The nature of reality, words and ideas do have weight, to move people to do things. The man who loves, and loves truly, should not long permit its object to remain in any doubt of his feelings and intensions. People jog, play tennis, ride bicycles have low saturated fat content.

People who exercise keep their hearts, marriage, and career in good shape. However, there has been revealed an interesting connection between changes in a person’s life, and the development of malady, it had one serious flaw—all changes were simply catalogued and given equal importance or weight. The death of a spouse was given equal weight with a recent change of address.

Of the major life events, the loss of companionship, which included the death of a spouse, divorce, marital separation, and the death of a close family member, were consistently ranked as the most stressful and important. Divorce was seen as far more stressful, for example, than going to jail or losing one’s job.

A study was one to measure life changing events that occurred before the onset of an illness. The same pattern was discovered: usually six months to three months, and one week before the onset of illness there was a sudden increase in the weighted value of life change events occurring in the individual’s life.

Life may as properly be called an art as any other’s and the greatest incidents in it are no more to be considered as mere accidents than several members of a fine statue or a noble poem. Among U.S. Navy and Marine Corps personnel, or naval vessels (in essence, there were self-contained, quarantined environments, since the ships were at sea), in underwater demolition terms, in the Royal Norwegian Navy—those who fell ill were those who had been experiencing significant life changes.

In a series of studies in Sweden and Finland, we began to examine the specific relationship between cardiac disease, sudden death, and life changes. The development of a myocardial infraction was frequently precede by an abrupt increase in life change events six months to three months earlier.

The greater the changes in life events, the shorter the time interval. Moreover, by interviewing the spouse or close friends of the heart attack victims, we observed that the greater the life changes before the heart attack, the more likely it was that sudden death would occur.

Before I get into a relationship, I like to consider what kind of impact you will have on my life. Most people hope that an individual we do nice things for, will do the same to us, so we can feel we are worthy or love.

Sometimes I think I know where a person is coming from, but then they change and do somethings that hurt me and make me feel used. I am the type of person who likes to have a companion. The perfect person for me is someone who is mature and likes to work hard and stay home. When I am alone, I like to learn stuff, so I will read books to try and discover something to make life better.

For fun I love to look at nature and architecture. We are so lucky to have such a beautiful World, with people who work hard to make life so dynamic. You will begin to see a vibration and feel a visual depth. Formal relationships can transform otherwise static forms into a visually dynamic environment.

Nothing is more common than to call our own condition the condition of life. Let us cease to dispute, and learn to live. Even a man who has practiced in lovemaking till his own glibness has rendered him skeptical, may at last be overtaken by the lover’s awe.

If I love, I should love at once and without change. We find from the voice of history that those men are thought to have deserved best of their country who have occasionally withstood the intemperance opinion.

An ideal couple is one like my grandparents, two people who spend all of their time together, and are conservative. I love when we are sitting and reading in our cozy living room, a fire going in the fireplace, and soft music playing in the background. I love our deep connection and happiness in our house.

Peacefulness in our relationship is deeply appealing. To know you is happiness and to leave you is agony. At the time we depart, the hope of meeting again supports me. Three years goes by quietly. We have been happy, laughing and singing.

You are honest, kind, multitalented. I will trust the clouds to take my regards to you every moment. Let the time we spend together flow in our hearts like a happy river. The Earth grants beautiful and rich color to flowers, but keeps original plainness—the feeling showed by silent honesties is cherishable. I miss you.