Life is a journey without an end. Wherever I go, even to the ends of the Earth, I remember clearly your smile, your teaching, your voice and your spirit! Imagination is absolutely critical to the quality of our lives. Our dreams enable us to leave our routine everyday existence by imagining where we want to travel to, the types of cuisine we like, the love of our life, our dream house and car—you know all the things that make life exciting. With imagination, we have the opportunity to envision new possibilities—it is an essential catalyst for making our dreams come true. Imagination generates our creativity, keeps us enthralled and entertained, alleviates our pain, enhances our pleasure, and enriches our most intimate relationships. Perfection is already accomplished. I am perfect here and now.  When people are compulsively and constantly pulled back into the past, to the last time they felt intense involvement and deep emotions, they suffer from a failure of imagination, a loss of mental flexibility. Without imagination there is no hope, no chance to envision a better future, no place to go, no goal to reach. Traumatized people look at the World in a fundamentally different way from other people. They tend to see everything as a potential threat, even when they may not be because they have not healed from the pain of the abuse they have suffered, so the World looks scary to them, even when it may be a beautiful place of joy and happiness. People who have not shared the traumatic experience cannot be trusted, because they cannot understand it. Sadly, this often includes spouses, children, and co-worker.   

If you are looking to heal, it is important to express experiences that confront you in your daily lives: your relationship with your spouse, partner, and family; dealing with your bosses and finding satisfaction in your work; tell us about your heavy used of alcohol and drugs and why you abused these substances. Many people will not, however, they will balk and resist and instead talk about someone else as a form of entertainment instead of dealing with their own issues. Sometimes the trauma people experience takes more than ten years to get over and the event that caused them so much pain will also become their sole source of meaning. Like, they only feel sully alive when they are revisiting their traumatic past.  However, that is not always the case. Some people have actually repressed their trauma and moved beyond it and started new lives. Yet, for some reason, others like to remind them of the pain they suffered and tease, physically attack, and offend then on the daily biases so the individual has to relive their painful memories, it is a result to break the individual and remind them of the hardships and pain they have experienced to steal their joy. Some have experienced painful relationship and moved on, and even thrown away pictures.

Yet, critics will post pictures of that painful relationship on social media to hurt their current relationship and make the person who had experienced the pain and suffering remember why they were on drugs or drinking heavily. How would you like it if someone told jokes about how funny it was when your drug dealing son got shot in the head, or how your husband used to beat you for selling ass? And what about your gay son who looks like a girl, and your daughter who had the sex on the floor with your brother’s son?  Sometimes people do not want to relive past relationships, they do not want to remember the whore who ripped their family apart and financially ruined them. They do not want these memories to haunt them, nor do they want to return to drugs or drinking, and so they turn to powerful prescription drugs that can leave them in a fog making it nearly impossible to function. When we encourage people to talk about the precise details of a traumatic event, we often inadvertently trigger a full-blown flashback, rather than helping them resolve the issue. Which will actually end up making things worse for the person suffering from the trauma. As it stands, in 2013, 46,471 Americans died from legal or illegal use of pharmaceutical drugs, and six people die each day for alcohol poising, that is nearly 2,200 people a year. And there are 32,999 fatal car crashes each year.