Gaiety, rather than grog is my great unwinder, and when I am not working, I am always looking for an opportunity to make people laugh, not so much to amuse others, as to amuse myself. I can always make jokes against myself from the fund of stupid things I have done, and I laugh as loudly as anyone else does at my own jokes. I have always thought the rule that one should not laugh at his own jokes is both selfish and illogical; it is like telling the host he or she should not be drinking—it is only for the guest! The goal of life is to make it more conscious and caring and be more connected, it is profoundly beneficial—and impactful—a process that those who want to be fully alive should try. Too many men are slaves to a sexuality that is significantly detrimental to them and others, running away from what could emancipate them. Stop playing around and learn to love. Love is supposed to make one feel supernatural and worth more than gold and diamonds. Love is supposed to be passionate and refreshing. Love is supposed to embody pleasure, good sensations, and open intimacy.

Love works with all that you are, and involves your physical architecture, emotional being, mental health, and psychological energy—it is a spiritual dimension, all of what must be realized when you embark upon a journey of the heart. Love is rewarding and the results will show in every area of your life. When you are with a person your truly enjoy, you feel a depth and communion with both your lover and your deepest realm of being. It is a celebration of relaxation, trust, and peace, a natural state. There is innocence in such love, and you will gain access to an enormous wonder and amazement, which will thrust you into a deeper sense of self, a pleasurable colosseum that is extraordinarily healing, and when this happens, it will not completely take over your life. You will still be able to enjoy other pleasures, as this is something that very likely has already been occurring, something you have been working towards. I am inspired in my work from on high with lofty ideals, and my thought is illumined by the All-Knowing One. I am inspired. I am loved.