
People have different preferences; if you could read my mind, love, what a tale my thoughts would tell. Only Heavens can boast of this melody, for it is rarely heard on Earth. Just like an old time movie about a ghost from a wishing well. In a castle dark or a fortress strong with chains upon my feet, you know that ghost is me. Yet your song embodying both touching sound and emotions all spills out of your heart. I do not know where we went wrong, but the feeling is coming back. You laugh in mirth and wail in grief. I like your truthfulness which resembles a piece of white jade with nothing to hide, but everything to display. #RyanPhillippe 1 of 9

Like a meadow by the river, or a mist over the river, or a drizzle in Spring, or a rainbow across the sky—well, the melody dripping from the strings of the harp in your hear is so intoxicating…if you could read my mind, yeah. If you could read my mind, love, what a tale my thoughts would tell. Just like a paperback novel, the kind that the drugstore sells. I admire the cragged cliff that bounces and breaks tidal waves. Friend, shall I compare you to that cliff, which still remains intact and dominant, after all the thumping of life. When reached the part where the heartaches come, the hero would be you, and heroes never fail. #RyanPhillippe 2 of 9

Your innate elegant disposition and fascinating charm etch you in the hearts of all you know. Never thought I would feel this way. Do not recall the past sadly for it has gone; make use of today wisely for it belongs to us; greet the unknown tomorrow with a man’s heart bravely. Just like the paperback novel, the kind that the drug stores sell, if year is the volume, month is the page, week is the sentence, and day is the punctuation. Create the struggling years with our fighting and endow the days with strength, fighting young man! Although there are storms and thistles and thorns, we will not wrinkle before the storm, nor stop before thistles and thorn. We should know well and reach the city of light after overcoming oppression. #RyanPhillippe 3 of 9

I am riding a gray horse, at first timidly and awkwardly, as though I were merely carried along. Then I meet you, also on horseback, and dressed in rough frieze; you were sitting erect in the saddle; you called my attention to something (probably to the fact that I required a new seat). Now I begin to feel more and more at ease on the back of my highly intelligent horse; I sit more comfortably, and I find that I am quite at home up here. The civilization of youth is the civilization of struggle, which struggles with the times and experience. Youth is the king, Spring and essence of one’s life—as the encouragement to us both. #RyanPhillippe 4 of 9

Perhaps difficulty and frustration are good for it is an exercise; is the dynamic force that pushes us forward. We are usually stumbled by the stones that exist in our hearts, but always stride over the stones on the way that a real obstruction. May we be like a quiet river flowing forward day after night, regardless of mountains, plain, sunny days, and rainy and stormy days. Few individuals who leave their mates ever gain materially from the separation. Why then do they leave? What are they escaping from? What are they searching for? What do they hope to get in return? Why do people who have comfortable material existences and physically stable environments suddenly abandon it all? It seems that what they sense is that they are being slowly chocked to death in their current environment, that their very existence is being threatened. Dialogue has deteriorated below a certain critical threshold, until one of the partners can no longer tolerate the isolation. #RyanPhillippe 5 of 9

If he only left because of money, sex, or emotional disturbance, then the one mate’s flight might not be so crushing to the one left behind. If it were only some-thing that caused him to leave then it is not some-thing that causes the disruption—it is some-one. Both individuals contribute to the breakdown in dialogue, and no idea can be more painful than that, no idea can be more threatening. Understanding the life-threatening nature of the lack of dialogue makes it easier to comprehend the radical, often violent matter in which many people flee from situations of deteriorated dialogue. #RyanPhillippe 6 of 9

Sometimes individuals who have been married for years suddenly up and leave without warning, to live with another person. Frequently they leave at great persona cost. They may be drained financially; often they are cut off from their own children and their social circle; their careers are placed in jeopardy and sometimes ruined; material possessions that they slaved for years to acquire are quickly cast aside. At the same time, the person left behind is often totally shocked, left with a profound sense of rejection, resentment, or even hatred. Crushed beyond the point of recovery, the abandoned mate may even die. #RyanPhillippe 7 of 9

There are three primary healing qualities: genuineness (realness, congruence), unconditional beneficial regard (nonjudgmental acceptance, caring, prizing), and accurate empathy. By genuineness, I have to be transparent to you, free of professional front or personal façade. Empathy is a process of being at home in your private perceptual World. This ability allows me to enter into your reality, and it is required, in some sense, that I lay myself aside. I find that when I am close to my inner, intuitive self, when I am somehow in touch with the unknown in me…whatever I do seems to be full of healing. #RyanPhillippe 8 of 9

Then, simply my presence is releasing and helpful to you when I make you and your reality a priority. There is nothing I can to do force this experience, but when I can relax and be close to the transcendental core of me…it seems that my inner spirit has reached out and touched your inner spirit. Our relationship transcends itself and becomes a part of something larger. Profound growth and healing and energy are present. You can transfer your sadness, happiness, fear, hope, doubt, advise, and anything in your heart to me. You are a real eagle as you are being baptized in your fight against the storm. #RyanPhillippe 9 of 9
