
The past two years have not been the most actives times for many of us. As you are aware, we have been somewhat restricted due to a condition know as growing older. I believe I now understand a bit more clearly what is meant by enduring to the end. It is difficult and frustrating not to be able to do all that we would like to do. Nevertheless, many of us still do several things. We are richly blessed and have so much to be thankful for. As we meditate upon these things, remember the words of the Lord, “For unto whomsoever much is given, of one much shall be required,” reports Luke 12.48. The Lord expects of us righteousness and obedience to His commandments in return for the bounties of life He has so richly bestowed upon us. It seems that iniquity abounds on all sides, with the Adversary taking full advantage of the time remaining to him in this day of his power. The leaders of the Church continually cry out against that which is intolerable in the sight of the Lord: against pollution of mind and body and our surroundings; against vulgarity, stealing, lying, cheating, false witness, boastful pride, blasphemy, and drunkenness; against fornication, adultery, risky lifestyles, and all other abuses of the sacred power to create; against murder and all that is like unto it; against all manner of degradation and sin. Culture refers to the set of values, attitudes, and beliefs, history, and behaviour shared by a group of people and communicated from one generation to the next. Culture often influences which behaviours are considered abnormal and how other people react to such behaviours. If, for example, a person’s friends and family value and encourage drinking large quantities of alcoholic beverage, the individual may be more inclined to turn to alcohol at times of stress and to drift into a pattern of problem drinking; and interventions for such a pattern may be avoided. #RandolphHarris 1 of 20
During the past four decades, sociocultural researchers have greatly increased their focus on possible ties between culture and abnormal behaviour. They have learned that some of the disorders we see—anorexia nervosa, agoraphobia, borderline personality disorder—are much less common in non-Western countries. It may be that key Western values—such as the importance of thin appearance, emphasis on high mobility, and endorsement of emotional expression—help set the stage for such disorders. Sociocultural theorists are also concerned with the social networks in which people operate, including their social and professional relationships. How well do they communicate with others? What kind of signals do they send to or receiver from others? Researchers have often found ties between deficiencies in social networks and a person’s functioning. They have noted, for example, that people who are isolated and lack social support or intimacy in their lives are more likely to become depressed when under stress and to remain depressed longer than people with supportive spouses or warm friendships. Wide-ranging societal conditions may create special stresses and increase the likelihood of abnormal functioning in some members. Researchers have learned, for example, that psychological abnormality, especially severe psychological abnormality, is more common in the lower socioeconomic classes than in the higher ones. Perhaps the special pressures of the lower-class life explain this relationship. That is, the higher rates of crime, unemployment, overcrowding, and homelessness; the inferior medical care; and the limited educational opportunities of lower-class life may place great stress on members of these groups. #RandolphHarris 2 of 20

Conversely, it may be that people who suffer from severe mental disturbances are less effective at work and earn less money and, as a result, drift downward to a lower socioeconomic class. Sociocultural researchers have noted that racial and sexual prejudice and discrimination may also contribute to certain forms of abnormal functioning. Women in Western society receive diagnoses of anxiety and depressive disorders at least twice as often as men. Similarly, African America experience unusually high rates of anxiety disorders. Hispanic persons, particularly young men, have higher rates of alcoholism than members of most other ethnic groups. And Native Americas display exceptionally high alcoholism and suicide rates. Although many factors may combine to produce these differences, racial and sexual prejudice and the problems they pose may contribute to abnormal patterns of tension, unhappiness, low self-esteem, and escape. The pressures and uncertainty of living in a war-torn environment, which many people believe the United States of America has become with all the violence, rioting, looting, fake news, pandemic, and traffic fatalities, may contribute to the development of psychological problems. The environment’s ongoing violence may leave some individuals feeling numb and confused. Also, more people are frequently moving away from the church and being taught that it is okay to be dysfunctional. Sociocultural theorists also believe that abnormal functioning is influenced greatly by the labels and role assigned to troubled people. When people stray from the norms of their society, the society call them deviant and, in many cases, “mentally ill.” Such labels tend to stick. Moreover, when people are viewed in particular ways, reacted to as “crazy,” and perhaps even encouraged to act sick, they gradually learn to accept and play the assigned role. Ultimately the label seems appropriate. #RandolphHarris 3 of 20

A famous study by the clinical investigator David Rosenhan (1973) supports this position. Eight normal people presented themselves at various mental hospitals, complaining that they have been hearing voices say the words “empty,” “hollow,” and “thud.” On the basis of the complaint alone, each was diagnosed as having schizophrenia and admitted. As the sociocultural model would predict, the “pseudopatients” had a hard time convincing others that they were well once they had been given the diagnostic label. With that being known, some corrupt politicians and lawyers frame people from crimes, have them declared incompetent to stand trial, and then they are basically able to convict individuals without a trial, even if they are innocent. The people in this study, their hospitalizations ranged from 7 to 52 days, even the label kept influencing the way the staff viewed and dealt with them. For example, one pseudopatient who paced the corridor out of boredom was, in clinical notes, described as “nervous.” Finally, the pseudoppatients reported that the staff’s behaviour toward them and other patients was often authoritarian, limited, and counterproductive. Overall, the pseduopatients came to feel powerless, invisible, and bored. As Christians we must ever be vigilant. The way for each person and each family to guard against the slings and arrows of the Adversary and to prepare for the great Lord is to hold fast to the iron rod, to exercise greater faith, to repent of our sins, and shortcomings, and to be anxiously engaged in the work of God’s Kingdom on Earth. We must not falter nor weary in well-doing. We must lengthen our stride. Not only is out own eternal welfare at stake, but also the eternal welfare of money of our brothers and sisters. #RandolphHarris 4 of 20

Given the often disturbed parent-child relationships associated with anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa, it is not surprising that a number of other mental health problems tend to covary with these disorders. Chief among these are depressed, substance use disorders, and anxiety disorders. It is important to note that these related mental health problems may in some cases be secondary to the eating disorder, and more strongly associated with poor family relationships than with the eating disorder. The elevated incidence of BPD (borderline personality disorder) among patients with eating disorders (running at high as 40 percent) is also notable, in that symptoms of this disorder include difficulties with personal relationships, poor anger control, impulsivity, and affective instability. Also notable is the fact that childhood sexual abuse has been implicated in both BPD and bulimia nervosa. There is some evidence to suggest that the eating disorder-personality disorder comorbidity is different for different types of eating disorders. In particular, bulimia nervosa is associated with a high rate of BPD, whereas anorexia nervosa is associated with a relatively high rate of avoidant personality disorder. These differing rates of personality disorders may reflect different interpersonal mechanisms in bulimia nervosa (exempli gratia, approach-avoidance conflicts) versus anorexia nervosa (exempli gratia, concern with social evaluation). Rates of anxiety disorders also run very high among those with eating disorders. Among probands diagnosed with bulimia nervosa in one large-scale study, the comorbidity with anxiety disorders was 42 percent for phobias, 11 percent for generalized anxiety disorder, and 9 percent for panic disorder. #RandolphHarris 5 of 20

In most cases, the anxiety comes first and is followed by the eating disorder. A particular type of self-conscious social anxiety—one that causes people to be ultraconcered with appearance and thinness—many strongly contribute to the development of an eating disorder. In this case, again, a concern with interpersonal or social relations appears to be the common link between the anxiety and the eating disorder. The comorbidity of eating disorders with other interpersonally oriented mental health problems suggests that eating disorders reside in a nomological network that also holds problematic interpersonal relationships and functioning in close proximity. There is an undeniable association between eating disorders and past (id est, childhood) as well as concurrent interpersonal relationship problems. Distressed and dysfunctional family-of-origin interactions are common antecedents to both anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa. Families of people with these problems have difficulty setting and respecting appropriate boundaries, adapting to change, and containing their criticism of each other. In extreme cases, boundary violations in these families may take the form of childhood sexual abuse, particularly in the case of those who go on to develop bulimia nervosa. Parents in these families also sometimes exert inappropriate and excessive pressure to achieve on their children. Sadly, interpersonal problems do not always end when offspring with eating disorders leave their families of origin. These young adults depart from their families with dysfunctional attitudes and beliefs about close relationships with other people. They may eschew physical intimacy with others, partly out of their dissatisfaction with their own bodies, and partly out of anxiety about sexuality. Unfortunately, other people do not appear particularly eager to develop romantic or other relationships with those who have an eating disorder. #RandolphHarris 6 of 20

When people with anorexia nervosa or bulimia nervosa do get married, they are likely to find themselves in dissatisfying marriages. Still evident at this advanced stage of interpersonal development and experience are avoidance of physical intimacy and poor conflict-handling skills. Not surprisingly, the spouse of people with eating disorders are also unhappy with the state of their marriages. The pervasiveness and seriousness of interpersonal problems associated with eating disorders may explain why family and interpersonal therapies are so effective for their treatment. Therapies that focus on understanding and improving the interpersonal landscape of patients with eating disorders, even though they do not focus on the disorders per se, tend to be more effective for treating such disorders than traditional cognitive or behavioural therapies are. If some sense of order can be brought to these patients’ interpersonal and family relations, symptoms of eating disorders may dissipate without any specific attention being paid to them. A number of very useful interpersonal theories have been developed to explain and describe eating disorders. These include the modeling of inappropriate dieting and eating behaviors by a parent; the psychodynamic explanation of food’s symbolic significance in the battle for separation—individuation between the mother and daughter; attempts to “desexualize” the self, either in reaction to sexual abuse or as a means of avoiding upcoming sexual maturity; and a diathesis—stress model, which indicates that certain preexisting temperamental patterns may combine with the experience of stressors (perhaps from the family of origin) to promote eating disorders. Both anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa tend to coexist with several other psychological problems, including depression, BPD, and anxiety disorders. #RandolphHarris 7 of 20

Even a brief perusal of the literature associated with these disorders will reveal a number of common interpersonal antecedents and concomitants. Among these are rejection from others, childhood abuse and trauma, and uncaring family relations. Finally, it is important to note that not all people with eating disorders have grossly disturbed interpersonal and family relations. Like any mental health problem, eating disorders may be caused by a variety of factors, only some of which are interpersonal. However, a full appreciation of the experience of anorexia nervosa or bulimia nervosa demands a careful consideration of the social/interpersonal context in which these problems are deeply embedded. However, we have hope in Jesus Christ here and now. He died for our sins. Because of Him and His gospel, our sins are washed away in the waters of baptism; sin and iniquity are burned out of our souls as though by fire; and we become clean, we have a clear conscience, and we gain that peace which passeth understanding. We believe, and it is our testimony, and we proclaim it to the World, “that there shall be no other name given nor any other way nor means whereby salvation can come unto the children of men, only in and through the name of Jesus Christ, the Lord Omnipotent,” reports Mosiah 3.17. Many individuals spend their lives looking in their rearview mirrors thinking about what could have been, what should have been; always dwelling on the pains of the past so much so that they may lose what they have today because they are so full of hostility, bitterness, resentment and anger. This negativity fuels with the rage to commit crimes to get revenge on innocent victims, which may result in the lose of their homes, cars, jobs, and even their retirement. However, the prospect of sinking that venom into someone else is so strong that they are blind. #RandolphHarris 8 of 20

Carrying around a victim mentality like that will develop such a strong vortex that you will interfere with God’s plan and block out the blessing in your life because your tornado of evil is so strong. The Scripture says that God wants to give us beauty for our ashes, joy for our mourning, rejoicing for our heaviness. However, here is the key: You have to get rid of that venom before you can taste the honey. Venom is what is left over after something has been burned up and one seeks revenge. We all have our share of pain, broken dreams, disappointments, hurts, and failures. However, God wants to give of compassion, mercy, grace, and love in exchange for them. “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me, because the LORD has anointed Me to preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted…to console those who mourn in America, to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness,” reports Isaiah 61.1-3. You cannot hold on to doom and gloom and have the beauty at the same time. If you want God to give you fresh, new dreams, then you must let go of your shattered dreams. Stop dwelling on your disappointments. Forgive the people who you feel have hurt you. Stop being evil and ghetto and jealous and bitter. Release that dysfunctional behaviour and God will give you a new beginning. If you do not let go of the old, God will not do the new and that is a heavy price to pay. Truth is, you may never understand why. Just let go of the venom. Learn to trust God. He has a new beginning for you, but you dare not make the mistake of being trapped in the hood, carrying around that some old bag, living with the victim mentality. I know a man who lost his wife in a tragic plane crash more than twenty years ago. She was a very beautiful and outgoing woman. Now, it is normal to go through a period of grieving. That is the way God made us. #RandolphHarris 9 of 20

If you have lost a job, a marriage, or most certainly a loved one, I am not saying that you should never feel discouragement or sorrow. However, this man was still grieving twenty years later! He allowed a season of mourning to turn into a lifetime of mourning. I tried to encourage him, reminding him that there are good days ahead. However, he would never receive that. He was trapped in the past. He was constantly making excuses, blaming God, blaming other people. Now, I do not mean to sound harsh, but over time, I began to realize that the grieving man did not really want to get well. He licked wallowing in self-pity. He liked the attention that it got him. He became known as “the man who lost his beloved.” Sadly, he let his tragedy become his identity. To this day, he is living a depressed and defeated life, almost as if he feels guilty because he knows he did something wrong to cause the accident. He is holding on to pain. God wants to give him a new beginning, but he will not let go of the old, he interfering with God’s plan to do something fresh and new in his life. When you are tempted to sit around feeling sorry for yourself, complaining about how unfair life is, ask yourself a tough question: “Do I really want to get well, or have I gotten comfortable with where I am in life?” Do not ever let your setback become your identity. To put in bluntly, if you were mistreated as you were growing up, you have got to get over that. Quit mourning about something that you cannot change. Maybe your business partner cheated you out of some money, or you missed out on a big promotion at work. Okay, quit dwelling on it; refrain from talking about it; stop brining it up to your friends all the time. God wants to being beauty in exchange for that venom. We need to avoid dwelling on anything that reminds of the pains of the past. Get rid of anything that evokes a negative, hurtful memory. #RandolphHarris 10 of 20

The man I mentioned preciously had several newspaper articles about that accident lying on his coffee table at home. Every time he walked by there, he was reminded of the pains of the past. I told him, “Get rid of those things. Put some happy pictures of your wife up. Put some things up that bring back good memories, not all this junk. If you want a new state, you have got to get rid of anything that reminds you of the old.” If you are still mourning over what you have lost, thinking about how badly you miss that person, and it is opening up all those old, festering, infected wounds, you are only hurting yourself. That is not healthy. If it is not doing anything beneficial in your life, do not do it. Friend, God always has a new beginning. The real question is: Are you willing to move on with your life with a good attitude, know that God has a bright future in store? What Devout happening upon a fountain of sweetness in the wood would not hurry back to report on one’s good fortune! As proof, one would wave the aromatic branch one dipped into the pool. What Devout hogging the fireplace does not feel one’s bottom growing warm! You are the Fount, the splish, and the splash! You are the Flame, the cackle, and the crackle. The Great Augustine himself did not put it better in his Confessions (10.29). You are the Pipe of wine that flows freely; that is to say, the Heavenly Cask containing the graces and consolations. If not for me, at least for other. However, if I am not allowed to drink from the end, I will die of thirst. Perhaps the tap is in the off position. There would still be some drippage, some droppage. I could survive on that. Anything to slake my thirst, make my fever subside. I am not a total Cherub or Seraph yet, flitting about like a celestial firefly, but I do experience a flicker of Divine Fire that comes from the humble reception of the Life-Making Sacrament. Whatever I need but do not have, Good Jesus, Holy Savior, do supply me from the Divine Bin, and do it so it does not hurt. #RandolphHarris 11 of 20

After all You are the One who deigned to halloo the crowd. “Come to Me, all you carters and haulers, tremblers and trundlers, I can lighten your loads,” reports Matthew again 11.28. I labour by the sweat of my brow, as Genesis put it (3.19); I am tortured with the pain in my heart, I am burdened by sins, I am disquieted by temptations, I am implicated and compromised by my many evil passions. “There just does not seem to be anybody to help”—and the Psalmist was not the first, and certainly will not be the last, to tame this cry (20.12). Is there no one who can free up, make me feel safe again. Alas, no one else but You, Lord God, my Saviour, to whom I commit myself and all my cartage and haulage, that You may guard me and guide me through to Eternal Life. Receive me in the praise and glory of Your name, You who prepared Your Body and Blood as food and drink. I feel a prayer coming on…Grant, O Lord God, my Salvation, that the affection of my devotion may increase with the frequency of Your Mystery. Yes, Father, I want to leave the past in the past and move into the faith-filled future that You have for me. Thank You for the good memories I have, and thank You that the best days are still ahead! “So then faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God,” Romans 10.17. It does not say it comes by reading or by having heard, but it says faith comes by hearing (present tense). It comes by hearing the Word of God. The Greek says, “Faith cometh by report and the report by the declaration of God.” So faith cometh by hearing the rhema (spoken word) of God. When we hear ourselves speaking, saying what God said, it will produce faith in us more quickly than if we hear someone else saying it. Hearing your own voice speak God’s Word will excite your heart to action. For example, you do not always obey what someone else says, but you do obey your words. They govern you. #RandolphHarris 12 of 20

The Word says that the gospel did not profit them because it was not mixed with faith. They were hearers only of the Word, not doers. They did not do what God told them. There are many people today that say “Yes, I believe in prayer,” but they are not obedient to what God has said to do when you pray. To describe the principle that love can only be kept by being given away, we use the following analogy. In Palestine there are two bodies of water connected by the Jordan River: the Lake of Galilee and the Dead Sea. There is a vast difference between the two. The Lake of Galilee and the Dead Sea. There is a vast difference between the two. The Lake of Galilee is rich in its supply of fish. In New Testaments times, it was the scene of Christ’s calling of several of the disciples who were fishermen by trade. The Lake of Galilee both receives its suppl of water from, and returns water to, the Jordan River. Therefore, the water is always fresh and clean, and the lake not only supports marine life but also provides food for human life outside its boundaries. After the Jordan River leaves the Lake of Galilee, it enters the Dead Sea some sixty miles southward. However, the Dead Sea is so far below sea level that it has no outlet; the water evaporates, leaving a high concentration of salts, which kills all fish in its depths and makes it unfit for human consumption. Its waters, by being constantly held within its boundaries, become bitter, stagnant, and brackish. And so it is with the person who only receives from others and from life, and refuses to give freely out of what one has received. One of the things that most blocks the flowing of love back and forth in relationships is one-upmanship. By this, we mean that one or both persons have a need to win or always be right. This is especially prevalent in marriage relationships, where it takes a high toll in casualties. However, it also occurs in all other relationships. #RandolphHarris 13 of 20

Most of us have heard the manipulative guidelines for establishing controlling relationships with others: “If you want to keep them interested, never show your real feelings to others”; “Play hard to get”; “Use put-downs to keep the other person in place”; “Always keep the other person guessing”; or “Try to wrap them around your finger.” These messages reflect a profound lack of awareness about what makes for healthy, enjoyable, mutually enriching relationships. If these messages have played a part in moulding out personality, then they will probably still be contaminating our present relationships with spouses, children, friends, or fellow workers. Thus, we may continue to exploit and manipulating others to satisfy our unconscious drive for power, security, and control. We will use others in a way that reveals loveless power, not the power of love, to be the root of our existence. What is needed is the ability and insight to change relationships from a power struggle to a mutually beneficial exchange. Such love is a delight in the presence of the other person and an affirming of one’s value and development as much as one’s own. Paul emphasizes similar qualities in his famous passage on love found in I Corinthians 13. He writes that “love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude…It…rejoices in the right.” Love has the rare ability to be pleased rather than threatened by the talents, achievements, and triumphs of others. An important principle for people, especially married couples, to realize is that God often moves through their closet relationships to teach them more and more about themselves and about life. Therefore, the wise person learns to value the honest and loving feedback that those closet to one are able to provide. This changes the format of a relationship from a power struggle for power to an opportunity for growth and enrichment. The person becomes partners, each committed both to one’s own deepest fulfillment and to the highest good of the other. #RandolphHarris 14 of 20

The experience of companionship and the expression of caring are essential ingredients for living fully. Abraham Lincoln said that “the better part of one’s life consists of one’s friendships.” When someone cares, it is easier to find meaning in life. If we can develop friendships based on honesty, trust, and love, it will help us greatly along the journey towards wholeness. Friendship is the comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring all—right out—just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful friendly hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and, with a breath of comfort, blow the rest away. The relationship of love is the most effective way of bridging the unbridgeable gap between two separate human beings. To feel truly loved—that is, deeply accepted and understood by another person or by God—is liberating. It enables one to be seen in the context of one’s weaknesses, faults, and psychological or physical shortcomings. Such behaviours as pretending to be what one is not, defending oneself, or striving to attract or impress the other person gradually fall away. They are replaced by a growing honesty and spontaneity in self-expression and a greater feeling of being natural in the relationship. This leads to the paradox that the more one surrenders in a genuinely loving relationship, the more one becomes one’s true self. The more one gives to the other, the more one receives. Jesus expressed this principle when he taught people to develop a giving attitude: “Give, and it will be given to you; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For the measure you give [to others] will be the measure you het back,” reports Luke 6.38. The Christian lifestyle can be summed up in the one word—“love.” Outgoing love that results in concrete deeds of service is the fruit of one who is being led by the Holy Spirit. #RandolphHarris 15 of 20

Touching other people’s lives in a caring way can take many forms. One may develop the awareness to often compliment, praise, and admire one’s spouses and children. One may learn to be gracious in relating to colleagues, employer, or employees. One may offer service to a stranger in need. One may practice being considerate in daily transaction with others in such diverse activities as shopping, handling business, or driving on the freeway. As growing persons, we can give ourselves permission to try out new behaviour. We can experiment in daily transactions with others by expressing a simple, a warm greeting, a pleasant compliment, or a gentle touch. Before long, there will be greater coordination of our feelings, thoughts, and bodily actions. As a feeling of compassion stirs us, we can caringly touch people and tell them of our concern. When a feeling of admiration emerges, we can tell people how much we appreciate them and perhaps touch their hands or shoulders as we do so. If we feel joy with others, we might hug them or claps their hands. If we feel playful, we might want to joke with them. These options and many more can become sincere, effective ways to communicate or positive feelings to others. Of course, any of these channels can be reduced to the level of manipulative tactics. That is why the actualizing Christian develops the paradoxical qualities of prudent openness, discriminating trust, and disciplined spontaneity in the expression of one’s love to others. The Scriptures teach that compassion and caring ought to be extended to all human beings, above and beyond our normal sphere of relationships. The Christian is called to experience an ever-widening sphere of meaningful personal relationships throughout life. There is no age limit to this. However, courage is required at any age to reach out to others and to risk sharing their joys and their sorrows. #RandolphHarris 16 of 20

This does not mean that we ought to distress ourselves terribly about other people’s misfortunes. However, it does indicate that we ought to nurture an attitude of profound respect for the well-being of others and tht we should give sincerely what we can in terms of time, energy, and financial and material resources to meet some of the needs of a suffering humanity. Jesus expresses his profound identification with the suffering of humankind when he says: “I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me,” reports Matthew 25.36. And James adds that “Religion that is pure and undefiled before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction,” reports James 1.27. As actualizing Christians, we do not insulate ourselves from suffering in the World. We instead become vessels through which the love of God can flow to bring comfort to the brokenhearted, impart courage to those who are losing hope, and creatively seek to meet needs as they arise in people’s lives. Loving involves a choice and therefore may be rightly understood as being an act of will. This implies a sense of duty in the loving relationship, “in sickness and in health, for better or for worse.” A truly loving relationship is not a flighty or transitory affair. It is a trustworthy commitment that endures even in the face of hardship or sacrifice. It is a faithful caring that actively seeks the well-being and fulfillment of the beloved. In loving, we are most like Jesus and most truly ourselves. “Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the Heavens, Jesus Christ the Son of God, let us hold fast out profession, or our confession,” reports Hebrews 4.14. Here is where so many have missed it. Most people hold fast to the problem. They hold fast to the sickness. We are to hold fast to our confession of faith. Our confession should agree with the Word of God. If it does not, it is a confession of unbelief because it agrees with the devil. The confession of your mouth, even after you have prayed correctly, will determine whether or not you receive. #RandolphHarris 17 of 20
If you have prayed and asked God for something, and then say, “I just do not know what I am going to do, it is just not working out,” you blew it! You cancelled your prayer. That prayer will not work for you. Hold fast to the confession of your faith. “Wherefore, holy brethren, partakers of the Heavenly calling, consider the Apostle and High Priest of our profession, Christ Jesus,” reports Hebrews 3.1. Actually in Greek the word for profession means “confession.” So we are to consider Jesus Christ, the Word, as the High Priest f the confession of our faith. I do not know what that means to you, but here is what it means to me: When I pray speaking faith-filled words concerning the things I desire, I can see Jesus, seated at the right hand of God the Father, nudging the Father and saying, “He is holding fast to the Word, saying the same things You said; He is returning Your Word to You. Now let us perform it just the way he said it.” Jesus confesses to the Father what I say if it agrees with the Word of God. However, if I say, “Lord, I have prayed and it is not working out,” He cannot say, “Father, he has prayed, but it is not working out.” The Father would say, “Those are not My words—who said that? Does not one know that I said one could have whatever one says, even in prayer?” Your confession is so vital to prayer. Your confession after prayer will either bind you to your problem or release you from it. The problem is yours and if you want it, God will let you have it back. You are the one to determine the outcome and proclaim it. Ever relation is based either on quantity, as double and half; or on action and passion, as the doer and the deed, the father and the son, the master and the servant, and the like. Now as there is no quantity in God, for He is great without quantity, as Augustine says, it follows that a real relation in God can be based only on action. Such relations are not based on the actions of God according to any extrinsic procession, forasmuch as the relations of God to creatures are not real in Him. Hence, it follows that real relations in God can be understood only in regard to those actions according to which there are internal, and no external, processions in God. #RandolphHarris 18 of 20

These processions are two only, as above explained one derived from the action of the intellect, the procession of the Word; and the other from the action of the will, the procession of love. In respect of each of these processions two opposite relations arise; one of which is the relation of the person proceeding from the principle; the other is the relation of the principle Himself. The procession of the Word is called generation in the proper sense of the term, whereby it is applied to living things. Now the relation of the principle of generation in perfect living beings is called paternity; and the relation of the one proceeding from the principle is called filiation. However, the procession of Love has no proper name of its own; and so neither have the ensuing relations a proper name of their own. The relation of the principle of this procession is called spiration; and the relation of the person proceeding is called procession: although these two names belong to the procession or origins themselves, and not to the relations. Even if you had the purity of the Angels and Archangels or the sanctity of John the Baptist, you still would not be worthy enough to receive this Sacrament, let alone handle it with your fingers. Worthiness has got nothing to do with it; that is to say, worthiness as Humankind defines it. There are just not enough human merits to go around when it comes to consecrating and handling the Sacrament of Christ. Consuming the Bread of Angels the way one eats a loaf—it is a Grand Mystery and a Great Dignity for the Priests. That is to say, this priestly power could have been given to Angels, but it was not. It was given only to Priests ordained in the rite of the Church. Only they have the power of celebrating the Mass and consecrating the Body of Christ. The Priest is a minister of God, using the Word of God the way God set it up. God is the Principal Initiator and the Invisible Operator of all things. Furthermore, you ought to put more faith in Omnipotent God, as He appears in this most excellent Sacramento, than in your own sensible yet silly World. To make this major readjustment, you must tiptoe through the tulips, that is to say, walk with fear and reverence. #RandolphHarris 19 of 20

Blessed be the works of your hand, O Holy One. Blessed be these hands that have touched life. Blessed by these hands that have nurtured creativity. Blessed be these hands that have held pain. Blessed be these hands that have embraced with passion. Blessed be these hands that have tended gardens. Blessed be these hands that have closed in anger. Blessed be these hands that have planted new seeds. Blessed be these hands that have harvested ripe fields. Blessed be these hands that have cleaned, washed, mopped, scrubbed. Blessed be these hands that have become knotty with age. Blessed be these hands that are wrinkled and scarred from doing justice. Blessed be these hands that have reached out and been received. Blessed be these hands that hold the promise of the future. Blessed be the works of your hands, O Holy One. O Lord our God, be gracious unto Thy people America and accept their prayer. Please restore the worship to Thy sanctuary and receive in loving favour the supplication of America. May the worship of Thy people be every acceptable unto Thee. Our God and God of our fathers, may our remembrance and the remembrance of our forefathers come before Thee. Remember the Messiah of the house of David, Thy servant, and America, Thy holy city, and all Thy people, the house of America. Please grant us deliverance and wellbeing, lovingkindness, life and peace on this day of the New Moon, the Feast of Unleavened bread, the Fest of Tabernacles. Please remember us this day, O Lord our God, for our good, and be mindful of us for a life of blessing. With Thy promise of salvation and mercy, deliver us and be gracious unto us, have compassion upon us and save us. Unto Thee do we lift our eyes for Thou art a gracious and merciful God and King. O may our eyes witness Thy return to America. Blessed art Thou, O Lord, who restorest Thy divine presence unto America. #RandolphHarris 20 of 20

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Your first #Thanksgiving in your new Brighton Station home? Time to make those turkey-filled memories!
Crack open the sparkling apple cider, bring out the cranberry cheese dip, and get on your aprons – it’s sure to be a fantastic holiday.
Happy Thanksgiving from all of us here at Cresleigh Homes!