the scope and intensity of these raids. However, the fate of the soldiers was equally in contrast to all demands of humanity. #RandolphHarris 10 of 19

Millions on both sides were forced to attack the enemy trenches and were killed in the process, although it should have been clear that such tactics had become futile. However, perhaps worst of all, the slaughter was based on a life. The Germans were persuaded that they were fighting for freedom, and so were their Western enemies. When the chops were down, especially when, after 1916, a possibility for peace arose, both sides refused to settle because both insisted on gaining the territories for which the war was really being fought—regardless of the cost. At one-point millions of men recognized the great deception. They rebelled against those who forced them to continue the slaughter, in Russia and Germany successfully, in France sporadically, by means of mutinies which were severely punished by the generals. What had happened? The belief in continuing progress and peace had been shattered, moral principles which had seemed secure were violated. The unthinkable had happened. Yet hope had not disappeared. After the first step in brutalization, hope arose again in the minds of men. It is important to understand this because nothing is more characteristic of Western history than the principles of hope which had governed it for two thousand years. They chatted about the “revival” of the German naval power, protested against the plunder of our colonies, and recommended taking them back. #RandolphHarris 11 of 19

In the same way, our American pacifists will ignore the bloody rape upon the nation, no matter how bloody, even if it is carried out by the evilest military forces, if the only way to avert this fate is by resistance and force. To further highlight this illustration, although Denver’s suburbs do not share its sanctuary city policies, the influx of migrants into the Mile High City has spilled outward. Now, its neighbours are facing an unprecedented wave of activity from a notorious Venezuelan prison gang. Officials from Aurora, about nine miles east of Denver reported that the Tren de Aragua gang has gained a strong foothold in their city, commandeering apartment complexes and drumming up violent crime and sex trafficking. “We currently have entire complexes under gang control—complexes where staff have been beaten up, they’ve been threatened, their families have been threatened [and] complexes where there are no staff left on the property,” Aurora City Council Member Danielle Jurinsky said. “These complexes are being run by this Tren de Aragua gang. They start brokering apartments themselves when someone leaves out of fear or whatever. They go in and take pictures of the apartment themselves. Then, I’ve been told, within hours, a Venezuelan family moves in. Part of the city are absolutely under this gang control. The local media is downplaying this. I believe politics is being played with people’s lives. Nothing is being done to help the American citizens that are trapped under this gang’s control.” #RandolphHarris 12 of 19

Calls for emergency services have been on the rise. “The number of emails coming in to me for help from residents and business owners, the volume is much higher. The allegations being made [about again activity] are types of crime that I’ve not heard of on a regular basis in our city,” report Danielle Jurinsky. California is home to more than 11 million illegal immigrants. That is nearly 25 percent of its population. Many people want them gone because they believe that rents would decrease, so would traffic, more jobs would become available, and crime rates would go down. If the current course of things continues, the cities will become rickety. The collapse is inevitable. There is no bond of common blood but only that of one ruling hand. Should the ruling hand show signs of weakness in such a State the result will not be to cause a kind of hibernation of the State but rather to awaken the individualist instincts which are slumbering in the ethnological groups. These instincts do not make themselves felt as long as these groups are dominated by a strong central will-to-govern. The danger which exists in these slumbering separatist instincts can be rendered more or less innocuous only through centuries of common education, common traditions, and common interest. The younger the States are, the more their existence will depend on the ability and strength of the central government. If their foundation was due only to the work of a strong personality or a leader who is a man of genius, in many cases they will break up as soon as the founder disappears; because, though great, he stood alone. #RandolphHarris 13 of 19

However, even after centuries of a common education and experiences these separatist instincts I have spleen of are not always completely overcome. They may be only dormant and may suddenly awaken when the central government shows weakness and the force of a common education as well as the prestige of a common tradition prove unable to withstand the vital energies of separatist nationalities forging ahead toward the shaping of their own individual existence. The failure to see the truth of all this constitutes a tragic crime. Yet, the spirit of the Lord can, and often does, reach even those who have lost their way. Jesus Christ wants every person to come to Him and find comfort in His loving arms. “Remember, the worth of souls is great in the sight of God,” reports Doctrine and Covenants 18.10. So much of my life cannot be told, and so much that I can tell is hardly worth saying. There is so much that I have learned not to say because to other people it has seemed bizarre. They became afraid and tried to hide their feat behind a firm manner and confident telling me what to do. If they had spoken their fear, we could have talked about it and my fear too. In hiding it, they gave me something else to be packed away with the things that are not to be mentioned. I try in many ways to say something about what goes on in me, but no matter which way I say it, it is wrong. #RandolphHarris 14 of 19

I wish that someone would ask a question, express a wish to know. Then I might be able to begin to let out of me what is held so tight inside. Kurt Goldstein described a condition among brain damaged patients that he called the “catastrophic reaction.” Treating German soldiers during World War I who suffered gunshot and shrapnel wounds in the brain, he noted that such patients, after some time for recovery, were able to function reasonably well if their World was kept tidy and unchanging, and if their time was ordered in rigidly scheduled ways. For example, they needed to know where their clothes were located and when to expect meals. If some sudden alteration was introduced in the way their time and space was arranged, they would not welcome it as a respite from boredom; rather, it was experienced more as a disaster, a catastrophe with which they could not cope. They would become furious, panicky, and might even faint. This reaction to the unexpected is but an exaggeration of similar reaction that occurs in average people. We are all socialized so that we acquire a set of assumptions about the World that enables us to live in our customary lives. If something new, different, and unexpected enters our World, we may react with panic or with violence. It is as if the unexpected reality that has just been experienced calls upon inadequate capacities to respond. #RandolphHarris 15 of 19

Accordingly, we may try to deny that anything new has appeared, saying, “Why it is nothing but something old, in new clothes”; or we may try to destroy that which is new or different. Many young men who were among the first to appear with long hair in America experienced varying degrees of violence from people who felt that men were supposed to have short hair. If a man experiences tender, or even sexual, feelings for another man, he may undergo panic, even though he does not express the feeling. For healthy personalities, the experience of the unexpected serves as an occasion for new learning and growth. To be surprised, or to encounter something that challenges one’s assumptions about oneself and the World functions for healthy personalities as a motive for reality testing, as well as an opportunity for the enlargement of one’s awareness of the World. The most important factor here is the parent’s scripts. Does Jeder fit in, or is he the wrong gender, or badly timed? Does his father’s script call for a scholar, and he turns out to be, instead, a football play? Or vice versa? Does his mother’s script go along with his father’s, or is it opposite in this respect? There are also traditions that he will hear about from fairy tales and real life. #RandolphHarris 16 of 19

The youngest of three sons is supposed to act stupid until the showdown comes, and then he wins over his brothers. If he happens to be the seventh son of a seventh son, he is almost compelled to be a prophet. More particularly, the parents’ scripts may call for them to be glorified or punished by one of their children, who must therefore turn out to be either a colossal success or a colossal failure. Often the first-born son is chosen for honour. If the mother’s script calls for her to be a spouseless invalid in her declining years, then one of the children must be raised from birth to stay and care for her, while the others must be taught to wander off and fill the role of ingrates. If the forty-year-old bachelor son or spinster daughter decides to break the script by moving out of the house, or worse, by getting married, the mother will respond understandably and pitiably, by having severe attacks of illness. The scripty nature of such setups is demonstrated by the frequent switch whereby mother “unexpectedly” wills the bulk of her money to the ingrates, cutting off the devoted one with a pittance. The aspirant who seeks to live spiritually in the World should marry for something more than physical enjoyment and comfort, more even than intellectual and social companionship. He must find a woman whose inner being is polarized to the same ideals as his own, who will walk by his side through every vicissitude as a fellow-pilgrim and a wholehearted seeker. #RandolphHarris 17 of 19

The Sacramento Fire Department protects the lives and property of the people of Sacramento from fires, natural and human-caused disasters, and hazardous materials incidents; they save lives by providing emergency medical services; thwart fires through prevention and education programs; provide defense against terrorist attacks; and provide a work environment that values cultural diversity and is free of harassment and discrimination. “When I first came out of fire school, I was a firefighter. I worked in an engine company, then a truck company, both very busy. When I made captain, I did snorkel. When the spot came in the rescue unit opened up, the chief of the fire department called me at home and asked me if I wanted to go there. I said, ‘Well, yeah.’ He said, ‘Be there tomorrow.’ Our rescue unit would go on second alarms citywide, every major fire and every heavy rescue in automobile accidents and industrial accidents. When we got there, the chiefs relied on us. We had the big stuff, they heavy tools. Looking back on it, we were always in a dangerous position. You were on the roof, the weakest spot. The truck companies would say, ‘We’re not going to open it, it doesn’t look too good.’ We ere like, ‘We can do it.’ And we’d be up there on the roof, and we’d get it open. Inside, when there were people in there, we’d be in there crawling around. #RandolphHarris 18 of 19

“The tools that we carried, over and above what a truck company would have, made us specialist. We would have a net for people who wanted to jump out. The city had a high-rise team, and we were involved with the planning of that. We had rappelling gear. The guys were in shape and a little more daring. To stay in shape I played racquetball, did a lot of bicycling. And after I got married, we bought an old house, and after work I would work another eight or nine hours on the house. I put in a cathedral ceiling, and people say, ‘How the (expletive) did you do it?’ I got the strength from doing that type of work.” The Sacramento Fire Department improves the quality of life in the City of Sacramento by providing fire protection, emergency response services, fire prevention, and activities with the public educational department. Their goal is to protect all citizens, their property and the environment. Promoting safety, preventing fires and saving lives is a priority. You can help the Sacramento Fire Department save lives in a courteous, professional manner by donating to them. In order to keep our community safe, remember to raise your children to love America, to be patriotic, to love God and Jesus Christ, to buy American made cars and other goods and services; to respect law and order and treat others with kindness and dignity. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. God of Might, God of Right, Thee we give all glory; Thine all praise in these days as in ages hoary, when we hear, year by year freedom’s wondrous story. Now as erst, when Thou first made’st the proclamation, warning loud every proud, every tyrant nation, we, Thy fame still proclaim, bend in adoration. #RandolphHarris 19 of 19

The Winchester Mystery House

Paranormal investigators have recorded disembodies voices and witnessed strange shadows following them through The Winchester Mystery House. The enormous 19th century mansion once was nine stories tall, and had 600 rooms, but the 1906 earthquake demolished the nine-story observation tower, and took much of the 4th floor with it. However, 160 rooms, of which 110 are available for tour, still exist in this meandering catacomb.

Please come and enjoy a delicious meal in Sarah’s Café, stroll along the paths of the beautiful Victorian gardens, and wonder through the miles of hallways in the World’s most mysterious mansion. For further information about tours, including group tours, weddings, school events, birthday party packages, facility rentals, and special events please visit the website: https://winchestermysteryhouse.com/

Please visit the online giftshop, and purchase a gift for friends and relatives as well as a special memento of The Winchester Mystery House. A variety of souvenirs and gifts are available to purchase. https://shopwinchestermysteryhouse.com/

I am an Income-Tax Deduction

We have been reading with record high inflation in economy of Bidenomics over the last several years, with everything from groceries, new vehicles, fuel, clothing, electronics, energy, and day care costs soaring in price. Nonetheless, most people cannot help to notice that many of them can no longer afford to rent nor buy houses in the cities they live and work in, and unlike in the past, there is no city a few hundred miles away with substantially less expensive housing costs. We have seen such sharp inflation over decades that it is starting to change the landscape of American economic life. In 1984, the median price of a new home was $79,900. However, since then, consumer prices overall have risen 203 percent. A quart of milk is nearly $3.00. Meanwhile, the median price of a new home was $417,700 in the fourth quarter of 2023. That is an inflation rate of 423 percent. There is no question that the cost of a house has gone up relative to the cost of living. Under Bidenomics, even being able to afford a 1-bedroom apartment has become a luxury good, which has not been the case in the United States of America until not. If it continues, it is a trend that will lead to American looking much like it did in the gold rush days, people sleeping in tent cities all throughout the nation. Many of the people complain about how much less they can buy with their dollar and blame in on the Democrats. #RandolphHarris 1 of 20

However, in my relations with my fellow workmen, I am often astonished to find how easily and often they change their opinions on the same subjects, sometimes within a few days and sometimes even within the course of a few hours. I find it difficult to understand how men who always have reasonable ideas when they spoke as individuals with one another suddenly lost this reasonableness the moment they acted in the mass. That phenomenon often tempted one almost to despair. I used to dispute with them for hours and when I succeeded in brining them to what I considered a reasonable way of thinking, I rejoined at my success. However, next day I would find that it has been all in vain. It was saddening to think I had to begin it all over again. Like a pendulum in its eternal sway, they would fall back into their absurd questions. I was able to understand their position fully. They were dissatisfied with their lot and cursed the fate which had hit them so hard. They hated their employers, whom they looked upon as the heartless administrators of their cruel destiny. Often, they used abusive language against the public officials whom they accused of having no sympathy with the situation of working people. They made public protests against the cost of living and paraded through the streets in defence of their claims. At least all this could be explained on reasonable grounds. #RandolphHarris 2 of 20

 However, what was impossible to understand was the boundless hatred they expressed against their own fellow citizens, how they disparaged their own nation, mocked at its greatest, reviled its history and dragged the names of its most illustrious men in the gutter. The devil knows I would be glad if, suddenly, these people came to their senses. If a fox broke into a hen house, I am convinced that the cackling could not be any worse and the chickens could not run for their safety any faster than people should be running to the poles to vote for Republican Donald Trump after witnessing the devastation the country has faced under Democratic control. This hostility towards their own kith and kin, their own native land and home is as irrational as it is incomprehensible. It is against Nature. They could cure this malady permanently by changing their political affiliation. However, upon meeting some those I once believed to have been converted one found that they had become as they were before. That malady against Nature is holding them once again in its clutches. I gradually discovered that the Social Democratic Press is predominately controlled by criminals. Trying to overcome my natural reluctance, I tried to watch programs of this nature produced by the Marxist TV News Media; but in doing so my aversion increased even more. #RandolphHarris 3 of 20

And then I set about learning something of the people who wrote and published this mischievous stuff. From the station owners on downwards, all of them were criminals. I recalled the names of these people and then I realized most of them were involved in fraud, drugs, sex trafficking, recently immigrated and common street agitators. Everywhere the same sinister picture presented itself. Democrats have become an alien race of evil people leading our people astray. However, it became clear that no worker is so rotted in his preconceived notions that he will not surrender them in the face of better and clearer arguments and explanations. Gradually I became an expert in the doctrine of the Marxist and used this knowledge as an instrument to drive home my own firm convictions. I was successful in nearly every case. People just must realize that they should not be bullied into voting for a politician. Their vote is their right and they do not have to disclose who they voted for, and I know that lying it bad, but to keep the peace, they can say the voted for the candidate their people expect them to vote for, and secretly cast their vote for the person they best believe fit for the job. Although it is sad that people can be open about their sexual orientation, but have to be in the closet about who they are voting for, it is clear that the great masses can be rescued, but a lot of time and a large share of human patience must be devoted to such work. #RandolphHarris 4 of 20

However, Democratic politicians can never be rescued from their fixed notions. It is then simple enough to attempt to show them the absurdity of their teaching. Within my small circle I talked to them until my throat ached and my voice grew hoarse. I believed that I could finally convince them of the danger inherent in the Marxist follies. However, I only achieved the contrary result. It seemed to me that immediately the disastrous effects of the Marxist Theory and its application in practice became evident, the stronger because their obstinacy. The more I debated with them the more familiar I became with their argumentative tactics. At the outset they counted upon the stupidity of their opponents, but when they got so entangled that they could not find a way out they played the trick of acting as innocent simpletons. Should they fail, despite their tricks of logic, they acted as if they could not understand the counter arguments and bolted away to another field of discussion. They would lay down truisms and platitudes; and, if you accepted these, then they were applied to other problems and matters of an essentially different nature from the original theme. If you faced them with this point, they would escape again, and you could not bring them to make any precise statement. Whenever one tried to get a firm grip on any of these apostles, one’s hands grasped only jelly and slime which slipped through the fingers and combined again into a solid mass a moment afterwards. #RandolphHarris 5 of 20

If your adversary felt forced to give in to your argument, on account of the observers present, and if you then thought that at last you had gained ground, a surprise was in store for you on the following day. As if nothing had happed, the Democrat would be utterly obvious to what had happened the day before, and he would start once again by repeating his former absurdities. Should you become indignant and remind him of yesterday’s defeat, he pretended astonishment and could not remember anything, expect that on the previous say he had proved that his statements were correct. Sometimes I was dumbfounded. I do not know what amazed me the more—the abundance of their verbiage or that artful way in which they dressed up their falsehoods. I gradually came to feel sorry for them. Yet all this had its good side: because the more I came to know the individual leaders, or at least the propagandists, of Social Democracy/Communism, my love for my own people increased correspondingly. Considering the demonic skill which these evil counsellors displayed, how could their unfortunate victims be blamed? Indeed, I found it extremely difficult to myself to be a match for the dialectical perfidy of that party. How futile it was to try to win over such people with argument, seeing that their very mouths distorted the truth, disowning the very words they had just used and adopting them again a few moments afterwards to serve their own argument! No. The more I came to know the Democrats, the easier it was to excuse the people. #RandolphHarris 6 of 20

However, the most culpable were to be found among those who did not think it worth while to take the trouble to sympathize with their own kinsfolk and give to the hard-working son of the national family what was his by the iron logic of justice, while at the same time placing his seducer and corrupter against the wall. The fetishism of words is the opposite of the recognition of reality, and man’s search for reality and his own increasing approximation of it characterizes his development. His search for reality is at the same time his negation of illusions. Jesus Christ, Moses, the Greek philosophers, the new science, the enlightenment philosophers, the great artists, the great physicists, biologists, chemists, Marx, and Dr. Freud—they all have in common the passionate desire to break through the deceptive “script” of the senses and of “common sense” and to arrive at a perception of human and natural, of spiritual and material reality. Their fields differed, their methods differed, but no doubt, their impulse and goals were the same. All that humanity has achieved, spiritually and materially, it owes to the destroyers of illusions and to the seekers of reality. The search for reality and the uncovering of illusions not only produces insight and knowledge, but it also changes man in the process. His eyes are opened, he awakens, he sees the World as it is and, correspondingly, he learns how to use and develop his own intellectual and affective powers to cope with reality. #RandolphHarris 7 of 20

Only the one whose eyes have been opened is a realist. It is not accidental that the most creative men and women in the arts and sciences today, with very few exceptions, stand on one side. They share the conviction of the need for international understanding, for the political and economic emancipation of the non-industrialized nations, for the need to end war and the armament race, for the faith that man can become fully human, and that he must decide for life and against death. Yet these leaders of our civilization are accused by “realists” of being “sentimental,” “soft,” and “unrealistic.” The spokesmen for “realism” claim, contrary to all historical evidence, that an ever more acute arms race and preserve peace; they play around with a balance sheet of destruction according to which 1.3 million dead Americans are “acceptable,” while 342,000,000 may not be “acceptable.” They speak of shelter programs which are to protect the population, and they invent fantastic arguments to avoid stating the fact that, in the event of thermonuclear way, likely almost all the inhabitants of our big cities will be destroyed within seconds and not hours, shelters or not. These “realists” do not know that they are being most unrealistic. In the past, the various sectors of human society were so independent of each other, that when the “realists” of one civilization led it to destruction, other civilizations could continue flourishing. Today, the human race is so intertwined that one group of mad “realists” can put an end to the valiant efforts of hundreds of generations. #RandolphHarris 8 of 20

The connect in which Jeder was conceived may have a strong influence in deciding his life plan and his fate. If there was one, this context starts off with his parents’ marriage. Sometimes the young couple gets married with a strong urge to have a son and heir. If the marriage is arranged or encouraged by their families, especially if there is something to inherit, such as a kingdom or a corporation, this is particularly apt to happen. The son is then reared in accordance with his station in life, and learns all the arts and crafts suitable for kings or presidents. Thus, his script is handed to him already written, and to abdicate from it may require an act of heroic renunciation. If the first-born in such cases is a girl instead of a boy, she may run into difficulties; this is often seen in the first-born daughters of bankers, who may be cast adrift to become homosexuals, strip-tease artists, or the wives of improvident and irresponsible Bohemians or trust-fund bums. If she does not produce a boy, in some situations, the father may even divorce the mother leaving the daughters with a keen sense of original guilt for having been born female. On the other hand, the father may have no intention of marrying the mother, and flees the scene, never to be heard from again, as soon as she announces her pregnancy. This leaves the young hero to make his own way almost from the day of his birth. Sometimes the mother runs away. #RandolphHarris 9 of 20

However, even grudging parents may accept an unwanted child because he is an income-tax deduction. The teenager may be aware of this, and when asked who he is, or what his script is, he will reply, “I am an income-tax deduction.” If the child is long in being conceived, his parents’ longing may lead them to dedicate him before his birth, as is the case in many legends of famous people, and in fairy tales such as Rapunzel: another way in which real life resembles literature, as Oscar Wilde put it, nature imitates art. This raises other interesting script questions running the whole gamut of tragedy and romance. What if Romeo had fathered a child, or Ophelia given birth, or Cordelia become pregnant? What would have become of these offspring? Medea’s children, and the Little Princes in the tower of London, are most celebrated examples of children being the victims of their parents’ scripts, just as the little girls and boys sold as sodomistic slaves in certain Arab countries are the most obscure. The bedside manner of the actual impregnation may be called the conceptive attitude. Was it due to accident, passion, love, violence, deception, spite, or resignation? If any of these, what was the background and preparation for such an event? #RandolphHarris 10 of 20

If it was planned, was it planned coldly or warmly, simply, or bookishly, with lots of talk, or by strong, silent communion? The child’s script may have the same qualities. Are pleasures of the flesh regarded as dirty, casual, sacred, or fun? The offspring may be treated the same way. Was an abortion attempted? Were several attempts made? How many abortions or attempts were there during previous pregnancies? There is almost an infinite number of questions of varying degrees of subtlety possible here, and all these factors can influence the script of the still unborn baby. Since there are several possibilities, even genealogy is not of such somber simplicity as it seems. On the cheerful side, there are the cases where both parents want children and will take their genders as they come. If a woman who decided as a little girl that her ambition was to get married and raise children meets a man who made the same decision when he was little, then the offspring has a good start. Biological difficulties which arise here may make the child even more precious: if the woman has repeated miscarriages, or the man has a low sperm count so impregnation is delayed through the years, then, as we have already noted, the infant may be regarded as a real miracle. On the other hand, the seventh girl in a row, or even the seventh boy, may be greeted with mixed feelings, and perhaps start life as a family joke. #RandolphHarris 11 of 20

The feeling of being accepted by someone we love is a basic human need. Being accepted by good people motivates us. It increases our sense of self-worth and self-confidence. Often, those who cannot acceptance from desirable sources, seek it elsewhere. They may look to people who are not interested in their well-being. They may attack themselves to false friends and do questionable things to try to receive the acknowledgement they are seeking. They may seek acceptance by wearing a particular brand of clothing to generate a feeling of belonging or states. For some, striving for a role or a position of prominence can also be a way of seeking acceptance. They may define their worth by a position they hold or status they obtain. Even in the Church we are not free from this type. Seeking acceptance from the wrong sources or for incorrect reasons puts us on a dangerous path—one that is likely to lead us astray and even to destruction. Instead of feeling cherishes and self-confident, we will eventually feel abandoned and inferior. However, see that you look to God and live. Seeking and receiving the acceptance of the Lord is what is most important and will lead to the knowledge that we are chosen and blessed by Him. The ultimate source of empowerment and lasting acceptance is our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. They know us. They love us. They do not accept us because of our title or position. They investigate our hearts. They accept us for who we are and what we are striving to become. Seeking and receiving acceptance from them will always lift and encourage us. #RandolphHarris 12 of 20

When I have read a lot about sweetness and acceptance, I have sometimes felt that I was a terrible parent, and that I could not conceivably ever have been a good parent, no matter how hard I tried. I do not want other parents to grieve as I did. It does no good. It gets me in a bind. It uses up energy on the past, when all my energies are needed in the present. In fact, it gets me into everything I should not be in, to be a good parent. The Caplan paragraphs are a relief to some young people who do not have children but already are concerned about living with them. One of them gave a shout of joy, and joy is something that we very much need more of. If we had enough, we would not need anything ese. I speak of real joy, “real” meaning to me that it simply happens, not joy attached to something, not joy dependent on something, but joy that is free. Like the sun, it exists, without purpose—without any purpose that it is aware of—and is a part of a contributor to life. When a person comes to a therapist, he has a purpose. When the therapist receives the other person, he has a purpose. However, when both get into reality together, without facades, the purpose gets lost, and all that is known is something happening that happens of itself, and the noticing of this happening, in you, in me. Then I am free of all the bits and pieces that I have been holding together saying, “This is me, me, me,” and of al the bits and pieces that have been clinging to me by others saying, “This is you, you, you.” And I am surprised by the power, the tenderness, and the movement that comes through as I. #RandolphHarris 13 of 20

The deterring forces that were mentioned above can frustrate self-analysis also by causing a premature termination of efforts. I am referring here to instances in which the analysis proceeds up to a certain point, is helpful to some extent, but does not proceed beyond this point because the person will not grapple with those factors within himself which prevent his further development. This may happen after he has overcome the most disturbing factors and no longer feels a pressing need to work at himself, even though many diffuse disabilities are left. If life goes smoothly and offers no challenge, the temptation to relax in this way is particularly great. Naturally in such situations all of us are less eager for complete self-recognition. And it is ultimately a matter of our personal philosophy of life how highly we value a constructive dissatisfaction with ourselves that drives us on toward further growth and development. It is desirable, however, that we be or become clear as to what exactly are our sets of values, and act accordingly. If, with a conscious adherence to the ideal of growth, it would constitute an essential lack of truth to us because in reality we relinquished our efforts to measure up to it or even let them be stifled by a smug self-satisfaction. #RandolphHarris 14 of 20

However, a person may break off his efforts at self-analysis for quite an opposite reason: he has arrived at various relevant insights into his difficulties, but nothing changes, and he becomes discouraged by the lack of tangible results. As mentioned before, the discouragement itself constitutes a problem and should be tackled as such. However, if it derives from severe neurotic entanglements—for example, from the attitude of hopeless resignation described above—the person may be unable to cope with it alone. This does not mean that his efforts up to this point have been useless. Very often, despite the limitations to what he can accomplish, he has succeeded in losing one or another gross manifestation of his neurotic difficulties. Christians and persons in search of their God have for millennia pursued a path of disengagement, and not only from the Worldly pursuit of wealth, power, and fame; they have also renounced pleasures of the flesh, alcohol, drugs, and the company of other persons. Psychologist Sideny Jourard experimented with many of these routes to altered and enlarged awareness, short of total commitment to the way of a holy man. He was persuaded that this hypothesis about the relation between disengagement from one’s situation and the enlargement of consciousness retains high explanatory power. #RandolphHarris 15 of 20

Food, pleasures of the flesh, alcohol, and drugs appear to shrink consciousness. The sensuous pleasure and anesthetic effects “fix” a person into only one of many possible ways to experience the World: pleasant, but confining. Perhaps this was why Odysseus had his men tie him to the mast as their ship passed the island of the Sirens, whose seductive songs might have diverted him from his mission. The reason for solitude is apparent. We all are readily influenced by others’ perspectives, which they transmit as they talk to us. Disengagement from others enables us to reflect in silence, to discern what our own perspective might be. It should not be forgotten, however, that another basic way to alter and enlarge consciousness is through listening to a person speak who is more aware of the World’s possibilities than oneself. We need to know that our hearts are honest and broken. How do we know that? We begin by engaging in sincere self-reflection. The heart is the center of our feelings. As we investigate our hearts, we screen ourselves. What no one around us knows, we surely know. We know our motives and desires. When we engage in sincere, honest reflection, we do not rationalize or receive ourselves. If our hearts are broken, there is also another way to judge. A broken heart is a soft, an open, and a receptive heart. #RandolphHarris 16 of 20

When I hear the Saviour say, “Behold, I stand at the door, and knock,” I hear Him knocking at the door of my heart. If I open this door to Him, I am more responsive to the invitations of the Spirit, and I am more accepting of God’s will. As we sincerely and prayerfully ponder the extent to which our hearts are honest and broken, we will be taught by the Holy Ghost. We will receive a sweet confirmation or gentle correction, inviting us to act. Each of us being individually complete in his inmost godlike self, no other person is needed for self-fulfillment, no mate or affinity is required to bring him to the realization of life’s goal. However, each of us being incomplete in his outer self, the longing for such a mate or affinity is human, natural, and pardonable. There is nothing wrong nor contrary to the Quest in seeking to satisfy this longing, although unless this is done with wisdom and after prudent consideration, rather than with ignorance and in impulse, the result may bring more unhappiness rather than more happiness. Nor must such a longing ever be allowed to obscure the great truth of individual completeness on the spiritual level. Those ascetics who vehemently denounce marriage because, they say, it caters to the passions are themselves showing the baneful effect of passion repressed but not sublimated. Rather than destroy the happiness of the other person, I believe that marriage is the strict duty of acting with the utmost consideration for the other party, of being ready to renounce one’s own happiness entirely. #RandolphHarris 17 of 20

The Sacramento Fire Department (SFD) provides fire protection and other critical public safety services, including Emergency Management Services (EMS), to residents and business owners countrywide. The Sacramento Fire Department also works to continually upgrade fire apparatuses and technology, educate the public in fire prevention, life safety and disaster preparedness, along with enforcing public safety codes, while ensuring a safe and secure environment to all citizens and visitors through professionalism, leadership, teamwork, and partnership with all levels of Government. “The only time I ever saw a life net actually used at a fire was when I was with Engine X. We had a fire in a building. We got a dozen people down the interior stairs before the fire cut it off. Then we started rescuing them from their balconies. Suddenly we heard a commotion, looked up, and saw our lieutenant struggling with a huge drunk. The lieutenant yelled for us to get the life net. We got it, held it under the ladder, and lieutenant pushed the drunk off. We caught him in the net. He survived, and so did my arms.” The Sacramento Fire Department is an organization where World-changing breakthroughs meet genuine, hardworking people connected by shared traditions, embraced opportunities, and they progress they seek. You can help save lives by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. Being patriotic means being proud of who you are as an American. It is important to raise your children to love America. #RandolphHarris 18 of 20

When you choose American-made cars and other goods and services, this results in higher quality products that save money in the long run due to their quality, safety standards, and long-lasting durability. It is imperative to love God and His Son, Jesus Christ. When we love God and Jesus Christ, we experience joy and fulfillment. As citizens, we respect the laws because they are clearly communicated and fairly enforced. Everyone is held accountable to the same laws, and those laws protect our fundamental rights. The United States Constitution is the foundation of the rule of law in America. Education provides stability in life, and it is something that no one can ever take away from you. By being well-educated, and holding a college degree, you increase your chances for better career opportunities and open new doors for yourself. From an early age, it is important to read books. Reading books may have several physical and mental benefits. These include strengthening your brain, increasing your ability to empathize, reducing stress, building your vocabular, and it will help you with spelling and to become a better writer. Reading also reduced stress, can alleviate depression, and reduce age-related cognitive decline. Showing respect to others, especially the elderly benefits everyone. When people feel valued, their emotional well-being improves, and they will have better health outcomes. Younger people will also gain perspective and enjoyment from intergenerational relationships. #RandolphHarris 19 of 20

Pledging allegiance to the American flag is a symbolic act that represents loyalty and devotion to one’s country. It used to be a ritual in every school during first period. Pledging allegiance to the American flag is often seen as a patriotic gesture, reflecting a sense of unity and shared values among citizens. We are willing to humble ourselves before God, willing to repent, willing to learn, and willing to change. The flag of the United States of America represents not just our country as a political unit, but the principles that bind us together as Americans, namely individual liberty, and unalienable natural rights, endowed by our Creator, which the government shall not infringe upon. Reciting the Pledge is not a compulsion, but a mark of patriotism to the country. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. God of Might, God of Right, Thee we give all glory; Thine all praise in these days as in ages hoary, when we hear, year by year freedom’s wondrous story. Now as erst, when Thou first made’st the proclamation, warning loud every proud, every tyrant nation, we, Thy fame still proclaim, bend in adoration. “A new commandment I give unto you, that ye love one another; as I have loved you,” reports John 13.34. #RandolphHarris 20 of 20

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What Happened After 1914 was that Man was Dead!

We are too affluent. We have too much money and other things. We have so many things. Even many poorer people have many things, and “things” become our life, and our vocabulary has been invaded with, “I got this,” and “Let me do my thing.” Yet the Lord has said, “Seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you,” reports Matthew 6.33. Too often, though, we want the “things” first. We have a great generation of youth, and many of them are not patriotic and has ceased to pray. Their WiFi is down. Also, numerous young people in their early married days cease to pray with regularity; the WiFi buffering speeds are lagging. However, it is most fitting, my brethren and sisters, that we always sing the glorious hymn in our minds, “We thank thee, O God, for a Prophet.” God has spoken as the divinely appointed mouthpiece of the Lord here on Earth, and we must remember to have a spirit of thanksgiving. Many times, people only think about God when they need something, but God is constantly bestowing His grace upon us, even without us earning it. Therefore, let of be in constant thanksgiving. Think about it this way, if you are always buying your children the latest toys and they do not thank you, and then they break them and keep begging for new toys, eventually you will get tired and ignore them. #RandolphHarris 1 of 20

Therefore, we must draw closer to God, by thanking Him and in our actions and words, and He will draw closer to us. “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded,” reports James 4.8. This is an invitation to develop a personal relationship with God by following His example and learning about Him through the scriptures. Some ways to draw closer to God include: Acknowledging God daily, asking God to reveal Himself, reading the Christian Bible and the Book of Mormon, praying, and serving and loving others. “And whoever they shall speak when moved upon by the Holy Ghost shall be scripture, shall be the will of the Lord, shall be the mind of the Lord, shall be the word of the Lord, shall be the voice of the Lord, and the power of God unto salvation,” reports Doctrine and Covenants 68.3. Goes does speak to us now. He manifests Himself through prophets whom He raised up for this day—for 2024—for present-day people—to help them to successfully combat the seductions of a decadent and blinded World. If you are willing to accept it, every one of you may have the full benefit of His Heavenly guidance. You can know God’s will pertaining to your own self, given now—not two thousand and twenty-four years ago, but here and now. #RandolphHarris 2 of 20

When we have merely made a new acquaintance, we often imagine we have made a new friend. He only to whom we can speak our private thoughts is our friend, and no one else. He who files to our aid when all others flee away is our friend, and no one else. Above all, he whose sympathy is so perfect that he understands and forgives our failings is indeed worthy to be our honoured friend. Where minds are great and hearts are large, two persons can remain cordial friends even though their outlooks differ. There is a silence between two persons which is full of nervous tensions, but there is another which is full of healing peace. This is rare, uncommon, but it is found through real harmony, full trust, surrendered ego. It is not necessary to give up personal friendships to follow the Quest. They are quite permissible in their place and have their instructive value. Those who pursue such an ideal as ours have always to live inwardly, and sometimes outwardly, apart from the mob—that is, to live in a loneliness which makes true friendship double its worth. Sometimes a quick friendship means that he is reviving an old spiritual relationship out of the hidden past, out of the numerous incarnations which have been lost in time. Therefore, understanding and recognition come quickly, explanations and introductions are not waited for and are not necessary in the real soul-realm. #RandolphHarris 3 of 20

There is the common friendship in which the emotional attitude may one day pass from affection to animosity, and there is this rare friendship which, because it is based on something deeper, diviner, and more enduring than mere emotion, witnesses only the ripening of affection into real love. We each possess our own Heavenly latitude and must seek out our true compatriots on that line. The course of life’s friendships is sometimes like a turning wheel. We think we grasp the hand of a friend but one day the wheel turns, and he is gone. In the end, we cannot escape from our solitariness. Only those who hold the same spiritual conception of life can be true affinities in friendship. If an individual wished to break away from any continued acquaintance completely, there are times in personal relationships when eagerness for friendship, on one side, would mean cruelty on the other side. If possible, in such an instance, one should try to continue seeing the other but make the association on a different level. The other person may have awakened to the Quest of truth, and any unfortunate experience between them would be no reason for deserting her but only for learning how to handle persons of the opposite gender who are led across his orbit for spiritual help. Friendship is a loving relationship between two people. Friends respect each other, care about each other, and overlook and forgive each other’s faults. Our Heavenly Father wants us to be friends to all His children, but use great discernment. #RandolphHarris 4 of 20

Some scripts can be traced back in a clinical interview to the great-grandparents, and if the family has a recorded history, as is often the case with kinds and their courtiers, it may go back thousands of years in time. No doubt scripts began when the first manlike creatures appeared on Earth, and there is no reason to suspect that their scenes and acts and outcomes were different then than they are now. Certainly the life courses of the kings of Egypt, which are the oldest reliable biographies we have, are typical scripts. The story of Amenhotep IV, 3500 years in the past, who changed his name to Ikhnaton is a good example. By this change he brought on both greatness and the fury of those who followed him. If information about remote ancestors, or the great-grandparents, can be obtained, so much better for the script analysis, but in ordinary practice, in most cases, it starts with the grandparents. It is common knowledge, even proverbial, how much grandparents, alive or dead, influence the lives of their grandchildren. For a good script, “To make a lady, start with the grandmother,” and for a bad one, “From shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations.” Many children at an early age not only want to imitate their forebears, but would like actually to be their own grandparents. This desire may not only have a strong influence on their life scripts, but it may cause considerable confusion in their relationships with their parents. #RandolphHarris 5 of 20

American mothers, it is said, favour their fathers over their husbands, and encourage their sons to take after grandfather instead of Dad. The most productive single question to ask regarding ancestral influences is “What kind of lives did your grandparents lead?” There are four types of reports commonly given in answer to this. Ancestral Pride. A winner or “prince” will state in a matter-of-fact way, “My ancestors were kinds of Ireland,” or “My great-great-grandfather was the Chief Rabbi of Lublin.” It is apparent that the speaker has “permission” to follow in the footsteps of these ancestors and become an outstanding personality. If the statement is made pompously or solemnly, however, the speaker is probably a loser of “frog,” and is using his ancestry to justify his existence because he himself does not have “permission” to excel. If the response is: “(My mother was always telling me that my ancestors were Irish kings, ha, ha,” or “(My mother was always telling me that) my great-great-grandfather was the Chief Rabbi, ha ha,” it is usually given from a not-O.K. position; the speaker is allowed to imitate his illustrious ancestors, but only in their losing characteristics. These replies may mean: “I’m as drunk as an Irish king should be, so that makes me like an Irish king, ha ha!” or “I’m poor as a Chief Rabbi should be, so that makes me like a Chief Rabbi, ha ha!” #RandolphHarris 6 of 20

In such cases, the early programing was: “You’re descended from a Chief Rabbi, and they were very poor.” This is equivalent to a directive: “Be like your famous ancestor…” with the clear implication from mother “…so drink a lot, your father does,” or “…so don’t make money, your father doesn’t.” In all these cases the ancestor is a family euhemerus, a heroic model from the past who can be imitated but never surpassed, and these are different ways that people deal with euthemeri. Idealization. This may be romantic or paradoxical. Thus, a winner may say: “My grandmother was a wonderful housekeeper,” or “My grandfather lived to be ninety-eight and had all his teeth and no gray hair.” There is a clear indication that the speaker would like to follow in the romantic grandparent’s footsteps and is basing her or his script on that. A loser will express paradoxical idealization: “My grandmother was a tough, down-to-earth woman, but she became senile in her old age.” There is a clear implication that she may have been senile, but she was the smartest woman in the state hospital; and furthermore, that that is also the speaker’s script: to be the smartest woman in the state hospital. Unfortunately, this setup is so frequent that the competition in state hospitals to be the smartest woman on the ward can become quite strenuous, turbulent, and discouraging. #RandolphHarris 7 of 20

Rivalry. “My grandfather dominated my grandmother,” or “My grandfather was a weakling who let everyone push him around.” These are often the “neurotic” responses interpreted by psychanalysts as expressing the child’s desire to be more powerful than his parents. “Grandfather is one person who can talk back to my mother—I’d like to be him,” or “If I were my father’s father, I wouldn’t be a coward, “I’d show him.” Karl Abraham’s case report shows the scripty nature of such attitudes, where the boy indulges in daydreams of being the prince of an imaginary kingdom whose king is like his father. Then along comes the king’s father, who is far more powerful than the king. Once, when the boy was punished by his mother, he said, “Now I’ll marry granny.” Thus, his secret 9but not unconscious) planning at that time was based on a fairy tale in which he becomes more powerful than his parents by becoming his grandfather. Personal Experiences. These concern actual transactions between children and their grandparents, which are strong influences in molding the child’s script. A grandmother can send a little boy forth to be a hero, or on the other hand, a grandfather can seduce a young lady and turn her into a Little Red Riding Hood. In general, grandparents, as mythology and clinical experience show, are regarded with awe or terror, just as parents can be regarded with admiration or fear. The more primitive feelings of awe and terror are influential in forming the child’s picture of the world during the early stages of script-building. #RandolphHarris 8 of 20

Anything that ends a searching, striving attitude toward the World triggers off an alteration in all modes of experiencing, even when the objective state of the World has not changed. Once this disengagement happens, there is no reason for the person to repress hitherto distracting modes of being conscious; so the person will smell, taste, touch, and hear more than usual; recall will be more concrete and eidetic; and imagination will be more playful. However, these “expanded” states of consciousness are largely false, unreal perceptions, sought after specifically as an escape from a dimly perceived, threatening, or boring reality. The revelatory power of prayer perhaps stems from a similar cause; a person may pray for divine guidance when personal struggles have come to naught. If the person authentically “surrenders” and begins to pray, this disengagement from the struggle may bring to light solutions that always were there, although the person could not see them. Meditative disciplines later and enlarge a person’s perceptual and other experiential modes by way of disengagement. One cannot truly “get into” the various Hatha Yoga postures until one disengages from one’s customary modes of experiencing and striving. Hypnosis appears to work in similar fashion. When one is being persuaded by the hypnotist’s suggestions, one is being seduced into suspending usual ways of being conscious of the World. If one yields, one’s consciousness is indeed altered. #RandolphHarris 9 of 20

The outsiders are people who saw too much for their time and place. They were not wholly in the clutch of the norms, goals, and standards of their place, and so their consciousness of the World within which they were living was radically “altered,” different from that of the typical person. Thus, sometimes outsiders have a vision that wrecks them because they do not understand why their vision is different and how to protect themselves. Hitherto, this is regarded as the madness of schizophrenia. It is an authentic but different way of experiencing the World that happens when a person gives up an identity that is no longer viable. The act of surrender triggers off such alterations of consciousness as hallucinations, visions, and the like. Of course, any deviations from ordinary consciousness give rise to action that appears strange to the average person. This is why “altered consciousness” can be troublesome unless a person learns how to use the richer experience as a guidance to more effective action. Rousseau’s Confessions, though only remotely akin to analysis, may serve as an example of self being related to the whole structure. Here is a man who apparently wants to give an honest picture of himself, and does so to a moderate extent. However, throughout the book he retains blind spots concerning his vanity and his inability to love—to mention only two outstanding factors—which are so blatant that they impress us today as grotesque. #RandolphHarris 10 of 20

He is frank about what he expects and accepts from others, but he interprets the resulting dependency as “love.” He recognizes his vulnerability but relates it to his “feeling heart.” He recognizes his animosities, but they always turn out to be warranted. He sees his failures, but always others are responsible for them. To be sure, Rousseau’s confessions are not a self-analysis. Yet on rereading the book in recent years I have often been reminded of friends and patients whose analytical endeavours were not too different. The book, indeed, deserves a careful and critical study. An endeavour at self-analysis, even though more sophisticated, may easily meet with a similar fate. A person equipped with greater psychological knowledge might merely be more subtle in his attempts to justify and embellish his actions and motivations. There is one point, however, on which Rousseau is straight: his peculiarities involving pleasures of the flesh. This frankness must certainly be appreciated. However, his frankness in intimate matters helps to keep him from seeing how little he faces his other problems. In this regard, too, the lesson we can still learn from Rousseau is worth mentioning. Since pleasures of the flesh is an important domain in our life it is important to be as relentlessly honest toward it as toward everything else. #RandolphHarris 11 of 20

However, the one-sided emphasis that Dr. Freud has given factors involving pleasures of the flesh may tempt many people to single them out above others, as Rousseau did. To be straight in questions involving pleasures of the flesh is necessary; but to be straight only with them is not enough. Another one-sided emphasis is a persistent tendency to regard a particular present difficulty as a static repetition of a particular present difficulty as a static repetition of a particular infantile experience. When a person wants to understand himself, it is important, beyond any doubt, that he understand the forces that were instrumental in his development, and it is one of Dr. Freud’s foremost discoveries to have recognized the influence that early experiences exert upon the formation of personality. However, it is always the sum of all our early experiences that has contributed to mold the present structure. And it is therefore futile to uncover isolated connections between a certain present disturbance and a certain early influence. Present peculiarities can be understood only as an expression of the whole interplay of forces operating in the present personality. For example, the peculiar development that took place in Clare’s relationship with her mother and had a definite bearing upon her dependency on men. #RandolphHarris 12 of 20

 However, if Clare had seen that she subordinated herself to Peter as she had to the mother, that she hero-worshiped Peter as she had and to help her in distress as she had expected the mother to help her, that she resented Peter’s rejecting her as she had resented the mother’s discrimination against her. In recognizing these connections, she might have gained a certain distance to her actual problem, simply by recognizing the operation of a compulsive pattern. However, she clung to Peter not because he represented a mother-image but because, through her repressed arrogance and ambition, she had lost her self-regard, almost lost her identity; thus she was fearful, inhibited, defenseless, and isolated, and on these grounds was compelled to seek shelter and restoration of herself in ways that were doomed to failure and merely entangled her more deeply in the network of her inhibitions and fears. Only by realizing these dynamics could she eventually free herself from the aftermaths of an unfortunate childhood. Still another one-sided emphasis is a tendency to harp always on the “bad” sides, or what are regarded as such. Confessing and condemning can then take place of understanding. This is done partly in a spirit of hostile self-recrimination but also with a secret belief that confession alone is enough to harvest a reward. #RandolphHarris 13 of 20

These blind spots and one-sided emphases may be found, of course, in any endeavour at self-analysis, whether the limitations discussed above are present. To some extent they may result from mistaken preconceptions about psychoanalysis. If the person achieves a more rounded understanding of psychic process, in this case they can be corrected. However, they may also represent merely a means of evading the essential problems. If these resistances are strong enough—if they amount to what I have described, in this case, they are ultimately caused by resistance to progress and may constitute a definite obstruction to the success of the analysis. With free interchange between parents and children, there is no telling what may happen. The child who goes to school might well choose to go to bed earlier (after a few mistakes) because then he does better and feels better the next day. Anyway, things seem to resolve themselves somehow when I go about it this way. When my son was eight, he suddenly refused to take baths. It was warm in Hawaii, and he perspired a lot. Evening after evening I tussled with him, and then suddenly it made no sense to me to wear myself out that way. So I stopped. And he went to school day after day without a bath. I wondered a little about what his teachers might think, but that was between them and him. I did not expect what happened. After three or four day he came home crying “The kids say I stink!” No more problem. #RandolphHarris 14 of 20

Quite often the best thing to do is nothing. When I was a child, I once stood against the lamp post that was nearest to our house, where I knew that my mother could hear me (besides, it was after dark and I was afraid to be too far away) and I cried and cried and cried, as long as I could for a very long time. I was doing it to punish her, and demanding that she come to me. She did not come. I went from rage to grief to rage to self-pity while I cried, because she did not come. She was defeating me. (There were other times when she let me win.) Finally, I gave up because I could not cry any more, and besides, I knew that I was being phoney, that I was crying to punish my mother. I had noticed, too, that when I looked at the streetlights through my tears, they did fantastically lovely things, like a kaleidoscope, and when I partly closed my eyes, the lights went into crosses. I played with that until I was ready to go home. I do not extract any rule from that.  I do not remember the antecedents to my crying. However, I was thinking that my mother did the right thing in these circumstances because what I got out of it was good. I do not know whether she was being “wise.” She was not extraordinarily strong and sometimes she let things ride because they were too much for her. Often that was exceptionally good for me. #RandolphHarris 15 of 20

The Egyptians and the Hebrews had a tradition of centralized yet small states with a powerful royal figure, they conceived of a supreme being, the ruler of Heaven and Earth. The Hebrews fought against idols, they prohibited making any kind of image of God; Maimonides, their greatest philosopher, a thousand years later declared that even to mention a positive attribute of God was not permissible. Yet the thought concept of God as the form under which the inexpressible was expressed, was retained in Judaism and in Christianity, and thus became the dominant concept of religious experience in the Western World. Many in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries protested this thought concept, together with their protest kings and emperors. In the enlightenment philosophy and in the new humanism, the experience underlying religious tradition was expressed in nontheistic terms—in the concern for man, rather than in a concern for God. Yet the concern was the same. It was a concern for means, for creating the social conditions for the spiritual development of man. The socialism of Marx, Fourier, Kropotkin, Owen, Jaures, Rosa Luxemburg, and Gorki was the most important genuine religious movement of the last hundred years. The breakdown of the humanistic tradition, beginning with the World War of 1914, almost destroyed this nontheistic “religious” movement. #RandolphHarris 16 of 20

Nietzsche said that God was dead; what happened after 1914 was that man was dead. Only in small circles and among a few individuals did the humanist spiritual tradition continue; its greatest representatives in our times are men like Jesus Christ. The fetishism of words is as dangerous in the realm of political ideology as it is in that of religious ideology. Words must be seen together with the deeds and with the total personality of him who utters them. Words have meaning only in the total context of deed and character; unless there is unity among these factors words serve to deceive—others and oneself; instead of revealing, they have the function of hiding. All this was driven home to many by the historical period in which we lived. Most of the socialist leaders who had spoken the language of internationalism and peace before August 2, 1914, participated in the war hysteria a day later. The same leaders four years later prevented any effective socialization after the German revolution, by using the slogan “Socialism is marching.” The socialist Mussolini became the leader of fascism; yet until the day of his betrayal, his words were not different from those of other socialists. Mr. Hitler called his system, the aim of which was to serve German heavy industry and expansionism toward East and West, “national socialism”; Mr. Stalin called his system “socialism,” a system which served the rapid build-up of an industrialized Russia with complete disregard for all those human values which characterized Marxist socialism. Yet his friends as well as his enemies took the words for realities. We do the same by calling President Biden and other dictators “representatives of the free World.” #RandolphHarris 17 of 20

The Sacramento Fire Department is part of the community that they strive to make a great and safe place to live and raise a family. The Sacramento Fire Department is committed to the safety of Sacramento County. They do more than fight fires. Emergency and medical calls now make up more than half of their emergency responses. “We were having a lot of tension in one neighborhood, and hostility was being directed at the firefighters. So I said to our company, ‘Next time we get a fire down there, let’s show the people how good we are in saving their belongings. That’ll show them that we are really their friends.’ A few nights later, a seven o’clock on a hot summer evening, we get an alarm, and the upper floors of a three-story building are going. The ground floor is one of those storefront churches. So we get hold of the minister of the church, and we ask him where all his valuables are. We tell him that we are going in and save everything. So we get the Bible out, get all the artifacts and religious things that we can find. Anything we can’t move is gather together, and we throw salvage covers over it. Now the truck is starting to open up with a ladder pipe into the upper floors, and it’s only a matter of time before that water starts coming down. At the same time, the smoke starts baking down, and pretty soon we’re on our knees trying to scoop up the last valuable things. There is this huge box, and I can’t figure out what it is. We try to move it, but we can’t make it budge. It’s about eight feet long. Finally we throw a salvage cover over it, tuck it in at every point, so no water damage will be inflicted on this thing. #RandolphHarris 18 of 20

“We come staggering out of the place, and guys are leaning over the fence, throwing up from the belt of smoke that we had. They finally get the fire knocked down, and we go back inside to see what this thing was. We lift the salvage cover, and it’s a baptismal, an eight-foot tub of water. Can you imagine that? We had covered it to prevent water damage. There’s another night where we got in and the smoke was banking down. Again, it was the upper floors of a building that were involved in fire, and the chief told us to spread our salvage covers on the second floor. So we got the covers and started into the building. We got to the second floor, and there was a guy, his wife and three kids sitting at a table, eating. There wasn’t too much smoke in the place, so we told them, ‘You’ve got to get out of here, the building’s on fire.’ The guy starts to argue with me, and I say, ‘Now you get out of here, or I’m going to call the police and have them move you out.’ So the guy reluctantly leaves with his wife and kids, and we get everything together and throw the salvage covers. We go outside to get more, and all of the sudden, I look. We’re in the building next door. What happened was that the smoke had banked down and concealed the doorways. I thought we were going in the right doorway, but we were going in the doorway of the building next door. So real quickly we grabbed more covers, went into the fire building, and got things covered up. I didn’t understand why that guy thought I was crazy.” #RandolphHarris 19 of 20

The Sacramento Fire Department focuses on reliability, service, professionalism, pride, integrity, and loyalty. The goal of the Sacramento Fire Department is to provide public education, fire prevention initiatives, preparedness, and overall community risk reduction. Should these efforts fail, they are ready, prepared and trained to respond to a wide variety of service calls. They do this with suppression resources, advanced life support transport services, a technical rescue team, a hazardous materials team, aircraft rescue and firefighting response and other services. You can help protect your community and save lives by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. Parents, to stabilize America and retain American values, please raise your children to love America, to be patriotic, to love God and Jesus Christ, to buy American made cars and other goods and services, to respect law and order, to get their education and read books, and treat others with care, dignity, and respect. I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. Lo! the spring joy doth bring; winter’s frosts are ended. Gladness reigns, life remains, with sweet pleasure blended. God doth bear what His care and His love defended. Let Thy will guide us still, let Thy love be o’er us, let Thy light in our night, show Thy paths before us. Ours Thy love, from above, and Thy light that leads us. #RandolphHarris 20 of 20

The Winchester Mystery House

When you visit the beautiful and mysterious Winchester Mansion, be sure to keep your eyes out for the ghost. Caretakers say that the ghost sometimes look like pale fiures or silhouettes that float down from the turrets or hover in the hallways. Over the years, dozens of people report seeing apparitions and strange phenomena at The Winchester Mystery House. Some report that they have heard wailing from inside the mansion’s walls. People are told to be careful about going to The Winchester Mystery House alone after dark because it is said to be home to some vengeful apparitions who often appear.

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Lord, Make Us Free!

The World is a fragile place. Today, these Democrats are starting a dangerous trend by diverting our people so that it can instead serve their ideology and make their “fantastic” dream come true. Because of this, I feel it is necessary for me to discuss with my supporters as completely and clearly as possible the most important question of foreign policy and that is our relationship with Mexico.  With the open southern border, everything seems unsafe. Communities which had never seen crime before are now reporting violent homicides. The Democrats have launched a war realigning power trip against the American people, at a time when we are facing uncertainty in international relations. The economy is faltering, and inflation is rising. Racial harmony is breaking down, and unrest in our streets is spreading violence and fear as an illegal immigrant crime wave is washing over our country. The removal of Confederate monuments was the first threat to American culture. Next, Democrats will be knocking over statues of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., and Mrs. Rosa Parks.  While for many, the phantom constitutional norms like equal protection—which exist in mainstream constitutional law have not been applied to many American people, while illegal immigrants are given a privileged status. Now, farmers are suffering from mass killings and land seizures. Millions of illegal immigrants are so violently changing our culture. These people do not want to assimilate with us, they are coming here with discriminatory intent, which they have demonstrated by attacking the police in broad daylight, invading homes, and raping and killing women and children. This band of uncivilized criminals plans to create an inhospitable legal landscape by aligning with the Democratic party and overcoming America by removing Constitutional protections for citizens and abolishing law enforcement. #RandolphHarris 1 of 21

The amnesty for illegal immigrants under the Democratic party promotes a message that, while American citizens are forced to obey the laws, illegal immigrants are paid to break it and can never be held accountable for their crimes, and if law enforcement tries to uphold immigration policy or attempts to arrest criminals, the Democratic party will vanquish them. However, illegally immigrating can never be a legitimate basis for immigration policy. Democrats and the people that they are allowing to immigrate illegally, have grievances with America and the American people. Under President Biden and Vice President Kamala, our nation has become one of gender confusion, denial of God, bloodshed, chaos, violent crime, and rampant corruption, and there are no safeguards to protect hardworking American people. Cleanliness, whether moral or of another kind, has its own meaning for the Democratic party. That they are water-shy is obvious on looking at them, and unfortunately, very often when not looking at them at all. The odour and scripts of these people often makes me feel ill. Beyond that are the unkempt breath and their ignoble homes. All these details are certainly not attractive; but the revolting feature is that beneath their unclean exterior, one suddenly perceives the moral mildew of the soulless minds. What should give Americans cause for profoundly serious considerations are the activities of the Democrats in certain branches of life, this is a mystery which some have penetrated little by little. Is there any shady undertaking, any form of foulness, especially in cultural life, in which at least one member of the Biden administration has not participated? On putting the probing scalpel carefully to that kind of abscess one immediately discovers, like a maggot in a putrescent body, a Democrat who is often blinded by the sudden light. #RandolphHarris 2 of 21

In the eyes of Lady Justice, there is a grave vision now that she has discovered the Democratic activities in the Press, in art, in literature, in theatre, in the church, and in the cities. Here is a pestilence, a moral pestilence, with which the public is being infected. It is worst than the Black Plague of long ago. And in what mighty doses this poison is manufactured and distributed. Naturally, the lower the moral and intellectual level of such an author of artistic products, the more inexhaustible his and/or her fecundity. Sometimes it goes so far that one of these Democrats, acting like a sewage pump, will shoot his and/or her filth directly in the face of other members of humanity. In this connection we must remember there is no limit to the number of such people. One ought to realize that for one, Goethe, Nature may bring into existence ten thousand such despoilers who act as the worst kind of germ-carries in poisoning human souls. While Governor Gavin Newsom and Tim Walz give boys tutorials on how to apply concealer, blush, eyeliner, lipstick and encouraging them to question their gender, while advocating sex changes, it is a terrible thought, and yet it cannot be avoided, that the greater number of the Democrats seem specially destined by Nature to play this shameful part. And is it for this reason that they can be called the chosen party? We must begin to carefully investigate the names of all the factors of these unclean products in public cultural life. The result of this inquiry is still more disfavourable to the attitude which many hitherto holds regarding Democratic leaders. Though Christian feelings might rebel a thousand times, reason they now must draw their own conclusions. #RandolphHarris 3 of 21

The fact that ninety percent of all the smutty literature, artistic tripe, and theatrical banalities, must be charged to the account of people who are now ruling over our nation, and that fact cannot be gainsaid. It is there and must be admitted.  Then as the American people begin to examine their favourite gospel “TV News,” with that fact before their mind, the deeper their soundings go, the less their respect for that Press which they formerly admired becomes. Its style has become still more repellent, and they are forced to reject its ideas as entirely shallow and superficial. To claim that in the presentation of facts and views its attitude is impartial seems to many to contain more falsehood than the National Inquirer. The writers are—Democrats. Thousands of details that many had scarcely noticed before seeming to them now to deserve attention. As the public begins to grasp and understand things which they had formerly looked at in a different light, they see the Liberal policy of that Press the product of grim, soulless beings. Its dignified tone in replying to the attacks of its adversaries and its dead silence in other cases are now clear to many as part of a cunning and despicable way of deceiving the audience. Its brilliant theatrical criticisms always praise the Democrat authors and its adverse, criticism is reserved exclusively for law abiding American citizens and Republicans. The light pinpricks against former President Trump show the persistency of its policy, just as does its systematic commendation of American culture and civilization. The subject matter of the feuilletons is trivial and often pornographic. The language of this Press has the accent of a criminal mind. The general tole is openly derogatory to the American Christians, and this must be definitely intentional. #RandolphHarris 4 of 21

What are the interests that have urged the Democrats to adopt such a policy? Or did they do so merely by chance? Several have come to see through a meaning of a whole series of events that are taking place in other branches of American life, all these are inspired by a general concept of manners and moral which is openly put int practice by a large section of the Democrats and can be established at attributable to them. Here, again, the life which we are observing on the streets are teaching us what evil really is. The part in which Democrats play in the social phenomenon of prostitution, and more especially in the slave traffic, can be studied here better than in any other country. Walking by night along the streets of California, almost at every turn whether one wishes it or not, one witnesses certain happenings of whose existence the Christians knew nothing until the Democratic leaders made it possible and indeed inevitable for the American people to see such things on the Western front. A cold shiver runs down the spines of many God loving Americas when they ascertain that it is the same kind of cold-blooded, thick-skinned, and shameless Democrat who showed his consummate skill in conducting the revolting exploitation of the dregs on our streets. Many have become fired with wrath. They now have no more hesitation about bring the Democratic problem to light in all its details. No. Henceforth righteous American people are determined to do so. As many people have learned to track down the corruption in all the different spheres of cultural and artistic life, and in the various manifestations of this life everywhere, they have suddenly come upon Democrats in positions where they had least expected to find them. They now realize that Democrats are the leaders of Communism. In face of this revelation, the scales fall from their eyes. Their long inner struggle is at an end. #RandolphHarris 5 of 21

As Vice President Kamala gave her convention speech last night, she would not mention the names of the victims who have been killed by illegal immigrants. She will not say their names, she will not express remorse. Kamala says she wants to talk about the future. No. These American people want to go back to the safe past. We do not have a future with open borders and all these other problems this country has. We have a crime problem. Just like the Democrats rigged the 818,000 jobs number. The American economy added 818,000 fewer jobs from April 2023 through March of 2024 than were originally reported.  Democrats rigged the crime numbers, too. Murder has increased by 30 percent. That is also a proven fact. Just came out. Vice President Kamala has stolen the future of twenty two year old Laken Riley, who was killed while she was jogging at the University of Georgia in Athens, Georgia, her body was found in Oconee Forest Park near Lake Herrick; her death was caused by blunt force trauma and asphyxiation; the thirty-seven year old mother of five, Rachel Morin, who was brutally raped and murdered on a hiking trail. Her head was found smashed in and her body naked; and our precious twelve-year-old Jocelyn Nungaray, who was walking to a convenience store when she disappeared and was found dead in a creek. All these young ladies were killed by illegal immigrants. The race-based Nationalist Movement of the Democrats defends the rights of other nations, but has been leading an attack on the rights of American people. The Democratic policy has mistakenly followed the interests of the Communist party; however the future should not be guided by such commonplace sickening anti-Americanism. #RandolphHarris 6 of 21

Allowing the Communist to gain this country only proves the might of the conquers and the weakness of those who tolerate them. Our ancestors did not receive the land we live on as a present from Heaven, but they had to risk their lives and fight for it. In the future, we will not obtain the land, and the life it offers for our nation, through any act of Heavenly generosity. We will only obtain the land we need through the might of the victorious sword. It is neither my task nor even my intention to point out the “If” in the case “But” had not been present. If only to deepen the knowledge so the situation may be understood within the ranks of the Making American Great Again, it is absolutely necessary for us to see the existing conditions as they truly exist, without colouring them, and to point out their terrible weaknesses. The Constitutional Rights of the American people must be included in these states. Not only does America have to constantly increase and replenish her army of the Hispanic livestock from her enormous Empire, but also, from a racial viewpoint, her infiltration with Hispanic blood is increasing so rapidly that we could call it the creations of a Hispanic state on American soil. In 1990, 75 percent of the population was defined as Caucasian. New census population projections confirm the importance of racial marginalized populations as the primary demographic engine of the nation’s future growth, countering and gaining, slowly-growing and soon to be declining European American population. The new statistics project that the nation will become “minority European American” in 2024. #RandolphHarris 7 of 21

During that year, European Americans will comprise 49.7 percent of the population in contrast to 24.6 percent for Hispanics, 13. 1 percent for African Americans, 7.9 percent for Asian Americans, and 3.8 percent for multiracial populations. In this way, the fear-stricken prayers of our patriotic social clubs, “Lord, make us free!” Communists know very well that they can undermine the American Nation and turn it into a generic race-less, genderless (neither male nor female) corrupted people, like that of a mannequin. In essence, robots. The people will be unthinking, undriven robots of a corrupt race that is not a race, but they can hardly do the same to nations such as China, India, Africa, or Japan. Today, the Democratic party presents himself like a mime, pretending to be an American, or a Christian, but he cannot create a bridge to reach God or the Constitution of the United States of America. If Americans are unwilling to suffer or tolerate the Democrat’s lust for power, the danger posed by the Democratic party means they have a duty to forget about bad feelings of the past and join hands with those who are also threatened. The parliamentary tramps took no part in the fighting for this country. Not this gang od sneaking thieves who spent their time playing party politics instead. On the contrary, while red blooded Americans fought, believing that only victory could preserve America for the American people, the mouths of these Ephialteses schemed and plotted so long against this country until finally, the Siegfried yielded to the stab in the back with no grease. #RandolphHarris 8 of 21

The deepest and truest parts of us are our faith and our relationships. However, wherever you go, carefully stop and look. Glimpse beyond the loneliness of our lives, and you will see the dignity of human actions all around. Physicians care for the sick, congregations stock food banks, volunteers feed the poor, humanitarians alleviate the destruction of natural disasters, and neighbours take care of neighbours in distress. Moral heroes always appear on the front lines of tragedy. Dignity has a divine origin. It is our universal birthright. Everyone possesses dignity simply by being human, regardless of religion, race, gender, or nationality. The Universal Declaration of Human Rights states that dignity is the “foundation of freedom, justice and peace in the World.” Therefore, we have the right of life, liberty, security, and equal protection of the law, and the freedom of thought, speech, and religion. Rights stem from dignity, and dignity results from rights. Both feed off each other in a legal and cultural symbiosis. We need to see a reflection of ourselves in each other—our dreams, hopes, hurts, and despairs. Otherwise, we become strangers and foreigners. We discover our dignity in relating with others. Everyone wants to be known, seen, and recognized. We want our efforts to make a difference and our struggles to be acknowledged. The demand for respect is as ancient as society itself. Peace begins with respect for the uniqueness of each person. #RandolphHarris 9 of 21

The concept of human dignity may vary from culture to culture, but it acts as a constant in a volatile and changing World. Human rights smooth out the imbalances of privilege, wealth, and opportunity. And those rights must be universally applied. Otherwise, justice becomes reduced to whoever is in power at the moment. Dignity is about knowing who we are as human beings. The search for ultimate meaning, whether as an individual or in community, is a sacred prerogative. No one can impose that path on us; we must define it for ourselves. As if they have always been protected and always will be protected, we often take human rights for granted. Deeper than law, they are inscribed in our brightest hopes and aspirations for life. We believe our rights come from God, but the care of those rights is up to us. This divine origin is important. If our rights become simply what the majority of the people want, then they are nothing more than a power play or mere opinion. As Alexander Hamilton, a major intellectual influence on constitutions around the Word wrote: “The sacred rights of mankind are not to be rummaged for among old parchments, or musty records. They are written, as with a sunbeam, in the whole volume of human nature, by the hand of the divinity itself; and can never be erased or obscured by mortal power.” Once he has found out his true relationship to the higher power, the problem of settling his relationship to other human beings becomes easy. #RandolphHarris 10 of 21

The evolution of religion is closely interwoven with development of man’s self-awareness and individuation. It seems that with the development of self-awareness, man also developed the experience of his aloneness and separateness from others. This experience leads to intense anxiety and, to overcome this anxiety, man developed the passionate desire to be united with the World, to cease being separate. For hundreds of thousands of years, he attempted to return to where he had come from, to become one again with nature. He wanted to be again one with the animal, one with the trees; he wanted to escape the burden of being human, of having consciousness of himself and of the World. He tried to achieve this union in many ways. He worshipped trees and rivers, he identified himself with animals and sought for fulfilment by feeling and attacking like an animal. Or, he tried to eliminate his consciousness, to forget that he was human, by taking intoxicants, drugs, or orgies of pleasures of the flesh. Eventually he made himself idols into whom he projected all he had, to whom he sacrificed his children and his cattle, to feel part of the idol, and strong and powerful in this symbiosis. Yet, at one point of history, very recently indeed, less than four thousand years ago, man made a decisive turn. He recognized that he could never return to the innocence of paradise; that he could never solve the problem of being a man, of transcending nature and yet being in it, by going backward. #RandolphHarris 11 of 21

Man recognized that he could solve his problem only by moving forward, by developing fully his reason and his love, by becoming fully human and this finding a new harmony with man and nature, feeling again at home in the World. The script scene began long ages past, when life first oozed out of the mud and began to transmit the results of its experiences chemically, through genes, to its descendants. This chemical branch culminated in the spider, who spins his strange circular geometry without instruction, the coiled spirals in his chromosomes supplying him with instant engineering drawings that will bring any corner where the files abound. In his case, the script is written in fixed molecules of organic acids (DNA) bequeathed him by his parents, and he spends his life as an educated pen point, carrying out their instructions with no possibility of deviation or improvement except by drugs or some untoward accident beyond his control. In man, too, the genes determine chemically some of the patterns he must follow, and from which he cannot deviate. They also set the upper limit for his individual aspirations: how far he can go as an athlete, thinker, or musician, for example, although because of psychological barriers great or small, few men reach their full possibilities even in these fields. #RandolphHarris 12 of 21

Many a man with the chemistry of a great ballet dancer spends his time dancing with other people’s dishes in a lunchroom, and others with the genes of a mathematician pass their days juggling other people’s papers in the back room of a bank or bookie joint. However, within his chemical limitations, whatever they are, each man has enormous possibilities for determining his own fate. Usually, however, his parents decide it for him long before he can see what they are doing. As life broke free to some extent from rigid chemical patterns, other ways of regulating behaviour gradually evolved to take up the slack. The most primitive of these is probably imprinting, which is barely one step beyond a reflex. Imprinting assures that an infant organism will automatically follow a certain object and treat it like a mother, whether it is really his mother or merely a yellow card drawn past him on a string. This automatic response helps to ensure his survival in moments of stress, but if it goes awry, it can make trouble, too. The next step came when some animals stayed with their mothers and learned through play; patterns too complex or variable to be transmitted through the genes could be taught with a playful bite or roll or a box on the ear. Then came imitation and a response to voice signals, so that the young could do not only what their genes prompted them to, and what they learned at their mothers’ breasts, but also what they saw and heard in the real living of the seas, plains, and forests. #RandolphHarris 13 of 21

It is now known that almost every kind of living organism can be trained. Bacteria can be “trained” chemically to use one kind of sugar as a substitute for another. Almost all other animals, from worms on up, can be trained psychologically, by conditioned reflexes, to go through a new and special patterns of behaviour. This is probably, in the long run, chemical, too, and depends on more flexible kinds of DNA than are found in the genes. However, training requires trainers, and they are something else. They must be one cut or dimension above the organisms they are training. This means they must be tamed. Taming is as different from training as a cat is from a tiger. Taming, in animals, means that the animal obeys his master even when his master is not there. This is different from training, because training requires an outside stimulus to start off a certain pattern of behaviour, while taming assures the behaviour because the stimulus is inside the animal’s head. A trained animal will obey his master’s voice when he hears it out loud; a tamed one does not need to hear the sound, because he carries it around in his brain. Thus, wild animals can be trained to do tricks at their trainer’s command, but they cannot easily be housebroken. Tame animals go further than that; they can be taught to behave as their master wishes even when he is away. There are various degrees of tameness, and the tamest animals of all are human children. #RandolphHarris 14 of 21

The most intelligent animals—monkeys, apes, and people (and maybe dolphins too)—have another special capacity, and that is invention. This means that they can do things that none of their kinds has ever done before: anything from piling one wooden box on another, to putting two rods together to form a longer one, to shooting for the moon. In order to account for this progression, we can assume that DNA is evolving into ever softer and more pliable forms. Starting out as the brittle molecules of genes, which cannot be molded, but only shattered, it thawed out enough so that it could be slightly altered by repeated gentle blows of conditioning, although it would spring back if these were not reinforced from time to time. Then it softened still more to that it could record the echoes of vanished voices and events, and keep them there for a lifetime, long after they were forgotten. In still more flexible form, it became the vehicle for memory and consciousness. And in its most sensitive form to date, it shifts and vibrates in the zephyrs of experience to give us thinking and invention. What will come forth when it becomes even more delicate in its responses none of us now living will ever know, but some day our descendants will be wondrous beings that only poets presently can dimly contemplate. #RandolphHarris 15 of 21

Human beings have all the capacities mentioned above. Their behaviour patterns are determined by rigid reflex genes, primitive imprinting, infant play and imitation, parental training, social taming, and spontaneous invention. Scripts involve all of these. The typical human being, whom we will call “Jeder,” represents nearly every member of the human race in every soil and clime. He carries out his script because it is planted in his head at an early age by his parents, and stays there for the rest of his life, even after their vocal “flesh” has gone forevermore. It acts like a computer tape or a player piano roll, which brings out the responses in the planned order long after the person who punched the holes has departed the scene.  Jeder meanwhile sits before the piano, moving his fingers along the keyboard under the illusion that it is he who brings the folksy ballad or the stately concerto to its foregone conclusion. If they are not of such compelling strength as to prohibit the endeavour entirely, there are various ways in which deterring psychic forces, such as those discussed above, may affect an endeavour at self-analysis. For one thing, they may imperceptibly spoil the whole analysis by causing it to be carried out in a spirit of only partial blind spots concerning rather wide areas, which are present at the beginning of ever analysis, persist throughout the work, rather than decreasing gradually in extent and intensity. Factors lying outside these areas may be faced squarely. However, since no area within the self is isolated from others, and hence cannot really be understood without being related to the whole structure, even those factors that are seen remain on the level of superficial insight. #RandolphHarris 16 of 21

I once overheard a talk given by former President Obama to southern African Americans. He really tore into them about their sycophant relations with southern European Americans. However, he also said, “I know I’m being hard on you, but I’m just not feeling soft tonight.” His words and voice matched, clearly expressing both the “hard” that he was feeling and his regret that he was not feeling “soft.” “Tonight” indicated his awareness of change, leaving other possibilities open for the future. When my honest with me, I think it is not harmful to someone else. If it does nothing more, the other has the relief that I heard in a very disturbed person’s voice when he said to me, “Well anyway, you’re honest.” If I act from the facts of myself rather than from beliefs about the other—or about myself—it is better all around. “I am a patient person.” “I am an intolerant person.” “I am a moral person (with no wayward thoughts or inclinations).” When I decide that “I am” anything, this excludes from me what is going on in me now, which is the only reality of what “I am.” When I am aware of this, I am aware of other realities around me. Despite all similarities, every living situation has, like a newborn child, a new face that has never been before and will never come again. It demands of you a reaction which cannot be prepared beforehand. It demands nothing of what is past. It demands presence, responsibility; it demands you. Me. Not what I think about me, or what others think about me, which can never be myself. #RandolphHarris 17 of 21

We have mentioned the experiences of ecstasy and of unification; these states are in contrast with the usual ways in which we experience ourselves and our World in the usual conduct of daily life. When we go about the regular business of living in our usual roles with others, without having our basic needs satisfied, we experience the World, most often, under the influence of deficiency motivation. Many people never can experience the World in other than this everyday way, or even have a conception of the possibility of such experience. Deficiency motivation (or D-motivation) is one of two ways identified by Maslow to perceive the World. The other approach is through being motivation (B-motivation). Persons functioning under D-motivation are governed and determined in their perceptions or consciousness by their deprivations, and they can only see the World in terms of what satisfaction for basic needs (such as safety) it can give. People and the World are seen only in terms of their use or exploitations of them. On the other hand, persons who are basically need-satiated can see the World in a broader, cosmic fashion, as it is and as it might be. They can react to the World with their inner being, their irreducible nature. Being-motivation perception is akin to many of the “letting be” philosophies of Jesus Christ. Perception must then be gentle, delicate, unintruding, undemanding, able to fit itself passively to the nature of things as water gently soaks into crevices. It must not be the need-motivated kind of perception which shapes things in a blustering, over-riding, exploiting, purposeful fashion. #RandolphHarris 18 of 21

Thus, consciousness that has as its base the person who has largely satiated his other deprivation needs can move on to become B-motivated and manifest the “gentle per-perception” indicated by Maslow. The Sacramento Fire Department is dedicated to being actively engaged in the community through public education and fire prevention, while diligently maintaining a strong states of preparedness to respond to emergencies. Not all heroes wear capes. “I worked for many years with a man named X, who was a bodybuilder. He had the most formidable arms in the firehouse, great construction worker fists, and a voice as velvety soft as any high-quality cloth you ever felt. He sang like Billy Eckstein, and no one ever asked him to shut up when he was singing, although the bulges beneath his shirt would preclude the request in any event. X was a mild-mannered guy, but he was also a tough piece of work who has spent all his life in the black neighborhoods of Sacramento City, environments that Norman Rockwell never painted. One day X was playing poker with four or five other guys at an old wooden table in the kitchen of Engine Company Z. Another firefighter, named Y, walked into the room. Y had also been seasoned on the streets of Sacramento and was no piece of cake. Unlike X, however, he was not an easy going guy; he always had an edge of hostility at the corners of his mouth and a strange turn of eye. He was a big guy, bigger than X. #RandolphHarris 19 of 21

Y had a wooden-handled knife about eight inches long, and he began throwing it into the scarred wood of the table. He started at the far edge of the table and worked his way along the table toward the card players. Thump, the knife would go in, and Y would pull it out. Thump, again the knife went in, and Y pulled it out. The knife was coming closer and closer to where X was holding his cards. Finally, X looked up at Y, and I remember his words as clearly as I remember the Ten Commandments. He said, ‘You better stop it, Y, because you’re going to cut me. And when you cut me, you’re going to say you’re sorry.’ Y laughed the kind of laugh you heard from the villain with the cape when tying the blonde to the railroad tracks. He threw the knife into the table several more times, closer and closer to X, until finally the knife went right through X’s hand. Y quickly pulled out the knife, the hand was bleeding, and Y yelled, ‘X, I’m sorry, I’m sorry.’ X got up, took a step, and with the other hand whomped Y in the jaw, throwing him back ten or fifteen feet onto the kitchen floor. The knife went flying out of Y’s hand, thank God. X very coolly took a handkerchief out of his pocket and wrapped it around the knife wound. He said, ‘Being sorry isn’t enough.’” Sometimes our actions have unintended consequences. It is best to think things thing. Although sometimes sorry is not enough, sometimes we never get to apologize for our mistakes. Life can be short or long. Love can be right or wrong. #RandolphHarris 20 of 21

True friendship is not formed as are most of these by self-interest, vanity, custom, or habit. It is a profound tie formed not seldom between those who have lived together and died together under remote skies and remoter centuries no less than in familiar lands and more recent times. We are bound to each other by links that have lost themselves in the archaic past, links of affectionate studentship and hallowed trust, and—not seldom—the mutual suffering of sharp persecution, when the prison cell and the torturer’s stake were the punishment for expressing or believing truth. The Sacramento Fire Department plays a crucial role in ensuring the safety of the city. You can help save lives and property by donating to the Sacramento Fire Department. As we are dedicated to having a safe country, please raise your children to love America, to love God and Jesus Christ and be patriotic Americans. It is important to buy American cars and other goods and services manufactured in America. Do not spend your life trying to be famous. Get an education. It may be hard, but life without taking a risk can be even more difficult. Always remember to be safe and respect law and order, treat others with dignity and respect, and obey your parents and be honest. They will usually find out the truth anyway. I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic for which it stands, One Nation, under God, Indivisible, with Liberty and Justice for all. Praise the Lord! One accord, sound throughout creation; laud and sing, honour bring Him without cessation; and His fame loud proclaim, every land and nation. #RandolphHarris 21 of 21

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