How hell should become by degrees so natural, and not only tolerable but even agreeable, is a thing unintelligible but by those who have experienced it. Perhaps it is instinctive trait of more of us to seek an explanation for any great happiness as we are always prone to discuss the causes of our adversity. No mockery in this World ever sounds so hollow as that of being told to cultivate happiness. Self-approbation is the highest honor, and the highest happiness, of a reasonable being. When it comes to accounting, we can draw a parallel with happiness. Happiness is an inventory cost flow, and it may b a perpetual state of mind for some. Under the First-In, First-Out (FIFO), the cost of happiness, on hand prior to an outside stimulus, is charged to your mind program. You have to want to be happy, in other words. Therefore, the cost of an pleasurable experience, on 10 November 2014, consists of your predisposition to be reasonable and how much you want to experience peace, today and the following days. Look at it this way, the ending inventory in this situation is $5,800.00 and the cost of being happy is $6,200.00, so you need to start off your day by doing something to make up for the $400.00 deficit you will experience in your happiness.

 So, if you know this day is going to be a challenge, do not sleep in, wake up and do something that brings you great joy, that way you are prepare for any unexpected issues, during your day or night.  Happiness in a perpetual system will usually produce cost allocations that differ from the average person. Most people are looking to take out their problems on others, but your system is set up different. Your system is one of independence, accountability, joy, success and hard work. You are like a shiny new car, just out to show everyone how safe and reliable and how well you work. Others are looking to distract from the short comings by targeting you. However, never accept victim status. Just remember, it is not from nature, but from education and habit, that our wants are chiefly derived. You keep on being happy and work hard and your joy will uplift everyone around you, and others will want to learn how to be happy and will want to get to know you so that joy will rub off on them. For example, today, I had to deal with someone really negative, which is nothing new. And I was not looking forward to another repetitive day, but I got through it, then went for a walk in the park and saw all these beautiful colors in the trees, the happy people, couples sneaking a kiss, when they think no one is looking–it is truly like a movie set.

 View life as a movie and know that at any moment, someone could be watching you. This will make sure you keep honest, and really, you may be under surveillance (cameras everywhere). Not that you are being spied on, but it is for public safety. For some, a large income is the best recipe for happiness. However, we want to focus on moving the average method. Under this new method, happiness is computed by how many pleasurable experiences you have, and the goal is to make every situation pleasant. The new average cost of happiness, at this point, is zero. You should know how to guard your mind program against intruders or malware (dysfunctional people). The amount of happiness you project determines how you are feeling inside. The average cost is then applied to your personality, this determines how much happiness is costing you. If it is too painful to be nice, and feels better to be nasty and mean, then you are internally not a happy person because the remaining units of happiness on hand, determines your ending inventory amount of pleasure. All kinds of social engineering and cultural values, personal and social preferences, and attitudes go into your feelings. Many people get confused or fearful over the many conflicting value judgments attached to happiness. You need to be healthy, open and honest. Otherwise, you will never really be happy and will cling to people and material objects, as a power source, for your happiness and you will become a codependent leech. Just sucking the love and joy out of any room you enter, and this vibe will travel with you.

 You need to make certain that you and your own children evolve beneficially and have appreciative attitudes about your own bodies and sexuality. Joy. Pleasure, joy, and happiness all involve a sense of well-being, a sense of being stable, and having good feelings toward yourselves and others. And I know life can be hard and unfair, but force yourself to be happy, even if you have lie. When people ask you how you are doing, smile and say, wonderful. Then think about something nice you saw and share it. When you have been in the dumps, it may take you a decade to truly become the happy person you are. The longer you stay on the program, the less anger and flare ups you will have, and then people will see that your mind program have virus protection running and malware cannot derail your mind program and the craziness will fade away. There are enough serious, sad, tragic, and fearful experiences in life for all of us, so be a blessing to those around you, not a cruse. Joy, pride, in achievement, and warmth are feelings that deserve their place in the Sun, more so than pain, grief and anger. However, feeling good will take some practice, but you can do it. Self-approbation is the highest honor, and the highest happiness, of a reasonable being.