Human interactions can produce measurable, sometimes dramatic, and occasionally even lethal effects on the heart. No one really wishes to live in constant interpersonal chaos or to be the cause of frequent disruptions of human relationships. Loneliness, the lack of love, divorce, and the loss of one’s children or loved ones—these are not situations enthusiastically embraced by the vast majority of people. The lack of human companionship, the sudden loss of love, and chronic human loneliness are significant contributions to serious disease (including cardiovascular disease) and premature death. An honest man is one of the few great works that can be seen for nothing. Do you not think that, even today, really good work will sooner or later be recognized? Today, forgetting has perhaps grown more puzzling than remembering, even though what for a long time we believed forgotten may suddenly return to consciousness. Today, when I was sitting down, everything was normal and I felt like I was going to pass out, this moment stayed with me for a few moments. Then I went for a walk, and after seeing my dad, then walking back to my apartment, the feeling came back. I am rather inclined to believe that there are underlying circumstances, which are causing me to feel this way.  

When people are constantly under stress and experiences things that are done frequently to upset them or stress them out, and they cannot respond, some internalize these feelings. After all, now days when a person does something that is truly offensive and you confront them about it, they pull the “What are you talking about” card knowing good and darn well he or she knows what he or she did was done out of malice and inappropriate. Others are constantly making derogatory comments about loved ones, people who have passed away, or implying that they had sex with your spouse, and after a while it takes its toll, especially when a group of people is targeting you. These are not common situations where someone might accidentally say the wrong thing. This is like a group of adults, who engage in clicks, like those in Mean Girls with Lindsey Lohan, and try very hard to manipulate, sabotage, and convince you something is wrong or that something happened, even when it is false. These are the type of people who find out traumatic events and your allergies and use this information to hurt you. For example, the may have killed your uncle, and the anniversary of his death just happened to be on a Friday, and you are at a party and they start talking about it and making jokes and just do not stop. The purpose is to upset you so they can have a reason to rage against you and fight.

Another example, is these people find out you have a latex allergy, a few months have passed since the death or your uncle’s allergy, and you have recovered from some bad false news about your relationship, which turned out to be false, but nonetheless, shattered your soul. Your uncle’s birthday is coming up, you live in a high-rise building, no one else on your floor has a birthday, and the rules say that decorations in the common areas have to be approved by management. However, someone hangs latex balloons and happy birthday banners all over the floor. Because of the latex, you have problems breathing. Latex allergies cannot shut down the respiratory system, which mean you will choke to death.  You report to the management what is happening. They agree to take the balloons down, and you showed them evidence from a doctor’s note stating you have a latex allergy. The next day, the manager wants to meet with you and says it is a festive building and the residences have a right to hang latex balloons, and suggests that she makes a flier with your picture on it so people know it is you with the latex allergy and circulates it around the building. First of all, medical information private and disclosing someone’s medical information is a violation health information privacy. Also, that is a violation of the Americans with Disabilities Act, which requires that reasonable accommodations are necessary. It is truly painful to be thus made to live around people who wish you harm and no one is doing anything to stop it.

A person can only endure so much before they have an adverse reaction. And while these people are trying to offend and hurt one to provoke overt behavioral movements, some people experience internal symptoms. If your heart continues to react strongly to a signal, then such a reaction becomes maladaptive. In essence, it is a form of biological preparedness that is unnecessary and will eventually wear out the heart. Research indicates that normal stress is bad, but one can cope with it. However, when you have a group of adults targeting you and getting away with it, for years on end, it does take its toll.  Developmental difference in responding to fear and pain were studied in children. About 50 percent of all children placed in the stressful environment of a dental chair do not exhibit overt signs of fear. That is, when they are placed in dental chairs, when they are given a topical anesthetic, or even when they are given a local anesthetic injection, they do not move around or struggle. What was of special interest, however, was that if a child showed no bodily movements, then no heart rate changes were observed. Only when the children moved in the chairs or struggled with the dental assistant did these children show heart rate changes. Their anxiety or fear was expressed simultaneously in both their behavior and their hearts.  

This behavior displayed by the children marked contrast to adults who often show striking cardiovascular changes in threatening environments without exhibiting any overt behavioral movements. There is a marked split in some adults between what they exhibit behaviorally and what is exhibited in the hearts. This splitting of heart rate reactions from overt behavioral reactions might be one of the sources of the development of heart disease. The overwhelming physical and emotional destructiveness of this type of social deprivation is clear. Because there are so many aggressors and they have powerful positions, they believe that no one will break up their mob and they can do as they please, even if they are slowly killing an individual. To them, it is a game, and it is fun to watch a person in physical and emotional pain. And if I end up dead, they figure nothing will happen to them because no one is paying attention. However, he or she who kills a man has all his sins to answer for as well as his or her own, because he gave him not the time to repent of them that Heaven designed to allow him.