So parents often times do not realize how much they mean to their adult children. You may not realize it, but you mean more to your children than you know, and it gives them pain to see you stressed out and unhappy. One of the biggest fears is losing you. And your kids know as they get older that they have to find a healthy relationship and make it work out, as no one wants to be alone in this world. Many kids understand the glamour of a relationship and understand they save loves or make lives better. As a parent, your great example has inspired your children to innovate, question the status quo, and challenge the current state of their lives. By watching you, your adult children have learned to make opportunities out of every problem encountered, by taking these problems as learning lessons. Through your religious background, your children have learned not to blame others, nor build up resentment, but to forgive others. By forgiving others, it is actually taking a weight off of our shoulders, and healing us.

 However, there is something called righteous anger; we have a right to be angry and not sin. I get angry at the injustice, and people being treated unfairly, but I am not going to do anything about it. All I can do is pray, and it is a shame when someone advises you to break your relationship with God and the church. Sin nature seems to have free range in this World, and we have been bought with a price. The blood of Christ bought all of us. Some sin, and they enjoy sin, and will not repent. When we fall into sin, however, as people of God, we know to seek forgiveness. Blaming others and building up resentment and anger is not good. At the same time, we do not tolerate bad behavior. Unlike one of our fallen brothers, if you are being harassed relentlessly, contact the owner of your organization and document everything, but never express hostility or anger. The owner has to do something. Let faith oust fact; let fancy oust memory; I look deep down and do believe.