Every limit is a beginning as well as an ending. Human’s gifts are not always equal to their wishes. If an individual lives their life from the mind and responds to life, cased on how one thinks they should, and do not live what is symbolized in the heart and the truth of their being, their words will not match their actions.

By acting how you think others want you to, you are denying their truth, and will learn to live in denial of your truth because you feel one way, but respond in another. These patterns will become habits and you will be living a lie.

The molding process is when you copy another person, either because you admire them, want to become them, or just love the way that people treat them, so you want to reflect their behavior. The molding process is very subtle.

People will mold themselves into your cast. However, the problem arises when they want to replace you and take over your identity. When people, who are jealous of you, want to become you, they will be rude to you, and may not even talk to you.

Those who are trying to reflect you, will study your life, and your life story, so they can play these roles, and act as if your life, and your experiences are uniquely theirs.

Often times, people trying to reflect you will act in a way that they think is how you would react, so they can get others to treat them they way you are treated. This is not always a bad thing, but is could be if someone does not like you, but just want the benefits and reactions you get.

Each person is unique, and it is not just your behavior people like, not just your looks, it is your essence and energy. Conversely, most people cannot read minds and may have no clue what you are going through, so reflection, as a method of replacement, could backfire and drive the user insane, and push those who love them away because they are not being authentic.

Nevertheless, it is okay to have a role model, and want to reflect some of their characteristics, but not all of them. For example, one of my role models is a female, and I am a male. However, I like how professional, and to the point she is and I love her determination and her spirit. Those are things I can adhere to.

Yet, as far as her relationships and person life goes, that is uniquely for her to enjoy. The only way to be authentic is to pay attention to our inner voice and energy and let that flow through us. People will like you for who you are, as long as you respect them and are trustworthy.

Remember, love it patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love does not dishonor others, it is not selfish, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrong. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always has faith, and always perseveres. Love never fails. Light is the first essential. Light stimulates, nourishes, preserves. You can no more do without it, than if you were a flower.