We might picture love to be like Sunlight, and when you first fall in love the first inklings of Sunlight are just beginning to grace through the caverns of our mind. Soon your heart will be flooded with light and love. In contrast, negative thoughts like the doubts, fears, and resentments that we hold, which dim the light of the Sun making it barely come through. However, we all have the power to heal by removing the clouds of negative energy and allow the colourful rays of the Sun to perform their own personal magnetic power. As we consistently let go of resisting our fears and allow them to be surrendered, the energy that was tied up in the distress is relinquished and now becomes available to shine through the windows of our soul as the energy of love. Unconditional love has the greatest power of all, and that love is the energy that is celebrated. Unconditional love is a beneficial regard that means in personal relationships, we convey to our partners and families the sense that we will continue to value and care for them regardless of what they do or say. Unconditional love means that we may encourage a person to talk about even the most embarrassing or painful concerns, and good ones, too.  #RyanPhillippe 1 of 9

We require unconditional love to grow. There are some people who did not grow up knowing that someone would love them no matter what happened, and they are somehow scarred or emotionally crippled for life. Nonetheless, one has to realize that it not true. While people who have experienced a great deal of love in early life has fewer fears and a head start, this same love is intrinsic within all of us. By the very nature of our being and by the very nature of the life energy that flows through us and empowers us to breathe and to think, we all have that same vibrational energy level of love within us. I know that my mate will continue to love me no matter what I say or reveal. In an earlier marriage, I could never express any serious concerns without my spouse getting defensive or not understanding where I was coming from. As a consequence, I quit talking about things that really mattered. What a relief it is to be with someone who I can tell what is on my mind without worrying about the consequences. The purpose of communication is to provide a message that has some impact on the listener. We can sit down and imagine the quality of generosity and let go resisting it. #RyanPhillippe 2 of 9

There is an uncanny similarity involved in interpersonal disasters, marital difficulties, or the loss of a loved one. All human interaction—can be completely understood only when they are viewed within the larger context of the entire interpersonal life experiences of the individual. We have the unconscious fantasy that fear is keeping us alive; this is because fear is associated with our whole set of survival mechanisms. We have the idea that, if we let go of fear, our main defense mechanism, we would become vulnerable in some way. In reality, the truth is just the opposite. Fear is what blinds us to the real dangers of life. Fear is the greatest danger that the human body faces. It is fear and guilt that brings about disease and failure in every area of our lives. The cardiovascular systems of young healthy subjects changed far more during an experiment in which they are were asked to tell a story about a series of ambiguous pictures then did the cardiovascular systems of comparable subject who were suffering from essential hypertension. It was noted, however, that individuals suffering from hypertension uniformly remained distant, uninvolved, and socially insulated from the experimenter, while healthy individuals readily and even eagerly interact with the experimenter. #RyanPhillippe 3 of 9

There is clinical evidence to suggest that hypertensive patients are sensitive (both in the direction of amelioration and worsening of the medical status) to the vicissitudes of emotional interchange with physicians with whom they have established long-standing close emotional relationships. The insulating device we describe here and elsewhere may be looked upon teleologically as protection erected by these patients against their vulnerability in such close relationships. A circular type life-style exists for patients suffering from hypertension. Given their propensity to show exaggerated cardiovascular changes during various social interactions, such individuals try to protect themselves from cardiac reactions by socially insulating themselves. They try to remain detached and aloof in many social situations, a strategy which leads to exaggerated social “over-in-volvement,” with elevated blood pressure responses, when they do begin to interact. That emotional stress is a frequent precipitating factor in the development of congestive heart failure. Congestive heart failure is a serious medical problem that occurs when the heart is unable to completely pump out all the blood that returns to it. #RyanPhillippe 4 of 9

When the heart cannot completely pump out all the blood that returns to it, this leads to a situation in which the venous blood returning to the heart begins to back up, since there is still blood in the chambers of the chambers of the heart. Congestion, or an accumulation of fluids in various parts of the body (for example, in the lungs, legs, arms, or abdomen), results from the heart’s inability to maintain adequate circulation. It has been shown in 24 of 25 consecutive cases of congestive heart failure that the oneset of the crisis of congestive heart failure had precipitated the “emotional stress.” Sudden death of a son, desertion by a wife, desertion by a husband, rejection by a husband—the emotional events all seemed to involve the loss of some type of human love or the loss of security gained from human contact. In almost every case, the emotional crises involved types of interpersonal disasters similar to those that have been observed by other investigators. It has been noted that interpersonal life histories of these patients were most likely of major significance in predisposing them to develop cardiovascular disease. #RyanPhillippe 5 of 9

In our study, factors leading to congestive heart failure were for the first patient desertion by relative. The second patient died because of a relatives’ refusal to take care for her. The third patient because a death of a son. The four patient was desertion by one son and landlady; serious accident to other son. Patient five because of illness of mother; argument with wife. Six patient was desertion by wife. Seventh patient was sudden death of husband. Eighth patient heart failure was due to husband’s death rejection by relatives. Ninth patient was rejection by husband and son. Tenth was because marriage of daughter; wife’s leg amputated. Eleventh death by heart failure was due to desertion by husband. Twelfth was rejection by children. Thirteen death by congestive heart failure was because of desertion by brother and sister-in-law. Fourteenth was because of rejection by employer. Fifteenth was due to rejection by husband. Sixteenth death by congestive heart failure was because of rejection by employer. Seventh was eviction from home of 18 years. Eighteenth patient suffered congestive heart failure because of eviction from home of 17 years. The nineteenth patient died of congestive heart failure because of a loss of pseudomasculine defenses.  #RyanPhillippe 6 of 9

It is suggested that lack of social support, coupled with a variety of interpersonal stressed, had led to total circulatory collapse. The lack of love or sudden loss of love was the last in a series of unpleasant events which finally made the individual feel that they could not continue to accept a bad situation. In patient number three, for instance, the sudden death of a son, who had been living with the patient for many years. Although the patient had not mentioned the fact of his son’s death or talked of his relationship with him, it was learned through social services contacts that there had been an extremely close relationship between them. They have been living together, and the patient had been quite dependent upon him. Following the son’s death, mild congestive heart failure developed. On hospitalization, digitalis intoxication was found to be present. Digitalis intoxication includes fatigue, weakness, nausea, and anorexia, and it is a reflection of the patient’s underlying heart disease. Fear is itself the greatest danger that the human body faces. So it is really not a good idea to play games with people’s lives and threaten to take their loved one away, it could very well stress them out and lead to heart failure.  #RyanPhillippe 7 of 9

Can we not care for our bodies because we appreciate and value you them, rather than out of fear of disease and dying? Can we not be of service to others in our life out of love, rather than out of fear of losing them? Can we not be polite and courteous to others because we care for our fellow human beings, rather than because we fear losing their good opinion of us? Can we not do a good job because we care about the quality of our performance and we care about our fellow workers? Can we not perform our job well because we care about the recipients of our services, rather than just the fear of losing our jobs or pursuing our own ambition? Can we not accomplish more by cooperation, rather than by fearful competition? Can we not drive carefully because we have a high regard for ourselves and care for our welfare and those who love us, rather than because we fear an accident? On a spiritual level, is it not more effective if, out of compassion and identification with our fellow human beings, we care for them, rather than trying to love them out of fear of God’s punishment if we do not? Three infants who had been deprived of parental love initially failed to thrive while in the hospital. These infants began wasting away until the physician provided them with the warm interpersonal support, given exclusively by one or two nurses (mother surrogates). All three infants significantly improved after this nurturing car was introduced. #RyanPhillippe 8 of 9

Infants deprived of parental love failed to develop strong attachments to people. Their lack of interest extended also to objects. They did not show anxiety in the presences of strangers or distress when a person or a toy was removed. Still, it is rather easy to dismiss much of the research showing the destructive effects of social deprivation as irrelevant to must human situations. After all, few children in the United States of America are raised in total isolation. These kind of cases are highly unusual, even extreme. Nevertheless, they hint at the potential effects of the kind of partial social deprivation that appears to be growing in our society. Perhaps the most direct theoretical link between such early psychological trauma as the loss of one’s parents and subsequent physical illness can be drawn from the fact that adult psychopathology itself leads to serious problems in interpersonal relationships. And almost all psychiatrists believe such problems stem from early childhood. Those people who are unable to form close personal ties in adulthood would likely appears in the mortality tables. Human life is like a shadow, no sooner seemingly enjoyed than vanished. A true hearted lover forgets all trespasses, and a smile cureth the wounding of a frown. Because of you, gardens are so gorgeous. The Earth is full of love in the air. I will remember your spirits forever. #RyanPhillippe 9 of 9