Cultivate a superiority to reason, and see how you pare the claws of all the sensible people when they try to scratch you for your own good. Everyone has a different set of danger signals that they learn to watch for, whether they are hoping to begin a new relationship or wondering if they should leave their current partner. Not one individual in ten thousand, living in the midst of reality, has discovered that they are also living in the midst of a romance. However, there are some warning signs that you should be aware of when it comes to dating.

Some people you may want to stay away from are people who do not seem curious about who you are. For example, I have a creative imagination and like to talk about ideas. I was in a relationship with someone, and this person spent a lot of time harping about my past, when they are not even around. I like to spend time focusing on what can be or possibilities. And here is what of my idea. A white squall is a very bright and intense storm that happens at sea, they are considered myths, and my idea is maybe they are caused by UFOs. Some people may find my ideas wild, but I think they are better than talking about other people. I really like a person who can stimulate my mind and appreciate thing things I have to say.

Sometimes you meet people and feel sorry for them or like you can help them, but you may want to stay away from people who seem to be overloaded with problems and needs. People who have a lot of problems and require so much support from you may not offer the same and return, and it may leave you in a situation where you are physically and emotionally hurt over and over, and in the end, the relations may not even workout. So it is better to stay away from these types of people and let them seek professional help. You are only one person, and life can be a challenge at times, save yourself for someone who is relatively free of problems and has their life together.

In the past, I never stayed in relationship long because the people I dated either cheated or where not ideal. Experts actually say this is a bad pattern. People who never stay in relationship for long may be considered fickle. You might develop feelings for them, but at the first sign of a problem they will run away leaving you heartbroken. I am not saying you should allow people to abuse you, but sometimes you might want to stick with your relationship and try to work on your problems. You never know, the next person you meet might even be more of a headache.

Not that you should be materialistic, but it is best to stay away from people who do not have much going on in their lives. People who have too much time on their hands will constantly monitor your behavior and look for flaws in everything you do. They will constantly think that you are cheating on them and you may not be. This will start to affect your work and social life and could set you up for failure. So if you date someone, make sure they are doing something productive with their lives like going to school, working, or in some type of training program.

Some of my friends are not willing to date adults who live with their parents, but I would not discount a person just because they live at home. Often times adults who still life with their parents are doing so because they are trying to restructure their lives. This could be a benefit for you because people who live with their families are less likely to cheat on you, you will get to meet their parents and see what their family values are like, and they probably will have more money to take you out and treat you to something special. Also, if you have your own place, does it really matter where your mate lives?

Conversely, people who always are busy and have too much going on in their lives may not be an ideal mate for you. They may be busy with their career or living a double life and this could end up leading to you getting hurt. For example, I was dating someone, and wanted to break up with their person after 30 days of our relationship because my mate was spotted out with someone else. Nonetheless, this person threatened to commit suicide if I walked away. So I stuck in the relationship. However, my spouse had actually been cheating on me the entire time we were together and my mate’s friends were more important that I was.

This person I was involved with spend their birthday in Mexico with someone else. Halloween in a hotel with another guy, and for some reason, days before Christmas, we got into an argument about a young lady my spouse was with and one night I went and got pizza, and my mate shot at my car. So we got back together, and on Christmas day, this person allegedly publically announced they proposed to someone else. However, I am not sure how true that is. It really hurt my heart and my spouse asked me to stick with them and work through it, and I agreed.

However, you may want to stay away from people who do not share the same fundamental values you have. For example, the person I am dating told their friend a lot of personal information about me, some of it true, and it was about some serious injuries. My mate’s friend then started teasing me, and shortly after Valentine’s Day, they put on a Ghost story show and sold tickets and publically made fun of me. I did not go to the show because, although it was public, I was not invited, and I did not want to be offended because I knew they would be teasing me.

Everyone says my spouse is a bit of a head case. Before they show happened, I told my mate that this friend hosting the event was using him, and he told me not to tell him who he can and cannot hangout with because it was push him further away and told me to just deal with it and be a source of support. Unfortunately, this was a horrible decision and my mate is now in trouble and missed out on a multimillion dollar business deal and no one wants to work with him, and so many people have lost respect for him because they have seen how he has exploited me over the past few years.

You may also want to avoid people who do not spending time with you in public. Outdoor activities, cultural events, just hanging out at home, or doing social stuff with groups of friends and or extended family is fun for me. I like, once in a while, going out to dinner or to a night club, touring mansions and castles, or looking at new homes, or even going to a museum. These types of things are fund for me, and if someone does not include you in their social activities, or does not do things you like, they may not be the one for you.

It is also good to be with someone you can talk to about anything, and not have them get upset nor violent because they do not agree with what you say. For instance, although politics and religion are controversial topics, you will find that educated people can discuss these areas, they may not agree with you, but they will not become aggressive nor hostile. People who are too opinionated or those who have no passionate convictions about anything are usually not very well educated and not worth your time. The reasoning which is drawn from particular abuses, is no reasoning for general uses.

People who always need to be in control of everything may not be a good option for you. Sometimes you will meet someone and they will run your entire life from where you go, what you wear, who you talk to and what you can eat. It might sound like they really care about you, but you are not a machines and learning to compromise is a good thing. Individuals who have elected to govern their lives by principles of abstract right and reason, which happen, perhaps, to be at variance with what society considers equally right and reasonable, should, for fear of complications, be careful about descending from the lofty heights of logic to the common level of impulse and affection.

The state of a mind oppressed with a sudden calamity is like that of the fabulous inhabitants of the new-created Earth, who, when the first night came upon them, supposed that day would never return. You may think that someone who seems constantly angry, depressed, or anxious just needs love and that your love can turn them around, but you might get sucked into an abusive circle that you cannot escape from. That individual may be so damaged that they need psychotherapy. Love alone may not help and professional have protections that you may not, so please do not put yourself in danger trying to save the sinking Albatross, they knew that ship was doomed the minute it left they bay, but chose to ignore warnings from experts.

When a person becomes jealous without a cause, one resolves to justify their suspicions. People who always get jealous of what you have, like your job, income, skills, or friends may not be the person for you. This person may have a physical or mental aspect, about themselves, which makes them feel inadequate, and until they resolve this issue, they will lash out at you because he or she has deeply seeded insecurities. Real love and truth are stronger in the end than any evil or misfortune. In wars the sorer the fight is, the greater is the glory of the victory; and the harder an individual is to be won, the sweeter is one’s love when it is obtained.

You will find that you may want to stay away from these types of people we discussed above because they will not allow you to really enjoy whatever you have and love, including your pets or the possibility of pets. I was dating someone who simply would not list to me and my mate ended getting in trouble, legally, for being abusive and jealous. It was not that I was trying to control you, I was trying to warn you that you were under investigation and instead you told me I was pushing you away by trying to control you. However, it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have lost at all. Real love can only arise where there is either a void in the heart, occasioned by the falsehood or indifference of a once favorite object, or where love before has never been admitted.

You are finally at the brink of stepping into the World of making a new relational life for yourself. You have used your awareness skills to focus on who you have been in past relationship, and you have journeyed through memories of your childhood and previous adult life. As I write this, I am trying to communication with a certain young woman, so she knows to avoid the type of relationship I was in. Now you have enough self-knowledge to consciously design the kind of relational future you deserve. Create a wish list of your perfect partner, based on what you have come to know about yourself in relationships, for example, I am looking for someone who is committed and faithful. I want a partner who can help me learn to be successful and business and look good doing it.

As if some little Arctic flower, upon the polar hem, went wandering down the latitudes, until it puzzled came to continents of Summer, to firmaments of Sun, to strange, bright crowds of flowers, and birds of foreign tongue! I say, as if this little flower to Eden wandered in—what then? Why, nothing, only your inference therefrom! My river runs to thee: blue sea, wilt welcome me? My river waits reply. Oh, sea, look graciously! I will fetch thee brooks from spotted nooks, –say, sea, take me!

I cannot live with your, it would be life, and life is over there behind the shelf. The sexton keeps the key to, putting up our life, his porcelain like a cup. Discarded of the mate; quaint or broken; a newer Sevres pleases, old ones crack. I could not die with you, for one must wait to shut the other’s gaze down, –you could not. And I, could not stand by and see you freeze, without my right of frost, death’s privilege? Nor could I rise with you, because your face would put out Jesus’, that new grace.

Glow-plain and forging on my homesick eye, except that you, than he shone closer by. They would judge us—how? For you served Heaven, you know, or sough to; I could not, because you saturated sight, and I had no more eyes for sordid excellence as Paradise. And were you lost, I would be, through my name rang loudest on the Heavenly frame. And you were saved, and I condemned to be where you were not, that self were hell to me. So we must keep apart, you there, I here, with just the door ajar. That oceans are, and prayer, and that pale sustenance, despair!