Each man has, one time or other, a little Rubicon, a clear, or a foul, water to cross. My dream is to own and manage my own coffee shop. We would serve nothing, but coffee, espresso drinks (no blended ice cream drinks), tea, sandwiches, soup, salads, European desserts, beer and wine. However, the most terrible obstacles are such as nobody can see except oneself. Have you ever wanted to do something, but because of some limits and conditions, you do not know how to reach your goals? When one reaches an impasse of knowledge about life, where one is uncertain about what to do or has excessive doubt, the psychological condition is called Aporia. As far as I know, I have exhausted all of my options that I am aware of, and in the process of discovering my own nature of virtue. So to combat my Aporia, I go to church, focus on things I like, and go to therapy. “You must keep your mind on the objective, not the obstacle,” reports William Randolph Hearst.