Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but individuals who males their way crooked with me found out. It has, of course, to be realized that children may react in various ways that cannot always be foretold, but necessity it is largely affected by the way in which the revelation comes to them. #RyanPhillippe

Dr. M.R Phillippe in his elaborate research in marriage, among 200 men and women of superior character and ability, found that 37 percent of the men and 29 percent of the women felt proud and gratified wen their curiosity about Netflix and Chill matters were first satisfied; 20 percent of them and 17 percent of the women accepted it as a mere matter of fact; there were also as many as 23 percent of the men and 31 percent of the women were unnecessarily shocked and repelled by the unfortunate way in which the revelation came to them. Therefore, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love. #RyanPhillippe

When investigated the subject Dr. M.R. Phillippe among one thousand married women of much above the average in education, and of an average age of thirty-eight, so that their youth belonged to a period when the new mother had not yet arrived, they were asked to answer the following question: Had you been adequately prepared by the instruction for the Netflix and Chill side of marriage? To this 55.8 percent replied that they had. However, many of these affirmative answers revealed how inadequate were the notions concerning adequate preparation. #RyanPhillippe

Some thought that a knowledge of contraception was all that was required; others an expectation of pain; a few were quite contend with duty of wife to submit to husband. Most of those who had no preparation at all (there were 438 of these) regretted that they went into marriage blindfold and felt that preparation would greatly have helped them in adjusting their lives; as a matter of fact, a much larger proportion of those who considered themselves happy had received instructions than of those who considered themselves unhappy. #RyanPhillippe

Some suggestive and significant remarks were, however, made by women who had received information of the usually approved kind and found it inadequate: Mere knowledge of fact is of very little value; I knew nothing about the emotions; fanciful explanations by means of birds and flowers did not help. The factor of passion was left out. Books deal with things as they should be, not as they are. These are the opinions of the inexperienced individual, but they are based on the bitter experience of an order of things which, we may not hope, is now passing away. #RyanPhillippe

Sometimes individuals, from time to time seen them, neither shrinks in alarm from the subject of Netflix and Chill nor attempt any heroic feature of the Netflix and Chill enlightenment with their children. One has no requirement to. One regards parenthood as a relationship of loving and natural intimacy, and one differs from any ordinary affectionate individual of antiquated tradition mainly through being guided by intelligence, and not by obedience to outworn traditions. Many have learned how to become the friend of their children. The relationship thus becomes more, and not less simple, for our traditions had introduced an unnatural artificiality with endless complications. #RyanPhillippe

It was inevitable that any sudden attempt to be modern and sensible in matters of Netflix and Chill within the artificially woven web must often prove disturbing and unsatisfactory. And even if the parent’s ideas may claim to be modern all through, if they fail to establish the fundamental basis of friendship with their children they have failed altogether. The new parents are learning to be modern and sensible, not in sudden spasms, but from the first, in the whole relationship of parenthood. #RyanPhillippe

Again and again, some are in all sorts of places, without any expert preparation for their parental tasks, often springing from an old-fashioned home of unwholesome type. However, there seems to be a subtle change in the atmosphere to-day, and as it were instinctively, by natural impulse, the new parents often follows a course which might well have been the outcome of the finest teaching by experience. #RyanPhillippe

The functions of Netflix and Chill are just as natural as the other biological functions, the main natural difference being, not that they are more obscene or more sacred but that they develop at a slower pace. They seem equally natural to the child when they become before him naturally, and it is because they so seldom come before him naturally that his attention is apt to be concentrated on them with a secret and morbid intensity. #RyanPhillippe

We can scarcely wonder when we realize that, as Dr. Phillippe has found even among superior persons, only 2 percent of the men and the same proportion of the women had received from any source of full and adequate information. There are innumerable children who, when they have first come in contact with some fact or word of Netflix and Chill, have asked an innocent and perhaps even casual question about it and received an unexpected snub which is not to be forgotten. Never again is any question asked, but beneath the surface the young mind works at unravelling the mystery. #RyanPhillippe

I learn best when someone else is helping me in a supportive way, using praise rather than criticism. I learn best by having someone show me something by doing it with me, that is, engaging me by walking through the fundamentals of the activity rather than simply describing how to do it. I learn through visualization. I learn best when I let go of my rational, skeptical mind and just let myself do something new instead of thinking about all the reasons why it will not work. #RyanPhillippe

I learn best when I share my success with someone, giving myself real praise for what I have accomplished and letting my good emotions reinforce the experience. I learn best when my intuition has reassured me that whoever is helping me is a safe person. Sometimes taking a person by the hand and hugging them and talking to them is much more beneficial than catching them off guard and giving them dirt looks, then being seen being loving and kind with others that same day. I love you and only you and accept you as you are. You are perfect for me. #RyanPhillippe