When I think of meeting my true love, I think of someone who respects me, pay attention to me and is kind to me. Someone who wants us to grow together, as a couple, and protect me from harm. I think when someone truly loves you, they pay attention to your work, compliment you, and try to help you grow as a person. You two do things like take romantic vacation to Paris, France, and take photographs in front of the Eiffel Tower, have brunch on Sunday’s at Circa55 in Beverly Hills, California USA. Love means making a person feel good about who they are and helping them through the hard times, but also doing fun things together. Sometimes you can just tell that two people belong together. Other times opposites attract. The main thing is to love someone who treats you right. #RandolphHarris 1 of 7

There are, of course, other types of love. There is also the love you share with your family, familiar love. When you love your family, you also do anything to protect them, but it is not the same as romantic love. A great example and dedication of love between a father and daughter is on one of my favorite shows 2 Broke Girls. Caroline is the beautiful, tall blonde, who looks like she just walked off of the runway, her father is accused of a crime and is sent to prison. Caroline losses everything and goes from a billionaire to being homeless. People pick on her just because of who her father it. They beat her up, pull her hair, refuse to hire her, and kick her out of their homes. #RandolphHarris 2 of 7

However, through all the pain and drama, Caroline always stays true to her father and never blames him for the hardship she has to endure because of the crimes her father is accused of. Caroline meets a very nice young lady called Max, Max takes Caroline in and gets her a job at the diner and protects her from the bullies. The type of love in this show 2 Broke Girls is impressive. Caroline’s father gave her the World, and always treated her well, and would never do anything to hurt her, he would die for his daughter to protect her. However, some money came up missing, a lot of it, and Martin Channing took the fall for the missing money. No one knows if he really had anything to do with the crime, but he is he unfairly blamed for the problems and keeps his mouth shut possibly due to threats. #RandolphHarris 3 of 7

Gossip Girl was also a very interesting show. There was this young man called Nathaniel Fitzwilliam Archibald. He grew up as an only child. He had a very nice life planned out, he was engaged to marry a young lady, his high school sweet heart. The kids were all rich and lived in mansions and penthouses in New York. However, Nathaniel found out his father, Howard Archibald, was embezzling money, and reported him to the authorities. I thought this was wrong because the father provided for his son and never hurt him. Also the allegations ripped the family apart and caused the parents to divorce. They lost their mansion and the father went to prison. Also, because of the Archibald name was stained the mother, Anne Archibald ostracized, and the marriage offer for Nathaniel was rescinded from the Waldorf family because of the scandal. #RandolphHarris 4 of 7

Caroline loved her father through his troubles because always supported and loved her, he never abused her, so she kept persevering through her troubles and she had a support group and people who loved her to help her through it.  Nate on the other hand grew up rich and spoiled and his father never did him wrong, but he exposed his own father, and people hated him for that. How can you turn on the man who loved you provided a roof over your head, and kept money in your pocket? That was not cool. However, some parents abuse their child and will used these example to say, “Hey, do not report me or turn your back on me, or people will hate you.” Often times these abusive parents are not support their children, but the children still face the pains like Caroline and Nathaniel. #RandolphHarris 5 of 7

Successful people do not want to get involved with people who come from scandalous families because it could kill their career and cause them to lead an unhappy life. Sure, if the Waldorf’s allowed Nathaniel to marry their daughter Blair, she could have been with her true love, but at the same time it probably would have ruined the family business because shareholders do not want to be associated with someone who has a shady past. Investors and clients might catch wind and not want to do business with them, they could lose millions of dollars. And with Caroline, her father never abused her because he was her only parent and stuck by her side and did what was right for the family. People who love you will not abuse, harass, or attack you on purpose. Just remember that. #RandolphHarris 6 of 7

If your relationship starts off bad and the person is always cheating on you and mistreating you, and you know you should leave them, leave them. Even if threaten to commit suicide, and say they need you in their life and promise to change, chances are they will not. They may even throw some chump change your way, like a few thousand for a year, and use that to entice you and show you that they care, but they are going to want that money back with interest and chances are they are spending more than that on the prostitutes and pimps they are running with. You know what love feels like and it is not supposed to hurt all of the time. People many try to manipulate and abuse you, but do not allow it.  Also, people who love you will spend time with you, but just stalk you and spy on you. Because when they finally kill you or you drink yourself to death, they will find someone else to abuse like nothing happened.  #RandolphHarris 7 of 7